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Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by ip2121918021(m): 1:04pm On May 24, 2017 |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by TwoBottles: 1:06pm On May 24, 2017 |
Don't be like "Smokie" who lived next door to Alice for 24yrs and couldn't tell her his feelings towards her. Man up! |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 1:06pm On May 24, 2017 |
Bros find a way to take off, this is a life time commitment, it is not a joke. With this religion issue, you are bound to lose out. Find another woman that will love you, there are everywhere if and only if you look very well. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by jonbellion(m): 1:09pm On May 24, 2017 |
I don't see a problem with it. Tolerance is the key My cousin has a muslim mum and christian dad and they have no problems. They celebrate both Christmas and the eid holidays Well my cousin....err I wouldn't say I know her religious affiliation she's indifferent towards the whole thing I guess ![]() But that's the problem all these dumb ideologies have a way of dividing people. That's why I'm not a fan of religion. It divides more than it unites. There is really no barrier if you like her then go for it man. On the issue of kids you are supposed to make them come of age before they decide sensitive things like this. Don't force this shit into them at a young age. Sure they go to church or the mosque if they like but a child is not a christian child or a muslim child because a child is not mature enough to decide on desicions like that. A child is s child. When they old enough to weigh the options they will decide and whatever they decide you should let them be. I'm not religious but if my child is later on I wont mind so far the desicion was made by his/her self ![]() |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by KingEbukasBlog(m): 1:10pm On May 24, 2017 |
jonbellion: Atheism has so many ways of diving people . Look at North Korea ! ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by udoh2k: 1:12pm On May 24, 2017 |
Bros, this is not true love. True love does not torture. True love does not take all part of you, but gives you allowance (allowance to reason, allowance to stay apart for a while without feeling that you have missed too much). This is emotion that makes people kill themselves, pour acid, take poison etc when one partner 'disappoints'. This is the type of 'love' that breaks heart. This type of emotion dies slowly after s3x. My argument is not about religion but the "pressure from within you". It's not real. However,if you are a Christian, the injunctions are crystal clear to guide you. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by jonbellion(m): 1:12pm On May 24, 2017 |
KingEbukasBlog:that's what you know you seem to really love that country You better move to north Korea Your fatherland ![]() |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by luckyz4rea(m): 1:13pm On May 24, 2017 |
ivolt: I knew comments from people like you will surface no matter how much one tries to teach about morals that you mentioned but aren't living by. My comment and yours which is moral? Mr morality! |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by just2endowed: 1:13pm On May 24, 2017 |
Keneking: Lol coz Nigeria is like nairaland and Seun hit the big shot. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by AbujaLover: 1:14pm On May 24, 2017 |
charlesluthor: Thanks bro, that"s wat I plan to do. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by ImaIma1(f): 1:19pm On May 24, 2017 |
AbujaLover: The love "shacking" both of you will mellow when push comes to shove. You really need to use your head as well as your heart. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by tunde82seidat(f): 1:21pm On May 24, 2017 |
Jiang:Myopic.v seen many that worked..Fashola is a Muslim n wife xtian 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by luckyz4rea(m): 1:22pm On May 24, 2017 |
ivolt: I knew comments from people like you will surface no matter how much one tries to teach about morals as you have mentioned but indicted by it. I will not castigate you because your comment is limited to your knowledge! Check all my comments on Nairaland since i joined till now, you'll NEVER see a divisisive one as you have wrongly alleged! |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by zoedicus: 1:25pm On May 24, 2017 |
AbujaLover: Tell her and let her know what's in stock. If he agrees, you both will work on modalities for relationship. But let your own parents and her parents know from the start.. . |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by tosyne2much(m): 1:35pm On May 24, 2017 |
luscioustrish:Nice one jawe 1 Like
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Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 1:38pm On May 24, 2017 |
just convert to islam...the rest will be easy 1 Like
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Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by translux(m): 1:40pm On May 24, 2017 |
