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Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 4:35pm On May 18, 2017
Please good kindhearted members of nairaland, help my life and education.

I recently finished writing this year's jamb and the result was good but I have mixed feelings, Happy because @last, I have the chance to write jamb 4yrs after secondary school but Sad because I don't have Money to further. I took the jamb to test myself, I even went extra miles to get the fee for registration. I love school,, I love education,am a brilliant girl but unlucky. My Mum is a petty trader, the little she realises hardly covers feeding, My Dad is as good as dead, he abandoned his responsibility since I was a kid. My mum has been the only one through thick and thin (God bless me so that she reaps the fruit of her labour) Life is soo tough for me.

Please Ladies and Gentlemen, am not asking anybody to pay my school fees or start for feeding me from 100-400L because I don't like depending and being a liability to some1.

I want to set up my business within the campus so that I will be able to sponsor and look after myself even if am not given the admission and will be Problem Free by God's grace.

I want to go into Computer business, Photocopy, Internet services, Printing, selling of drinks, e.t.c. I have knowledge of it, Capital is the obstacle.
I made enquiries and was told that campus shop rents is upto 100-150k per annum

So with 250-300 thousand, I believe i can kick start my business. You might not necessarily give me the cash but can also help me with the equipments I need: Scanner, photocopier, Printer, Computer, Moderm, Refrigerator then shop rent.

Please Brothers, Sisters, Uncles and Aunties, help my career and Education, God will not forsake you.

This is not a scam, I live in Benin and am talking about UNIBEN here.
Am available for any verification.
Tnx, God bless you all as I await your favourable response.
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 5:30pm On May 18, 2017
Please help
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by Nobody: 7:26am On May 19, 2017
I am yet to see a scammer that admits upfront to being one. They all tell you how genuine they are, how they can provide evidence to back their claims.

Secondly since your dad is alive you should make him take up his responsibility and stop trying to pass it on to people that had no hand in your birth. You father's job is not just to knack your mom and make children. You letting him off the hook is an encouragement to other would-be deadbeat fathers.

Ask around there are organization that can take up your mom's case if she can prove that your dad is not living up to his responsibilities he will be made to pay up.
I suggest you do that than looking for someone that will clean up your father's mess.

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Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 7:38am On May 19, 2017
Brugge:
I am yet to see a scammer that admits upfront to being one. They all tell you how genuine they are, how they can provide evidence to back their claims.

Secondly since your dad is alive you should make him take up his responsibility and stop trying to pass it on to people that had no hand in your birth. You father's job is not just to knack your mom and make children. You letting him off the hook is an encouragement to other would-be deadbeat fathers.

Ask around there are organization that can take up your mom's case if she can prove that your dad is not living up to his responsibilities he will be made to pay up.
I suggest you do that than looking for someone that will clean up your father's mess.

What should I do? Kill him? He married more than 1 wife and he focus more on his younger children. Not that he has enough to cater for everyone hence his shying away from responsibility. I just wanna live without him, I dnt know any org. that can be of help to my mum, she is but a petty trader, if asked for collateral incase of loan, what will she use as collateral? am begging you, if you have the money, any amount @all, i am not asking 1 person to give me all, i believe if money is being contributed, I will get it.
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 7:44am On May 19, 2017
If you can still help with equipments, I will b glad
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by Nobody: 8:21am On May 19, 2017
LordHelpMe:


What should I do? Kill him? He married more than 1 wife and he focus more on his younger children. Not that he has enough to cater for everyone hence his shying away from responsibility. I just wanna live without him, I dnt know any org. that can be of help to my mum, she is but a petty trader, if asked for collateral incase of loan, what will she use as collateral? am begging you, if you have the money, any amount @all, i am not asking 1 person to give me all, i believe if money is being contributed, I will get it.

He does not have enough but he has enough to marry more than one wife and breed all over the place. You had better go meet him and let him take care of his "shits" stop disturbing people that had no hand in your man made problem. If you had taken your negotiation skill to him am sure you can still get something from him.

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Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 8:33am On May 19, 2017
Brugge:


He does not have enough but he has enough to marry more than one wife and breed all over the place. You had better go meet him and let him take care of his "shits" stop disturbing people that had no hand in your man made problem. If you had taken your negotiation skill to him am sure you can still get something from him.
It's okay. You won't understand. Am not forcing anybody, Say you dont have and move on, You attacked me in a thread, come here to attack me again, please I don't know you from Adam, you don't have to be harsh, you dnt know what the future have in stock for you. just pray you don't find yourself in a messy condition. If you cnt help, let ppu that can help do so. and if no help comes, i will leave everything to God like i have always done. Tnx, God bless

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Re: Please Help My Career And Education by olatemmie13(m): 8:58am On May 19, 2017
Bro if you won't help the lady, don't add to her injuries okay? Just wish her luck and move on.

