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My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by HardMirror(m): 6:00pm On May 23, 2017 |
I need matured contributions please. I have a 6 year old cousin who came back from school yesterday only to start talking and singing about being in love with a boy in her class. She even made statements about how she likes when he touches her. It is a shock to me. Her mum spanked her and warned her sternly to keep away from the boy with some threats. I strongly disagree this is the best way to handle the situation as it may only make the Gilmore discrete as she grows older. Is there any parent having the same challenge here and what did you do. Seun lalasticlala, mynd44 |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by divinesaint: 6:02pm On May 23, 2017 |
just be close to her so that she can confide in u...but dont encourage her.... |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by Feranchek(m): 6:10pm On May 23, 2017 |
eleyi gidi gan o0o! Exposing these 'kids' to Telemundo and the likes is a great danger to their morality. There's time for everything. Gone are the days when parents chase their kids to the room while watching these TV programmes. Well, as for your cousin, biko don't spank her. Tell her what's right and wrong. Ask her everyday about the boy so you can be updated on what's going on. And please, it's never too late to stop her from immoral TV shows. 3 Likes |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by MChoc24(f): 6:11pm On May 23, 2017 |
I guess you want her to like girls 1 Like |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by Khd95(m): 6:13pm On May 23, 2017 |
ahhhh this matter pass me ooo,Oga smellymouth,u ve been summoned by the elders,appear asap ![]() |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by HardMirror(m): 6:13pm On May 23, 2017 |
divinesaint:Absolutely. Thankx |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by HardMirror(m): 6:15pm On May 23, 2017 |
MChoc24:When you have a six year old daughter saying she likes the way a boy touches her, old encourage her. Read my opinion, I only asked for contribution from natured people not kids 2 Likes |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by Feranchek(m): 6:18pm On May 23, 2017 |
MChoc24:really? So she should 'fall in love' at this age! Twale for you o0! |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by MChoc24(f): 6:19pm On May 23, 2017 |
Not my fault your child is over sexualized. Maybe you should find out if her dad is touching her that should be your first concern or are you just a neglectful mother who lets her watch,listen and hang around any and everything 2 Likes |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by Feranchek(m): 6:21pm On May 23, 2017 |
HardMirror: nna ehn! The babe matter tire me o0o! |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by HardMirror(m): 6:30pm On May 23, 2017 |
MChoc24:Some girls can be so daft. Where did u get the indication that I am her mother? And since you know it is not your fault or business, why are you even commenting on the topic. I think you should be more concerned on the small boys you posed your snapchat ID for ![]() ![]() 11 Likes |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by HardMirror(m): 6:31pm On May 23, 2017 |
Mimzzy any contribution? |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by kayzat: 6:31pm On May 23, 2017 |
MChoc24: shikini sense like this you no get. 10 Likes |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by kristonium(m): 6:34pm On May 23, 2017 |
The child's mind need urgent reprogramming! |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by pweeryambre: 6:37pm On May 23, 2017 |
HardMirror:lol...wow |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by lepasharon(f): 6:37pm On May 23, 2017 |
It's normal. Don't you remember having a bf/gf in primary school, but not in the sense that we know as adults. |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by HardMirror(m): 6:38pm On May 23, 2017 |
kristonium:honestly I blame all these useless cartoons they watch. Most are filled with adult content but because they are animated, we overlook the suggestive messages in them. Just take time to watch the children cartoons they enjoy and you will see that 9 in 10 has depicts the cliche boy meets girl of hollywood |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by HardMirror(m): 6:40pm On May 23, 2017 |
lepasharon:I agree but it is troubling for a six year old to be singing of how she loves the way a boy touches her. Natural to love even from that age |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by HardMirror(m): 6:44pm On May 23, 2017 |
