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Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by agitator: 7:54am On May 26, 2017
yvelchstores:
there is no excuse for a married woman to cheat.

The question was WHY, and he answered based on his opinion. He wasn't giving EXCUSES.

If it is an exam he has already scored pass mark while you zero. wink wink wink
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Dexema(m): 7:55am On May 26, 2017
adontcare:
Sometimes such women want hard core but dia husbands are not meeting up. It is psychologically tasking to live through. My thought though
If there was no hardcore or signs of hardcore before marriage there's a low chance of it after.

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Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by MizOmalicha(f): 8:04am On May 26, 2017
Mujtahida:

As per your experience?
Isi aki spotted!
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Amberon: 8:06am On May 26, 2017
God bless you for this truth...hahahah
PaperLace:
* Women are polygamous.
* Some men start tying wrapper and wearing oversize boxers.
* Their husbands don't service them well. Some men do wuruwuru sex. No pre-intimacy...etc.
* They are wicked and selfish.
* Young boys don't allow them rest.
* Lots of Nigerian men develop potbelly after sometime. She becomes less attracted to him. Women are visual beings too. grin
* Lots of Nigerian men neglect their wives. Look around you, too many absentee husbands. They prefer to go and sit at bar.
* Temptation.
Etc

In all, it's 85% the fault of the man...Nigerian men should take care of their wives well, so that side-bobos won't snatch her. kiss


Do you know what's double standard at all?

The double standard here, is you thinking a woman's cheating doesn't have justification like the man's own. They're both human, capable of falling to temptation (aka) adultery.
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Amberon: 8:06am On May 26, 2017
Is there an excuse for a married man to cheat?
yvelchstores:
there is no excuse for a married woman to cheat.
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by lovethchioma(f): 8:09am On May 26, 2017
Sierusvirus:


The best responses I have ever heard or seen as regards this particular topic here, sincerely speaking
Thank you...
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by komekn(m): 8:10am On May 26, 2017
Evestar200:
Who told u that married women don't cheats ? Most married women do cheat, they do cheat on their husband with their pastor or Ex lover.

When you (Warri Pikin), say things like this I am very worried (I deh fear Oh !!!)

Sincerely I have heard stories but not really believed.

You deh make me fear.
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by latsy: 8:13am On May 26, 2017
Dexema:

More reason why you need to find someone who has same level of sxual appetite who you are attracted to and stick with him.

They won't stick with such because he is only good in bed and is not
husband material.
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Amberon: 8:16am On May 26, 2017
is there an excuse for a married man to cheat?
felixomor:


GBAM !
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Amberon: 8:16am On May 26, 2017
Good question.
martineverest:
what if u cheat on her?
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Pedrocross4568(m): 8:17am On May 26, 2017
yvelchstores:
there is no excuse for a married woman to cheat.
there no excuse for a married person to cheat.not jut d woman
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by felixomor: 8:18am On May 26, 2017
Amberon:
is there an excuse for a married man to cheat?

None

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Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Dexema(m): 8:18am On May 26, 2017
latsy:


They won't stick with such because he is only good in bed and is not
husband material.
Which one is husband material again? For me Once you are attracted to someone, you understand each other (sexually inclusive) and you guys can pull resources to stay afloat and build a life wetin remain again?

NB: if you like someone and you guys understand each other in the bedroom, there's a high probability you will understand each other in other aspects.
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Amberon: 8:19am On May 26, 2017
And what do you use to justifyen cheating in their wives.
tosyne2much:
Please lets leave men out of this. Don't use double standard to justify why women should cheat on their husbands
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by wyqay: 8:21am On May 26, 2017
married women cheating on their husband is thing of the mind.no matter you try to satisfy a woman,if she is the type you're on long thing
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Origin(f): 8:22am On May 26, 2017
What a question. They caught two people for cheating, married man and married woman. You are only concerned about the woman.


Well the answer can be seen in the analysis of demand and supply. If her husband is doing a lot of away matches and thinks the one at home is made of wood. E.g a man stays in Calabar, the woman in Oyo. Everyone knows the man has a side runs there but they also expect the woman at home to keep it together.

Also happens with those close by. Another is when you have a boy in the house, does not take care of any responsibilities, does not care for his wife and kids. Then the lady will seek those who will.

Then there are just some who like the cheating I guess. Best thing is take out a questionnaire and circulate among cheating folks.