Let me tell you a story about myself, when I was in Iaspotech back then rounding up my HND, I had 2 girl friends, one is christian, the other Muslim, I love the christian so much because I know her first, we had misunderstanding before I started dating the Muslim lady, I have decided that I will get married to the christian lady because I am a christian but every week there must be misunderstanding between me and my christian lady, we dated for six years but I can tell you that that six years was like hell with the one I have choosed for marriage until one day, I went to my Christian lady house and discovered how she was rude to people just the same way she was rude to me and I thought within myself that I will have problems if I continue with my christian lady, my Muslim Lady on the other hand was a gentle lady, very humble and respectful, I have never quarrel or argue over any issue for 5 years but I was looking her religion then as an hindrance, so I decided to pray a lot, I pray like never before, then I began to consider her as my wife and that was how we got married, and on our wedding day I make sure that I paid her bride price in double with very big yams and others so her parent will know that she is no longer theirs because automatically she is changing her religion to Christianity, my wife is a prayer warrior in mountain of fire and I am an evangelist, I thank God for the woman I married because God has really blessed me in wealth and riches and wonderful children and peace from my wonderful wife, religion is not a barrier pray that God should give you your own wifey 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 1:43pm On May 24, 2017 |
AbujaLover: Next time you have a conversation with your prospective father-in-law, try and psych the man to know his religious views. If he is the liberal type, go ahead and let your girl know your feelings. If he is the conservative type, you will climb a mountain to pull this one. The major problem I see here is the Dad |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 1:47pm On May 24, 2017 |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by tosyne2much(m): 1:48pm On May 24, 2017 |
OP, I will advise you cut loose from the relationship because I can see you're the religious type It's obvious you can't subscribe to her religion (islam) and I trust her dad also won't allow her subscribe to your own religion (an Alhaji for that matter) The truth if the matter is that, if both of you agree, her father has the autonomous decision that supercedes the decision of both of you whether to give her daughter out to you in marriage. (remember an average Alhaji is a religious bigot) The only thing you can do in order not to go into a fruitless relationship is to tell her to whine her dad if he would he give her out to a Christian. He father's perception is all you need in this relationship if you don't want to waste your time 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 1:49pm On May 24, 2017 |
Change to muslim and marry her, stop advertising your lust for hooded babes. ![]() |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by truthstands11: 1:50pm On May 24, 2017 |
ollah1: Don't talk back at me. You have the right to state your opinion and back it up with facts. I just stated the obvious. Marriage is built on God and on whose name will they end their prayers? Muslims and Christians can walk along in classrooms as classmates but not as husband and wife. Read my post with conscience and you'll know I'm saying nothing but the truth. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Omotayor123(f): 1:52pm On May 24, 2017 |
AbujaLover:I have seen countless couple with different religion that live well & happy. so far there is understanding and tolerance. if none of you can't sacrifice your religion for love, just make sure you can tolerate each other. The children will grow through it and decide. my best friend is a typical example. Don't let religion Robb you of your love. You can regret it for life. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by VicMadich88(m): 1:56pm On May 24, 2017 |
luckyz4rea:But does the Bible say..If you are Christian you cnt love or marry anyone out of ur religion? If its there in the bible, pls quote it for us oo? |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by trinity11(m): 1:56pm On May 24, 2017 |
What is the big deal? bros talk, talk, just talk to her and let her say yes first, you will be a bit relief, after that sacrifice will be discussed and agreement made. love has no religion even though this case is very sensitive one. go for it man and see if the fire is burning inside her as well, who knows they say ladies go extra miles when they are in love, she might actually surprise you. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by technicallyrich(m): 2:00pm On May 24, 2017 |
You are a yoruba boy.i know these because your cowardice stinks from afar.so you can't even talk in the presence of an hausa girl and tell her how you fell.if it's fulani men now I know that it is normal for you to be afraid because they are your masters. My advice is for you to go to ibadan and pick up one dirty girl there Atleast you can talk since you and her are yorubas. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by demarc001: 2:01pm On May 24, 2017 |
AbujaLover:Wrong step, don't start what you are not set to finish. Taking the step will get you more entangled and you won't think straight when deciding. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by truthstands11: 2:03pm On May 24, 2017 |
translux: Every situation is not the same. There were two thieves on the cross. One made heaven at a glance while the other lost it. Salvation of your soul is more important than marriage. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by tosyne2much(m): 2:04pm On May 24, 2017 |
Omotayor123:You're still missing it.. What if the lady's father doesn't accept? Remember he's the one that has the final say here (their own decision and marriage plan is just child's play) What's the essence of dating a lady for three years and her father disqualifies you on the ground of difference in religion. isn't it better if he knows from this preliminary stage if her father can give her out to a Christian or not? 1 Like 1 Share |
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