Ehn. Ba Shiga oo. Dont enter. They are worse. Divorcr there na like water o.

mfujah:
Lol..... Even all Ibadan girl don jar finish.... Guy better go marry Hausa gel

So what has changed. Na men dey breastfeed and cook and bath for kids in d olden days?. D men go to farm just as dey go to work now. Dey cut wood, bring farm proceeds home. Build d house you live in... d women take d proceeds to d farm to sell.

Wetin concern eurpoean organisation now. Abeg get ur facts right.

KemjikaEme:

Mercy Aigbe and Tiwa's husbands are igbos??
Igbo women don't bend to serve any mortal,period!
In the past, we go to the markets and trade while the men farm and take care of the home front.
Blame European civilization for turning everything upside down to the extent that men expect women to be their slaves in 2017.

Frankcastle:
You are right. Be like you don dey dat stage where you say... "if i cant have it, i might as well piss on it".. everything you have said is nonsensical at best. Whether you like it or not.EVERYONE has their strengths amd one of the best for women is organisational skills while strategy -long term is for men.. both compliment each other.. so you better wake up. Its not too late for your feminism to be curbed. All your 21 century women. Dem get husband for house o.. hillary. Theresa may etc. be dia deceiving yourself. . Oh. And dey respect their husbands.
If you want a man to submit to you. You should foot all his bills, rent house, buy him car. Give him allowance, pay for his cheap hair cut, organise family events. Go and see his parents. And let him carry the pregnancy.

You're the one spewing nonsense, does my marked-gender indicate female? I'm a male and I don't believe in all these wife submission bullshit, I believe in partnership. If men wants submission then why can't women get same from their husband or is it written on women's head to submit?

Women have been taken for granted on this "submit to your husband" with men that don't reciprocate. If she wants to be submissive let it be her choice and stop using some ancient practice and Jewish book to justify it.

Marriage is a beautiful thing but with the right person, people get married and find happiness in it while some people get married and find disaster and doom in it, many people have die because marital clash, you can see it ain't meant for everyone.

Oprah Winfrey is not married and she's one of the richest and influential woman in the world. If a woman wants to take responsibility of the bills you should stop degrading women to submissive slavery but it is unfortunate that many women have been brainwashed to be second class human.

tintingz:
You're the one spewing nonsense, does my marked-gender indicate female? I'm a male and I don't believe in all these wife submission bullshit, I believe in partnership. If men wants submission then why can't women get same from their husband or is it written on women's head to submit?

Women have been taken for granted on this "submit to your husband" with men that don't reciprocate. If she wants to be submissive let it be her choice and stop using some ancient practice and Jewish book to justify it.

Marriage is a beautiful thing but with the right person, people get married and find happiness in it while some people get married and find disaster and doom in it, many people have die because marital clash, you can see it ain't meant for everyone.

Oprah Winfrey is not married and she's one of the richest and influential woman in the world. If a woman wants to take responsibility of the bills you should stop degrading women to submissive slavery but it is unfortunate that many women have been brainwashed to be second class human.

abeg, you think with all what you said nairaland girls go pm you? Na lie. Dem no even know say you exist

1. Classic case of a lazy man... partnership? Wanna share everything or better still be at home whike your wife works

2. Your reference to respect as being ancient is astonishingly obnoxious thereby showing you lack an understanding of the difference between civilization and westernization

3. If you see a womans submissiveness as stupidity then submission on the part of the man is
A. Commitment to his family
B. Providing for his famiky
C. Protecting his family
D. Loving his wife or partner

4. Submissiin does not mean the women is a slave or cannot suggest or take decisions.

5. Go amd check with really influential men. Most of the decisions they make are words of sense give to them by their wives. Check how your parents lived.

6. Oprah.. she got a life time partner. Hope you know that. Dey just didnt call it marriage. But it sure as hell is close to.

Point is respect is mutual. Everyone just needs to know what their role is in d home.

tintingz:
You're the sewing nonsense, does my marked-gender female? I'm a male and I don't believe in all these wife submission bullshit, I believe in partnership. If men wants submission then why can't women get same from their husband or is it written on women's head to submit?

