motherfuckers:
This just came in while chatting with u here and i have not slept since 12 AM ( when you were probably dreaming of cumming on a coock)

no need quoting you, you as confused as ur moniker

nkwuocha:


That's why many of you make mistakes despite showing wiseness.Simply because you don't understand women.The few men that understand women are the ones that knows well how to deal with them,either for good or bad.From what the op put up there,its clear that this lady is a very gullible one,the friend may even the wolf in sheepskins.Yes!She didn't call back,its not okay but finding out the reason why should be what the op should be concerned about.Its clear she likes the op,at least to a level that's enough for something worthwhile to happen,but there may be circumstances that may have caused the whole problems.

We do not know what her friend may also be telling her concerning the op.If I'm the lady in question and my friend tells me to stay away from his male casual friend,I will definitely react the way the lady did.I may not even give him an explanation.

Look,communication is one important thing in ALL relationships.Until the op find out the reason for the lady reaction,he shouldn't rule her out outright.

I will take your advice and calm down... The issue here is that I have had enough with these girls and I won't want to go another round with another, if not for sake of God, I would gladly live my life without them or adopt if it comes to that( the sad part is there is nothing like your own).

concerning the emoboldened, the friend told me personally to be careful of her ( they stay together) and not put all my mind or trust on her because of the way she behaves. She personally told me that she had advised the girl several times to mind the way she hang out with men that will never benefit her. The funniest thing before God and man was that I didn't believe her wholly; I thought after the first call, they had quarrel and so, she decided to spoil what she had arranged out jealousy.

You should have asked where I knew the friend and WHY she selflessly agreed to hook us.

HERE is the thing... that friend did all that because when she came from the east and had no place to sleep, we sheltered her for months until she decided it was time to move out... no quarrel and in those time, she knows me well and there were a few times I bought some stuff as a family so they can feel at home. That is how I treat people generally EXCEPT they abuse the privilege.

But I will take your advice, calm down and take everything calmly.

As you can see, she unknowingly confirmed what I had been warned earlier on...

Fourwinds:
use ur brain...did OP invite her.? she requested to visit...u are still displaying ur low intelligency. like I said earlier don't say what u cannt do or fulfill....probably u are in such class as d girl who promise and fail


modified.: So u couldn't read dat they have already met in public before she said she will pay a visit... it is a pity u couldn't comprehend d story

Calm down bro!Haba!
Sincerely our youth feels women are their problems.I'm a man,and I'm sure I'm older and more experienced than you.NEVER EVER FOLLOW SAME LINE OF THOUGHTS WITH WOMEN.IT WILL CONSUME YOU.This is a very easy thing,she "messed" up,why not find out why?All these rants won't stop the op from running away from women.

haba
its seems you are new to wowing gals
if not you wont be surprised by any of these her actions...

nkwuocha:



You're getting all worked up unnecessarily.That her friend that told you Shiites about this lady,how sure she didn't say shittes about you tooThat's why I don't listen to third parties,I only hear their opinions.
Shebi na the babe been come find you for the guy shop?Same girl wanted to see you even sooner than you expected.The question should be asked,"who dey try put sand sand for my garri?"
You're quick to anger too.If you follow what women does with anger and not diplomacy,you will make a lot of mistakes.

Bros, I SWEAR, your words dey enter my head... but I will tell you one thing... I was never born to be quick to anger, in fact I am slower than snail with it when it came to that but I later realised in life that people will run over you if you give them the privilege to. I have had so much tales that I tend to even displease myself and please others while they hurt me so badly for my own stupidity because nature is all about "ME FIRST" I didn't realise it on time due to my inexperience.

Yes, my elder sister had complained about my anger but that isn't the real me, what you see is what life has turned me into

motherfuckers:
lmaooooo... bros, i know they are illogical beings,including those forming boss on here and only a few of them will admit that they don't understand themselves but despite that, I never expect this one to announce her abnormality so quick

I'm glad you see the point. Listen to that "thesuave10" guy. He made a very big point. You don't try to please girls. (you subscribed your paytv you haven't subscribed for months because she was to come over). C'mon. They should please you. Never ever show you are interested in a lady no matter how interested you are. Keep your emotions in check.

If she asked to see you that same day. You should have declined.

If you be my area padi. Girls go chase you die and you get to select the ones that are really into you.

