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............................. by stud101(m): 9:54am On May 25, 2017 |
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Re: ............................. by Nobody: 9:57am On May 25, 2017 |
![]() BRB...Xinz u wanna say sumtin? ![]() |
Re: ............................. by Airforce1(m): 9:59am On May 25, 2017 |
Settle whatever debt you're owing , reduce your excess spending, save little money then get married. I know a guy who earn 45k as salary and he's happily married but to a girl who s also working. 1 Like |
Re: ............................. by ikp120(m): 10:04am On May 25, 2017 |
Forget marriage for now bro. Who marriage epp? It's an unnecessary evil these days. If you want pikin, get a baby mama bro. If konji hold you, grab a pussy and fvck bro. Forget marriage! Fvck your people's opinions mehn! Run your life by yourself bro! |
Re: ............................. by stud101(m): 10:06am On May 25, 2017 |
Airforce1: but when does one finish doing that, based on age, give or take it might take a year to sort that out, hoping other side works come out to fetch extra money. |
Re: ............................. by stud101(m): 10:14am On May 25, 2017 |
ikp120:i can understand where you coming from, but i did like to have a family. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ............................. by yomi007k(m): 10:16am On May 25, 2017 |
ikp120: Seconded! |
Re: ............................. by XINZ: 10:16am On May 25, 2017 |
TrapQueen77: All I have to say is....... OP should solve his problems, I have mine. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: ............................. by ikp120(m): 10:30am On May 25, 2017 |
stud101:From what you typed up there, the last thing you should be thinking about is marriage. Get a loyal and contented girlfriend first. Make her part of your life until she gets and understand the real picture of how your life is. Then marry her if you want to. Money is not the problem, the heartache and troubles that go with some women in marriage is the problem. If there's no serious babe in the picture, then I don't think you can handle marriage now bro. You WILL breakdown if you dive in like that, except you're lucky. Women get special wahala wey they usually manifest when you say "I do". 1 Like |
Re: ............................. by stud101(m): 10:38am On May 25, 2017 |
ikp120:i feel you, the part of ''Loyal'', ''Contentment'' and ''Make her part of your life until she gets and understand the real picture of how your life is'' is hard o with all these Abuja girls, well the ones have met, it's either they looking for how to even run further in to the ground or you just see through their B.S. no girl in the picture. |
Re: ............................. by ikp120(m): 10:55am On May 25, 2017 |
stud101:Then forget marriage for now bro. There has to be a girl in the picture before you even think of marriage. Just relax bro and take good care of yourself. You will be just fine. Most times things just fall in place. |
Re: ............................. by TheMortician: 11:00am On May 25, 2017 |
ikp120: ikp120: Thank you. Misogynist and also a misanthrope |
Re: ............................. by Oyindidi(f): 11:07am On May 25, 2017 |
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Re: ............................. by stud101(m): 11:18am On May 25, 2017 |
Re: ............................. by ImaIma1(f): 11:19am On May 25, 2017 |
At this rate, an earning wife will not be a back up plan but the major sponsor. Firstly, u need to cut your clothes according to the fabric. Your expenses should not be more than your earning. Cut out some expenses. Maintaining a car with your salary is more like a liability venture. You should also think about doing other things that would bring income. Then also pray hard for God's intervention. U need it. |
Re: ............................. by Nobody: 11:39am On May 25, 2017 |
stud101:be sure you can look after a family before you decide to start one. |
Re: ............................. by Nobody: 11:40am On May 25, 2017 |
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Re: ............................. by stud101(m): 12:07pm On May 25, 2017 |
SecondEva: obviously, won't start what i can't handle. |
Re: ............................. by Nobody: 12:09pm On May 25, 2017 |
stud101:ensure you marry a girl who has a job so she can assist. |
Re: ............................. by stud101(m): 12:14pm On May 25, 2017 |
SecondEva: yeah, but most don't even share the view of starting something together or seeing the bigger picture, most caught up in the now..... |
Re: ............................. by 9jayes: 12:17pm On May 25, 2017 |
Double Wahala for deadbody |
Re: ............................. by Nobody: 12:23pm On May 25, 2017 |
stud101:you are right. It takes a humble lady with the fear of God to look at the bigger picture. That's why you much be carful in selecting a wife. |
Re: ............................. by sirblero(m): 12:49pm On May 25, 2017 |
ikp120: seconded..bro.. if you claim you want a family..and there's no girl in the picture.. them my brother..forget about marriage for now..MARRIAGE IS NOT A GAME.. its a life time something.. and also about the work.and your salary..you owing..and all that.. minimize the way you spend ..and also you saying "no side jobs to get money"...there are many..but few are eligible and trustworthy..that I would like us to discuss...privately..if you deem if fit..a side job opportunity is available.. for more info.. #08108969788 |
Re: ............................. by McBrooklyn(m): 1:15pm On May 25, 2017 |
Re: ............................. by firstking01(m): 2:40pm On May 25, 2017 |
ikp120:One of the wrongest advice i 've read on nairaland for a long while....pls, go meet your mum to talk some things into you, don't embrace life with this kinda mindset...how can someone earning up to an 80-100k be living in debt?, smh....he's either a wasteful fellow or he lives above what he earns which is wrong....no matter how much you earn you should be able to save something every month....this is why we advice people to stop drinking and smoking....atimes it could be addictive but una no dey hear word....ok. |
Re: ............................. by stud101(m): 3:12pm On May 25, 2017 |
firstking01: not like i don't save, like i said lost alot due to MMM, trying to sort that out.... and you know of this advice on here you don't take them to heart. ![]() |
Re: ............................. by ikp120(m): 3:12pm On May 25, 2017 |
firstking01: Bro listen to me and listen very attentively. I run my life and don't give a fvck what the society says, so long as I'm not doing anything illegal. I don't ask my mum or any being on earth (not even God) for their opinion. Marriage is an unnecessary evil these days. Take it or leave it. I don't need your opinion on it. Who told you that you save better than he does? He lost his investments in some ventures. Are you holier than him? I guess you are! |
Re: ............................. by firstking01(m): 3:39pm On May 25, 2017 |
ikp120:Smh....still go meet your mum for se advice, believe me you need her to talk to you or berra still, carry this your post and go and show her. |
Re: ............................. by firstking01(m): 3:40pm On May 25, 2017 |
stud101:My brother, you need financial discipline. |
Re: ............................. by ikp120(m): 3:44pm On May 25, 2017 |
firstking01:I know you're not a kid, but making reference to my mum is very childish bro. You don't even know if my mum is still alive. I guess age is just a number. The most irritating part is that you're part of the preachy and religious folks on this forum. |
Re: ............................. by firstking01(m): 4:35pm On May 25, 2017 |
ikp120:Preachy??, yes, but religious??, NO ![]() |
Re: ............................. by TheUmbra: 10:30pm On May 25, 2017 |
ikp120: Oh really? I thought you said you had a conscience? Or maybe not so much of a healthy one. Weren't you the stand-up guy for morality and sound principle? Here you are doing some flip-flop. So who's gon' father and raise the child in a baby mama setting? Why would any sane mind advocate for single parenting with all the proven ills associated with children raised by a single parent? O boy, it's easy to sell a particular personality online, but with time ogoro-fish grows some pair of legs to prove it's a fake fish all along. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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