Women have been taken for granted on this "submit to your husband" with men that don't reciprocate. If she wants to be submissive let it be her choice and stop using some ancient practice and Jewish book to justify it.

Marriage is a beautiful thing but with the right person, people get married and find happiness in it while some people get married and find disaster and doom in it, many people have die because marital clash, you can see it ain't meant for everyone.

Oprah Winfrey is not married and she's one of the richest and influential woman in the world. If a woman wants to take responsibility of the bills you should stop degrading women to submissive slavery but it is unfortunate that many women have been brainwashed to be second class human.

Frankcastle:
So what has changed. Na men dey breastfeed and cook and bath for kids in d olden days?. D men go to farm just as dey go to work now. Dey cut wood, bring farm proceeds home. Build d house you live in... d women take d proceeds to d farm to sell.

Wetin concern eurpoean organisation now. Abeg get ur facts right.

Link up my reference with it's destruction of original cultures and the oppression of women in the process.
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kimbra:
Well, since he said he would like that but can't get it from the women of this era explains he's only wishing. It's good to dream.

Then no one should questions his marital life, Thank he has four kids and that's all that matters.

Beside giving birth to children,, Remove sex from a relationship and you will discover that over 90% of ladies of nowadays have nothing to offer in a relationship than nagging want to be in control.

Am talking of Ladies of below 40..

KingEbukasBlog:
Haba ... she is not a slave na . The world is evolving and there are other ways a woman can show deference to her man .

LOL but those women kneel down with their 2 kneel for pastors when greeting them, Someone will kneel down to greet their pastors but cannot do the same for their husband and mind you before God your husband is superior to any pastor or Imam.

Even a lady have to respect her husband over her parent when she get married..

There is no destruction of any original cultures and oppression of women in any process. A woman has a role to play in a home. So much as a man does. And as well the children. The destruction is coming from people who have now felt that those roles should be reversed. It begs a question nowadays that women are quick to shout female oppression but yet claim they are equal to men. Y'all should make up your minds. If you are not thr weaker sex and are equal, why keep asking for protection. Nevertheless, you are a hopeless feminist that cannot reason beyond what you have come to make yourself.... wish u success and peace in the life you choose.

KemjikaEme:

Link up my reference with it's destruction of original cultures and the oppression of women in the process.
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Frankcastle:
1. Classic case of a lazy man... partnership? Wanna share everything or better still be at home whike your wife works

Invalid post. Does my partnership in marriage means the man sitting at home and the wife working?

Partnership in marriage means both the husband and the wife are doing something to contribute to the home, A wife at least should be doing something not a liability. This is another reason women are thrown out easily by their husband since they don't have nothing else to offer than staying in the kitchen and other room.

2. Your reference to respect as being ancient is astonishingly obnoxious thereby showing you lack an understanding of the difference between civilization and westernization

Men of the ancient see women as assets, subjects they brought up some cultures and some divine books to degrade women folks. The main reason African men still prefer male child than female child because they have been told that male child has values than female child. This has nothing to do with civilization or westernization but what has been programmed to our brain.

3. If you see a womans submissiveness as stupidity then submission on the part of the man is
A. Commitment to his family
B. Providing for his famiky
C. Protecting his family
D. Loving his wife or partner

- Lol, Women also do this you listed.

4. Submissiin does not mean the women is a slave or cannot suggest or take decisions.

So what does submission means in marriage? Can a woman make final decision in marriage? Does a woman have a say in marriage?

The funniest thing is that I use to believe in this wife submissive ish, I was very archaic.

5. Go amd check with really influential men. Most of the decisions they make are words of sense give to them by their wives. Check how your parents lived.

African or Western influential men, please specify.

6. Oprah.. she got a life time partner. Hope you know that. Dey just didnt call it marriage. But it sure as hell is close to.

Yes she got a life partner but not married, they can go their separate ways without no court involving, she's not bound to wife submissive programming.

Point is respect is mutual. Everyone just needs to know what their role is in d home.

