It is more than enough reason. It depends on one's value system. If building a foundation on lies mean nothing to a person I guess that lady would have seen it as nothing. Even if she lied at the beginning when the relationship deepened she should have fessed up. To be ready to start married life with that lie is disturbing

I don't think he is concerned abt the course of study,what I think he is concerned with is the fact that the girl he wants to marry could not be sincere enough to tell him the course she studied. if she can lie abt this,then she can lie abt anything.

obitee69:
Good day guys, my brother just confided in me that his wife to be lied to him. She told him she studied law from a UK uni with 2.2 as her grade. She never wanted to go to law school and my cousin has since been encouraging her.

Now he just stumbled on her certificate which says she studied Sociology and graduated with a pass!!

Now hes depressed. Hes white is in 2months time and he has already done trad. Pls what should he do!!

A house built on shaky foundation will eventually collapse.
A marriage built on lies is dead on arrival.
The cousin should be glad that God showed him the truth before the wedding.
Marriage is not courtship.
He should drop her like a bad habit.

diva90:
I was expecting to read something more serious ... if that's enough reason for your cousin to call off his wedding, then he never loved that girl in the first place.

Really, so people can go around lying abi ? That single
Lie is a symptom of a deeper problem, I know liltle about women
But I know your attitude towards a woman plays a role in
How she behaves to you, if he marries her with the view of a lair
She will become something else in 6 months, it is clear that
The man in the center of all this is having a hard time forgiven
Her. Am sure you dont want to marry a man who thinks you are a lair.

Regards.

diva90:


Not as stupid as you are! If you don't have any thing wise to say then shut up!

your reply is as weak as cold dodo .

He should check other things she must have told him they are true. I she can lie about such a serious thing, then she can lie about anything. she is a liar, he should flee. ...

TinaAnita:
At least she is a graduate. It seems your cousin was never sure of his choice of partner in the first place otherwise he wouldn't stick his nose where it doesn't belong. He should back off now if he is not prepared for marriage

Na wa ooo.

I HV read through many comments on this and this is my sincere contribution. your brother should ask himself has he ever lied to someone? who crucified him for dat? I am not justifying the girls action but I am looking at the fact that all humans HV fault. if the lady has been a chronic liar then that should HV been a different case, but if it is for this one lie that I think she committed becos she cant face the shame to see your brother disappointed, then it doesn't worth calling off the wedding. the bible says that love covers a multitude of sin. if your brother truly loves her he will over look this except if there are many other indecent behaviour she exhibits that your brother is not telling us..

obitee69:
My cuzin has been boiling. But its too late

It's not too late...

If it were me I would walk away.

I'm not ready to marry a dunce!

GoldCircle:
Its entirely his choice! Na certificate/lawyer him wan marry abi na better wife?

If she can lie about stuffs like that.....expect worse LATER and SOONER too!

kogreat77:
Now playing... Mad over u by runtown

lol

Acidosis:
Get her to confess and reveal other secrets. May be she didn't picture herself with your cousin at the beginning of the relationship. People tell lies on first dates.

So true!!!henceforth I will be truthful to them guys who knows which one will be my future hubby

He should let her know about it and also needs her forgiveness, that lady is wicked she can hid dangerous thing from her husband in future

obitee69:
My cuzin has been boiling. But its too late

What is late about it, to remain sad all his life or to move on to find happiness.

Every body gets what they deserve.
Your cousin kept certificate high on his list, but paid little attention to virtue.
He should run, if he can't take the heat.

Like someone said, trad is the marriage. If she had said, old boy, i'm not educated, the man would probably take her for telling the truth, if there is no child involved for now think of your happiness becos the matrimony will be standing on bigger lies.

What advice? Dont be stupid man, USE YOUR HEAD, FORGET HEART here oo. This is a SERIOUS MATTER. You are not safe ooo. End the marriage and save your life, she is EVIL. Broken courtship is honourable than failed marriage

Lobatan! She shouldn't have lied...or at least fess up when she saw things are getting serious.

Your cousin should place the wedding on hold. It is not safe to marry anyone comfy with living a lie..

GoldCircle:
Its entirely his choice! Na certificate/lawyer him wan marry abi na better wife?

How can one start to be a good wife by lying like this?.

Kobicove:


It's not too late...

If it were me I would walk away.

I'm not ready to marry a dunce!

Having a pass does not make one a dunce especially in. Nigeria.

laditosun1:
this one is strong

i need 30G ,how much

diva90:
I was expecting to read something more serious ... if that's enough reason for your cousin to call off his wedding, then he never loved that girl in the first place.

If he 's ur brother will say this? Are also a serial liar?
Just asking ooo, because it seems you don't know the implication of building a relationship with lies. The results are lack of trust, doubts etc. And you can never say you love someone you never trust.

Greenbullet:
your reply is as weak as cold dodo .

Yep! As weak as your erection game

chisco82:

If he 's ur brother will say this? Are also a serial liar?
Just asking ooo, because it seems you don't know the implication of building a relationship with lies. The results are lack of trust, doubts etc. And you can never say you love someone you never trust.

Have you ever told a lie in your life? If yes ,then pls keep quiet.
If you have been completely honest all your life.... then I have no further words for you.
In my opinion, I don't believe it's enough reason for him to leave her. It's not like she claimed to be educated and he found out that she never went to school.

obitee69:


Lool. Haha. But fear women oo

The funny thing is they look so innocent when telling these lies to your face. Finally, when caught up in their lies they shed tears start apologising like they can't hurt a fly.

diva90:


Yep! As weak as your erection game

AHH EMI, KONDO ALAPATA, BABEJE 1.0 , WO IF I CATCH U , UR PUNA NO TEAR NI .

chynie:
If your cousin's English is like your own
why would a girl who studied Law in Uk marry him
like your family dey find who go upgrade una

Come on! His written English isn't bad. Is it because of the insignificant error he made in the last paragraph that you wrote this crap? That's so bad of you.

Your English isn't even perfect, as you don't know how to punctuate: no comma, no question mark, no full stop. First take out the log in your eyes before removing the speck in another's. Thank you.

I have learnt from experience that people that lie to you like that keep lying. I have one here, whose lies graduated so much that it turned to betrayal, cheating, robbing the partner such that you can never trust him, trusting him is a mistake. I will advise you flee before you go into a marriage that will later make ur life miserable. This person also started by lying about his qualification. Such people don't know that trust makes a relationship.

any woman who can lie like this would definitely be a cheater or would do so in future. you can lie but thetr are some things you should/can never lie about. on the second thought, nigga is already married as God recognizes trad wedddings. maybe not the state.

obitee69:
Good day guys, my brother just confided in me that his wife to be lied to him. She told him she studied law from a UK uni with 2.2 as her grade. She never wanted to go to law school and my cousin has since been encouraging her.

Now he just stumbled on her certificate which says she studied Sociology and graduated with a pass!!

Now hes depressed. Hes white is in 2months time and he has already done trad. Pls what should he do!!

if they have already done the traditional wedding then he is already married, she is his wife not his fiancee

Afam4eva:

It's really not about the certificate but the lie. How does one lie about something like that to someone you want to spend your life with.

men lie about bigger things like how much they make and how good they really are in bed. Should they be divorced every single time they tell lies?

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