preccy69:
we didn't have time for all dat,I walked out on dem

call him on the phone and get to know the reason, nothing more.
if he doesn't want to say it, let him be.
this way, you'll know how to prevent such from happening when you find yourself a better guy.

pocohantas:
These are the same guys that claim Nigerian ladies offer nothing but sex, see them fighting for the sex.
The same guys littering NL with pictures of fish, depicting UNIPORT girls vagina.
The same guys that claim every Nigerian girl has had an abortion.
Same guys calling non-virgins second hand.

OP, don't drop your standards for any nigga.
There are guys out there that will love you for you,as long as you don't blackmail him with your 'virginity'. It shouldn't be all about your virginity, be a virtuous one first.

The advise they give here about sex,they'll never give it to their sisters. You're 19, how many more guys will you date, how many more will you have sex with? Jmoore, abeg come put mouth.

A guy that loves you will stay, sex or no sex.

Most folks have already said it all. If she has a standard, she should stick to it and never compromise. She should also know that there are other men like her that are abstaining till marriage.

preccy69:
my passion,nt yet,na dem give me d monicker oooooooo

Good subject area you have chosen. I pray you gain admission soon.


So how often do you visit the NL programming section? I mean how are you preparing for an adventure in computer science?

ashewoboy:
my own question be say, you are the girl on the left or the girl on the right?@your dp. the girl on the left, my fantasy. if i catch her, i will fvck her. some girls fine sha. see beauty.@the girl on the left.

right

preccy69:
I learnt d hard way but I thank God, I wouldn't dare think of loosing it to someone had is nt my husband its really nt worth it

the truth is you are a very pretty girl, girl like you will always be a potential victim to wolves in sheep clothing, your ex didn't cheat on you because you didn't give me sex, he cheated because that who he is even if you have agreed to sex there is still a probability that he will still look outside for a more pretty girls.
in fact to me, you were smart for not giving in to sex because if you had your loss could have been double and that could lead to depression
my advice is learn to guard your heart and don't fall for sweet word although i know it is hard for a girl not to fall for it now you know we guy can act just to achieve our desire aim.
Especially you that is very pretty, there is a probability that lot and lot of these kind of guys will always come your way.

TheLordIsGr8:


You seem to know quite a lot for a virgin.

Never leave a guy with a bulge. That's a goal not scored. he will always return to the field.


Addicted? Movie? Hmmm. my dear I stopped learning from movies long ago. Reality is more brutal.

was tryna make u guys understand me wen I say my libido is high,dats y I used movie as example

Equal2DeTask:


U better Use ur head...

ok

toastedbread:


since you related yourself to that addicted lady, i now see things from your pov.
please, hussain bolt far from anything that might lead to sex.
don't open that box yet.

yea,doing just dat

preccy69:
he never loved me,its obvious,thanks anyway

you know the funniest part is this guy may love you, it is just that he can't put his urge in check.

TheLordIsGr8:


Good subject area you have chosen. I pray you gain admission soon.


So how often do you visit the NL programming section? I mean how are you preparing for an adventure in computer science?

tryna get d syllabus from a frnd in 300level

OLAJADON:

the truth is you are a very pretty girl, girl like you will always be a potential victim to wolves in sheep clothing, your ex didn't cheat on you because you didn't give me sex, he cheated because that who he is even if you have agreed to sex there is still a probability that he will still look outside for a more pretty girls.
in fact to me, you were smart for not giving in to sex because if you had your loss could have been double and that could lead to depression
my advice is learn to guard your heart and don't fall for sweet word although i know it is hard for a girl not to fall for it now you know we guy can act just to achieve our desire aim.
Especially you that is very pretty, there is a probability that lot and lot of these kind of guys will always come your way.

I didn't fall for d sweet words I fell for him

preccy69:
was tryna make u guys understand me wen I say my libido is high,dats y I used movie as example

Anyway, my prayers are with you. Know that as a woman, your emotions are on the high side and that can be dangerous in this day and age.

How's business going? I sight u for back of counter taking one shot


You seldom use the NL emojis. Try it more often. Gives your comments a better flavour.