I also believe in role in homes, but slavery is definitely not a role anyone will enjoy maybe for stoic syndrome people.

onedayatime:


for you to go to the extent of thinking a man has to humble himself before you speak volume of whom you are...you have pride, pompus, boastful, proud, ego-centric, self-centered and the list goes on and on and on.

Even, you can not expect a female like you to humble herself before you not to talk of when you are not God

And some people here liked the comment!!!.

One wonders why you are so pained by my comment as if I have personal dealings with you? Your overreaction was uncalled for as my post was not directed to you.

Why should I bury my pride and do all that shit for a man who lacks humility? The least I expect from my man is sheer humility, is that asking for too much?

Had it been you know me in person you won't say thrash about me. I know how to make a man feel like a demigod but not when I have issues with his atttitude because To Whom Much Is Given Much Is Expected. One Good Turn Deserves another bruh.

Gimme a break!

Frankcastle:
You are right. Be like you don dey dat stage where you say... "if i cant have it, i might as well piss on it".. everything you have said is nonsensical at best. Whether you like it or not.EVERYONE has their strengths amd one of the best for women is organisational skills while strategy -long term is for men.. both compliment each other.. so you better wake up. Its not too late for your feminism to be curbed. All your 21 century women. Dem get husband for house o.. hillary. Theresa may etc. be dia deceiving yourself. . Oh. And dey respect their husbands.
If you want a man to submit to you. You should foot all his bills, rent house, buy him car. Give him allowance, pay for his cheap hair cut, organise family events. Go and see his parents. And let him carry the pregnancy.

on point dude..i just pray feminism doesnt destroy some peoples life and marriage cause am just seeing women destroying thier homes cause of their stupid feminism ideals

Hmmm. Be careful what you wish for...

All d best sir.

tintingz:
Invalid post. Does my partnership in marriage means the man sitting at home and the wife working?

Partnership in marriage means both the husband and the wife are doing something to contribute to the home, A wife at least should be doing something not a liability. This is another reason women are thrown out easily by their husband since they don't have nothing else to offer than staying in the kitchen and other room.

Men of the ancient see women as assets, subjects they brought up some cultures and some divine books to degrade women folks. The main reason African men still prefer male child than female child because they have been told that male child has values than female child. This has nothing to do with civilization or westernization but what has been programmed to our brain.

- Lol, Women also do this you listed.

So what does submission means in marriage? Can a woman make final decision in marriage? Does a woman have a say in marriage?

The funniest thing is that I use to believe in this wife submissive ish, I was very archaic.

African or Western influential men, please specify.

Yes she got a life partner but not married, they can go their separate ways without no court involving, she's not bound to wife submissive programming.

I also believe in role in homes, but slavery is definitely not a role anyone will enjoy maybe for stoic syndrome people.

tintingz:
You're the one spewing nonsense, does my marked-gender indicate female? I'm a male and I don't believe in all these wife submission bullshit, I believe in partnership. If men wants submission then why can't women get same from their husband or is it written on women's head to submit?

Women have been taken for granted on this "submit to your husband" with men that don't reciprocate. If she wants to be submissive let it be her choice and stop using some ancient practice and Jewish book to justify it.

Marriage is a beautiful thing but with the right person, people get married and find happiness in it while some people get married and find disaster and doom in it, many people have die because marital clash, you can see it ain't meant for everyone.

Oprah Winfrey is not married and she's one of the richest and influential woman in the world. If a woman wants to take responsibility of the bills you should stop degrading women to submissive slavery but it is unfortunate that many women have been brainwashed to be second class human.

clap for yourself.... with that type of mentality i pray you dont meet a lady that will make you eat your words

MissCuppy:
Goat

Must you say that?

MissCuppy:
Goat

Must you say that?

TinaAnita:


One wonders why you are so pained by my comment as if I have personal dealings with you? Your overreaction was uncalled for as my post was not directed to you.

Why should I bury my pride and do all that shit for a man who lacks humility? The least I expect from my man is sheer humility, is that asking for too much?

Had it been you know me in person you won't say thrash about me. I know how to make a man feel like a demigod but not when I have issues with his atttitude because To Whom Much Is Given Much Is Expected. One Good Turn Deserves another bruh.