GodsLastBorn:
hei are you not supposed to represent that name "motherfucker"?
A motherfucker does not give a fk! yes you're vexed she didn't show up after she said she would and for the fact that u had to sub ur dish cos of the bush! Dude one thing u should know is never get angry at this little girls and their shortcomings and how can u do that? by not taking them serious! you're hurt now cos u took d gal serious n for whatever reason she acted a fooll in her on way (ur views). The best thing I ever did for myself is LOVE MYSELF, most of you don't love urselves much. Instead thinking of subscribing cos of d gal y don't u sub cos even though u ain't got time to watch t.v u can watch a little during weekends, doing it for u n not for a gal that's one of d reasons y ur feelings were hurt bro. If i invite a gal to come over n she doesn't I'll enjoy myself with whatever goodies I prepared or bought or call a side chick.
If u call a gal don't trust whether she's coming if u want to fk, check d time. If she wa

Thanks man.. I owe you much. God bless your brain!

Ahmiee:
no need quoting you, you as confused as ur moniker

no, i am broke. ode

Ahmiee:
STFUP why TF did you quote me, what's your concern with my opinion. u should also mind your damn business

It's the duty of some of us here to drum sense into noodle filled brain of folks like you so that you don't go about infecting others with your retarded sense of reasoning.

motherfuckers:
I will take your advice and calm down... The issue here is that I have had enough with these girls and I won't want to go another round with another, if not for sake of God, I would gladly live my life without them or adopt if it comes to that( the sad part is there is nothing like your own).

concerning the emoboldened, the friend told me personally to be careful of her ( they stay together) and not put all my mind or trust on her because of the way she behaves. She personally told me that she had advised the girl several times to mind the way she hang out with men that will never benefit her. The funniest thing before God and man was that I didn't believe her wholly; I thought after the first call, they had quarrel and so, she decided to spoil what she had arranged out jealousy.

You should have asked where I knew the friend and WHY she selflessly agreed to hook us.

HERE is the thing... that friend did all that because when she came from the east and had no place to sleep, we sheltered her for months until she decided it was time to move out... no quarrel and in those time, she knows me well and there were a few times I bought some stuff as a family so they can feel at home. That is how I treat people generally EXCEPT they abuse the privilege.

But I will take your advice, calm down and take everything calmly.

As you can see, she unknowingly confirmed what I had been warned earlier on...

The best way to win this game is through patience,observation and a mind of your own.You may not know the level of jealousy displayed on whoever.If I had listened to my friends of yesteryear,I wont have married my wife today.Many of them till date are still complaining about women,unmarried still.

Establish your facts first by knowing what went wrong.This your lady friend may not want your relationship with the girl for several reasons.Yes!she may be the one to pave way,but hey thus women can ne cunny at times.There are instances when ladies will introduce their friends to a guy thinking its just a one time thing,and turn around to show jealousy once they noticed the relationship is moving towards commitment.

Talk to her,employ patience while at it.If she is trouble,drop her like it's hot.

motherfuckers:
Bros, I SWEAR, your words dey enter my head... but I will tell you one thing... I was never born to be quick to anger, in fact I am slower than snail with it when it came to that but I later realised in life that people will run over you if you give them the privilege to. I have had so much tales that I tend to even displease myself and please others while they hurt me so badly for my own stupidity because nature is all about "ME FIRST" I didn't realise it on time due to my inexperience.

Yes, my elder sister had complained about my anger but that isn't the real me, what you see is what life has turned me into

You are so perfect... ,you can even consider of you could be wrong in some way, your own mind is made up.
I have met people like you, they are self absorbed .
Guess what, there's something that guy she left you for have that you lack. Otherwise even if she messes around why not with you? And don't say it's just phone, I guess your attitude is largely the problem.
I don't expect you to understand this. You'd just clap back as you did with everybody who has an opinion different from yours.