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Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by luveu: 8:22am On May 26, 2017
Dahkogrin007:
They cheat simply because u can't satisfy a woman

white nails, bt they change it to red green blue black hash etc,
average eye lashes bt they change it to long ones.

black or red lips they change it to df colours.
breast and buttocks r now padded.
fear women











U CANNOT give a woman everything she needs. If God Himself gave them eyebrows but they shave & draw their own. Who are U?






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Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Amberon: 8:24am On May 26, 2017
The bolded is the gospel truth.
Billyonaire:
Cheating will always continue until Man has learnt to master life before going into union of souls. Tribalism is a reflection of this secret. Every Soul has a source star system. As it is in Heaven so it is on Earth. If you are married to your town's girl, there is a great probability that she will love you and will not mess up because she considers the husband as her own root too. Dont let me wrong, this is just an illustration.

Soul mates are souls from same star system in the Cosmos. Before you get married, one is supposed to find out where the soul of his/her partner originate from, then almost always, you can work out the ego aspect of humans here which is a result of environment and experiential factors. This is not difficult to do. But any other love can only need a lot of efforts to be grow, but for soul mates. They already know each other on a soul level even though the ego is so naive. Soul mates connect like magnets and they fucck like rats and settle every fight with kiss and sex. Damn!

Guess what ? If you are married to woman or man who isnt your soul mate. Do a lot to keep her on your bed, yes do a lot. The moment she or meets a soul mate, not even your material possession will keep her from developing great feelings for a soul mate even when he or she has nothing else to offer except the smile and laughter and ofcourse a great moment. They wont care about your feelings when that time comes.

This is my input. Do not believe me.
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Amberon: 8:30am On May 26, 2017
All that insults because he mentioned God. You are clearly daft. Christianity is the sole reason monogamy is practiced today. Go wash your own brain...oh you have none.
frenzyduchess:
for mentioning god,I see you are one of those brainwashed religious hypocrites, go and wash your Brain and free yourself from the shackles of religion before I will listen to anything you have to say,even your pastors are not faithful to their vows,be deceiving yourself there
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by latsy: 8:31am On May 26, 2017
Dexema:

Which one is husband material again? For me Once you are attracted to someone, you understand each other (sexually inclusive) and you guys can pull resources to stay afloat and build a life wetin remain again?

NB: if you like someone and you guys understand each other in the bedroom, there's a high probability you will understand each other in other aspects.

Yes there are husband material and there are men only good for sex,
that is the way many modern women see it.
They will never let go of their cash cow because he is rich and influential
and is often busy,
and they will still retain the fuckboy whose only worth is the sex he can
offer.
Remeber , no matter how good a husband is, there are always better
men outside who are specialist in bed affairs.

Only a woman knows who she understands in the bedroom as there
are a lot of pretense involve especially when the man can offer her
financial security.

So she go for the husband material, even though he isn't the best man
she has ever met, knowing that she can always employ the services of
her numerous exes who are far better in bed.

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Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Amberon: 8:32am On May 26, 2017
Double standards. Both are human. Both have blood running through their veins. Why showing your shallow reasoning?
basic23111:
its still understandable when man cheat but for woman is total nonsense and unacceptable.....
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Oyindidi(f): 8:34am On May 26, 2017
I be no want talk before but make I say something about this important topic.
Talking about the rate women cheat on their spouse is the concern of many cos it seems abnormal, so to say.. But women don't just cheat on their spouses without reason. A lot is happening in the home front which many younger ones won't understand.

1 Lack of love and attention from both parties, there are home without love or affection of any kind.. In a situation like this I pray the wife is not close to any man cos she must cheat on her husband if the other man take advantage of her predicament.

2 The health of the husband.. A lot of men are suffering from weak erection or whatever you call it.. I know its for better for worse but some men are too shy to go for treatment and the woman may suffer for years of no sex, it takes a godly woman to stay put in such.. My advice to women is to look for treatment for their spouses, many men may not look for solution but its your duty as a woman to help him.

3 lack of sexual satisfaction, some men are not too good in bed or may be having premature ejaculation.