What she is asking isn't much... When God blesses you with excess, you got to help others.

As for me, I just want to say you should probably take this other social media, tweet at some celebrities, NGO etc. Am positive something will surely come out good for you.

Wish you luck sis.

Brugge:


He does not have enough but he has enough to marry more than one wife and breed all over the place. You had better go meet him and let him take care of his "shits" stop disturbing people that had no hand in your man made problem. If you had taken your negotiation skill to him am sure you can still get something from him.

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Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 9:35am On May 19, 2017
olatemmie13:
Bro if you won't help the lady, don't add to her injuries okay? Just wish her luck and move on.

What she is asking isn't much... When God blesses you with excess, you got to help others.

As for me, I just want to say you should probably take this other social media, tweet at some celebrities, NGO etc. Am positive something will surely come out good for you.

Wish you luck sis.

thank you very much, God bless you. *sigh
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by eyinjuege: 9:51am On May 19, 2017
OP, its a good thing you have a business idea you want to follow through.

Why not work and save towards that? Nothing wrong in saving towards your goals.

Get some odds jobs, be a nanny to busy people and help them in their homes.

Look for ushering events, contact event planners and let them know you're available to be an usher, contact caterers and let them know you can serve food, wash plates after events.
You may even be able to partner with other people you meet while working, and you both can contribute to start up your business.
At least have a little saviings towards that.

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Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 10:12am On May 19, 2017
eyinjuege:
OP, its a good thing you have a business idea you want to follow through.

Why not work and save towards that? Nothing wrong in saving towards your goals.

Get some odds jobs, be a nanny to busy people and help them in their homes.

Look for ushering events, contact event planners and let them know you're available to be an usher, contact caterers and let them know you can serve food, wash plates after events.
You may even be able to partner with other people you meet while working, and you both can contribute to start up your business.
At least have a little saviings towards that.

Tnx, I did work that is how I have knowledge of the computer business. The little I saved from my my meagre salary has been swallowed by our everyday needs. I can start working but after collecting my salary, I will use it to pay up debts, how then will i save? If I work under som1 and eventually gain admission, I will need to quit the job so how will I survive? I cnt be begging my course mates for food and fees hence my plan to set up my own business which I believe will flourish and I won't have any problem financially. Thanks once again
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by Nobody: 5:26pm On May 19, 2017
olatemmie13:
Bro if you won't help the lady, don't add to her injuries okay? Just wish her luck and move on.

What she is asking isn't much... When God blesses you with excess, you got to help others.

As for me, I just want to say you should probably take this other social media, tweet at some celebrities, NGO etc. Am positive something will surely come out good for you.

Wish you luck sis.


It is not about the amount it is about principle. I have watched people get scammed in a bid to help someone that pretended to be in need. I know their antics, if you want to fall for it, good luck go ahead and send her your money. But I will keep calling her (if she is truly a her) out and reminding her to hold her parents responsible for her well being. We should send her money (that is if her request is genuine which I seriously doubt) ten years down the line she will come back here to post how much she loves her parents for all the sacrifice they made for her.

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Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 5:56pm On May 19, 2017
Brugge:


It is not about the amount it is about principle. I have watched people get scammed in a bid to help someone that pretended to be in need. I know their antics, if you want to fall for it, good luck go ahead and send her your money. But I will keep calling her (if she is truly a her) out and reminding her to hold her parents responsible for her well being. We should send her money (that is if her request is genuine which I seriously doubt) ten years down the line she will come back here to post how much she loves her parents for all the sacrifice they made for her.
I can only post dat about my mum. Please you know nothing about me, stop jumping into conclusions, I understand there are scammers out there and one needs to be careful. I know my parents are are responsible for my well being but its not my fault that i am from such background. I Am a girl, don't doubt me seriously. Okay, do you have connection in UNIBEN? do you know Lecturers that can invite me to their office and hear me out and maybe probably give me one the shops? Please help me if you can and I will be forever indebted. I have never been an ingrate.
I did not come here to claim sick or dying and in need of medical attention. Please help my career
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by dominique(f): 9:43pm On May 19, 2017
For a 'new member', you sure know your way around the forum and very quick to reply quotes. I just dey observe sha