You are the useless one, not most Nigerian girls

GodsLastBorn:
hei are you not supposed to represent that name "motherfucker"?
A motherfucker does not give a fk! yes you're vexed she didn't show up after she said she would and for the fact that u had to sub ur dish cos of the bush! Dude one thing u should know is never get angry at this little girls and their shortcomings and how can u do that? by not taking them serious! you're hurt now cos u took d gal serious n for whatever reason she acted a fooll in her on way (ur views). The best thing I ever did for myself is LOVE MYSELF, most of you don't love urselves much. Instead thinking of subscribing cos of d gal y don't u sub cos even though u ain't got time to watch t.v u can watch a little during weekends, doing it for u n not for a gal that's one of d reasons y ur feelings were hurt bro. If i invite a gal to come over n she doesn't I'll enjoy myself with whatever goodies I prepared or bought or call a side chick.
If u call a gal don't trust whether she's coming if u want to fk, check d time. If the supposed time is 30mins late then u hit up ur side chick ask her to come and if she's on d way then call the initial simple chick n tell her something came up that u got to go somewhere but if the initial simple chick comes first then u call d side chick and explain to her that something came up and to cement ur word u send her some mtn, airtel or whatever card and she would find it easier to chill.
Sometimes you make them invite themselves, they won't ask u directly but they can put it in DC ways like
Girl: where do u stay? I've never been to that place/area before..
You: Really? its nice, cool we though our electricity ain't all that but thank God for the generator. or One of the reason I like/moved to the place is cos they have constant electricity. You can come around..( put, IF YOU WANT if she seems laid back)

Matter if fact maybe you didn't pull ur game well based on how u approached her first, sometimes its better to make ursef or place interesting to a gal and entice her to come over. For e.g since you discovered she like watching movies you would have found out what kind of movies she was watching n ask her what d story line is and after shes tru then u can say something like I watched a movie that has similar storyline on movie afric, African magic, MBC, movie3 or whatever channel she might be into and go on to say u plan to watch a movie d u programmed on ur decoder by ?? p.m (but don't sound cocky or pompous or like ur boasting) then like a chicken head she is, she will be interesting to know what kind of movies, channels, house, apartment and other things u got and if ur house is cool (Every G is supposed to make his house, room, selfcon or whatever look awesome, sweet and comfortable for u first before the gals. they love that). Her mind be like, if I go down with this guy I can get to stay at his home and see movies all day and do other shitt even invite my friends over (they love that too believe me) when he goes to work and bam she's at ur home and next time she's likely to sleep over or come over for the weekend bro. Hope u peeped game here though, more punnies to u

Thank bro. Seriously since it was first time and knowing how girls take first visit, I decided not to pressure her on that to be honest. That was why when I called for the visit, I always asked, "where will you like us to meet" You see? giving her the choice to choose her comfort zone... i didn't say meet me at so and so place.

Thanks for your time jare, the deed is done already and I will find a way to calm down as my bro nkwuocha had advised.

motherfuckers:
I will take your advice and calm down... The issue here is that I have had enough with these girls and I won't want to go another round with another, if not for sake of God, I would gladly live my life without them or adopt if it comes to that( the sad part is there is nothing like your own).

concerning the emoboldened, the friend told me personally to be careful of her ( they stay together) and not put all my mind or trust on her because of the way she behaves. She personally told me that she had advised the girl several times to mind the way she hang out with men that will never benefit her. The funniest thing before God and man was that I didn't believe her wholly; I thought after the first call, they had quarrel and so, she decided to spoil what she had arranged out jealousy.

You should have asked where I knew the friend and WHY she selflessly agreed to hook us.

HERE is the thing... that friend did all that because when she came from the east and had no place to sleep, we sheltered her for months until she decided it was time to move out... no quarrel and in those time, she knows me well and there were a few times I bought some stuff as a family so they can feel at home. That is how I treat people generally EXCEPT they abuse the privilege.

But I will take your advice, calm down and take everything calmly.

As you can see, she unknowingly confirmed what I had been warned earlier on...

motherfuckers go back and read my initial post, I didn't complete it before u read it.
Nkwuocha made good points too, the thing is do you still want this girl bro? (though u have to subliminally not take her serious but don't let it show)

nkwuocha:


The best way to win this game is through patience,observation and a mind of your own.You may not know the level of jealousy displayed on whoever.If I had listened to my friends of yesteryear,I wont have married my wife today.Many of them till date are still complaining about women,unmarried still.

Establish your facts first by knowing what went wrong.This your lady friend may not want your relationship with the girl for several reasons.Yes!she may be the one to pave way,but hey thus women can ne cunny at times.There are instances when ladies will introduce their friends to a guy thinking its just a one time thing,and turn around to show jealousy once they noticed the relationship is moving towards commitment.

Talk to her,employ patience while at it.If she is trouble,drop her like it's hot.

Okay bro... I will do. Thanks a lot!

motherfuckers:


Thank bro. Seriously since it was first time and knowing how girls take first visit, I decided not to pressure her on that to be honest. That was why when I called for the visit, I always asked, "where will you like us to meet" You see? giving her the choice to choose her comfort zone... i didn't say meet me at so and so place.

