Good day guys, my brother just confided in me that his wife to be lied to him. She told him she studied law from a UK uni with 2.2 as her grade. She never wanted to go to law school and my cousin has since been encouraging her.

Now he just stumbled on her certificate which says she studied Sociology and graduated with a pass!!

Now hes depressed. Hes white is in 2months time and he has already done trad. Pls what should he do!!

Its entirely his choice! Na certificate/lawyer him wan marry abi na better wife?

He should buy Jamb form for her. Law/Nnamdi Azikiwe University Awka. 1 and 2nd choice.

TarOrfeek:
He should buy Jamb form for her.
Law/Nnamdi Azikiwe University Awka. 1 and 2nd choice.

Lool. Haha. But fear women oo

GoldCircle:
Its entirely his choice! Na certificate/lawyer him wan marry abi na better wife?

It's really not about the certificate but the lie. How does one lie about something like that to someone you want to spend your life with.

Afam4eva:

It's really not about the certificate but the lie. How does one lie about something like that to someone you want to spend your life with.

What do u advice

obitee69:
Good day guys, my brother just confided in me that his wife to be lied to him. She told him she studied law from a UK uni with 2.2 as her grade. She never wanted to go to law school and my cousin has since been encouraging her.

Now he just stumbled on her certificate which says she studied Sociology and graduated with a pass!!

Now hes depressed. Hes white is in 2months time and he has already done trad. Pls what should he do!!

This is funny ooo sociology pass degree vs 2.2 uk law degree

My only problem is dt she lied n waited to get bursted nt her degree. If she confessed herself it would ve been easier to forgive.

This is jst one of alot of things she may ve lied abt n dts a major concern.

It's difficult to trust a liar, it will be difficult to continue if na me.

Modified here is a tip for young men

Once u start dating insist on getting ur babes cv n credentials via telling her u want to use it to hustle for job for her dt way u kw everything frm day one to avoid stories like this dnt rely on what she told u alone. Most HND babes dey claim degree holder nw ooo dnt be scammed by any lady shine ur eyes

Deceit deceit deceit!!!! What else this "stranger" has lied about? Does he even know who he is about to marry?!
He should stop the wedding plan, and start afresh getting to know this stranger OR walk away... As such lies can be a NO NO to some men. The foundation is damaged!

Get her to confess and reveal other secrets. May be she didn't picture herself with your cousin at the beginning of the relationship. People tell lies on first dates.

My cuzin has been boiling. But its too late

obitee69:
My cuzin has been boiling. But its too late

You just said the truth and you know it "it's too late"

Mehn if I were him, I would damn the consequences and call of the wedding sharp sharp. buh come to think of it, why would a guy cancel a wedding just because of a mere certificate ?

Why because they are deep shit this lady could be keeping in her cupboard, if a lady can lie about something as trival as a certificate, what about more serious issues like genotype, friends, age and the rest of it.

Marriage should be built on truth, the worst I can stand is lie, how would the husband take it when his wife comes back late from work and tell him she got stuck in traffic, would he believe her? if no, now is the time to call off the marriage. A broken relationship remains cheaper and more stress free than a broken or unhappy marriage.

my 2 cents though

.I m currently raising a movement to put stop to marriage as it sure needs to be outlawed. it's a scam and I have heard enough of it.

In as much as i hate lies, maybe ur cousin kept her in a tight situation, so she had to lie. For me ooh, kwali nor mata...Just gimme a good woman.

Things like this are important but surprisingly, lots of people lie terribly about it during courtship. Most marriages are contracted on fraudulent claims and eventually, the marriage crashes when the truth start coming out.

Your cousin should be grateful that he found out before marriage. It is now left entirely to him to make his decision. If he can forgive her and live with the knowledge that she lied to him, he should go ahead with the marriage. If not, he should call off the white wedding and move.

........my ears ...

You no tell us d sch wey she study d sociology o. But women sef if u cant be honest bout something this small before marriage i wonder which kind lie some people go dey blow after den marry. Ur cousin fit forgive her sha.Marriage no be by certificate.

Omo see Gbege

She might be hiding many other things.
This is not a good testimony.

obitee69:
My cuzin has been boiling. But its too late

It's marriage we are talking about. No decision is too late bro.

Tell you cousin to think deeply about it. If your cousin can forgive and FORGET( neva assume that most of what she says is a lie until proven) then he can go ahead otherwise he should let her go.

probably if she didn't lie ur cousin may not have built a relationship with her. Let ur cousin inquire from her why she lied about her grade and degree

If your cousin's English is like your own
why would a girl who studied Law in Uk marry him
like your family dey find who go upgrade una

Am pretty sure the lie was from the first date. I lied to someone I met in a Christmas get together that I schooled in Ghana before too. 10 years later, I was sitting across the table from him with all my life certifications. And yes, I didn't school in Ghana, I only help start up a company out there.

GoldCircle:
Its entirely his choice! Na certificate/lawyer him wan marry abi na better wife?

If she can lie about such a thing ,just imagine how many other things she may have lied about

obitee69:


What do u advice

H should call off the wedding and dump the girl like a bad habit. Why? Because if she could lie about her academic qualification, I can bet you that she's lied about some other things and she'll keep lying about many other things. Trust is important in a marriage. A liar can/should never be trusted.

obitee69:


What do u advice

Let the man be sure of her HIV status.

Abegi
Na by all those 1

I dey come

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Obitee69.... Sorry, but your cousin is already married... Trad is the wedding... White is ceremonial... If he calls it off, he will be a divorcee. On the other hand, it's bad of that lady, can't be trusted, and any marriage built on lies will crumble.

You did not tell us if na UK she had the pass or Okokomaiko University?

Wetin he find reach where the certificate dey? Be careful when searching for the truth because the truth might kill you.