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Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by taiyeayodeji: 4:20pm On May 24, 2017 |
hmm, i would advice you to face reality.marriage is a life time decision even thou the present day world have a custom of divorce.Who you marry really matters and there are billions of ladies out there.How far you go in life is determined by who you choose to marry.Ladies are complex and so also are guys.As a guy, there are possibilities of falling in love with several ladies when you get in contact with them.I would say from experience that for marriage , LOVE is not everything, our feelings may deceive us..But you need Gods guidance in all you do as a christian,its not a decision a friend can take for you , neither your pastor can make it for you.if i would advice you, you need to sit the lady down and ask her view on religion.I must say that the best is for you guys to reach an agreement, one has to submit to another.As a man, what kind of religion do you want your kids to practice ,xtianity or Islam.You cant be in between.But know that women have great influence from their mum.Would their um agree to allow them go to church or would you be happy to let them go to mosque.i must say that don't be deceived by those saying love is everything.LOVE sometimes get cold and beauty is not even everything, even humans change based on situation. life is a battle ground and the kind of support you get from your wife matters, sometimes in life, there are attacks, can your wife sustain you when you are weak or down on the field. Once again, i cant decide for you on who to marry or not, the down fall of a man begins with a woman.marrying a wrong woman can set you back by ten years or move you forward at a supersonic speed.just my view.NB FORGET WHAT COUPLES DISPLAY OUTSIDE,some families display to the outside world that they are happy, but do you know what goes on inside their home,with the kids.Yeah some who give you examples of christians who married moslems and are happy.Do you know what they are enduring inside, i dont know the level of your christianity and also the level of her islam.But no strong xtian will marry a moslem and no strong moslem will marry a xtian. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by amolak: 4:21pm On May 24, 2017 |
banky23:Marry a muslim lady is easier to make her convert because there is nothing new you want to teach her about christianity, just go to church clap and dance |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by AbujaLover: 4:21pm On May 24, 2017 |
Omotayor123:Thanks ma 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Princeboca12(m): 4:22pm On May 24, 2017 |
AbujaLover: Bro remember the case of Samson and Delilah.. Use ur head bro before u lose ur two eyes |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by AbujaLover: 4:23pm On May 24, 2017 |
technicallyrich: We are both yorubas. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by AbujaLover: 4:25pm On May 24, 2017 |
bolargeez: Thanks for this. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by doctorbabs(m): 4:38pm On May 24, 2017 |
WHY DO U WANT TO MARRY DAUGHTER OF "TERRORIST" OR WOULD YOU HAVE ALLOW U SISTER TO MARRY SON OF "TERRORIST"? YOURS IS YOURS, OURS IS OURS. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 4:38pm On May 24, 2017 |
Bro i saw your post and I just had to comment.. I have been through this before I dated a Muslim girl she lived very close to me apart from that I was almost part of her family they recognize me and my parents recognized them.. My relationship went on quite well until well we started joking about the fact of getting married some day to each day... That was when it all changed.. I can easily handle my parents... But hers it went totally berserk... They immediately turned everything around From denying me to seeing her... To warning my peeps from their daughter... Lol its funny because we haven't even graduated yet oh.. The small rough play turn serious matter by force.... In the end we parted ways... Although she herself presently is now a Christian and I am hoping to boot up my relationship with her again... Bro it depends on her family... I don't you getting hurt or something if you are the serious relationship type like me.. Just have a heart to heart talk with her.. It's something I never did.. And I think it's best.. Talk to her and ask her if her parents would support your relationship... Me I am ready to fight for what I love... Thank God she too don jump boat by God's grace things will work... So please it depends on her people if they say no.. Then your chances are very slim but not impossible... Let love lead you 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 4:38pm On May 24, 2017 |
doctorbabs: Guy you are high on camphor juice |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Eazie351(m): 4:41pm On May 24, 2017 |
ImaIma1:Exactly what happened to me last mnth(after 2yrs with her)...no matter how hard you try, the chances of making it far are very slim. Don‘t try it... |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Zinny25(f): 4:45pm On May 24, 2017 |
I'm gonna advice you based on experience. Love is not enough u two are not compatible. I stand to be corrected but let me share my story With u. I'm a Christian gal I met this guy early 2014 we were just friends later we grew to love each other. He's a Muslim by religion. We thought love was enough to see us through but in this case it wasn't. He loved me so much and I loved him too. At first he said I was gonna still practice Christianity after marriage but our kids will be Muslims. I couldn't imagine my children becoming Muslims that's mean in the house I will be the only one going to church, no morning devotion, no family prayer. I couldn't just go ahead, I also know with time either his family forces me to convert or they get him another wife. My dear it's gonna be difficult to cope unless she's ready to convert to Christianity or u become a Muslim 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by FriendNG: 4:47pm On May 24, 2017 |
Zinny25: This post make some sense. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Mahmoudkk04(m): 4:51pm On May 24, 2017 |
My friend, you can only succeed in getting that angel if you are ready to convert and join her religion, unless you are not ready to marry her. That is the condition islamically, if you cannot convert then let her go, there is no compulsion in religion. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by marvin902(m): 4:52pm On May 24, 2017 |
doctorbabs: your stupidity amazes me 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by fatiaforreal: 4:53pm On May 24, 2017 |