Thanks for your time jare, the deed is done already and I will find a way to calm down as my bro nkwuocha had advised.

U are not man enough.. Why even take her to your friend's shop? Haven't you heard three is a crowd? Why didn't you take her where both of you can have quiet time(not your house, obviously) instead you took her to your friend's shop... shop oo... chaiii...what shall I not read on NL.

And instead of asking her where would you like us to meet, tell her let's meet at so xyz place, you cool?
Bro, you lack logistics and game

GodsLastBorn:
motherfuckers go back and read my initial post, I didn't complete it before u read it.
Nkwuocha made good points too, the thing is do you still want this girl bro? (though u have to subliminally not take her serious but don't let it show)

Well, wanting her? may be at least I don't hang out with any girl around here as a new person lol. It certainly wouldn't be bad idea to get company at some time.

Right now, there is rift already, a friction because of what happened on Friday... will calling her make her feel proud? or how would you handle it?

motherfuckers:
Well, wanting her? may be at least I don't hang out with any girl around here as a new person lol. It certainly wouldn't be bad idea to get company at some time.

Right now, there is rift already, a friction because of what happened on Friday... will calling her make her feel proud? or how would you handle it?

Call her to demand an explanation.Her response will place you on the right path in addressing the issue.Again don't pest her with too much calls.After her explanation,either good or bad,give yourself a week or two weeks break.Believe me she will be doing the calling.

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Bibi294:
Thank God a 'girl' gave birth to you and u av a 'girl' as a sibling... So all of us are useless all together

Why una no fit understand simple grammar? He said MOST meaning NOT ALL. Haba!! You don take hand condemn yourself when you aren't condemned.

NaeChris:
Why una no fit understand simple grammar? He said MOST meaning NOT ALL. Haba!! You don take hand condemn yourself when you aren't condemned.

no mind dem jare.

agrovick:


It's the duty of some of us here to drum sense into noodle filled brain of folks like you so that you don't go about infecting others with your retarded sense of reasoning.

SWERVE

motherfuckers:
Well, wanting her? may be at least I don't hang out with any girl around here as a new person lol. It certainly wouldn't be bad idea to get company at some time.

Right now, there is rift already, a friction because of what happened on Friday... will calling her make her feel proud? or how would you handle it?

It depends and many things are better discussed in person than on phone so that you can read a persons body language, know whether you should continue what you were saying, whether she's feeling ur flows or not and many more. How to handle any girl depends on her personality.
If she's reasonable you can call her and tell her you would like both of u to meet at a nice fast food, nice restaurant with serene environment, a dope hangout spot, a pool/bar spot, basically a place with nice settings and u need to look, act and be coordinated. Meet up start with small talks, be friendly and your mood should be happy and laid back. Ask her how has she been, be or act interested in her (u have to be on ur "game". When u don't take chicks serious, u feel very relaxed and flow, yan, crack jokes and butter her up. Watch her body language as u unfold these things. If she's feeling you her eyes, lips, arms, head (how she moves her head) and shoulders will tell you then you can switch to next thing. Ask her what happened? at a point she seems like the beautiful, awesome and sweet lady but at a point you didn't understand her ways again within so so days (u know d days Nigga). She's likely to explain if you buttered her up very well then watch her response.

Ahmiee:
SWERVE

K

she might explain which will lead to more convo on the issue or she might decide to sweep any bias that made her act the way she did under the rug in order to continue enjoy the good time you're giving her. From her response you will know what to do, tell her how u see her as a smart, beautiful, interesting lady and attach references to most of these to mske it seem real for e.g shes very smart, the way she did this or that or how her good command of English, a story she told u or whatever u observed abt her that u can link to the word "smart" do so but if u cant find then leave it at shes smart move on to d other qualities then maybe you can say well its all good sha dat u were longing to see her beautiful smile that makes ur day that she had been denying you since but oh well she's here right now with her smile that makes your day, basically make her feel great and important (things we do for pusssssi smdfh but we need the wet cat anyway :-) ).
Then enjoy the rest of the evening and end it in a merry way when she's all happy drive her home or give her transport fare, don't ask her when is she coming to your place. Don't invite her for now, when u get home call her and show some love/care. Have you reach home and other things but don't make this call long, make it short and sweet then say ur byes.
Text her the next morning by maybe six a.m, start ur day. Don't call her until in the evening, pick time maybe be 7/8:30 p.m to ask about how she is and how was her day, hope she had a splendid day, dinner and other lovely things they like and sometimes call her in the morning when she starts reciprocating. Do these call schedule for maybe 4days then in between the 4days call her randomly and tell her you are thinking about her, chat a little and drop the call, be observant if she's feeling you and if she is she will start expecting your call and wanna hear from you. She will start calling you at least from the second day and I bet within this new week she will come to your place but these all depends on two things which you are to finesse like a motherfucker;
1. How you go about it, basically your GAME.
2. Is she feeling you (#1 will determine that), if she is then half the job is done. It seems like she was feeling you but something happened but forget all that. It's a new adventure, catch fun bro its not a do or die affair.

