chisco82:

wow! I thank and happy for you.
You re there alraedy, its often say that any marriage that survives its 7th Anniversary is going to last forever.
I pray that everyday will be ur honeymoon in Jesus name. Amen. My regards to the lucky and good Man that found you and amazings fruits of your marriage.
Hoping to enter soonest

Lol, you are right about the 7th anniversary thing though. It was like a battle field at some point.. I bless God we now understand ourselves. Praying God to give solution to the problem we are facing. That's why I said it takes God for a woman not to cheat.

tosyne2much:
You should know that an average religious Nigerian is an ignorant person

BTW, are you an atheist?

yes

Oyindidi:
Lol, you are right about the 7th anniversary thing though. It was like a battle field at some point.. I bless God we now understand ourselves. Praying God to give solution to the problem we are facing. That's why I said it takes God for a woman not to cheat.

really

robosky02:



really

Yes

cold:
Hmmm..you need to take Okafor's Law of Congodynamics into consideration here. For the record, let me just state what the law states...

[b]Okafor's Law of Congodynamics
C 1 P = C ∞

It states that once a Congo has been shined once (C 1 ) , it can always be shined (C ∞ ) provided it was shined properly ( P) the previous times.(emphasis on properly). In other words, "....a woman once knacked, can be reknacked..."
Just like we say "water finds its level"
Which is not exactly how Achimedes narrated his contemplation, of all things floatation.
In scientific circles, opinion is divided as to whether it is actually a law or just a hypothesis. However, there is a large body of evidence to suggest that it is a law but there are others who think it is merely a hypothesis and does not take into account other variables such as M (marital status), O(opportunity) and F (Financial status) of either one or both of the parties.

In lay-mans term what the above jargons simply mean is that.
A hole once drilled, drilled properly even when closed up can always be found and can be drilled forever'
if u have been involved with a girl for a period of time and did a good job in and out of the bedroom (mostly in..), the belief is that u can always go to the girl at any given time and sleep with her again no matter what situation arises (breakups, different lover, etc[/b]..

I like this. This is scholarly.
So, If the woman meets another man and the new man shines the congo to C1 but in this case this new man P2 has higher perfirmance than the first man P1, such that P2>P1 then P2 can continue to shine C1 to infinty. I therefore advise all men to strive to exceed P1so that the congo will forever be yours. All other things being equal.

My tots...

frenzyduchess:
yes

It's very obvious

join the winning team to boost your finance

Oyindidi:
I've been in for close to 10 years. Unless she is possess with legion of demons.

wow


thank God for the lucky man

onyididi is a homely woman

Bibors:
Let the truth be told- women and men alike cheat for no good reason hence there is no justifiable reason to cheat.
Once you know the taste of Congo and it tastes good to you,, you are likely to become addicted to it and even after you get married, if no be Jesus, you go still dey shine Congo.
Adventure is in every curious mind.
Culture makes us see this cheating differently among both parties. Na blood dey flow through all man.

Solution. - don't shine Congo till you are married- it will make you think that all Congo tastes same , hence, you will not look for another.
Say No to premarital sex.

What if you've shined congo before marriage, what is the solution?

robosky02:



wow


thank God for the lucky man

onyididi is a homely woman

Thanks

ShoProperties:
To my own point of view ..the word cheat is like evil spirit that walks around 24 /7 looking for who to tempt . That moment u let it tamper with your mind and soul u are gone. Have gone out in the middle of the night like 3am just to cheat that was about 4 years ago . And i do have a gf then whom I love so much and cherish. So it can actually happen to anyone some ladies will even cheat and delete the guy after having that one night stand . And that will be d end . Come to think of it why do pastors cheat also ?

I hope you've turned a new leaf sha?

tosyne2much:
What if you've shined congo before marriage, what is the solution?

Then you have to amend your ways in sincere repentance before marriage else you will see yourself swimming in the sea of " I just can't help it, it's the devils work, It wasn't intentional. Etc.

Evestar200:
[/b]Getting married to the wrong person all because of money or out of self pity and family wahala[b]

GETTING MARRIED TO THE WRONG GUY? IS THE LADY RIGHT FOR THE GUY TOO?

Where are the ladies

tosyne2much:
It's very obvious

is it bad?, folks like me get to view things without sentiments or fear of favor,i would rather we even practice communism like the Chinese than this islam and Christian hypocrisy we practice here

lovethchioma:
Some Married women cheat as well as most married men....
no matter what, I don't think there's any genuine reason to cheat on your spouse.
The only reason why any man or woman will cheat on their spouse is because of lack of self control and having no value for the institution called marriage.

Just do yourself the favour of remaining unmarried if you know you won't be able to keep to your vows.