taiyeayodeji:Your write up is based on imagination rather than facts. What problems do people from different faiths face that people from the same faith don't face? I need just one, not even pastors or imams are exempted. You're just pretending to know what you don't know. I'm fifteen years into marriage across the divided of religion and even ethnicity in addition to that and I can tell you, most of the problems you highlighted are more imaginary than real except the only preoccupation you have in life is religion, in which case you belong to the past AC ND possibly the poor as well. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 4:55pm On May 24, 2017 |
truthstands11: You are writing nonsense. Chris oyakilome and okotie are both Christians with marriage built on God. What happened at the end? Babatunde fashola, Bola Tinubu are both Muslims with Christian wives but are still in marriage till date. What do you have to say about that? You wrote blatant trash 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by AbujaLover: 4:56pm On May 24, 2017 |
Piercy: Thanks |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by taiyeayodeji: 4:58pm On May 24, 2017 |
IN addition to my previous view,you may marry her if GOD leads you to marry her and in that case,GOD has a reason for such because he knows the end of a thing before the beginning.A good wife comes from God and i would say dont venture into anything that God is not in it, dont go on a battle that God is not going with you. Sad to say, i have seen a marriage of one year , the husband died a year after the marriage.It shall never be your portion but think and dont be decieved by people who say follow your mind.the path that God has laid for you is different from Tinubu's path or any other married person, LOVE IS NOT EVERYTHING, GOD IS EVERYTHING.HUMAN LOVE CAN FAIL WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.THOSE WHO DIVORCED TODAY WERE ONCE MADLY IN LOVE |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by AbujaLover: 4:59pm On May 24, 2017 |
Zinny25: Thanks sis. |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Mahmoudkk04(m): 5:01pm On May 24, 2017 |
Zinny25:I think it is cristal clear how Islam spelled out the conditions for interreligious marriage between a Christian and a Muslim. A Muslim guy can marry a Christian lady and allow her to practice her faith while a Muslim lady can not marry a Christian unless he is willing to convert to her practicing faith. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Godonium(m): 5:14pm On May 24, 2017 |
swiperthefox:have u ever considered if ur parents were mu slims 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by taiyeayodeji: 5:22pm On May 24, 2017 |
YEA YOU ARE RIGHT,no marriage without a storm.Life is full of challenges.Even the big men of God faces storm in their marriage , talkless of the ordinary.i never said he should not marry her.it good to take a deep look at every aspect of everything when taking a decision, the physical aspect and also the spiritual aspect.i gave an advice based on my area of expertise,the religious aspect.so let those who are more experience in other areas and religion give their advise in their areas of knowledge. i respect your view and opinion and i would never force my opinion or believe on anybody.A biologist would give his view based on his knowledge, a social person also on his experience.I have given my view from the little i know,its left for the op to take it or discard it.LIFE IS MORE THAN MARRIAGE, MARRIAGE DOES NOT GIVE HAPPINESS, GOD GIVES HAPPINESS.THOSE WHO ARE DIVORCED TODAY WERE ONCE MADLY IN LOVE,lets not be decieved by what some people display outside and you think they are happy with their marriage.there come a time when storms who hit the marriage,can HUMAN LOVE STAND. i respect your experience in your field. by the way, poverty is a thing of the mind,I AM A CHRISTIAN and not a religious folk as you may think.I serve a rich GOD AND I THANK GOD that am far above poverty.my views fatiaforreal: |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Kakamorufu(m): 5:30pm On May 24, 2017 |
Do it like dir, take her out, talk, laugh, gist and in the end, tell her your mind, then tell her ur fear and why u haven't told her all this years. Stand up and leave. Wait for her reply afterwards |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by GOFRONT(m): 5:46pm On May 24, 2017 |
Shey Musa marry Juliet yesterday......shebi d Juliet don turn muslim ![]() Abi musa turn christian ![]() |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by AbujaLover: 5:47pm On May 24, 2017 |
Kakamorufu: Thanks for this.. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 6:02pm On May 24, 2017 |
MichaelUweh: If the Muslims considers the Christians as Infidels then what does the Christians considers the Muslims as? Some people will just write nonsense portraying themselves to be superior and the only way. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by omojeesu(m): 6:08pm On May 24, 2017 |
AbujaLover: Who is a Christian? When did you become one? What does the Bible say about Christian marriage? |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Yahaya85(m): 6:10pm On May 24, 2017 |
A Christian Lady Asked a Sheik In a conference on peace In Jos, she said why is it that your religion allowed you to marry a Christian girl but you are not reciprocating by giving your daughters in marriage to Christian men? The sheik replied, yes the is reason for that. As you probably know, Muslims believe in Jesus p.b.u.h. as a Prophet sent by God, and we also believe in the original scripture of the Bible (Injila) that God sent him with. All these have been clearly stated in our Glorious Qur'an . you see, with these even if our Muslim brothers marry Chirtian ladies they would have no problems because he has respect for whom she believes in, but if you Christians can reciprocate these gestures by believing in our own prophet of Islam , Muhammad pbuh. and also believe in our Glorious Qur'an as we do to your book, Bible Injila, then we can give our daughters in marriage to you Chiristians. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Nobody: 6:14pm On May 24, 2017 |
Yahaya85: This is very deep. It's one of the problems of Christians. They don't believe in anything besides theirs only. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by LeanonGOD(m): 6:16pm On May 24, 2017 |
Where is the children going to worship?. shaddoww: |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by mamaafrik(m): 6:21pm On May 24, 2017 |
shaddoww:Ibikunle Amosun isnt doing fineoooooooo,women are not chanced to make choice after marriageooooo,belle is the surest bet,but datz if her dad is not a fanatic.GOODLUCK |
Re: I'm A Christian In Love With A Muslim Friend by Azam101: 6:24pm On May 24, 2017 |
Follow your heart, forget the advice being given to you by people that can't even differentiate btw love n lust ok goodluck hoping to attend your wedding ceremony! |
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