After reading this:

https://www.nairaland.com/3795676/kwara-state-university-student-beaten#56468444.

I remembered to share this story to our dear ladies.


This is a real story I witnessed somewhere in Port Harcourt.

WOMEN HOLD YOUR TEMPER NO MATTER WHAT!!! A SCENE I WITNESSED FEW DAYS AGO.

A little holdup at the next junction somewhere in PH. We all came down to see what the problem was. Man in a Toyota corolla and a Woman in Lexus RX 330 SUV. Shouts of "Do you know who I am?" rented the air from the woman. Man was very calm and was saying "please, please, just move back a little let me pass".

'Tawaii...tawaii' was all we heard on the man's cheek. Man walked to his car, brought out his phone and dialed some numbers. Came back and told the woman "i won't touch you because you are a woman but I will teach you a lesson you will never forget".

Minutes later, a pickup with inscription "Dragon" loaded with soldiers arrived. Lo and behold, Man is a Lieutenant Colonel on mufti.

Come and see how "do you know who I am" changed to "Please, Please ,I'm sorry Sir, it's the devil's handwork" with the woman kneeling.

Man said "remember I told you I won't touch you". Now call your husband. Woman dialed her phone with teary eyes. Minutes later, husband on a sleek suit, whom I suppose is a banker, came in the company of his 3 colleagues, trying to figure out what was going on seeing soldiers everywhere. (Omo, at this time I have carried my fear fear self enter one shop and was watching from a distance).

Man asked "are you her husband?" He answered Yes. Man said to the woman, Oya start slapping him until I say stop. Hahahaha, come and see how sweat full the husband's body, as they continued begging. Man gave another option for the woman to follow them them to Bori camp.

The funny part was the woman was pleading with the husband to allow her slap him instead of following them to Bori camp. I left the scene at this time. I later came back and asked a friend who sells there what happened. He said they all drove out after sometime including the husband and his colleagues.

Throughout that day I searched the whole Internet to see if I can get any Direct Short Service form to apply. I swear, to join Army hungry me that day (because I remembered I have some people to teach such lessons...don't mind me ooo)

Now, if you were the woman's husband, will you allow her to slap you in public? Or allow her to follow them to Bori camp? Honest answers please.

OAM4J, Mynd44

How will you react if you are the man or woman?

The reason the woman was making those scene was because the husband is a Banker.

Women need to learn how to control ur anger

Animals everywhere. He would not slap her but can abuse her husband just because he has a pack of wild beasts by his side. Those animals are worse than the woman. Petty and vindictive to the bones yet he thinks saying he will not touch her makes him any better than an animal. He would have just called his wife or any strong woman like her to slap her back and case close. But NO, he is too vindictive he must call his pack of wild beasts and intimidate an innocent man just because he can. All in all, I believe this story is fabricated. Nigerians would do anything to trend on social media.

One thing I learned in primary school is to make friends with people who stronger than me or better still stay far away from anything that concerns them but a woman will see someone who can beat her senseless and still look for his troubles because no real man hits a woman.

Do u knw who i am, is a word use by low life people who can nt defend them self bt to depend on other people to survive. If i were the husband seriously i will ask them to take her to d camp nd teach her a small lesson. Bt i will nt let my wife hear it frm my mouth so she will learn her lesson

delishpot:
Animals everywhere. He would not slap her but can abuse her husband just because he has a pack of wild beasts by his side. Those animals are worse than the woman. Petty and vindictive to the bones yet he thinks saying he will not touch her makes him any better than an animal. He would have just called his wife or any strong woman like her to slap her back and case close. But NO, he is too vindictive he must call his pack of wild beasts and intimidate an innocent man just because he can. All in all, I believe this story is fabricated. Nigerians would do anything to trend on social media.

You are wrong. The woman did wrong by slapping him first. She could have been running her mouth but not slapping him. The story sounds fake but very true. I witnessed it first hand. So you haven't heard or seen how military officers treats someone?

Am in love with this colonel already

lonelydora:


You are wrong. The woman did wrong by slapping him first. She could have been running her mouth but not slapping him.

Did I say she was right? If you read well, I clearly mentioned he would have arranged her slaps for her in kind return. No where did I justify her. My problem is, why bring a pack of wild dogs because a woman slapped him? And then used his rabid dogs to terrorise her husband. What has the man got to do with it. If he was so much of a man, he would have left out his rotten mopol friends and called on her husband to face him one on one. He is a coward

delishpot:


Did I say she was right? If you read well, I clearly mentioned he would have arranged her slaps for her in kind return. No where did I justify her. My problem is, why bring a pack of wild dogs because a woman slapped him? And then used his rabid dogs to terrorise her husband. What has the man got to do with it. If he was so much of a man, he would have left out his rotten mopol friends and called on her husband to face him one on one. He is a coward

Military officers don't discipline but their boys do. No military officer can be found fighting or punishing someone himself. Just a call and the job is done by their boys, fresh from Army Depot, Zaria.

