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DivinelyBlessed:
The way you present yourself?

NO

kimbra:
How about you bring yourself down when you want to woo a girl. This could be the issue.

Bring yourself down to where exactly??

kaboninc:


when you get your own bobo, we go continue this conversation

I cannot get a bobo because I no dey comot go anywhere and going to strange places is a requirement to have a bobo these days.

I just need guys to stop nagging about gold digging girls, na them dey waka

26andsearching:


For how long

I mean I suffered to get a job

Now I must also suffer to get a gal

To be a Man is not a day's job my guy!

Most women in Nigeria are like this. They see men as ATM.

obowunmi:
Most women in Nigeria are like this. They see men as ATM.

Most men in Nigeria are like this. The see ladies as ________??

bjhaid:
Nice Girls don't really exist in this part of the world.

Yes they do..no one is perfect.when you see one.and just a first day communication.you go know.by the way..are you nice?

26andsearching:


Yes o

That's my compulsory criteria

I find it difficult to move with worwor gals

I always go for naturally beautiful ones

Most city babes are materialistic. If you keep meeting them from now till next year you may still get irritated with some of their early immature demands. They feel it's a guy's responsibility to foot their bills even when it's still early in their dating.
Solution:
Go to God in prayers that you need a good lady. You ll get that replica of your Friends gf

26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

Brother don't put pressure by Yourself on Yourself concerning serious relationship o, fine You Have to Be serious,it's Good Thing to do..but don't sweat it Brother. When The right time comes The person That will compliment You will come....now back to The mata on ground...You See Bro most Nigeria girls are problem carriers so they re looking for problem solvers (guys) to Help Them...hence once You ask Them out The next Thing for those ones among Them wey they no born with shame And self respect And esteem will immediately throw You The question of "Please can You do me a favor " once You get That question from a random Hungry Nigeria girls just be 99.9% ready to know say she want demand..that's someone You Are yet to ask out o. bro not like You re unlucky with Them o it is just That most of them are stocked with daily, weekly, monthly And yearly problems, The few ones who understand the essence of relationship like Your friend babe either are taken or married. me right here Am cute God knows that (na HIM even create me so HE knows) but Am single At the moment And not even ready to Be in any relationship with Nigeria girl of nowadays ,their reasoning is so stupid And awkward ehn. they can so fuccking annoying ehn. our (guys) stupidity is wiser than Them I swear down. Brother my advice for You is take Your time menopause no dey do men, so relax to enjoy Your life while You give 5% to look if eventually You might a girl like That of Your friend babe. Goodluck bro.

dupsyluzy:

I am from that kind of background, there is something called dignity and self confidence. No matter how i need money i dont beg,my bf can only offer to assist if he has the means.

you have a bf that can still offer to assist

Cleopatra4:
I feel your pain. Come date me and you will never regret it.

I wul like to take u up on ur offer... Meanwhile u've got mail.

I can relate with the op experience most 9ja girls are bunch of empty liabilities with their only asset in between their legs, full of collect collect mentality and shameless. I wish they can learn from foreign girls and have some dignity.

Today one of them demanded a car from me as her wedding present and I ask, who will you say gave you the car as a gift ? She said, my fiancee knows about you as my good friend. Ladies are not making it easy for us any longer. Your own small.

CaraJewel:
Yes they do..no one is perfect.when you see one.and just a first day communication.you go know.by the way..are you nice?

First day? I've met girls that pretended to be very nice on the very first day, I can be nice and nasty sometimes it depends on who I'm rolling with.

26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

I think it's because you are a fine boy living in Lawanshe

1234IKECHhukwu:
people like u cannot give a girl ordinary 1k without thinking of nyashing her in the first place.

you don't even know me yet you have concluded. Clap for yourself

Maybe she was just trying to drive you away

bjhaid:
First day? I've met girls that pretended to be very nice on the very first day, I can be nice and nasty sometimes it depends on who I'm rolling with.

Wel dunno.but there are nice gals.me inclusive

kimbra:
The impression you create matters. That's what they act on. So put off how much you could take care of a girl or how rosy your life is when wooing.

U make sense ja re .i de feel u

if u know u wanna marry beautifu gurl u better show wat u av. they 're luxury. I for like drag adesua wit banky Na,but my pocket no gree. ogbeni u beta use wat u av to get wat u nid. love is directly proportional to love now.

Abeg I dey here O I no be liability

OP, your solution would be to stop chasing unemployed girls who rely on their look. Go for the employed I mean the ones who aren't broke. But there are still broke girls who don't ask a guy to do anything for them.

Chidinmaluv22:
I can help you

how , let me know

bjhaid:
I didn't say men are atm, alotta girls are struggling esp the ones from poor/average background, and most can't really hustle like guys do, that's why I can't really blame the ones that beg

dont think its OK 2 beg from guys u just met or barely no all in d name of poverty

Obviously, you are still broke. Go hustle more brother, you will attract the right babe. At this point of your life, you need money not babes. There is no girl that does not need the support of her man and the truth is it will come more than expected. You are not there yet and remove this thought that there is one girl that will spend on you.
From survey, broke niggaz attract "materialistic" ladies whilst rich nigga attract the independent. Likes attract likes... Its nature, that's how it works.

majekdom2:
Obviously, you are still broke. Go hustle more brother, you will attract the right babe. At this point of your life, you need money not babes. There is no girl that does not need the support of her man and the truth is it will come more than expected. You are not there yet and remove this thought that there is one girl that will spend on you.
From survey, broke niggaz attract "materialistic" ladies whilst rich nigga attract the independent. Likes attract likes... Its nature, that's how it works.

"from survey ..." which survey b that?who and who carried out d survey and when was it carried out?

lexy2014:
"from survey ..." which survey b that?who and who carried out d survey and when was it carried out?

that how to is... Likes attracts likes. Do you want to argue it. He is complaining because he is broke or stingy, that's why he attracts such babes... those are the likes. You attract people on your level. When you are well placed or on a particular independent level, you'd attract same.

thehedge:
it is not the impression he creates, its his taste. there are diff kind of girls, and impression or not, they want what they want. I hope d op undrstnds

if d girls were his taste would he b complaining?

Brinxs:


Bring yourself down to where exactly??

I just weak..as if a poor man has her attention. See lies!

26andsearching:


Yes o

That's my compulsory criteria

I find it difficult to move with worwor gals

I always go for naturally beautiful ones

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder because another man's meat is another's poison.

kimbra:
The impression you create matters. That's what they act on. So put off how much you could take care of a girl or how rosy your life is when wooing.

madam better girl na better girl it doesn't matter d impression u create.if a girl isn't interested in a mans money, she won't b moved even if u empty CBNs vault 4 her