mzhorlah:
Nigerian boys, most of you are senseless


walks outta thread. no one should pull me back please

Pulls her back with her hijab and jeans trouser

And he said most of them are completely useless.

Area Hoe on deck!

motherfucker:


I have one question: Can you trust a girl with such unstable behavioural tendency? All I can make from your post is that I am wrong and she is right!

I only wanted her to know where I stay and if choose to go back at the gate, so be it.

I also asked "when shall we see again?" and from ur experience in life, you should know that anyone asking such question is projecting days ahead and not the day such question is asked.

What did she answer? What was her reply? She was the one that fixed that same day while I projecting 2 days, 3 days, even next week.

What can u make from this?

Let me also add that when I wanted her to go know my place, it was still daylight and bright but she chose NIGHT. She called me herself by 7:30Pm

It would be stupid of the girl and even you to trust yourselves for one second. For all anyone knows, you might be a ritualist waiting to cut off her breasts.
She isn't clairvoyant to know your mind or intentions neither are you to know hers.
There nothing unstable about her "behavioural tendencies". She might be a runs girl, she might be a decent person, or she may simply not feel you're worth expending her energy on. She does have a right to change her mind about paying a visit to someone she barely knows.

Anyone can change their minds, and you should be able to understand that, especially in this case where nothing joined you guys together.

It shouldn't get you so pained to create a thread about.

The fact that you allowed what she did get to you, especially since she's more or less a stranger is what i personally find more worrisome.

eyinjuege:


You sound like a broken record.

With all your "intelligency". Your perception of the truth is warped, but it is just what it is- your perception!

It doesn't make it the truth.

If you were being truthful with yourself, and with your self acclaimed "intelligency", and not hungry for affection from every girl you see, you should question your judgement when inviting a stranger into your home. She may be a bait for armed robbers, ritualists etc.
Yet you question her judgement for not coming to visit a guy she barely met who may be after cutting her boobs and legs for rituals?
Why not meet in a public place and truly get to know each other, before inviting each other home? In Nigeria?

You say she didn't keep to appointment, when it could simply be self preservation on her part.
You need to get schooled, young man. It's not enough to go through the university/ technical school.
You need to get schooled in the University of Life

use ur brain...did OP invite her.? she requested to visit...u are still displaying ur low intelligency. like I said earlier don't say what u cannt do or fulfill....probably u are in such class as d girl who promise and fail


modified.: So u couldn't read dat they have already met in public before she said she will pay a visit... it is a pity u couldn't comprehend d story

motherfucker:
Sometime last month, a girl I knew through my brother came to a place where I usually buy tiles and along came her friend. Well, they were in haste and I had to discuss with the dude whom sells the tiles concerning a business contract we were chasing and so I didn't bother to speak to them.

After they had left, next day I guess, I called the one I knew to asked about the girl she came with. To my surprise, the next question was "Do you like her?" I wanted to avoid the question and so she repeated it again, "Do you like her, if you do, I will speak to her for you" I said yes, just to see what will come out of it.

I was expecting days feedback or even weeks but she called same day that the girl said NO. I said okay no problem. She hung up and called me back within 20 seconds and said the girl wants to speak with me. I said okay, give her the phone. We spoke and I asked her questions briefly and ended the call.

The one I knew well later called me and told me to be careful about the girl because they sleep in same house and she can't really understand her ways with guys. She cautioned me to not put my hope on it. That very day, I taught she was speaking out to jealousy or envy.... but read on.

DONT JUDGE ALL THE GIRLS BASED ON YOUR EXPERIENCE WITH ONE CHEAP GIRL..LADIES ARE MOTHERS, SISTERS, WIFE, FRIENDS. I LOVE THEM.

motherfucker:
you an idiot and moronic simpleton. You are as usueless as the girl described. I said MOST dumbo, I never said ALL, bloody miasma. Now go suck some diicks and drink sperm cock suucker!

Geez u savage bro!!

motherfucker:
u know d funniest thing? Some of us have the power to make people commit suicide, we have the power to be cunning but we choose to use to better our lives.

U want to know whether I am cunning? Bring money to the table.

If what I use to put money in bank account is used on girls, many will commit suicide.

The difference between winning and losing is most often not quitting. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take,you can't please everyone,and you can't make everyone like you.

eyinjuege:


It would be stupid of the girl and even you to trust yourselves for one second. For all anyone knows, you might be a ritualist waiting to cut off her breasts.
She isn't clairvoyant to know your mind or intentions neither are you to know hers.
There nothing unstable about her "behavioural tendencies". She might be a runs girl, she might be a decent person, or she may simply not feel you're worth expending her energy on. She does have a right to change her mind about paying a visit to someone she barely knows.

Anyone can change their minds, and you should be able to understand that, especially in this case where nothing joined you guys together.

