What nonsense are These girls saying? How does how he carries himself translate to girls disturbing him for money. Are y'all sick or something?. The main problem is there u won't talk about it...... Nigerian girls should work and try to be independent. Stop waiting for a man to do things for you no matter how little.

Op I can also relate..!!


U even keep them..u try..I have friends that would bring tempting business ideas..I will reason between business and the girl..then I think of the koesengg agera I want to buy...all of a sudden..


BITCH pls is the next thing outta ma mind..gat to make that money..can't even date poorly manned girl cause u have to pass my mum and dad screening..!





They have change bítch to dam again

Basildvalour:
But l believe you know who l am talking about.

streams of joy rite

26andsearching:


What will you gain moving here

Lol joke. Simply put its just about you changing the way you approach things. Lead less with your wallet or maybe tone yourself down a bit so that you are not perceived as a money bag. If asked what you do for a living,don't give too much info. If for example you work as a marketing manager, simply say I work in marketing. See you haven't lied but not revealed your pay grade. But also review the type of women you are attracted to

Evablizin:
streams of joy rite

Certain

Tklabelle:


Lol joke. Simply put its just about you changing the way you approach things. Lead less with your wallet or maybe tone yourself down a bit so that you are not perceived as a money bag. If asked what you do for a living,don't give too much info. If for example you work as a marketing manager, simply say I work in marketing. See you haven't lied but not revealed your pay grade. But also review the type of women you are attracted to

Very enlightening

Thanks

BiafraBushBoy:


0.03 balance.

hope you get?

Didn't hear from you.

How are you na??

You don't know where to get me?. Fine sha, how your side?.

kimbra:
You don't know where to get me?. Fine sha, how your side?.

I came to church too... oya come outside..

BiafraBushBoy:


I came to church too... oya come outside..

You no well oh!, do we attend the same church?.

TheCabal:
You are what you eat

Who's your mate that you are calling me fufu

Evablizin:
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols

i would have love to date you but you're still a kid..wait till you turn 18.

Reminds me when I chyked one babe like that. The next thing was demanding upon demanding. Mehn! I systemically dodged it. Happy I didn't 't fall for that

26andsearching:


To which level na

I can't claim wat am not

Am just trying to be myself​

Try humility

Tklabelle:


I know that feeling . Problem here is that men are like that. Maybe I should move to Naija

pls, you have a mail. Merci

26andsearching:
Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

Same thing..... She wanted to make me her maga.

Evablizin:
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols

Really? Are you on Facebook?

26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

Fathom

Evablizin:
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols

OP this lady might be serious.

Op u be client.

Joshrob:


i would have love to date you but you're still a kid..wait till you turn 18.

lols tnx 4 d compliment,but i only knw a kid when d judge people by dere appearance

There is beauty, a whole lot without makeups and artificial hair. Search for such girls am sure their demands won't be as much

26andsearching:


I don't want to believe your statistics

It's scary

He's wrong. I think it's closer to 98%. We can't all be lucky as your friend. Been there, done that, got the tee. It only gets worse, so better get used to it or you're in for a world of hurt. Expect it.

Tklabelle:


Lol joke. Simply put its just about you changing the way you approach things. Lead less with your wallet or maybe tone yourself down a bit so that you are not perceived as a money bag. If asked what you do for a living,don't give too much info. If for example you work as a marketing manager, simply say I work in marketing. See you haven't lied but not revealed your pay grade. But also review the type of women you are attracted to

Nah this won't work because it's not about him.

Evablizin:
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols

Op seee.........this one now

You see it's not difficult to spot them.

26andsearching:

I don't want to believe your statistics
It's scary

thats the bitter truth
if u dont believe then you are on your own ...oyo

Op the problem is you

Had same issue as a very young man.I would sell off gadgets my elder brother send down from abroad to please my ex girlfriends. .Theres one sw lady that deals with jewelries and Turkey ladies inner wear in CMS patronise often to change my ex girlfriends pants those days .Till the last gf messed me up.


Well, I decided to give myself a BIG break and concentrated on my business and career for years. Yes! No gf and no intimacy. :-

Until I noticed a friend's sidechick. Very nice girl men. She would cook and bring to us in the field after Saturdays football match.Very nice lady. I would just sit one corner and watch her, wishing she was mine. Sincerely, good ladies are out there, wasting their time with wrong people. He finally married his university young gf. Me? I married the ex two months after she accepted to date me. My guy came for the wedding.

Focus on your career, observe alone, when the time is ripe you will see what you're looking for.

kimbra:
How about you bring yourself down when you want to woo a girl. This could be the issue.

you smart

Try me n see.... just kidding.ehya sorry Op

xty50:
Try me n see.... just kidding.ehya sorry Op

there's no harm in trying

who knows what might happen next

nice dp

nkwuocha1:
Had same issue as a very young man.I would sell off gadgets my elder brother send down from abroad to please my ex girlfriends. .Theres one sw lady that deals with jewelries and Turkey ladies inner wear in CMS patronise often to change my ex girlfriends pants those days .Till the last gf messed me up.


Well, I decided to give myself a BIG break and concentrated on my business and career for years. Yes! No gf and no intimacy. :-

Until I noticed a friend's sidechick. Very nice girl men. She would cook and bring to us in the field after Saturdays football match.Very nice lady. I would just sit one corner and watch her, wishing she was mine. Sincerely, good ladies are out there, wasting their time with wrong people. He finally married his university young gf. Me? I married the ex two months after she accepted to date me. My guy came for the wedding.

Focus on your career, observe alone, when the time is ripe you will see what you're looking for.

eyaa, what a touching story

26andsearching:


there's no harm in trying

who knows what might happen next

nice dp

thank you

TheCabal:
You are what you eat