The way you are sounding, it's like you have 'chop' army koboko before. Why you dey vex for army?

lonelydora:


Military officers don't discipline but their boys do. No military officer can be found fighting or punishing someone himself. Just a call and the job is done by their boys, fresh from Army Depot, Zaria.

The way you are sounding, it's like you have 'chop' army koboko before. Why you dey vex for army?

That is a very foolish and animalistic attitude. That is why I called them pack of rabid dogs. Abusers of human rights and demonic. Hence I don't feel any pain when they get wasted. Because they do not feel pain when they waste innocent lives too. If he is mature that he can not fight, why then import imps to fight with the power of numbers?
He could have easily followed the law and still get her arrested without the violence. But NO, he had to be true to form. He has to show his animal side as they mostly are.
Yes! I have been a victim of these animals. Not me directly but my 70 years old great aunt. She was given a fake ₦500 among some money paid to her. She returned home and sent little cousins to go buy bread for her. The Malam discovered the money was fake and some mopols sitting by his shop for a break stormed my aunt's home with my lil cousin leading the way.They threatened to beat my aunt up if she doesn't show them where her mint is. , they kicked in her door, ransacked her house. She was crying telling them she got the money from a Tennant who rented her shop. They destroyed her ceiling claiming she was lying and they said she was minting fake money. They then packed her inside their pick up van. That was when I challenged them. That they have scattered the whole house and have found no evidence or sign of her minting fake money, why do they still want to carry her away. One pulled a gun and pointed at me. He said he would shoot me. The old woman then begged me to please not challenge them. Finally one other guy who is also a mopol and is friends with my aunt came along and talked to them. They asked her to pay ₦100k she said over ₦500 fake money that she is a victim of? They finally took ₦20k after much pleading from the other mopol Guy and left. Saying she was lucky it was only 1 piece they found linked to her.

lonelydora:
After reading this:

https://www.nairaland.com/3795676/kwara-state-university-student-beaten#56468444.

I remembered to share this story to our dear ladies.


This is a real story I witnessed somewhere in Port Harcourt.

WOMEN HOLD YOUR TEMPER NO MATTER WHAT!!! A SCENE I WITNESSED FEW DAYS AGO.

A little holdup at the next junction somewhere in PH. We all came down to see what the problem was. Man in a Toyota corolla and a Woman in Lexus RX 330 SUV. Shouts of "Do you know who I am?" rented the air from the woman. Man was very calm and was saying "please, please, just move back a little let me pass".

'Tawaii...tawaii' was all we heard on the man's cheek. Man walked to his car, brought out his phone and dialed some numbers. Came back and told the woman "i won't touch you because you are a woman but I will teach you a lesson you will never forget".

Minutes later, a pickup with inscription "Dragon" loaded with soldiers arrived. Lo and behold, Man is a Lieutenant Colonel on mufti.

Come and see how "do you know who I am" changed to "Please, Please ,I'm sorry Sir, it's the devil's handwork" with the woman kneeling.

Man said "remember I told you I won't touch you". Now call your husband. Woman dialed her phone with teary eyes. Minutes later, husband on a sleek suit, whom I suppose is a banker, came in the company of his 3 colleagues, trying to figure out what was going on seeing soldiers everywhere. (Omo, at this time I have carried my fear fear self enter one shop and was watching from a distance).

Man asked "are you her husband?" He answered Yes. Man said to the woman, Oya start slapping him until I say stop. Hahahaha, come and see how sweat full the husband's body, as they continued begging. Man gave another option for the woman to follow them them to Bori camp.

The funny part was the woman was pleading with the husband to allow her slap him instead of following them to Bori camp. I left the scene at this time. I later came back and asked a friend who sells there what happened. He said they all drove out after sometime including the husband and his colleagues.

Throughout that day I searched the whole Internet to see if I can get any Direct Short Service form to apply. I swear, to join Army hungry me that day (because I remembered I have some people to teach such lessons...don't mind me ooo)

Now, if you were the woman's husband, will you allow her to slap you in public? Or allow her to follow them to Bori camp? Honest answers please.

OAM4J,

A made-up story, albeit an ignorant one.

OP, your story carries more societal ills than a woman slapping a man.

You're exalting soldiers usurping police authority by attempted kidnap and brutalisation of citizens just to pass a message why women should not slap men.

Good point.

Mujaheeeden:
The reason the woman was making those scene was because the husband is a Banker.