Gimme a break!

i laugh you in chinese..buh anyhow if it works for you no wahala

mikolo80:
Guy you get time o. I just de look all these foolish ppl trying to emulate 42% failure rate Vs old school marriage that had over 90% success rate

Those marriages lasted because the women were completely dependent on the men. It did not matter if you were beat or if you were cheated on. It did not matter if your husband molested your daughter. It did not matter if your husband disappeared for 6 months. A woman had no choice because her survival was based on that of a man. The alternative was possibly death. That has now changed and women can provide clothing, food, and shelter for themselves. Should a woman continue to be a slave in such conditions? Society is evolving and each person must be treated with equal respect.

APCmyheart:




LOL but those women kneel down with their 2 kneel for pastors when greeting them, Someone will kneel down to greet their pastors but cannot do the same for their husband and mind you before God your husband is superior to any pastor or Imam.

Even a lady have to respect her husband over her parent when she get married..

who the hell told you that even the bible said honour thy father and mother that your days will be long.show respect to you parents husband and WIFE respect is reciprocal you here

badaoyeyemi:
.Cant Even Do Dat 4 Popsy Talkless Of Husband..But Dat Doesnt Mean I Dont Respect Him

But you can knee down for Daddy G.O right?


Continue..

marvin902:



clap for yourself.... with that type of mentality i pray you dont meet a lady that will make you eat your words

Lol, what about does good wives that are facing disaster in their marriage in the hands of their archaic husband?

Tolerance is the key.

Frankcastle:
Hmmm. Be careful what you wish for...

All d best sir.

Tolerance is the key sir.

angelanto8:
who the hell told you that even the bible said honour thy father and mother that your days will be long.show respect to you parents husband and WIFE respect is reciprocal you here

That was before you get married..

Trexnemesis:
1Peter 3:6
Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.

They will come with old things have passed away now..

FortuneTeller:


Those marriages lasted because the women were completely dependent on the men.

Right out the gate
Dependency theory
My dear theyCHOSE e to marry cheats and beaters
Till today they still have terrible CHOICE in men
Must have to do with strong
genesNobody wants to get married to a wimp
Makes the whole species unsafe

It did not matter if you were beat or if you were cheated on. It did not matter if your husband molested your daughter.

Rat poison in his meals would have sorted this out but the women CHOSE to allow their daughters rape to go unanswered

It did not matter if your husband disappeared for 6 months. A woman had no choice because her survival was based on that of a man. The alternative was possibly death.

We all have a CHOICE to make
Na dem CHOOSE to marry beasts (strong genes)

That has now changed and women can provide clothing, food, and shelter for themselves. Should a woman continue to be a slave in such conditions?

Even a slave has CHOICE
not to marry the bad guys but till tmrw they will CHOOSE to marry animals over good guys so they should carry their cross

Society is evolving and each person must be treated with equal respect.

you are treated with the respect you accord yourself

APCmyheart:



That was before you get married..

wow so you should quit respecting your parents as a lady after you get married

APCmyheart:



That was before you get married..

wow so you should quit respecting your parents as a lady after you get married

tintingz:
Why must it be the woman to submit to the man? Can you submit to your wife? If you can't submit to your wife then STFU! Women are not subject or tools to be controlled like robotic slaves because of some ancient culture and a Jewish book said so. They(women) also have brains and consciousness.

Marriage is not by force and not meant for everyone, this is 21 century, life is evolving, anyone who thinks the world should be the same like our ancestors is in lala land.

And your likes go to such every Sunday, Where did the bible say Man should submit to their wife?

martineverest:
Archaic idiot.... At ur age u still reason like an slowpoke.... Smh

Chisos .. 'An slowpoke'

angelanto8:
wow so you should quit respecting your parents as a lady after you get married wow so you should quit respecting your parents as a lady after you get married

That's not my point, Immediately you get married your husband become your father and you become his mother..


Even if your parents want you to come over to see them, They have to first call your husband and get his consent first..

APCmyheart:




And your likes go to such every Sunday, Where did the bible say Man should submit to their wife?

I don't believe in bible.