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Re: Please Help My Career And Education by izzou(m): 10:25pm On May 19, 2017
dominique:
For a 'new member', you sure know your way around the forum and very quick to reply quotes. I just dey observe sha

grin grin

Madam observer. I know say you go show


Ifyalways never still appear here. Am surprised
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 11:26pm On May 19, 2017
dominique:
For a 'new member', you sure know your way around the forum and very quick to reply quotes. I just dey observe sha
Please observe well.
Yes, am quick to reply anybody. I mean I was the one that created the thread so I should make myself available

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Re: Please Help My Career And Education by blazer234: 6:37am On May 20, 2017
LordHelpMe:

Please observe well.
Yes, am quick to reply anybody. I mean I was the one that created the thread so I should make myself available

You are a new member and you already know how to create thread, spot "mentions", reply to mentions, etc? Or maybe you are an old member, who created a new account for this purpose.......Just thinking in writing.

You said you have computer knowledge? That's a good starting point. Admission will not come up until August/September. That's an opportunity to raise money pending that time.

I've learnt a bitter lesson in life: no one will help nobody; not even girlfriends that you love dearly. Even when they see you struggling, they will still be more concerned about what they can get out of you. Other people who might want to help almost allways have their personal responsibilities to bear. So every man for himself and God for everyone.

Do you have a computer? If you do, I may be able to show you how to raise some money so that you can save something before admission.
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by ifyalways(f): 6:40am On May 20, 2017
izzou:


grin grin

Madam observer. I know say you go show


Ifyalways never still appear here. [b] Am
surprised[/b]
I am or I'm.
Cheers smiley
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by izzou(m): 6:42am On May 20, 2017
ifyalways:

I am or I'm.
Cheers smiley

My bad

Thanks
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by Acidosis(m): 7:36am On May 20, 2017
I really don't know how you want to manage this biz all by yourself together with schooling.


And oh, that 250k budget cannot cover your expenses.


Rent: N150,000/annum
1 Set of Computer: N20,000 (note: using only one set is risky for this business)
Photocopier: N50,000 (its way more by the way)
Scanner/Spiral binding machine: N20,000
Printer (1 inkjet + 1 deskjet): N50,000
Modem + 1 Month subscription: N7000
Refrigerator (with drinks): N60,000
Annual Association/Levy/Local Govt tax (if any): N3000
OX standing fan (you can't afford to do this biz without this): N18,000
Now you forgot to add Generator: N50,000
Annual Electricity Bill: N12,000

TOTAL: 440,000.


Your budget is way underestimated, and here is the bitter truth:

1. You cannot do this biz all by yourself in a student environment even if you decide to forfeit your education. Implication is that you'd need to employ an extra hand.

2. You cannot combine this biz with schooling and still make enough money to afford your feeding, school fee, and annual rent for 100L

3. Your budget is about N440,000., however let me remind you that majority of Nigerians do not have this kind of money in their accounts...so soliciting this sum may come off as "greed" just because you have family issues and a business idea. As a matter of fact, everyone have family issues and "business ideas".

4. Don't make it sound like you want to work hard and excel so you can "show" your father how much greatness you have in you. Truth is that 99% of persons do not care about your father's actions and inactions.

5. What course did you apply for? and your JAMB score?

6. Take pictures as proof of your candidature and solicit for your 100 Level budget. Tell anyone that cares to listen about your idea and see how you can get some funds. You have some months left to 'hustle' and save towards your biz but this shouldn't be your aim for the first year.

I don't know the magic you want to perform with your capital in few months that will enable you pay your 100L fees, feeding needs and hostel accommodation.

7. Towards the end of my 300L, I had similar idea but had to funds. Guess what I did? I partnered with a friend (business freak) who lived in the school hostel. He had the constant electricity, a computer and a printer (I didn't have any of these as of that period), but I had one thing which he didn't have - Skill - Ms-Word, PowerPoint, plus I type fast. We had a sharing formula and it favoured us both.

Implying that you don't have to literally 'beg' most of the time. What you have (which you perhaps take for granted) can actually give you a a bargaining power. I did typesetting for years (without a shop) and never settled for the ridiculous pay typists get from business centre owners. You can run your biz in your hostel (a lot of students do this). It will save you cost on fuel, generator, rent, dues, levies, etc, while allowing you focus on your studies (which for me is priority).

