Hey guys...So I want to seek your opinion as regard my love journey with a beautiful babe, and I will make it short and precise as much as possible.
Anyway, I have this babe I really love so much and we have been together for close to 1yr now. Basically, I will say we have been best of friends since we met and casually, we have s*x even till now. But overtime, I developed some feelings for which I made her aware of. So to cut long story short, whenever I tried asking her out for a date or hangout or nice treat, she often refuse my request basing her refusal on my financial incapabilities as she cant stand me being broke knowing she was part of the reasons. Truth be told, I dont earn much and I basically provides for my family as well but this shouldnt in anyway affect my occasional outings with her in my opinion.
But what I find amusing is the fact that she is willing to go out with other guys she refer to as her friends and I asked her why she would go out with them and not with me, even when she doesnt know their financial status. but in her own words, she replies "I dont care about their financial status, I just want to have fun and I dont have any feelings for them".
So this has really got me thinking guys...

What do you guys think about

I think she has your interest at heart. She's saving yours while squandering that of the guys she isn't interested in.

kimbra:
I think she has your interest at heart. She's saving yours while squandering that of the guys she isn't interested in.

may be you are right but it hurts me when I see her do such even when I am willing to sacrifice on my part

An olosho in the making!


My nigga, I command you to delete everything about that girl for your own good!

That's the type of lady that will NEVER commit to any relationship.

I repeat, delete her ASAP!

lanzar:


may be you are right but it hurts me when I see her do such even when I am willing to sacrifice on my part

If she was demanding you would have complained. She knows what she's doing I think.

Dude she is not ready to be trap in any relationship. D early for u d better.

.....she goes out with other guys!

Haha. She's not into you

Instead of u to focus on improving urself financially ur worrying about a girl who's probably fuccking another guy.. Some guys sha.

ikp120:
An olosho in the making!


My nigga, I command you to delete everything about that girl for your own good!

That's the type of lady that will NEVER commit to any relationship.

I repeat, delete her ASAP!

But as a friend nko?

DLondonboiy:
.....she goes out with other guys!

She even tell me in advance before she goes and nothing I van say to disuade her will stop her from going

Chrisrare:
Instead of u to focus on improving urself financially ur worrying about a girl who's probably fuccking another guy.. Some guys sha.

of course I am working hard to be sucessful but that doesnt mean I shouldnt have flings along the way

Since she's giving u the pvssy, why are u weary over a yes answer frm her


Many boiz have got a YES from girls buh ordinary pant dem no see, let alone enter workshop

you see handwriting you kon dey ask shey na spanish ilu-oke

How i take sure no be ogechi you dey talk about

I don't know the exact advice to give you. you said you guys have sex even till now, she refuses to go out with you,but go out with other guys and call them as friend.
bros even you is confusing yourself, the babe doesn't see anything bad in sleeping with you and refuse to go out with you but go out with other guys and tell you that they are just friends that she just want to have fun.
This is 2017 if you no wise this year, then I can't help you.

Free Spirit!

Don't push it, Bro. Nurse your hurt and keep your feelings at bay.

Babe issa free spirit!

OLAJADON:
I don't know the exact advice to give you. you said you guys have sex even till now, she refuses to go out with you,but go out with other guys and call them as friend.
bros even you is confusing yourself, the babe doesn't see anything bad in sleeping with you and refuse to go out with you but go out with other guys and tell you that they are just friends that she just want to have fun.
This is 2017 if you no wise this year, then I can't help you.

Hmmm, your contribution is duly noted!

lanzar:


She even tell me in advance before she goes and nothing I van say to disuade her will stop her from going

Get yourself a serious girl...The girl ain't serious. Pussy is not everything..

And becareful the way you dey chop pussy before she gives you STd.

kimbra:
I think she has your interest at heart. She's saving yours while squandering that of the guys she isn't interested in.

the simple word for the definition of that girl is free spirit, she doesn't have his interest at heart, she is only having fun which she thinks will last forever without facing the reality of life

2dice01:
you see handwriting you kon dey ask shey na spanish ilu-oke


How i take sure no be ogechi you dey talk about

e be like say ogechi dey do u sametin but unfortunate, dis 1 na different bae

kimbra:
I think she has your interest at heart. She's saving yours while squandering that of the guys she isn't interested in.

This must be from experience. Op, kimbra has cleared your confusion.

Why can't you pay for the sex you always get?

my dear op just be careful and be on the alert..

lanzar:


But as a friend nko?

Can't you see that the girl is in love with you? She's basically trying to have her cake and eat it.

She doesn't want to commit to a relationship with you. You will only end up hurting yourself bro.

I can show you an easy way to get her to say YES, but you WILL regret ever dating her. You WILL NOT be able to trust her.

I had a friend like that, then dated her and we broke up in less than a week!

Bro steer clear!

OLAJADON:

the simple word for the definition of that girl is free spirit, she doesn't have his interest at heart, she is only having fun which she thinks will last forever without facing the reality of life

na my concern be that o.,, how person go get my Interest at heart and still dey waka about!

Splinz:


This must be from experience. Op, ki.mbra has cleared your confusion.

Not really. I don't eat what would purge me later.

OLAJADON:

the simple word for the definition of that girl is free spirit, she doesn't have his interest at heart, she is only having fun which she thinks will last forever without facing the reality of life

She does have his interest. She's flirting with the other guys while her main guy is for keeps. Don't forget she doesn't touch his money 'cause she understands his predicament and reasons with him while those she doesn't care about are the ones she let spend on her.

ikp120:
Can't you see that the girl is in love with you? She basically trying to have her cake and eat it.

She doesn't want to commit to a relationship with you. You will only end up hurting yourself bro.

like you know how I am feeling.., it hurt mehn!

Gpopsicle:
my dear op just be careful and be on the alert..

I am trying to be careful o...thanks!

kimbra:
Not really. I don't eat what would purge me later.

That's wisdom.

ekensi01:
Why can't you pay for the sex you always get?

bro, she aint a call girl...!

lanzar:


na my concern be that o.,, how person go get my Interest at heart and still dey waka about!

Thank God you get the message am communicating.
the truth is either you like it or not she is loose, let her have her fun now don't worry when she reach 35 without a commited guy she will learn.
back then in school one of my friend usually call this kind of girl "animashaun".