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Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by firstking01(m): 10:28am On May 20, 2017 |
When i saw the heading i knew it was gonna be an igbo girl...this is one thing i hate about em the igbos...they are extreme tribalists....as a southerner that i am i prefer doing things with a northerner, westerner or still my fellow southerners... SayNoToTribalism. 3 Likes |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by legitnow: 10:31am On May 20, 2017 |
Is it a crime to marry from your tribe? Wetin dey pursue yoruba men from their women? U hate Igbo, tell igbo dey will never rule Nigeria, support HausaFulani in killing of Igbo, Ur tribe man Awolowo dreamt up a plan that cost 3 million igbos their life, then ur entire tribes men want to marry from the same igbo. Una wan finish dem? 3 Likes |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by legitnow: 10:34am On May 20, 2017 |
firstking01: Wen i saw the heading, i knew it would be a yoruba biitch crying over the tribe they are most obsessed with in Nigeria. Go and marry ur own. Wen it comes to pussy and dick u scream tribalism but wen it comes to telling igbos they will never be allowed to rule Nigeria, u are content. Go and marry ur fellow Afonja and stop talking nonsense. #SayNoToAfonjaObsession 1 Like |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by eyinjuege: 10:36am On May 20, 2017 |
TimmyPapa: She has told you her fears and even her feelings. She's obviously going to listen to her family, as she says she understands their struggles over her. Please, let her go. Its a different thing if she's strong in her beliefs towards the love you both claim to have for each other. But she has second doubts and is not ready for the trouble she will have to face with her family. Go and look for your own wife. I say this because she would still leave you at the end of the day to marry her parent's choice. 1 Like |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by firstking01(m): 10:42am On May 20, 2017 |
legitnow:I don't even know what you are spewing…seems you are optically shortsighted abi 1 Like |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by letusbepieces: 10:45am On May 20, 2017 |
In this political climate, wen people are talking about Biafra and Hausa threatening thunder and brimestone, this one is crying over spilt milk. Yoruba are not in Igbo people best of Book and to be frank intertribal marriage is based on mutual friendship, cooperation and consent between tribe. Igbo and Yoruba are Enemy. Y do u want to marry ur enemy? 1 Like |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by luminouz(m): 10:47am On May 20, 2017 |
Oyindidi:N which tribe is DAT? Hope not Yoruba ooooo......coz I got my eye on U... |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by legitnow: 10:47am On May 20, 2017 |
firstking01: Marrying from ur tribe is the norm, intertribal or interracial is the exception, dont turn it on its head. 1 Like |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by luminouz(m): 10:49am On May 20, 2017 |
Oyindidi:.......
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Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by luminouz(m): 10:54am On May 20, 2017 |
legitnow:Ur a fool! Nobody hates u but most don't agree with ur attitude..... N u dare accuse awolowo? Who started d war by plotting d first ever coup in d country? It has been since then DAT nobody trusts u!!! Now get d fvck OUT 1 Like
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Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by legitnow: 10:55am On May 20, 2017 |
Intertribal marriages rarely last. Take data on majority same ethnic group marriages and intertribal marriages, u will see that the rate of divorce is far higher with intertribal marriages. There are few intertribal but record high level of divorce in comparison to the later. Even take celebrity sample, the rate of divorce in this marriages is very high.Tonto Dikeh, Monalisa Chinda Uche Iwuji to Juwon Lawal, divorced after baby. Monalisa Chinda to Segun Dejo Richards divorced after baby, Ngozi Nwosu, Stepnora Okere Stella damasus divorced after baby and Clarion Chukuwura used for baby by Shina Peter, used by Tunde Abiola and divorced and then Femi Odunaye and divorced. 2 Likes |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by legitnow: 10:56am On May 20, 2017 |
luminouz: Dude, u are talking to somebody that does not care about u one bit, we just want u guys to stop coming to disturb us in our house. #enoughisenough 1 Like |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by luminouz(m): 10:58am On May 20, 2017 |
legitnow:Why reply den tribalist? |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by TimmyPapa(m): 11:16am On May 20, 2017 |
I rembr in ma service year dir is dis igbo guy dat hated yoruba so much but y...nd it not as if d igbos lik demselvs |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by legitnow: 11:19am On May 20, 2017 |
TimmyPapa: A yoruba man telling us igbo dont like demselves, can u see y dey pursued u from their house before u infect their daughter with ur hatred? U think u have right to marry their daughter? Dey also have right to refuse. That is wat freedom entails. 1 Like |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by TimmyPapa(m): 11:24am On May 20, 2017 |
legitnow:In fact dis guy is d most hated in our lodge 2igbo guys were cookin together den.. he went nd brok dir relationhip...he fougt wit almost alll d corpers den.. |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by legitnow: 11:25am On May 20, 2017 |
TimmyPapa: For your info, i am yet to see a group that love each other as the igbo. They are the most united tribe in Nigeria. Their unity is perceived as a threat to other tribes in Nigeria that is y u hear things like igbo domination and a sadistic mofo open a thread to cry about being rejected. I feel ur pain. If u want to know a group that hate each other, it is Yoruba, that is y dey keep running t other tribes to beg marriage. Even their Ooni of Ife refused to marry a Yoruba. Their Oba are thugs and constantly at each other neck. U want to talk about like start from your tribe which u belong, dont jump into other tribes u know nothing about to talk nonsense. One yoruba king is a muslim, hating the Christian yoruba King. This is a reflection of yoruba society and their disdain for one another. Mere hand shake rejected. 2 Likes
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Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by TimmyPapa(m): 11:29am On May 20, 2017 |
legitnow:Massob or Ipob or niger delta. Wch 1 agree |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by legitnow: 11:30am On May 20, 2017 |
TimmyPapa: Fcuck u punk! Dont let me catch u crying like a biitch over a pussy dat dont belong to u again.
