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How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by Successdude(m): 8:01pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
we met online and before we knew we were always chatting especially on whatsapp. I finally saw dat I have a feeling for her, and in order not to let her take it for granted, I let her know indirectly ... Some weeks later, I decided to have an "assessment" discussion with her the relationship we just began to have. I just asked her, what she thought is the future of our relationship and her response was that of one feeling like I was throwing myself on her. That got me pissed and there and then I ended the discussion. I waited to see, she would call or text me through whatspp Atleast to say that the discussion I began, I didn't finish it, but she never. So me too I luck up. For months never said hi to her. But now, she keeps sending me msgs both facebook and whatsapp - normal messages though. And I just give responses as short as possible and goes offline. From this latest act of hers it seems she wants us back. I would accept her back but I don't want to make the mistake of being taken for granted. How do I handle it from here ? Do I just get on like nth happened ? Or let her know that her attitude was silly before even geting on again ? how do I take it up from here ? Regards |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by Elmojiid(m): 8:15pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
just play along bro...treat her the way she treated u |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by Successdude(m): 8:25pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
Elmojiid:I wish I can. Honestly, I have the intention to get married to her if she proves worthy but I don't want to be a husband that would be taken for granted. |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by Elmojiid(m): 8:27pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
Successdude:the ball is in ur court bro.. |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
This OP just succeeded in confusing me. How is a girl you haven't even had a proper relationship with your "Fiancee"? That's my only issue. Shikena! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by Successdude(m): 8:43pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
iamadonis2:okay ..... thanks for your reply |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by ivyy(f): 8:46pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
This your story is funny o |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by ivyy(f): 8:47pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
iamadonis2: Also confused 1 Like |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by Successdude(m): 8:47pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
Elmojiid:Okay.... thanks for ur opinion |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by Successdude(m): 8:51pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
ivyy: ivyy: iamadonis2:check again |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:51pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
Why don't you "again" ask her a direct question....like:" what exactly are you seeking from me?! Are you trying to show me NOW, (after all these months) that you finally are ready for me?! Or maybe that's your way of returning the favor and throwing yourself on me.... Lol" Btw: you shouldn't have cut the discussion short, and instead should have told her exactly your intention, your mind, your desire. |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by Successdude(m): 9:13pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:funny....... thanks for response |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by sandrabany(f): 7:09am On Jun 02, 2017 |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by Zirah: 7:48am On Jun 02, 2017 |
Do reverse psychology on her. 1. Never ever be the first to chat her up. When she does, stall before responding. Make it short and brief. 2. Don't talk about relationship or your intentions towards her for now. 3. Set up a date with her. Then cancel it. 4. Set up a date with her. Then show up late. Apologise but be brief. Don't go on and on and let your expression be stark. 5. You must be superconfident around her. I can't overemphasize this. Confidence means sitting in your chair pretty straight. Giving 40% of your attention to her and the rest to your environment. (I didn't say you should be looking around at boobs and asses o). Just pretend like you find other things, besides her, pretty interesting. This excludes your phone. Don't play with your phone on a date. It's childish at best. And when you walk by her, don't close up, take up space and get interested in other things around you besides her. 6. Seduce her. Remember l mentioned to give her 40% of your attention. Yes. That 40% is your chance to seduce her with your confidence. Look straight into her eyes when you talk. Hold your gaze, focus on her then look away. 7. Ask her if she had a good time but only at the venue. Don't message or call when you get home. She'll be upset and wonder if you think about her. She'll contact you to find out. You may think, "isn't it fair that I call to ask if she's home safely?". Well...it is not for you to concern yourself with that. Let her be the one doing the worrying. She already knows you like her so being chivalry won't get her attention. Successdude: |
Re: How To Handle A Repentant partner Even As You Dont Want To Be Treated Bad Again by Successdude(m): 9:59am On Jun 02, 2017 |
Zirah:lecture 101. Thanks, thanks, thanks a million |
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