It shouldn't get you so pained to create a thread about.

The fact that you allowed what she did get to you, especially since she's more or less a stranger is what i personally find more worrisome.

Okay... I don't know why you see nothing wrong in what she did.

Okay, she does not know me. Does she know the dude where she sat? Does she know him to have promised coming back to exchange numbers? And she kept her words to that. What about I whom she assumed she came to see?

She doesn't know me but her friend who linked us knows me and knows my house by virtue of the few months she stayed there when she came into the environment newly from the east and it was through my brother. Her friend whom I knew first is a very focused and determined girl. She was the one that adviced me to be careful even though she is the one that introduced us.

It's a total disrespect bro. Call it what it is.

She doesn't want to act cheap but she ended up making the other feels she is cheap by virtue of her character.

The first day she came there, she told that very guy she was looking for me.

On thurday Night around same time as last Tuesday, she called me twice and by Friday, she is giving promise of exchanging numbers. I have no problem with giving numbers but how you go about it matters as in a case like this...

I accept defeat, she doesn't like me, she is playing hard to get, she wins...

maxwell60:
DONT JUDGE ALL THE GIRLS BASED ON YOUR EXPERIENCE WITH ONE CHEAP GIRL..LADIES ARE MOTHERS, SISTERS, WIFE, FRIENDS. I LOVE THEM.

I believe your eyes didn't miss the word "MOST" and not "ALL"?

sirfee:
The difference between winning and losing is most often not quitting. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take,you can't please everyone,and you can't make everyone like you.

yeah bro. I get your point. Na she say she wan come... In my mind, visit was gonna be another day BUT she chose SAME day.

She doesn't want to be disrespected but she ended up disrespecting herself.

Op I bet the girl was getting sociopath vibes from you and decided to run away. I read your posts on the thread, where you said you put your own elder brother in his place and where you talked about how you can use money to make someone commit suicide.
You have issues, sorry to say. You are one of those people who hardly overlooks things and never forgives and feel offended over little things. I had friends like that before and even me myself I had to run away from them because of their dangerous way of thinking.
I don't blame the girl for running from you.

baseless story of a broke ass nigga .

Youdondeymad:
Attention seeker,you are mouthed and sighted.




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your moniker speaks it all

thesuave10:



Pulls her back with her hijab and jeans trouser

m not a Muslim so that's not hijab

valdovas:
Op I bet the girl was getting sociopath vibes from you and decided to run away. I read your posts on the thread, where you said you put your own elder brother in his place and where you talked about how you can use money to make someone commit suicide.
You have issues, sorry to say. You are one of those people who hardly overlooks things and never forgives and feel offended over little things. I had friends like that before and even me myself I had to run away from them because of their dangerous way of thinking.
I don't blame the girl for running from you.

every thing you said here is misinterpreted. Slowly read over again. My brother messing up has to do with taking advantage of his younger siblings for ages and I said enough is a enough. There is a limit to everything.

motherfucker:


May God bless you. They also failed to see where the friend had even warned me about her which I felt was backstab. I didn't know she was trying to save me.

As me what is so important in a 50k smartphone that she had to come back another day to continue?

If you watch, I was the one giving an option to make A CHOICE so it doesn't feel like I am the one forcing everything.

My guess is that since she saw I use Q5, she concluded on the spot that I had nothing to offer her and she fell for ordinary phone because it's clean.

The worse is that she went there TWICE and some idiots feel it's okay for a girl to behave like that, I mean they can safely trust a girl that exhibits such tendency?

I won't be surprise if she makes it regular visit cos she finally confirmed what I had been warned-- very unstable human being, yet she was asking me questions for things I could give her double.

I sit here wondering why you expect an illogical gender to behave in a logical way.

You have a lot to learn. Trust me.

mzhorlah:
your moniker speaks it all

I don't troll with ladies,I respect them,mind your use of words.We have good men and women and vice versa,have a great day,cheers.





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Ahmiee:
baseless story of a broke ass nigga .

This just came in while chatting with u here and i have not slept since 12 AM ( when you were probably dreaming of cumming on a coock)

Fourwinds:
u are just a replica of d girl OP discussed....u just came in and rant nonsense...so u didn't see fault in what d foolish girl told OP...lies rite from day one....there is nothing as good as saying d truth... y tell. someone u will visit and yet fail to do so... even when d girl suddenly chose a day for her to see OP., are u not amaze dat OP honoured it... I'm surprise some girls lose their sense of intelligency when being woo by guys...

It's not enough to call her useless you know
She still got the rights to her conscience you know.She may have her reasons for not meeting up with the op.

Am i the only one who noticed OP moniker is motherfucker?

Itsbl question I asked

motherfucker:
yeah bro. I get your point. Na she say she wan come... In my mind, visit was gonna be another day BUT she chose SAME day.