I think we've talked enough for today. Maybe next time or wen I'm in funtua soon. pm me if you'd like to meet.

TheLordIsGr8:


Anyway, my prayers are with you. Know that as a woman, your emotions are on the high side and that can be dangerous in this day and age.

How's business going? I sight u for back of counter taking one shot


You seldom use the NL emojis. Try it more often. Gives your comments a better flavour.

I think we've talked enough for today. Maybe next time or wen I'm in funtua soon. pm me if you'd like to meet.

hahaha,oya nah bye

preccy69:
tryna get d syllabus from a frnd in 300level

You don't need that until you actually finish your clearance.
Don't be choosy when it comes to institution though. You're your own best teacher.
And in case you don't have a laptop yet, all your savings for now should be directed towards getting a medium end laptop.
Start now.


The internet is your best friend.

Check out my thread here: https://www.nairaland.com/3734856/finding-resources-free-learning

OLAJADON:

you know the funniest part is this guy may love you, it is just that he can't put his urge in check.

yea I know he does,he cheated on me,he didn't even think about how I will feel,d shock was too much for me,can't go thru dat again,stroke is nt beans

toastedbread:

call him on the phone and get to know the reason, nothing more.
if he doesn't want to say it, let him be.
this way, you'll know how to prevent such from happening when you find yourself a better guy.

I can't call him,I myt end up crying on d fone nd if I try to hide it,my voice may betray me

toastedbread:
a guy who wants to date you without sex, will do it, and not cheat on you.
it all depends on what the individual wants.


a guy will keep to his word (sex free relationship) but the lady will be secretly banging another guy. one week to her wedding, she'll say someone raped her.


no guy wants to pass through this painful process again.

gbam!

TheLordIsGr8:


You don't need that until you actually finish your clearance.
Don't be choosy when it comes to institution though. You're your own best teacher.
And in case you don't have a laptop yet, all your savings for now should be directed towards getting a medium end laptop.
Start now.


The internet is your best friend.

Check out my thread here: https://www.nairaland.com/3734856/finding-resources-free-learning

ok,thanks

preccy69:
I didn't fall for d sweet words I fell for him

so what made him so special? was it his looks,humour or dress sense or maybe personality.
I guess it should be personality(just my own guess) now you know a guy having a attract or gentle personality doesn't guarantee he would be faith.
like I said before more of these type of guy will always come your way as long as you are pretty, they will see your like a quest that need to be conquered, you will see them like a potential lover that you think deserves your love.
And we guys are very good in reading and predicting behaviour when it comes to love story, you won't know what hit you till it hit you so just be careful and learn to guard your heart.

pocohantas:
These are the same guys that claim Nigerian ladies offer nothing but sex, see them fighting for the sex.
The same guys littering NL with pictures of fish, depicting UNIPORT girls vagina.
The same guys that claim every Nigerian girl has had an abortion.
Same guys calling non-virgins second hand.

OP, don't drop your standards for any nigga.
There are guys out there that will love you for you,as long as you don't blackmail him with your 'virginity'. It shouldn't be all about your virginity, be a virtuous one first.

The advise they give here about sex,they'll never give it to their sisters. You're 19, how many more guys will you date, how many more will you have sex with? Jmoore, abeg come put mouth.

A guy that loves you will stay, sex or no sex.

lolz, funny but true you know 90% of guy fall under these you said, they don't know how to control their urge.

ghost3040:
you won't have any cause for regret baby..i promise..I'm one of the coolest kid in the building...if u think I'm lying ask:

Trapqueen: We dated for a while before i quited..tho she's still Head over Heels in love with me..she cursed the day we broke up..she's still yet to overcome the trauma...But she's seeing a therapist for that tho.

prettythicksmi:What more can i say...she's so obsessed about marriage...Told her i needed to take things slow but she was riding on a fast lane..But the straw that broke the camel's back was that she felt i was too innocent for her liking..said she loves the playboy/naughty kinda guys..u see?? i'm not so into nasty stuffs like ur ex.

zarzar:.That lady got insecurity issues and i hate that the most in a woman..so scared of loosing me and picks up a fight from just a "Hello" that i would say to a female friend...she thinks we still dating tho but i friendzoned her already..

