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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by tosyne2much(m): 11:49am On Jun 02, 2017
Tiny23:


Thought you were a reasonable person,you just lost the high esteem I held you in. Well,it doesn't really matter,na faceless forum we dey.
Ahn ahn cheesy

You don't have to be disappointed. I never even knew Mohammed committed all the things he wrote gan sef. The thing fear me sef oooo

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by alBHAGDADI: 11:50am On Jun 02, 2017
harbjar:

ya all should be careful what you say bou islam... there is no such verse in the QUR'an that says kills an apostate... instead what we have are
ut those who reject Faith after they accepted it, and then go on adding to their defiance of Faith, – never will their repentance be accepted; for they are those who have (of set purpose) gone astray.
— Quran 3:90

Make ye no excuses: ye have rejected Faith after ye had accepted it. If We pardon some of you, We will punish others amongst you, for that they are in sin.
— Quran 9:66

He who disbelieves in Allah after his having believed, not he who is compelled while his heart is at rest on account of faith, but he who opens (his) breast to disbelief-- on these is the wrath of Allah, and they shall have a grievous chastisement.
— Quran 16:106

The below are what your Prophet said in the authentic hadiths.


Sahih Bukhari (84:57) - [In the words of] "Allah's Apostle, 'Whoever changed his Islamic religion, then kill him.'"

Sahih Bukhari (89:271) - A man who embraces Islam, then reverts to Judaism is to be killed according to "the verdict of Allah and his apostle."


Sahih Bukhari (52:260) - "...The Prophet said, 'If somebody (a Muslim) discards his religion, kill him.' "


al-Muwatta of Imam Malik (36.18.15) - "The Messenger of Allah said, "If someone changes his religion - then strike off his head."

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:51am On Jun 02, 2017
khalifahsparkles:
op the last thing you should have done is bring this issue up in a session like this. what happened to Islam for Muslims? I'm already seeing comments made out of hatred and crass stupidity.

if she doesn't want to listen to you involve her family members and Islamic clerics you know. if she's still adamant please divorce her before she influence you and your children. remember she has a big role to play in your children's lives.


nould quote me abeg
The question is an open one so i don't see why it should be restricted to Islamic section. Why are you people always running away to debate the ills in your religion?

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by AuroraB(f): 11:51am On Jun 02, 2017
Kathmandu:
Traditionalist is better than Islam. grin
cheesy
It seems so jare grin

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by tosyne2much(m): 11:51am On Jun 02, 2017
proudafrogal:
find out why she thinks the other religion is better than yours and try to give her reasons and make her understand why she should stick with your religion.

if she's not convinced then there is nothing you can do about.

I don't blame her sha, Islam and misogyny is like 5&6.
Una no go kill person with laughter cheesy cheesy

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by fpeter(f): 11:52am On Jun 02, 2017
khalifahsparkles:



is it directed at you? if are free to claim it sha

Misplaced priority, you people never fail to disappoint.
I see the peace you're representing as your religion says.
But as for me i am a Christian and i have a verse for you:

The curse causeless doesn't stand. ~Proverbs 26:2.

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by honniemail(f): 11:52am On Jun 02, 2017
[quote author=Jiang post=57118707]alBHGDADI, repent or it will never be well with you, how


Pls what's all these curses about and i believe u're fasting,thid guy didnt utter any offensive word ,honestly i'm actually in a relationship with a mislim,he told me about mohammad sleepinf with all his wife in one night,marrying an older widow and some of the point this guy man,telling me reasons ur prophet did all that ....u guys are too aggresive wen it comes to defending ur prophet. I should actually av a rethink cos this islam is getting more scary .ther r ways u correct sumone witout being harsh or rainin curses

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by MarieSucre(f): 11:52am On Jun 02, 2017
tallfish145:
Please I need your advise on what to do as my wife suddenly renounced our religion after visiting a pastor and I married her as a Muslim. though I intends calling the union off anytime soon.

Op please do not listen to anything anyone is saying about killing your wife or converting to Christianity. If you don't mind, please I would like to ask you some questions.

a) How many years have you both been married to each other?
b) How many children do you have?
c) Was it a love marriage or was it an arranged marriage?
d) Do you love her and are you willing to be with her?

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by AuroraB(f): 11:53am On Jun 02, 2017
tosyne2much:
[/b] Una no go kill person with laughter cheesy cheesy
Jump off this thread grin You have already fall some people hands sad

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Berbierklaus(f): 11:54am On Jun 02, 2017
Owodiran1:
Well am not abass and k actually don't have his contact. But what am sure is abass will take a different approach from ali. Abass won't kill them as Abass clearly knows Allah frowns at killing people be it unbelievers or believers
Okay,but we have already established the fact that A bass would have stilled killed them but not with fire in your first comment here->

Owodiran1:
Volume 9, Book 84, Number 57:
Narrated 'Ikrima:
Some Zanadiqa (atheists) were brought to 'Ali and he burnt them. The news of this event, reached Ibn 'Abbas who said, "If I had been in his place, I would not have burnt them, as Allah's Apostle forbade it, saying, 'Do not punish anybody with Allah's punishment (fire).' I would have KILLED them according to the statement of Allah's Apostle, 'Whoever changed his Islamic religion, then kill him.'"