She doesn't want to be disrespected but she ended up disrespecting herself.

Quit your rants Mr man.You're very very immature to say the least.If you can get easily agitated by a woman not turning up as promised,then I must confess you need some growing up to do.

Since you felt a need not to trust her friend,don't be too fast to castigate her yet.Her friend may also try to discourage her from dating you.
Have you discussed this issue with her?Not like confrontation but a one to one discussion about her actions?

imma2:
I sit here wondering why you expect an illogical gender to behave in a logical way.

You have a lot to learn. Trust me.

lmaooooo... bros, i know they are illogical beings,including those forming boss on here and only a few of them will admit that they don't understand themselves but despite that, I never expect this one to announce her abnormality so quick

nkwuocha:


It's not enough to call her useless you know
She still got the rights to her conscience you know.She may have her reasons for not meeting up with the op.

did I hear u say right.? sometimes I keep wondering d number of people dat take a defence at this....now what stops her from calling d OP and inform him her change of plan.? example: She can just say please bear with me I will not be able to come to ur place....which is good..



and then again d shameless idiot couldn't even do dat and she went back to were she met OP earlier to continue her fanzy over d movie she was watching....can u see d stupidity d girl's way of life. there is something we call "Courtesy"

eyinjuege:


It would be stupid of the girl and even you to trust yourselves for one second. For all anyone knows, you might be a ritualist waiting to cut off her breasts.
She isn't clairvoyant to know your mind or intentions neither are you to know hers.
There nothing unstable about her "behavioural tendencies". She might be a runs girl, she might be a decent person, or she may simply not feel you're worth expending her energy on. She does have a right to change her mind about paying a visit to someone she barely knows.


Anyone can change their minds, and you should be able to understand that, especially in this case where nothing joined you guys together.

It shouldn't get you so pained to create a thread about.

The fact that you allowed what she did get to you, especially since she's more or less a stranger is what i personally find more worrisome.

Although I agree with your post, the bold is an exception. Yes she has the right to change her mind about visiting (cos it's her life, her time etc) but common sense and courtesy demands she calls or texts the Op to inform him but then what do I know...

Ahmiee:
baseless story of a broke ass nigga .

When they say girls have fish brain, it's people like you that will be croaking like a frog thrown into hot water.

What concerns been broke with the Op's story nitori Olorun? GTFOH

nkwuocha:


Quit your rants Mr man.You're very very immature to say the least.If you can get easily agitated by a woman not turning up as promised,then I must confess you need some growing up to do.

Have you discussed this issue with her?Not like confrontation but a one to one discussion about her actions?

bros, it is not the issue of not turning up at my place that is the problem here... if she was playing safe with because she does not know me as some people opined earlier, why did she promise to come back and give the other guy her number and she kept her words. It is being disrespected that is the issue here.

Did i even bother to call her after the day she promised to come ? NO, SHE EVEN CALLED ME A TWICE on thursday and by friday she is giving the other guy audience because of what? PHONE? NA PHONE cause THIS BRO. I am using Q5, not like I can't afford to get a better phone but I have some things that needs money and i told myself i will not buy another phone till I am done. she concluded that my phone is representation of my pocket without knowing me. She also think I am just a friend there not knowing I am a customer to one of them there as a regular buyer.

A girl who wants to play hard to get does not act that way, a girl who does not want to act cheap does not promise a guy like that her number on second visit considering she came to ask of me from same dude.

But I get it, she wins, I lose, I am not worth it...i am immature. If a slap on your face is considered maturity, i don't want to be that kind of mature or what impression do you think that dude would have after the whole thing played out?

Fourwinds:
did I hear u say right.? sometimes I keep wondering d number of people dat take a defence at this....now what stops her from calling d OP and inform him her change of plan.? example: She can just say please bear with me I will not be able to come to ur place....which is good..



and then again d shameless idiot couldn't even do and she went back to were she met OP earlier to continue her fanzy over d movie she was watching....can u see d stupidity d girl way of life

That's why many of you make mistakes despite showing wiseness.Simply because you don't understand women.The few men that understand women are the ones that knows well how to deal with them,either for good or bad.From what the op put up there,its clear that this lady is a very gullible one,the friend may even the wolf in sheepskins.Yes!She didn't call back,its not okay but finding out the reason why should be what the op should be concerned about.Its clear she likes the op,at least to a level that's enough for something worthwhile to happen,but there may be circumstances that may have caused the whole problems.

We do not know what her friend may also be telling her concerning the op.If I'm the lady in question and my friend tells me to stay away from his male casual friend,I will definitely react the way the lady did.I may not even give him an explanation.

Look,communication is one important thing in ALL relationships.Until the op find out the reason for the lady reaction,he shouldn't rule her out outright.