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Re: Please Help My Career And Education by makems(f): 8:02am On May 20, 2017
My dear if ure genuine,don't be in a hurry to start that biz.work under someone for a while and know ur way around.people work and still go to school.get a laptop and type ass for people .u can still make small cash from there.
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 8:12am On May 20, 2017
Thank you all
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 8:33am On May 20, 2017
Acidosis:
I really don't know how you want to manage this biz all by yourself together with schooling.


And oh, that 250k budget cannot cover your expenses.


Rent: N150,000/annum
1 Set of Computer: N20,000 (note: using only one set is risky for this business)
Photocopier: N50,000 (its way more by the way)
Scanner/Spiral binding machine: N20,000
Printer (1 inkjet + 1 deskjet): N50,000
Modem + 1 Month subscription: N7000
Refrigerator (with drinks): N60,000
Annual Association/Levy/Local Govt tax (if any): N3000
OX standing fan (you can't afford to do this biz without this): N18,000
Now you forgot to add Generator: N50,000
Annual Electricity Bill: N12,000

TOTAL: 440,000.


Your budget is way underestimated, and here is the bitter truth:

1. You cannot do this biz all by yourself in a student environment even if you decide to forfeit your education. Implication is that you'd need to employ an extra hand.

2. You cannot combine this biz with schooling and still make enough money to afford your feeding, school fee, and annual rent for 100L

3. Your budget is about N440,000., however let me remind you that majority of Nigerians do not have this kind of money in their accounts...so soliciting this sum may come off as "greed" just because you have family issues and a business idea. As a matter of fact, everyone have family issues and "business ideas".

4. Don't make it sound like you want to work hard and excel so you can "show" your father how much greatness you have in you. Truth is that 99% of persons do not care about your father's actions and inactions.

5. What course did you apply for? and your JAMB score?

6. Take pictures as proof of your candidature and solicit for your 100 Level budget. Tell anyone that cares to listen about your idea and see how you can get some funds. You have some months left to 'hustle' and save towards your biz but this shouldn't be your aim for the first year.

I don't know the magic you want to perform with your capital in few months that will enable you pay your 100L fees, feeding needs and hostel accommodation.

7. Towards the end of my 300L, I had similar idea but had to funds. Guess what I did? I partnered with a friend (business freak) who lived in the school hostel. He had the constant electricity, a computer and a printer (I didn't have any of these as of that period), but I had one thing which he didn't have - Skill - Ms-Word, PowerPoint, plus I type fast. We had a sharing formula and it favoured us both.

Implying that you don't have to literally 'beg' most of the time. What you have (which you perhaps take for granted) can actually give you a a bargaining power. I did typesetting for years (without a shop) and never settled for the ridiculous pay typists get from business centre owners. You can run your biz in your hostel (a lot of students do this). It will save you cost on fuel, generator, rent, dues, levies, etc, while allowing you focus on your studies (which for me is priority).

Wow! Am impressed by your comment. Looks like you have been there before hence you took time to explain things to me lyk your younger Sister, thank you sir. I appreciate.
I never knew those things are that expensive, I know that photocopier and refrigerator are very expensive so I dint plan to buy new one but second hand.
Scanner-10, 000
Printer- 15, 000
Computer-20,000
Laptop-30,000
This was my calculation
I excluded Gen to save money because UNIBEN light is still 80% constant, if they sieze it, I will use my laptop to work and maybe print it smwerr else.
Thanks
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 8:43am On May 20, 2017
blazer234:


You are a new member and you already know how to create thread, spot "mentions", reply to mentions, etc? Or maybe you are an old member, who created a new account for this purpose.......Just thinking in writing.

You said you have computer knowledge? That's a good starting point. Admission will not come up until August/September. That's an opportunity to raise money pending that time.

I've learnt a bitter lesson in life: no one will help nobody; not even girlfriends that you love dearly. Even when they see you struggling, they will still be more concerned about what they can get out of you. Other people who might want to help almost allways have their personal responsibilities to bear. So every man for himself and God for everyone.

Do you have a computer? If you do, I may be able to show you how to raise some money so that you can save something before admission.

Lol, Nairaland is not as difficult as you guys are making it look like. The very first day I registered on this forum, it didn't take me time to know my way around.

Sorry for the bitter lesson learnt, have you ever been scammed or hurt dearly? Am sorry.

