Please i need this forum to help me out on this issue.

I am 25, my boyfriend is 31, our relationship is just 4months old, but so far I noticed I have been the only one pushing hard and trying to make things work , he is been nonchalant about the whole thing, I do the calling, visiting and all that, most times he does not even pick my calls, and he would not return the call either, if I complain he would say I nag too much, plus so many other attitudes.

In fact the relationship has been full of tears for me.

Today I went to his house and talked to him about how I feel, I told him that the burden of the relationship is too much for me to bare, we are 2 adults in the relationship so we should both put our efforts or he should let me go now before it is too late. He begged me not to be angry and said he knows he is not been fair to me, that his issue is that, I am not his spec of girl when it comes to physical appearance, he just wanted to have his fun with me and walk away, but the issue now is that he realized during the course of the relationship that I am everything he wants in a woman in terms of attitude, that is why he is just confused, that I should give him time to really think it through, then I told him I was tired of suffering in the name of relationship, so while he is thinking, the relationship should be on hold, he refused but I stood my ground and walked away.
Please am I being irrational or am I overacting? Please candid advice please because I am hurting already.

Source: http://datebadoo..is/2017/05/my-relationship-full-of-tears.html?m=1

All these copy and paste relationship complaints... Mchew...

Hmmm

Better sit back and know what u want and deserve. Let no one take u for granted.
Be wise

A relationship dat brings tears to ur eyes iz dat one a relationship

If a guy gets a new catch, he can do anything to please her but the moment the girl opens her leg for him, this is what you get. The guy was only interested in your pussy.

sinaj:
A relationship dat brings tears to ur eyes iz dat one a relationship

Maybe she's dating an Onion.

sekundosekundo:
If a guy gets a new catch, he can do anything to please her but the moment the girl opens her leg for him, this is what you get. The guy was only interested in your pussy.

In a football match, if the home team is leading by 4 goals to nil, do they still attack Nope!!

The dude already told you that you aint his spec... And as much as he may like your character, he still don't dig you fully (that's why he can't even stand by you). What more do you expect from this nonsense?' Walk away and forget about this confused dude, as it is clear as day that you will never be #1.

Quite unfortunate thou, I will advice you give the guy a second chance but stay off sexual commitment in the cause of doing that.

Where re the relationship doctors

Are you dating an onion

Who am I suppose to advise?

Woulda advised buh you ain't the owner of the story

You took the best decision and i'd advice you stand firm on it....let the relationship be on a standstill untill he makes up his mind and give the relationship a proper definition and headway........I don't know why i 've just been laughing sheepishly today....Somedays everything can just be funny

dingbang:
All these copy and paste relationship complaints... Mchew...

Exactly! As if d concerned wl see it here.

Go to a male strip club.....you will soon forget about your woes!
So people just hunt for things to cut and paste! They cannot engage brain?

Buy a tissue #thankmeLater

i gat one word for you.................RUN...........the crying will continue wen u guys are married. u can quote me to elaborate

you say your in a relationship that's been full of tears and your still there...
are some girls born stupid or is it just in their D.N.A

Sweetheart. Pls just walk away. He made it point blank 2 u dat u aint his spec. Even if he thinks through it nd decides 2 stay with u, its basically out if pity.
So please, settle for someone who wld appreciate u for f real u. He isnt even nice, cos if actually ur physical appearance is poor nd he really wants 2 b with u, he wld put u through on how to improve.
He definitely wants to eat hia cake and have it

Don't whine.
You must run away and see if he chases.
If he chases, run a little bit more to see if he chases more.
If he doesn't chase, you have your answer.

the guy is so sincere and straightforward

I commend him for being straight forward and honest. But thank him for that and forget about the relationship.... will it be hurtful? Oh yes!!
But the good news is, you will get over it.... let it go. Someone who will appreciate your whole being will locate you. Just try and let go.

Johnpele:
Please i need this forum to help me out on this issue.

I am 25, my boyfriend is 31, our relationship is just 4months old, but so far I noticed I have been the only one pushing hard and trying to make things work , he is been nonchalant about the whole thing, I do the calling, visiting and all that, most times he does not even pick my calls, and he would not return the call either, if I complain he would say I nag too much, plus so many other attitudes.

In fact the relationship has been full of tears for me.

Today I went to his house and talked to him about how I feel, I told him that the burden of the relationship is too much for me to bare, we are 2 adults in the relationship so we should both put our efforts or he should let me go now before it is too late. He begged me not to be angry and said he knows he is not been fair to me, that his issue is that, I am not his spec of girl when it comes to physical appearance, he just wanted to have his fun with me and walk away, but the issue now is that he realized during the course of the relationship that I am everything he wants in a woman in terms of attitude, that is why he is just confused, that I should give him time to really think it through, then I told him I was tired of suffering in the name of relationship, so while he is thinking, the relationship should be on hold, he refused but I stood my ground and walked away.
Please am I being irrational or am I overacting? Please candid advice please because I am hurting already.

Source: http://datebadoo..is/2017/05/my-relationship-full-of-tears.html?m=1

She did very well