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Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by TimmyPapa(m): 11:34am On May 20, 2017 |
legitnow:See uu.. then tell ur gals to stop lovin us |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by legitnow: 11:49am On May 20, 2017 |
TimmyPapa: Are u alone in the lovin? Wat will the Whiteman, Edo and Hausa say about that? I bet u have no job and very poor? No wonder they pursued u. If it is exclusive sef, it is with us the Igbo men. Do u know how many of our women wait on us for marriage? If u were a woman, u would be called names like slag, slut, Ashawo. Do u know y? U are ready, willing and waiting, just about any woman with the igbo tag will activate the marriage button in ur Afonja head. Igbos have come to realize this. The only problem is after kids, u move on to the next, becos polygamy is deep in ur blood. Look, i will tell u any nonsense that i like here, becos u are an idiot as far as am concerned. |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by ariesbull: 12:24pm On May 20, 2017 |
TimmyPapa: Another Yoruba crying over Igbo 1 Like |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by Cherez: 3:51pm On May 20, 2017 |
vicmangs:@Timmy, I don't know everything. But I'm telling everybody willing to hear that if my family maltreats my wife, I AM 100% RESPONSIBLE FOR IT. how can my family come to my house and insult my wife? That person will receive thunder and brimstone from me. I'm an adult and my family's role is to advice and mine is to do and they should keep their boundaries. Thank GOD I have a great family |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by Nobody: 3:58pm On May 20, 2017 |
TimmyPapa:don't let what any one says get to you. It's ur happiness.. Fight for it... 1 Like |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by Cherez: 4:03pm On May 20, 2017 |
TimmyPapa:@TimmyPapa, it's like your still stuck on tribalism yourself. If you don't stop it, even the winds will work against you. You have to be true to what you want so GOD himself can work for you too. Hard to tell you the lady I am after is Yoruba. Listen, you must first love that girl, her family and her people (tribe), if not the marriage won't last. And this is why intertribal marriages don't last, "you love the lady but not her people". I live and work in the west and can bring up a 100 of this issue you brought up but I make the best of my future in-laws (if GOD helps me at last). Don't mind all these tribalists from both divide in nairaland here wasting their energy. I TRUE CHRISTIAN AND I "CANNOT" HATE ANYONE MADE BY GOD, TALK MORE SOMEONE FROM ANOTHER TRIBE I HAVE NEVER MET. TIMMY, stop being a tribalism yourself. That's my advice |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by TimmyPapa(m): 4:38pm On May 20, 2017 |
Cherez:See am nt bn tribalistic I am just proving to d guy that igbos r more tribalitic compared to yorubas |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by Nobody: 4:42pm On May 20, 2017 |
It's not you , it's that whole family. Marry someone who will contribute to the social,emotional and intellectual intelligence of your children not stifle it with archaic views on tribes and life in general. |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by swagguElite(m): 6:40pm On May 20, 2017 |
vicmangs:Bro! ...they will have no choice ... N if they decide to try any funny move ... I will cut relationship wit parents but will still be sending money for feeding ... As for my brothers ...we as like a blood army ...we all go in d same direction! ... My dad worked his way without any of his extended family support yet we ar surviving ... If he can do it!... What stops me from doing such! I just hate that statement of rejecting someone I strived to have as a wife for life! ... I know yu would say what of if my wife leaves me or our marriage doesn't work out well! Bro! ... I would rada die Dan crawl back n ask for deir forgiveness! ... I fight for wat I want n love! ... Am prepared to face the ThrillingConsequences of my Actions! ... It is either I stand or I die! ...I don't crawl ...I don't leap ...for any help! I will not choose a woman before my family but I will choose my life before my family ...Nd that's why I RecoilTheTriggerOfMyStand that My Wife is My Life! ...Nt a maidenOfTheOtherRoom! 1 Like |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by Cherez: 6:52pm On May 20, 2017 |
swagguElite: Guy you're a man, I am in love with these words of yours. This kind of mind is what we need in this country, TRUE PATRIOTS able to rise above sentiments and uphold Nigeria or what they truly believe in. Man, you be true ELITE. @Timmy, if you cannot statistically prove it with a good level of confidence then you might prolly be one of them here on nairaland. 2 Likes |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by TimmyPapa(m): 7:47pm On May 20, 2017 |
Cherez:Brother am taking my stand..... Even wen I first aske her out she said she has nevr dated a yoruba guy nd can nevr do it...buh now she's dwelling in d love |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by tifany89(m): 8:24pm On May 20, 2017 |
SEXONLY: This rubbish u call advice doesn't make sense one bit. So u can see into the future to know if sonething negative would happen to the marriage? Even people whom both parents agree cab face issues latter in the marriage. Op I can assure if u r tuelly serious den it's only a matter of time. Show seriousness by going with a male elder member of your family atleast. I v seen plenty of cases like this and in the end love prevailed. Hardly any Igbo family that u will go to now as a non Igbo dat they will accept u immediately. Igbos don't just marry the children but the both families. And your girl also has her role to play by making her patents realise u r a good person and the one for her. 1 Like |
Re: Am Helpless...is It A Crime To Marry From Another Tribe by swagguElite(m): 1:14am On May 21, 2017 |
Cherez:Yu overwhelm Me Wit ATintedBlushingOnThePedalsOfMyCheek! ... Thanks a lot ...my friend! 1 Like |
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