No, I don't have a computer. Maybe you can help me with just that. I will appreciate
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by blazer234: 9:01am On May 20, 2017
LordHelpMe:


Lol, Nairaland is not as difficult as you guys are making it look like. The very first day I registered on this forum, it didn't take me time to know my way around.

Sorry for the bitter lesson learnt, have you ever been scammed or hurt dearly? Am sorry.

No, I don't have a computer. Maybe you can help me with just that. I will appreciate


Can you write articles? If you can, source for funds to get a computer and I will link you with clients.
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by Nobody: 9:22am On May 20, 2017
blazer234:



Can you write articles? If you can, source for funds to get a computer and I will link you with clients.

Exactly Upworks is an example just a laptop and Internet connection I do jobs for people outside Nigeria however that's software Dev, @OP what are your computer skills or writing or anything take a look at Upworks it doesn't require any initial startup but patience

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Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 10:19am On May 20, 2017
pcguru1:


Exactly Upworks is an example just a laptop and Internet connection I do jobs for people outside Nigeria however that's software Dev, @OP what are your computer skills or writing or anything take a look at Upworks it doesn't require any initial startup but patience
Thanks. I can type fast (ms word)
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 10:24am On May 20, 2017
blazer234:



Can you write articles? If you can, source for funds to get a computer and I will link you with clients.

Write articles? Sorry I don't get, lyk type or wat? If it's type, yes, I can type well

Thanks
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by blazer234: 10:28am On May 20, 2017
LordHelpMe:


Write articles? Sorry I don't get, lyk type or wat? If it's type, yes, I can type well

Thanks
. Looks like you need to read up about article writing. Do that and geta computer/ laptop and I can link you up to clients
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by Acidosis(m): 10:29am On May 20, 2017
LordHelpMe:


Wow! Am impressed by your comment. Looks like you have been there before hence you took time to explain things to me lyk your younger Sister, thank you sir. I appreciate.
I never knew those things are that expensive, I know that photocopier and refrigerator are very expensive so I dint plan to buy new one but second hand.
Scanner-10, 000
Printer- 15, 000
Computer-20,000
Laptop-30,000
This was my calculation
I excluded Gen to save money because UNIBEN light is still 80% constant, if they sieze it, I will use my laptop to work and maybe print it smwerr else.
Thanks

Yes, I have been there. I believe in starting small, great things begin in small ways. I remembered how I walked to Afribank back in the days to deposit my share of the total earnings after several weeks of working. I got something around N19k. It was like a dream come true. I'm still doing business on freelance basis today and still do not have an office space. You can achieve a lot without necessarily investing too much on assets, rent and operation cost.

Sometime around 2014, someone called me from Nairaland and requested for a PowerPoint job (over 1000 slides) few days after I posted my pp services on Arts/Graphics section (with a different moniker though). The whole work was done in my family house in faraway Kogi state back then, while client called in somewhere in the southwest region. Around same period, I met with school heads to outsource their exam papers to me. It was so massive that I had to beg one of my cousins to help. I had since entered into my actual line of interest and still "starting small" without a physical office space. 400k may not come easily, how about doing something with 40k?

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Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 11:10am On May 20, 2017
blazer234:
. Looks like you need to read up about article writing. Do that and geta computer/ laptop and I can link you up to clients
Okay
Re: Please Help My Career And Education by LordHelpMe(f): 11:11am On May 20, 2017
Acidosis:


Yes, I have been there. I believe in starting small, great things begin in small ways. I remembered how I walked to Afribank back in the days to deposit my share of the total earnings after several weeks of working. I got something around N19k. It was like a dream come true. I'm still doing business on freelance basis today and still do not have an office space. You can achieve a lot without necessarily investing too much on assets, rent and operation cost.

Sometime around 2014, someone called me from Nairaland and requested for a PowerPoint job (over 1000 slides) few days after I posted my pp services on Arts/Graphics section (with a different moniker though). The whole work was done in my family house in faraway Kogi state back then, while client called in somewhere in the southwest region. Around same period, I met with school heads to outsource their exam papers to me. It was so massive that I had to beg one of my cousins to help. I had since entered into my actual line of interest and still "starting small" without a physical office space. 400k may not come easily, how about doing something with 40k?

Thanks. with your advice, I think the best thing to start with is Laptop but unlucky me don't even have the money to buy one.
With 40k, I think I can start from somewhere but believe me, even to feed is wahala, if I start working under somebody, the salary will be between 8-12k which can barely cover feeding and transport. There will be little or ntn left to save before admission

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