AbujaLover:


You get it sis, you get it. I do think of things like our children, praying together and stuffs like that. I've actually tried 'moving on', but I just can't. I've tried cutting contact from her, but it didnot work. It's just like torture, everyday torture.

AworiLagosian:
I pity you.

Only Yoruba Muslims and Christians are somewhat free to intermarry.

The others... NO GO AREA.

jimcoservices:
If she a Yoruba Muslim, no issue but if the other way round, guy ur death is near

DOUBLEWAHALA:
Y'all sounding like u gave a fvck

Hw dos it concern me wen d trouble looms

AbujaLover:


You get it sis, you get it. I do think of things like our children, praying together and stuffs like that. I've actually tried 'moving on', but I just can't. I've tried cutting contact from her, but it didnot work. It's just like torture, everyday torture.

AbujaLover:


You get it bro, it's like torture. My fear actually is how will it work? I guess, We are going to have clashes in philosophies due to differences in religion. We are both attached to our religions, but I'm surprised I can't obey the law that "do not be unevenly attached to unbelievers". Love trully has no boundaries, if we are to be sincere with ourselves.

Thanks for your reply..I really appreciate it.

AbujaLover:


Actually, we are yorubas.

luckyz4rea:


If your Bible not religion means anything to you you'll not go or do anything contrary to it. Whatever reduces or will reduce you to what you are not or should not be, desist from it with immediate effect!

Don't let impulsive feelings get the best of you as it did to Adam and he went against what he was warned not to do, unless of course you want to be like Adam! I know you wouldn't want to be like him so do the right thing - follow the Truth

AbujaLover:




Actually, we are yorubas.

oscaruzie:


...and you had to call her an unbeliever...religion has done a lot of harm, blinded us, put us against brothers and sisters, even dearly loved ones. things like this atheists see and laugh at us 'believers'. God is Love. Allah is Love (at least that's what they say and we wanna believe). so bros, na your hand e dey. e go be later.

truthstands11:
If you seriously want to serve God in truth and in spirit and end up in His kingdom, you have to let this feeling go. The two religions are completely opposite to each other. Bible says for a man shall leave father and mother and be joined to his wife and both of them shall become one flesh. Muslims don't believe that Jesus Christ is their personal Lord and saviour. You cannot make heaven without accepting Jesus Christ. So, stay clear and pray for such feelings to ho off your mind if you are truly a child of God. Two of you cannot be compatible at all. How will you pray at home if you marry her? In the name of who will you end the prayers? My dear, to be factual, it won't work.

AbujaLover:


You get it bro, it's like torture. My fear actually is how will it work? I guess, We are going to have clashes in philosophies due to differences in religion. We are both attached to our religions, but I'm surprised I can't obey the law that "do not be unevenly attached to unbelievers". Love trully has no boundaries, if we are to be sincere with ourselves.

Thanks for your reply..I really appreciate it.

ImaIma1:
Hmmm...well in your case you are the guy snd she might end up becoming a Christian. But if she doesn't, there will be differences and clashed. Love is not enough to sustain a marriage. So you have to project fivd yrs down the line...ten years... . I was in love with a muslim guy at one point abd I saw in him a lot of things i wanted in a husband. But i thought about a lot of things like how would we bring up the children...will they be torn between being Christian or Muslim...would my husband and I be able to pray together...etc. and i knew i was never going to convert and so I moved on.
The moral of my story...weigh all the options before making ur decision.

begwong:

You are good to go bro.We had a yoruba muslim that married the daughter of a yoruba bishop and theyare living happily.They both celebrate all festive seasons with their kids,its left for the kids to choose which religion when they finally become self dependant.BUT IF NA FULANI OR HAUSA,they will slaughter you alive ooo

KingEbukasBlog:
A lot of reasonable people will tell you that it is proper that people who do not share the same religious beliefs should not get married because of the expected collieries we have witnessed . But there are instances like Mark Zuckerberg (practicing Jew) and his wife Priscilla Chan (Buddhist) and I've got two friends who have Muslim dads and Christian moms - we can see from these instances that the foundation of those marriages is built on love . Love begets religious tolerance and precludes religious bigotry .

But as a Christian do you think you handle the downside of that ? Consider your spiritual growth as a family . And your kids . Which religion will they belong to ? Mum's or dad's ? Or will you give them the freedom to choose theirs ? My friend goes to both Church and the Mosque - can you handle this level of confusion ? And of course , the heated arguments that'd ensue because of your religious differences . People can be very passionate about their religious beliefs . What about religious holidays ? Would you be comfortable with your spouse's religious holiday celebrations ? Would you join her to celebrate ? What if you don't? Can you handle her repulsive reactions and the awkward moments ?

livinbygrace:
I wont discourage you but you should be ready for both physical and spiritual attack from her family and their Alfas .They dont let go easily and will surely fight you spiritually.I am talking from experience.