Now let me correct your write up...... " SOME Married men cheats as well as MOST married women cheats codedly

Why shouldn't they cheat too,plenty reasons to:
Because they can
Because they want excitement in the bedroom
Because they are seen as se xy by the new partner
Because they are bored
Because they need cash
Revenge
Because spouse is an as hole
Because spouse is a cheat
Because emotional needs are not being met

Sooo many reasons
Anyone doing should operate smoothly,chop,clean mouth and go home,no need for long story

yvelchstores:
there is no excuse for a married woman to cheat.

but married men Ve excuse to cheat. my dear Wat dat guy said is true. women are human too....its a pity dat it's a man's world so women opinion aren't needed

yvelchstores:
there is no excuse for a married woman to cheat.

GOD BLESS YOU

Amberon:
So this your stupidity is still trending.

^^^^angry black woman...an then she complains she can't find man on nairaland!!(shame)...no oofensece!!

tosyne2much:
It's in the DNA of some ladies to be promiscuous and not even marriage can change that. No matter how much you try to service them, lai lai e no go bellyful them.

Even the ones that cheat on their bfs will storm on this thread to bash cheating wives. # hypocrites#

Everything boils down to Ojukokoro sha

Are you saying what I think you are saying.

Are you saying that women are naturally POLYGAMOUS?

sisisioge:


Well, for the tiny fraction that do, their horsebands are very wicked people. They are the real scums of this earth! Why won't they satisfy their women? Eediots!

Whew!

My friend go and sit down!!!

I am the first person to call out bullshitt when I see it.

There is never any justifiable reason to cheat on your husband.
You either help him work on how best to please you better or you walk out of the marriage and search for one who can do it for you.

The same advice goes to men too.

Oyindidi:
Lol, you are right about the 7th anniversary thing though. It was like a battle field at some point.. I bless God we now understand ourselves. Praying God to give solution to the problem we are facing. That's why I said it takes God for a woman not to cheat.

Keep pushing dear. God will uphold ur marriage.
Just know that marriage is the only institution that you re given a certificate as you enter, it simply means there is no graduation untill death do you part. You learn new things everday and as time goes by. Now let your next goal be the 25th/Silver jubile Anniversary.
The goal/vision you have will multivate you. Habakuk 2:2~3. and Trust God to provide for that vision.
(Provision = providing for vision)
Be will only provide when you have the vision.
Shalom.

chisco82:

Keep pushing dear. God will uphold ur marriage.
Just know that marriage is the only institution that you re given a certificate as you enter, it simply means there is no graduation untill death do you part. You learn new things everday and as time goes by. Now let your next goal be the 25th/Silver jubile Anniversary.
The goal/vision you have will multivate you. Habakuk 2:2~3. and Trust God to provide for that vision.
(Provision = providing for vision)
Be will only provide when you have the vision.
Shalom.

Na so, certificate still dey but ring don lose since
Its funny when you look back

Oyindidi:
Na so, certificate still dey but ring don lose since
Its funny when you look back

Lol! Some people no even know where their rings dey again oo.

chisco82:

Lol! Some people no even know where their rings dey again oo.

I no dey wear ring.

omooba969:


I guess you're speaking for yourself right...sharp chick.

1metre:
nothing like that bro.. cheating is cheating it doesn't matter who committed it. Faithfulness is one thing that stands the taste of time. No pressure can sway a faithful partner to cheat on each other.

I don't encourage cheating but u can not eradicate it in our society and is very bad when a house wife cheat. every man is a potential cheater that is why I respect our mother

kimbra:
Women are not polygamous. We should learn how to speak for ourselves. Because few silly ones cheat on their husband doesn't mean all cheat.

If a man is jobless they'd nag but few weeks or a month out of town isn't a reason for any woman to cheat on her husband. He's doing the both of you a favour by pulling the necessary resources needed to run a home, and such men shouldn't be repaid with cheating.

I can never cheat on whoever I marry, I rather do you the favour of not marring you.

If he has a potbelly, you could help him do stuffs to deflate it. That's if there's love in the first place.

what is potbelly are you trying to say that men with potbelly doesn't perform well on bed or what. Abeg that's not an excuse

Billyonaire:


The knowledge of this, is not out there. For ye shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.

Then point me in a direction sir.

White money the question I expect u to ask first is 'why do married men cheat a lot'? When that question is answered then u can bring in the women.

sisisioge:
You ate lying! Married Women don't cheat like that. Unless u have legit examples, don't even think of this slander!

Jesus Christ... Are u being serious right now....
Married women don't cheat?...d fact dat you ain't cheating doesn't mean other women ain't...infact i believe say na women de carry d cup now on adultry compared 2 dia counterpart....
Some married girls sef don/de ask me out...i get frnds wen young married women still de disturb till 2day...so sister married women (especially young ones) cheat
JESUES...IT AIN'T EASY 4 SOME GUYS OOO....