pweeryambre:Hello dear. So what is your suggestion or experience |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by pweeryambre: 6:44pm On May 23, 2017 |
the mum did not need to spank her... the child simply has a faster mental development than her age mates and is becoming aware of different human feelings but unfortunately she cannot explore this one because she's too young to understand it...I'm sure she's Innocent if not she wouldn't have told anyone about it. the mum should just manage her by trying to answer any of her questions and teach as simple as possible why it is wrong to feel such at a tender age and not scare her in a way that will damage her psych about boys. 4 Likes |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by HardMirror(m): 6:49pm On May 23, 2017 |
pweeryambre:Truth be told I had feelings for ladies even from a very young age like her, but they were thoughts that I never dared explore. I opened this thread not because the girl did anything wrong but I feel a lot of parent are having this challenge and mismanaging the situation. Thanks for your input 1 Like |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by MChoc24(f): 6:59pm On May 23, 2017 |
Ok so why is your weird ass posting about someone else's child why you so concerned if you not raising them and why you so obsessed with my poom poom to be all on my profile you want some ? But you too broke huh? Don't come for me .. don't post stuff if you can't take others opinions life isn't sweet and don't care about you |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by Cuddlebugie(f): 7:01pm On May 23, 2017 |
A teenager at 6? That girl's brain has a MASSIVE growth spurt...........Since she's only a child in body, she needs to be educated and not spanked/yelled at. She should be given sex education by her MOM, not her classteacher 2 Likes |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by MChoc24(f): 7:06pm On May 23, 2017 |
@kayzat I only understand correct English |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by pinkpant: 7:14pm On May 23, 2017 |
MChoc24:madam what is wrong with you |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by mrmrmister: 7:28pm On May 23, 2017 |
MChoc24: Shut the bloody hell up! |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by hahn(m): 3:39pm On May 24, 2017 |
HardMirror: I was already playing mummy and daddy at that age. Lol What you should do simply is educate her. Question her feelings. Does the boy love her too? Have they kissed? What has he said to her exactly? How far have they gone when it comes to touching Kids will always explore and try to replicate what they see happening around them. Tell her about why it is not right for her to indulge such feelings at her age. Show her the parts of her body she should not allow anyone else but herself touch. Help her understand what is right and wrong. A lot happens when kids are not in the presence of their parents. At the end of the day, the only thing that can help them is the knowledge you have imparted in them. If you are too harsh she will only withdraw and start keeping secrets Education is the key 1 Like |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by CAPSLOCKED: 5:50pm On May 24, 2017 |
HardMirror: WELL FOR ME I THINK SEX EDUCATION SHOULD BE INTRODUCED AT A VERY YOUNG STAGE, OR THE INSTANT MOMENT WHEN YOU NOTICE ANYTHING UNUSUAL WITH THE KIDS. TRYING TO SCOLD OR BEAT THEM OUT OF IT WILL GET EVERYTHING TWISTED. |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by makydebbie(f): 6:03pm On May 24, 2017 |
Feranchek:Exactly! Parents should be aware of the kind of programs their kids watch. Telemundo promotes immorality. And the stupid soap operas has nothing educative to teach. Only the same good old bullish! t that Paloma loves deigo and there's this rival that wants the protagonist and vice versa. Op, just be close to your cousin and get updated on what's happening. Don't scold her, you'll make things worse, and don't forget to teach her about sex education. It's not too early. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by Feranchek(m): 6:08pm On May 24, 2017 |
makydebbie: Nothing catchy anymore just different names and face. Frankly speaking, they're worse than this year's BBNaija 1 Like |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by makydebbie(f): 6:25pm On May 24, 2017 |
Feranchek:Sure they're. |
Re: My 6year Old Cousin Has A Crush On A Boy In School. What Should Be Done? by Nobody: 9:00am On May 28, 2017 |
You're one to talk. Didn't y'all do worse as kids? I know I did. The best thing you can do in this case is not leave them unattended for too long. Kids do the darndest things(mummy and daddy). Not like she can get pregnant anyways. Just you wait until they're in their teens... |
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