Women need to learn how to control ur anger

Banking, since the time Emir Sanusi reigned as the CBN Governor, stopped being a lucrative career.

the woman was just plain silly and arrogant

delishpot:
Animals everywhere. He would not slap her but can abuse her husband just because he has a pack of wild beasts by his side. Those animals are worse than the woman. Petty and vindictive to the bones yet he thinks saying he will not touch her makes him any better than an animal. He would have just called his wife or any strong woman like her to slap her back and case close. But NO, he is too vindictive he must call his pack of wild beasts and intimidate an innocent man just because he can. All in all, I believe this story is fabricated. Nigerians would do anything to trend on social media.

He may be a muslim. He may be a traditionalist. He may be raised in a home where women are trained to accord respect to men and be submissive. His ego may have been seriously bruised.
Listen up, I have never raised my hand against a woman before but I find it utterly DESPICABLE when I see a woman slap a man at the slightest provocation.

In law, a man is answerable for the crimes of his wife. So the husband should fully receive the public disgrace of having his wife slap him the way 'he has been condoning it at home' which made her feel slapping men on the streets is right.

Next time she should know that every right has a tantamount responsibility.

The only reason that can make me beat a woman



If she dare touch me first

obyrich:
He may be a muslim. He may be a traditionalist. He may be raised in a home where women are trained to accord respect to men and be submissive. His ego may have been seriously bruised.
Listen up, I have never raised my hand against a woman before but I find it utterly DESPICABLE when I see a woman slap a man at the slightest provocation.

In law, a man is answerable for the crimes of his wife. So the husband should fully receive the public disgrace of having his wife slap him the way 'he has been condoning it at home' which made her feel slapping men on the streets is right.

Next time she should know that every right has a tantamount responsibility.

Senseless post. It makes sense to you because it happened to someone else. Man is answerable for the crimes of his wife by law? So if your wife kills someone, the law would charge and jail you? Where do you guys draw these stupid laws from? You guys always look the other way when crimes and abuse are committed against fellow Nigerians because of your self-righteous judgement. Feeling it can't happen to you. You claim as a fact that she has been slapping him at home because you want to find a reason to justify their actions and your sentiments against women whom you believe must be punished anyway if they miss behave. Don't worry, one day it would be you. It doesn't have to be a slap, but the same type of brutality would be passed because someone feels it right to do so. By then, there would be no one to cry for you because people would say you deserve it. With mindset as yours, Nigeria would always be like a Zoo.

delishpot:
Animals everywhere. He would not slap her but can abuse her husband just because he has a pack of wild beasts by his side. Those animals are worse than the woman. Petty and vindictive to the bones yet he thinks saying he will not touch her makes him any better than an animal. He would have just called his wife or any strong woman like her to slap her back and case close. But NO, he is too vindictive he must call his pack of wild beasts and intimidate an innocent man just because he can. All in all, I believe this story is fabricated. Nigerians would do anything to trend on social media.

will you sharap there? a young lady of your age will see your father on the road and slap him twice....i think only then can you be reasonable for once, idiot!

gocac:
will you sharap there? a young lady of your age will see your father on the road and slap him twice....i think only then can you be reasonable for once, idiot!

You think you made sense by ranting and insulting me? You are quite ignorant. Nigeria is churning out idiots like you by the dozen so I am not surprised at your animalistic way of reasoning. You talk about being reasonable? Quite ironic for someone who believes that the husband being abused of his rights because his wife acted a fool is a very okay and reasonable act and me saying they were wrong to abuse the husband for his wife's foolishness is the one being accused of not being reasonable? That he could seek justice without using intimidation against the husband is unreasonable? That my complain about his abuse of power is not reasonable? Hahaha, Nigeria sure has a long way to go with the high number imbeciles being produced in her at this rate.. So if someone slaps my dad, in your opinion the reasonable thing to do is to call a battalion and bring her husband or parents (if she isn't married)who is oblivious and innocent to be slapped in return?? I am not an animal like you. Worse comes to worse, I slap her or make her pay heavily in compensation to teach her a lesson.
For now, I will ignore your foolishness

delishpot:


Senseless post. It makes sense to you because it happened to someone else. Man is answerable for the crimes of his wife by law? So if your wife kills someone, the law would charge and jail you? Where do you guys draw these stupid laws from? You guys always look the other way when crimes and abuse are committed against fellow Nigerians because of your self-righteous judgement. Feeling it can't happen to you. You claim as a fact that she has been slapping him at home because you want to find a reason to justify their actions and your sentiments against women whom you believe must be punished anyway if they miss behave. Don't worry, one day it would be you. It doesn't have to be a slap, but the same type of brutality would be passed because someone feels it right to do so. By then, there would be no one to cry for you because people would say you deserve it. With mindset as yours, Nigeria would always be like a Zoo.