4 Some men married a woman fully aware she's a cheat. They have the mindset that when I marry her she'll change. Sorry brother she won't change.
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by mjuzikid(m): 8:34am On May 26, 2017
Same reason most married men do. wink
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Divinerace(m): 8:35am On May 26, 2017
justscorchone:
Since I started reading stories from joro on IG my mindset about nigerian women has been reformatted 99.9% of the women are money hungry bishes and would go to any length to sleep with a man because of the money not minding if he's married or not.
is joro a website

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Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by tosyne2much(m): 8:39am On May 26, 2017
Safiaa:
This idiot is such a hypocrite. Coward. But if the question was the other way round, you're the first to state that men are polygamous in nature. You'll write down your silly 10 reasons why its acceptable for a man to cheat on his wife. Foolish boy.
Eeeehyah pele... I feel your pain dear cheesy

I hope you've stopped sleeping around sha?. Hope you' haven't added to the four men you've slept with at your tender age? cheesy
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Daeylar(f): 8:39am On May 26, 2017
PaperLace:
* Women are polygamous.
* Some men start tying wrapper and wearing oversize boxers.
* Their husbands don't service them well. Some men do wuruwuru sex. No pre-intimacy...etc.
* They are wicked and selfish.
* Young boys don't allow them rest.
* Lots of Nigerian men develop potbelly after sometime. She becomes less attracted to him. Women are visual beings too. grin
* Lots of Nigerian men neglect their wives. Look around you, too many absentee husbands. They prefer to go and sit at bar.
* Temptation.
Etc

In all, it's 85% the fault of the man...Nigerian men should take care of their wives well, so that side-bobos won't snatch her. kiss


Do you know what's double standard at all?

The double standard here, is you thinking a woman's cheating doesn't have justification like the man's own. They're both human, capable of falling to temptation (aka) adultery.

lol, you just remixed the reasons and justifications men give when they cheat and gave it right back to them,
although it's sad some people didn't see it like that.
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by emperorchedda(m): 8:39am On May 26, 2017
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Dexema(m): 8:39am On May 26, 2017
latsy:


Yes there are husband material and there are men only good for sex,
that is the way many modern women see it.
They will never let go of their cash cow because he is rich and influential
and is often busy,
and they will still retain the fuckboy whose only worth is the sex he can
offer.
Remeber , no matter how good a husband is, there are always better
men outside who are specialist in bed affairs.

Only a woman knows who she understands in the bedroom as there
are a lot of pretense involve especially when the man can offer her
financial security.

So she go for the husband material, even though he isn't the best man
she has ever met, knowing that she can always employ the services of
her numerous exes who are far better in bed.
Are you a M or F?
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Nobody: 8:42am On May 26, 2017
tosyne2much:
It's in the DNA of some ladies to be promiscuous and not even marriage can change that. No matter how much you try to service them, lai lai e no go bellyful them.

Even the ones that cheat on their bfs will storm on this thread to bash cheating wives. # hypocrites#

Everything boils down to Ojukokoro sha
Bro. See sex is not the only reason why some women cheat and infact many women do not cheat because they are promiscuos, some situation and circumstances push them to that.
Some did/ are doing just to help and provide for their family(not justifying them), they are doing it to help the fulture of their children while some to save their job(though it's wrong) that the way they think they can. If things will be better for Nigeria' "Good government, good economy, right protect with adequate standard of living) we got good women in Nigeria. I have live outside Nigeria for more than a decade and i tell you average Nigerian women are awesome. Kudos to our lovely women.
Situation/circumstances makes most of our women to cheat(Expecially my ibo sisters tongue tongue)

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Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by tosyne2much(m): 8:46am On May 26, 2017
chisco82:

Bro. See sex is not the only reason why some women cheat and infact many women do not cheat because they are promiscuos, some situation and circumstances push them to that.
Some did/ are doing just to help and provide for their family(not justifying them), they are doing it to help the fulture of their children while some to save their job(though it's wrong) that the way they think they can. If things will be better for Nigeria' "Good government, good economy, right protect with adequate standard of living) we got good women in Nigeria. I have live outside Nigeria for more than a decade and i tell you average Nigerian women are awesome. Kudos to our lovely women.
Situation/circumstances makes most of our women to cheat(Expecially my ibo sisters tongue tongue)
But that circumstances that led her into cheating will still make you kick her ass out if you caught her cheating cheesy cheesy
Re: Why Do Some Married Women Cheat? by Nobody: 8:47am On May 26, 2017
Safiaa:
Tosyne2much is the biggest fool of this forum. He thinks so highly of himself, when he's just an empty basket.

"oga ten things" is dumb even though he thinks his childish articles make sense.

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