Jkfc:


U are not man enough.. Why even take her to your friend's shop? Haven't you heard three is a crowd? Why didn't you take her where both of you can have quiet time(not your house, obviously) instead you took her to your friend's shop... shop oo... chaiii...what shall I not read on NL.

And instead of asking her where would you like us to meet, tell her let's meet at so xyz place, you cool?
Bro, you lack logistics and game

that was where she met me and that were she had come to ask of me most times and insisted on sitting there when I asked that we use somewhere else.

Do u want her to think I want something else? Dude it's what she asked that I gave her.

Besides, you have had you entertainment enough, aye?

GodsLastBorn:
she might explain which will lead to more convo on the issue or she might decide to sweep any bias that made her act the way she did under the rug in order to continue enjoy the good time you're giving her. From her response you will know what to do, tell her how u see her as a smart, beautiful, interesting lady and attach references to most of these to mske it seem real for e.g shes very smart, the way she did this or that or how her good command of English, a story she told u or whatever u observed abt her that u can link to the word "smart" do so but if u cant find then leave it at shes smart move on to d other qualities then maybe you can say well its all good sha dat u were longing to see her beautiful smile that makes ur day that she had been denying you since but oh well she's here right now with her smile that makes your day, basically make her feel great and important (things we do for pusssssi smdfh but we need the wet cat anyway :-) ).
Then enjoy the rest of the evening and end it in a merry way when she's all happy drive her home or give her transport fare, don't ask her when is she coming to your place. Don't invite her for now, when u get home call her and show some love/care. Have you reach home and other things but don't make this call long, make it short and sweet then say ur byes.
Text her the next morning by maybe six a.m, start ur day. Don't call her until in the evening, pick time maybe be 7/8:30 p.m to ask about how she is and how was her day, hope she had a splendid day, dinner and other lovely things they like and sometimes call her in the morning when she starts reciprocating. Do these call schedule for maybe 4days then in between the 4days call her randomly and tell her you are thinking about her, chat a little and drop the call, be observant if she's feeling you and if she is she will start expecting your call and wanna hear from you. She will start calling you at least from the second day and I bet within this new week she will come to your place but these all depends on two things which you are to finesse like a motherfucker;
1. How you go about it, basically your GAME.
2. Is she feeling you (#1 will determine that), if she is then half the job is done. It seems like she was feeling you but something happened but forget all that. It's a new adventure, catch fun bro its not a do or die affair.

She was feeling me based on the way I spoke with her on phone, I have my way around that and I believe that was why she kept looking for me after that day because the day I took note of her, her eyes never met mine and she was completely oblivious of my presence.

MrCork:

....ok..so Nigeria n girls r useless becuzz a girl come to buy tie in yorrr shop... correct?.... bro,see a doctor!! (No oofensece)

Mrcork u arr neads to sea psichartrist.

mejai:
what is d moral of dis story?

exactly cause i don't understand all what he has been saying

firstking01:
Some of em just look physically big and endowed but their head is blocked.

is that not what you want

motherfuckers:
that was where she met me and that were she had come to ask of me most times and insisted on sitting there when I asked that we use somewhere else.

Do u want her to think I want something else? Dude it's what she asked that I gave her.

Besides, you have had you entertainment enough, aye?

Ask her to-go somewhere else... For you to had be calling, asking to see her etc, then you want something else.
A matured lady wouldn't be shocked if a guy wants something else. So your game plan is just to act like she's your normal friend then later start changing game plan.
That doesn't always work.

Jkfc:

Ask her to-go somewhere else... For you to had be calling, asking to see her etc, then you want something else.
A matured lady wouldn't be shocked if a guy wants something else. So your game plan is just to act like she's your normal friend then later start changing game plan.
That doesn't always work.

okay. U win. I am the one at fault. Are u happy now?

motherfuckers:
okay. U win. I am the one at fault. Are u happy now?

Yeah I am very much happy, you are at fault....