Ask a lawyer what is called 'VICARIOUS LIABILITY'. Stop parading your emptiness here. I don't condone insolence, so it can't be me. I treat effing up with dispatch. No time.

delishpot:


Senseless post. It makes sense to you because it happened to someone else. Man is answerable for the crimes of his wife by law? So if your wife kills someone, the law would charge and jail you? Where do you guys draw these stupid laws from? You guys always look the other way when crimes and abuse are committed against fellow Nigerians because of your self-righteous judgement. Feeling it can't happen to you. You claim as a fact that she has been slapping him at home because you want to find a reason to justify their actions and your sentiments against women whom you believe must be punished anyway if they miss behave. Don't worry, one day it would be you. It doesn't have to be a slap, but the same type of brutality would be passed because someone feels it right to do so. By then, there would be no one to cry for you because people would say you deserve it. With mindset as yours, Nigeria would always be like a Zoo.

Please just a simple answer...... Do you stay in Nigeria?

obyrich:
Ask a lawyer what is called 'VICARIOUS LIABILITY'. Stop parading your emptiness here. I don't condone insolence, so it can't be me. I treat effing up with dispatch. No time.

And I ask you, is that mopol the law? What stupidity lies in you? Why not allow the court decide? Where in the world would you pass this as the right law? Martial law or? To punish a husband for the crimes of his wife when she is right there and acted as a free and independent entity without his inciting her to act that way? Did she act under his name?Is she his ward or is she having brain damage and he did not pay close attention therefore she caused harm or damage to someone? Is she an employee of his; acting under his authority? Did she act on behalf of his company? Maybe you should read up on the term you quoted above?

delishpot:


And I ask you, is that mopol the law? What stupidity lies in you? Why not allow the court decide? Where in the world would you pass this as the right law? Martial law or? To punish a husband for the crimes of his wife when she is right there and acted as a free and independent entity? Did she act under his name? Is she an employee of his; acting under his authority? Did she act on behalf of his company? Maybe you should read up on the term you quoted above?

Go and school yourself properly before parading your ignorance publicly. Besides you appear to be too impatient to understand issues before jumping on conclusion. No MOPOL involved here, but a colonel in the army. Learn to read well. Good night.

obyrich:
Go and school yourself properly before parading your ignorance publicly. Besides you appear to be too impatient to understand issues before jumping on conclusion. No MOPOL involved here, but a colonel in the army. Learn to read well. Good night.

Whoever it was, my point is, they took the law into their hands and if you do not see that fact and even condone it with some silly big grammar law term which you clearly don't know a shit about. Then you are the one that has to stop parading your ignorance . I ask you, if your wife commiits a crime independently, would you be the one sent to jail simply because she is your wife? Your answer to this was yes. It is the law in Nigeria. So, which law states that a husband should be punished for his wife's crime just because he is her husband and nothing else?

delishpot:


Whoever it was, my point is, they took the law into their hands and if you do not see that fact and even condone it with some silly big grammar law term which you clearly don't know a shit about. Then you are the one that has to stop parading your ignorance . I ask you, if your wife commiits a crime independently, would you be the one sent to jail simply because she is your wife? Your answer to this was yes. It is the law in Nigeria. So, which law states that a husband should be punished for his wife's crime just because he is her husband and nothing else?

Go do what I asked you.

delishpot:


Whoever it was, my point is, they took the law into their hands and if you do not see that fact and even condone it with some silly big grammar law term which you clearly don't know a shit about. Then you are the one that has to stop parading your ignorance . I ask you, if your wife commiits a crime independently, would you be the one sent to jail simply because she is your wife? Your answer to this was yes. It is the law in Nigeria. So, which law states that a husband should be punished for his wife's crime just because he is her husband and nothing else?

Ignore them, even if they have to twist the law and support abuse of an innocent man for his stupid wife's action _they'll do it to rationalise this topic. He should have charged her for assault. That's what sane officers in saner climes do.

They suddenly don't see anything wrong in an army official harassing a citizen, just because it's getting back at a woman.

My concern is for the man.

Still no link to back up the 'law' thrown around here?

That question though..."do you know who i am?". Very annoying questions and Nigerians especially the nobodies use it.

Delishpot, why are you not condemning the woman who slapped the man first?

lonelydora:
Delishpot, why are you not condemning the woman who slapped the man first?

Go back and read my comments, I clearly did. But he the victim claiming to be the "I don't slap women type" plus considering his career and position, should have done things the right and legal way. Today it's that woman, tomorrow it may be you that offends(Yeah you may not slap him, but you may innocently step on his toes) him or someone like him and you will be treated the same way. If we ignore a wandering lion because it killed the neighbours child who insulted you yesterday, one day it will attack your own child. My complain is not in favour of the foolish act the woman displayed in that story but the trending gross abuse of power among our officers who should lead by example. It is sad to see people support him because a wild woman is involved here. Women alone don't have monopoly to being rude. Male drivers get rude too. But it's okay, only women being rude is the problem.

Ok

Rematic:
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Heard this story too...lol