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My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by trentslawson(m): 8:23am On May 22, 2017 |
GUYS WHAT DO YOU SAY ABOUT THIS, IF YOUR GF HAS A MALE BEST FRIEND, HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT IT?? I WANT YOUR OPINIONS
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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by McBrooklyn(m): 8:35am On May 22, 2017 |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by trentslawson(m): 8:50am On May 22, 2017 |
McBrooklyn: mehn it sounds weird to me o, I don't know how to come about it, I'm so confused right now McBrooklyn: mehn it sounds weird to me o, I don't know how to come about it, I'm so confused right now |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by McBrooklyn(m): 8:51am On May 22, 2017 |
trentslawson: LOL, you ever try talking to her about it?? |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by ikp120(m): 8:53am On May 22, 2017 |
But how is that picture you attached related to the topic and write up? 2 Likes
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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by trentslawson(m): 8:59am On May 22, 2017 |
McBrooklyn: McBrooklyn: I'm looking forward to that, but I don't want to give her a false impression that I don't trust her, but na the guy I no fit trust lol. how will I tell her without her thinking I'm jealous but the fact is I'm scared o |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by trentslawson(m): 9:01am On May 22, 2017 |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by McBrooklyn(m): 9:02am On May 22, 2017 |
trentslawson: Oh boy, you be guy now... You sef go get yourself a female bestie and let's see how it goes now... 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by Saintinoo(m): 9:09am On May 22, 2017 |
OP go and get best female friend |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by trentslawson(m): 9:12am On May 22, 2017 |
McBrooklyn: lol thanks bro, I'll give it a try 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by ikp120(m): 9:13am On May 22, 2017 |
trentslawson:Lol. I go simply kuku go get my own female bestie #BumperToBumper #NoDulling Hehehehehe 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by Nobody: 9:17am On May 22, 2017 |
There is absolutely nothing wrong in that, just make sure her best friend is also ur friend so that you can understand them better and trust ur gf. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by Nobody: 9:25am On May 22, 2017 |
Everything is wrong with it my broda... That her pussy eeh, hmmm...make I no talk cos I have seen things in this life! trentslawson: 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by McBrooklyn(m): 9:27am On May 22, 2017 |
MzEddytan: Wow, God bless you for this your comment ma'am... This idea be sense making AF cc: trentslawson 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by trentslawson(m): 10:00am On May 22, 2017 |
McBrooklyn: Mehn the worst part be say she dey use the guy pic as her profile pic, but I need to ask fast |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by trentslawson(m): 10:32am On May 22, 2017 |
MzEddytan: thanks my lady, for your advice I truly appreciate it 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by SmellingAnus(m): 11:03am On May 22, 2017 |
Shareholder things on point 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by McBrooklyn(m): 12:22pm On May 22, 2017 |
trentslawson: Mehn, which kind girlfriend be that one now?? You sef go dey find numerous ladies picture dey use am as DP... If she no turn up, then go find another babe... Simple!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by trentslawson(m): 12:48pm On May 22, 2017 |
McBrooklyn: real talk bro, you be correct guy. McBrooklyn: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by Nobody: 1:28pm On May 22, 2017 |
trentslawson: Oga its not a bad thing for a lady to have a male bestie...from experience, I notice chics that have male besties reason better... But the thing get disadvantage ooo... 1) ur babe go sharp gaaan, before u make one Coded womanizing move...she go don decode you...(the reason is simple...she's got a guy probably a womanizer like u as her paddii who will be on her side advising her) 2) Sometimes ...not everytime oooo...they could have love for each other but has been hidden over time cos the guy ddnt make a move and the chic too ddnt want to spoil the friendship by asking the bestie guy out. All in all, just be cool..its really no biggie, but if it's making you too jealous and uncomfortable..maybe she talks about him too much and visits him more than normal...u gats tell her about it and also get a close female friend too(correct slay queen)...if it doesn't bother ur girlfriend at all dat u have a slay queen as a friend.... my friend bone story... u are going to be dropped anytime soon cos she's just waiting for her bestie to ask her out... my opinion though 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by baZOOKer: 1:34pm On May 22, 2017 |
