Vorpal:


In this case we will leave the homosexuals out of it. I think that takes out the sexual choices part?

The sexism I agree.

But the hypocrisy, can you give a good scenario?

1bkaye:

Not just homosexuality, most things, like casual sex, type of sex, how long someone took to sleep with someone etc

Most common one is guy that sleeps around castigating girl that sleeps around and probably girl that he's probably slept with etc

Vorpal:


Oh okay, given your last line I don't think there would be much of a discourse.

But you struck me with type of sex, you mean anal and oral? and how long it took someone to sleep with a girl? You mean if it happens too early on?

1bkaye:

Yup

Vorpal:


On the type of sex, so far, I haven't seen naija men being aversed to it both online and offline. At least majority aren't.

Do you think a society can thrive without the steadfast dilligent practise of God's command?

1bkaye:

Not that they're averse to it, as per something like a bj being considered too 'out there' for a 'decent' girl etc

I think a society can thrive as long as there is some type of moral framework in place to maintain a level of civility, doesn't necessarily need to be Christianity or even a religion

Vorpal:


Well i dont see how that is being overly exposed as far she did not become a LovePeddler to be versed in such things except you think someone can't be so without being overly exposed?

But you see, if you look at the arab countries, like saudi and you take a typical western country, like america. The moral framework hasnt been effective in establishing civility as opposed to the Saudi religious tenets.

If you take for example, the gun shootings in schools, gang crimes, rapists, increasing rates of divorces etc, you see that those things are virtually absent in states that religion is indoctrinated into the government. There are cases of women subjugation in the arab settings too. But if we were weigh it, the arab society appears to be more civil, orderly and flourishing too in the case of welfare.

In light of what i explained above, and you of a centrist view, wont the idea of such form of government make a society more civil provided there is no discrimination against other religion and extremism in exercising such laws?

Vorpal:
I know it was just an example of yours but I asked that question to get your own 'personal' view of the matter.

My using the word thrive was to get the bare minimum of a society from you, which you have said people won't always oblige to and the 'least' bit of framework needed without religion being in place. Which puts the effectiveness to question as seen by the examples i gave. Pardon me for bringing out a topic from a topic.

But as we have delved into the main motive of my question, the question is which brings out or conforms people to the best of their behaviour, remains?

Civilization to me has different facets and interpretation to certain individuals within a landmark. I will therefore say, it's the ideology, the ethics, customs and morals those certain individuals wish to go by that has guaranteed the progress, well being, order and sanctity of human life by those said people within a landmark only. So what I call civilised to me may b barbaric to others and vice versa. Or do you have a different opinion?

Now to the Saudis, I believe I kept a clause in my earlier post about adopting that system of government by not subjugating women, intolerance to other religion and extremism or being too fanatical that voids logic or common sense.

In details, I do not support the ban on women not driving or being chaperoned around by a male, not being allowed to vote and trivial offences that are met with punishment not proportional to it. However, I feel this is as a result of the teachings of Islam(I stand to be corrected) and more to do with fanaticism hence why I said being circumspect and introspective about it or centrist also. I really don't think a Christian version will have these sort of failings.

I for one support the beheading of those who steal out of greed and selfish interest not a person who steals out of lack or hunger ,the mutilating of those who rape and in cases of paedophile, it should be met with a capital punishment etc. Punishment commensurate with their offences. It's like they say, religion is the opium of the masses, what better way to structure a society than to use religion prevalent within a space?

1bkaye

1bkaye:

Lol why only mutilation for rapists if thieves (greedy) deserve capital punishment?

Vorpal:


I think mutilating them is more serious,like cutting off his dick and having him live the rest of life without ever having an hard on again. But if it's capital punishment, I also support, just seem easy to me.

1bkaye:

Okie dokie

Vorpal:

1bkaye:

What?

1bkaye:

What?

jaybee3:

what?

1bkaye:

Lol hey stranger ^.^

jaybee3:


When are you going to start talking to strangers offline though?

Blunt gyal

1bkaye:

Lool so you're still here? Thought everyone had left

jaybee3:


Not much of a commentator these days though

Glad to know you still balling

I'm sure ****** is done and dusted right?

1bkaye:

Lol ages ago, I'm an old woman now. How are you?

Ps can you please edit the name out, I'm a lot more low-key now

jaybee3:


Makes a whole lotta sense jare

Back to the capital or you stayed behind?

1bkaye:

Lol thanks

Back to the capital, thinking of going to Nigeria for a bit though. Yourself?

jaybee3:


I'm also looking into that or the middle east

1bkaye:

Where in Nigeria or the Middle east? Still in touch with any of the oldies?

jaybee3:


Lag/doha (my other half has been there for a few)

Nah not really

1bkaye:

Awww

Lagos for me too probably, or Abuja.

1bkaye:

Awww

Lagos for me too probably, or Abuja.

Mustay:


The former fits your profile, the latter is at variant with your profile. Except you've changed ganan :p

1bkaye:
Lool hey stranger
Lol what do you mean?

Mustay:

The Ibkaye I knew before she became 1 fits that city allocation.

1bkaye:
Lol ehn? How so?