Fourwinds:
did I hear u say right.? sometimes I keep wondering d number of people dat take a defence at this....now what stops her from calling d OP and inform him her change of plan.? example: She can just say please bear with me I will not be able to come to ur place....which is good..



and then again d shameless idiot couldn't even do dat and she went back to were she met OP earlier to continue her fanzy over d movie she was watching....can u see d stupidity d girl's way of life. there is something we call "Courtesy"

bro, they don't know what I am saying, They fail to realise girls are reading this and tomorrrow, they will have the nerve to do it on another brother because "some men don't see anything wrong in it"

The worse is they see me as being immature because i refused to accept the slap on my face. Several years ago, an ex did this same nonsense and I overlooked it. NOT ANYMORE!

motherfuckers:
bro, they don't know what I am saying, They fail to realise girls are reading this and tomorrrow, they will have the nerve to do it on another brother because "some men don't see anything wrong in it"

The worse is they see me as being immature because i refused to accept the slap on my face. Several years ago, an ex did this same nonsense and I overlooked it. NOT ANYMORE!

You're getting all worked up unnecessarily.That her friend that told you Shiites about this lady,how sure she didn't say shittes about you tooThat's why I don't listen to third parties,I only hear their opinions.
Shebi na the babe been come find you for the guy shop?Same girl wanted to see you even sooner than you expected.The question should be asked,"who dey try put sand sand for my garri?"
You're quick to anger too.If you follow what women does with anger and not diplomacy,you will make a lot of mistakes.

agrovick:


When they say girls have fish brain, it's people like you that will be croaking like a frog thrown into hot water.

What concerns been broke with the Op's story nitori Olorun? GTFOH

STFUP why TF did you quote me, what's your concern with my opinion. u should also mind your damn business

motherfucker:


Sorry, I don't belong to that school of thought. I put people squarely where they belong otherwise they will repeat again. I understand your point, but u don't want to hear my story where I over looked things like this and in the end, I was the most stupid maga to ever graced mother earth.

Now, I do GIGO (Garbage in Garbage Out).

My elder brother messed up, I put him where he belong. A tenant messed up, I put where he belong because people take advantage of you when you over look things... A real man know when to cut the bullshhiit.

hei are you not supposed to represent that name "motherfucker"?
A motherfucker does not give a fk! yes you're vexed she didn't show up after she said she would and for the fact that u had to sub ur dish cos of the bush! Dude one thing u should know is never get angry at this little girls and their shortcomings and how can u do that? by not taking them serious! you're hurt now cos u took d gal serious n for whatever reason she acted a fooll in her on way (ur views). The best thing I ever did for myself is LOVE MYSELF, most of you don't love urselves much. Instead thinking of subscribing cos of d gal y don't u sub cos even though u ain't got time to watch t.v u can watch a little during weekends, doing it for u n not for a gal that's one of d reasons y ur feelings were hurt bro. If i invite a gal to come over n she doesn't I'll enjoy myself with whatever goodies I prepared or bought or call a side chick.
If u call a gal don't trust whether she's coming if u want to fk, check d time. If the supposed time is 30mins late then u hit up ur side chick ask her to come and if she's on d way then call the initial simple chick n tell her something came up that u got to go somewhere but if the initial simple chick comes first then u call d side chick and explain to her that something came up and to cement ur word u send her some mtn, airtel or whatever card and she would find it easier to chill.
Sometimes you make them invite themselves, they won't ask u directly but they can put it in DC ways like
Girl: where do u stay? I've never been to that place/area before..
You: Really? its nice, cool we though our electricity ain't all that but thank God for the generator. or One of the reason I like/moved to the place is cos they have constant electricity. You can come around..( put, IF YOU WANT if she seems laid back)

Matter if fact maybe you didn't pull ur game well based on how u approached her first, sometimes its better to make ursef or place interesting to a gal and entice her to come over. For e.g since you discovered she like watching movies you would have found out what kind of movies she was watching n ask her what d story line is and after shes tru then u can say something like I watched a movie that has similar storyline on movie afric, African magic, MBC, movie3 or whatever channel she might be into and go on to say u plan to watch a movie d u programmed on ur decoder by ?? p.m (but don't sound cocky or pompous or like ur boasting) then like a chicken head she is, she will be interesting to know what kind of movies, channels, house, apartment and other things u got and if ur house is cool (Every G is supposed to make his house, room, selfcon or whatever look awesome, sweet and comfortable for u first before the gals. they love that). Her mind be like, if I go down with this guy I can get to stay at his home and see movies all day and do other shitt even invite my friends over (they love that too believe me) when he goes to work and bam she's at ur home and next time she's likely to sleep over or come over for the weekend bro. Hope u peeped game here though, more punnies to u