Used to fuckkk my bestie tat had a bf |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by laplace19(m): 3:06pm On May 22, 2017 |
trentslawson: .... I am a graduate and was dating this undergraduate girl with both of us staying in different states. Most times she will upload a pic she took with her male bestfriend on whatsapp. I asked her about the guy and she said he's her coursemate, that the guy helps her out during exams and in some assignments. Sometimes if I call her she will tell me she's in her bestfriend's lodge. I always ignore cause I know the relationship will not end in marriage and I hardly get jealous over this things. She started complaining that I don't call her everyday (of course, I don't ) and she does not get to see me at least twice in a week.... that if I truly love her that I should atleast try and be calling her everyday( my voice soft shaa )....... I told her I can't do that because at this stage in my life I've many things going on in my head that I need to put in order. Sometimes, after site supervision I get weak and once I come back home the next is to sleep or start drawing a plan for client on my laptop. However, it's not just my character calling my girlfriend everyday no matter how much I love her. I told her this is the part she cannot change about me...(She will be crying on phone when I'm telling her all this)..... I love her to some extent so I advised her to end the relationship since I can't cope with calling her everyday and won't want her to be complaining and crying over it anytime we talk on phone... (seriously, it was much, we will talk on phone for like 18mins and 15mins out of it will be for her complains, crying and me begging ). I suggested she might consider her male bestfriend since she will get to be seeing him everyday in lecture halls and even be calling her everyday since it appears he has more time at hand to be doing all that than me. Before all this, I told her that she (as pretty as she is...) can't have a guy as a bestfriend when this same guy has no current girlfriend. There's no way he will not be emotionally connected to her and must have wooed her as well. She stylishly denied all that... After I broke up with her (cos I initiated it...that day she was in this her male bestfriend's room. She was crying on phone and the young man was consoling her...lolz). I even asked her to give the guy phone so I can talk to him.... I advised the young man to always make her happy since as a guy I understand he might have some feelings for her....lol).... After some weeks, I came to Owerri to submit drawing plans I prepared for a client then I called to inform her that I'm in Owerri. She told me she's around. ...visited and met she and the male bestfriend doing clean-up in her room...lol.... As the boss, I asked her to bring a chair outside and get me a chilled water....after that I exchanged greetings with the guy and was like....Chris (not his real name) hope you're treating her right?...he said "yes boss".... I chuckled... So currently, they are now dating. @Op...All I can say is, if your girlfriend is pretty there's no way the male bestfriend won't be emotionally connected to her and as time goes on she might find a reason to start dating the bestfriend. Don't forget that if there's any squabble between both of you, her male bestfriend will be the first person she will tell for an advice. However, she might be ill-advised by the same bestfriend to have an advantage over you. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by trentslawson(m): 3:19pm On May 22, 2017 |
laplace19: maybe I should just cut off the relationship to avoid stories that touch, that kind feeling of someone bleeping your gf, I need to get that out of my head with all this drama, if I start typing all those things she post on her Facebook concerning her male bestfriend omehn it's too much to bear, I'm too young for heart attack abeg, but thanks man. |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by trentslawson(m): 3:20pm On May 22, 2017 |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by laplace19(m): 3:23pm On May 22, 2017 |
trentslawson: Lol... As for me, I hate people playing on my intelligence so I cut off anything that looks like such. Primary reason why I ended the relationship. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by baZOOKer: 8:14pm On May 22, 2017 |
trentslawson:why egbon |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Male Bestfriend by HARDDON: 8:18pm On May 22, 2017 |
Only Weakings wud let that U r d ceremonial BoyFriend while d Best Friend is d real deal |
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