Amarabae:Babe is such a sex addict..Demands sex at the slightest lone moment in the room...i just lack the right adjective to describe her unprecedented love for sex..I couldnt cope with her high libido so i called it quits..This shows that i'm not a sex freak..trust me on this...

This list can go on and on and on...if u think i'm lying ask
Lefulefu
McBrooklyn
Jacksparrow
Fuckshit........et al..

So u lucky to have me if u should accept this proposal..

Baba for the babes

OLAJADON:

so what made him so special? was it his looks,humour or dress sense or maybe personality.
I guess it should be personality(just my own guess) now you know a guy having a attract or gentle personality doesn't guarantee he would be faith.
like I said before more of these type of guy will always come your way as long as you are pretty, they will see your like a quest that need to be conquered, you will see them like a potential lover that you think deserves your love.
And we guys are very good in reading and predicting behaviour when it comes to love story, you won't know what hit you till it hit you so just be careful and learn to guard your heart.

it wasn't all dat,we were in love,he just cope with staying for a year nd some months without sex

preccy69:
it wasn't all dat,we were in love,he just cope with staying for a year nd some months without sex

OK, but I hope you learnt something

The reason why I've refused to comment on this thread long before now is because at some point in OP's life, a nice guy came to ask her out and she declined

preccy69:
I can't call him,I myt end up crying on d fone nd if I try to hide it,my voice may betray me

chei! no cry. i know how you feel.
what if he did it for you? the urge came and he didn't want to burst your hymen so he took the urge elsewhere.


i've heard married men say their side chicks are just for the rough/ experimental bangings. the slow and steady bangs are meant for madam.

preccy69:
it wasn't all dat,we were in love,he just cope with staying for a year nd some months without sex

He's been getting sexual gratification somewhere else that's why he was able to stay this long... Don't be deceived.

toastedbread:


chei! no cry. i know how you feel.
what if he did it for you? the urge came and he didn't want to burst your hymen so he took the urge elsewhere.


i've heard married men say their side chicks are just for the rough/ experimental bangings. the slow and steady bangs are meant for madam.

it ain't enuf reason to hurt me

OLAJADON:
OK, but I hope you learnt something

a lot

oluwashedy:
He's been getting sexual gratification somewhere else that's why he was able to stay this long... Don't be deceived.

don jus knw

No matter how much you preach your disgust for sex before marriage, it will never change the fact that many guys will never stay put in a sexless relationship

The best thing to do is not to go into any relationship since you don't want any guy to demand sex from you. It's easy easy as ABC

lefulefu:


Baba for the babes

U dey mind that mumu guy,ghost3040 u must be very mad.

preccy69:
I don't knw hw to start,ok
am just 19,we've been dating for a year nd six months now,we r crazily in love,I think I love him more,recently he's been acting strange no love texts messages,kisses, nd all d things he used to do,I miss d man I fell in love with, he's changed everything about him,so I went to see him on Saturday, nd he was on bed with another girl,he didn't even notice dat I opened door till I shut,den he came after me,he's 24,up to dis moment I can't bliv he cheated on me truth is we r nt having sex I asked if he could wait till after marriage nd he was cool with it,I confronted him nd all he could say was how long was I expecting him to stay,without sex,guys is it fair??u have a girl dat loves nd respects u,cares for u,its nt like he even asked me for it,I feel so hurt,he's been banging her for months nw,but is it all about d sex u guys getis itu myt b thinking dat it has to do with money but its doesn't I just wanted to b happy with him,dats all,we were close to taking an oath last year,but cos of his exams he couldn't come,he later convinced me to drop d idea my question is, are their good guys,is it all about a pair of legs dat spread

You can't wait till marriage... FACT. That guy just hasn't understood your button. When the guy who knows how to press it comes, you won't know when those legs will be spread.

You don't want sex, what are you doing in a relationship?