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:54am On Jun 02, 2017
BiggyB242:


Sir, I know my faith I can NEVER be converted.
its only a hypothetical question to make you think, the Bible teaches "correction with love", not by torture or other means hence Jesus Christ said he who is without sin let him cast a stone...would divorcing your wife help her change by conviction or by coersion if she does?
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:55am On Jun 02, 2017
lilytender:
I am a Muslim, will never ever come near a woman like you. So, you get it? Muslims are not begging Kafirs (unbelievers) for marriage.
Taa gbafuo.


The time i will spend to learn one computer program will be spent learning Arabic in order to be able to read and study the Quran.


I can Never be a Muslim

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Didov1(f): 11:55am On Jun 02, 2017
as far as she is nt disturbing or makin u uncomfortable in ur house, u cn stil ignore her 4 d sake of ur children n maybe get a new wife since its acceptable in islam n start a new family with her,jst ignore her
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Dexema(m): 11:56am On Jun 02, 2017
I would have discussed extensively and come to an agreement with my wife before marriage. If she now decides to go the way of another religion then we may need to part ways (depending on if we have kids).
Unfortunately, I won't want to sound biased but being in the religion of "peace" for long in marriage is way harder than being a Christian especially when you try to compare them (as a woman).
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Owodiran1(m): 11:58am On Jun 02, 2017
Bro am a Muslim and i believe God created us all with him giving us choices to make. Because ali killed non believers doesn't give you the right to believe islam allows you to kill non belivers. Am a Muslim and i kick against any religious killings. Am not trying to count scores here. At least reveren king do burn some people alive as the news said. I been a Muslim can never conclude and will never conclude thay Christians burn people. There are billions of Christians in this world. With different personalities. Reveren king didn't burn people because christainity does not allow it. Reveren only burnt people because his personality and wish. That why i always say don't judge people by fgeir religion. Judge them by their personalities. I chose to reply you first that are you blind. That doesn't give certainty of another Muslim replying you like that. I replied abit rudely at first nit because am a Muslim but because am Owodiran
WhoBeThisMan:
OK that's one point. What about the others
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by 4larhhh(f): 11:58am On Jun 02, 2017
Some of us are actually born into a chris-mus family which I happen to be one of them....growing up in such family I learnt both the Quran and the Bible... and guess what I did wolima hahaha but now grown I found solace in Christianity.
Back to the topic she has a reason for her choice, ask her it shouldn't be a problem...why think of divorcing? My parent have been like that since dy married still living under the same roof no second wife.... understanding goes a long way that you can ever imagine in marriage... am so proud of them which made me boldly tell ppl am a chris-mus... leave dem wondering how cum?
Surprise the world Op be an exceptional don't ruin beautiful thing because of religion poo.

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:58am On Jun 02, 2017
tosyne2much:
Ahn ahn cheesy

You don't have to be disappointed. I never even knew Mohammed committed all the things he wrote gan sef. The thing fear me sef oooo
grin grin grin

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by tosyne2much(m): 11:59am On Jun 02, 2017
AuroraB:
Jump off this thread grin You have already fall some people hands sad
Don't mind them jawe... Wetin be my own for this matter? cheesy

Though, I have no problem with Islam just that the violent nature of the religion irks me. They are temperamental people with low tolerance level cheesy cheesy

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Owodiran1(m): 12:00pm On Jun 02, 2017
We should not judge base on assumptions or establishment. Abass will not kill them because cutting someone's head off is not the medical approach of headache
Berbierklaus:

Okay,but we have already established the fact that A bass would have stilled killed them but not with fire in your first comment here->



Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jun 02, 2017
tosyne2much:
[/b] Una no go kill person with laughter cheesy cheesy

who be dis
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by tosyne2much(m): 12:02pm On Jun 02, 2017
Kathmandu:
grin grin grin
The thing weak me sef ooo cheesy
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by madjnr: 12:02pm On Jun 02, 2017
drakeli:
If you think everything he quoted is wrong. It's left to you to show him in your Quran that it otherwise. Of course he brought all those from your Quran. He doesn't have the responsibility to debunk himself. But you have. So show us in the Quran.
he's manufacturing lies... Why don't he come and state the verse he found such in...
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jun 02, 2017
tosyne2much:
The thing weak me sef ooo cheesy
Muslims will come for your head today
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by tosyne2much(m): 12:03pm On Jun 02, 2017
proudafrogal:


who be dis

The same Tosyne2much you know cheesy tongue
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by ivolt: 12:04pm On Jun 02, 2017
khalifahsparkles:


all those things he said please point it out in the Qur'an or Hadith. if you can't please keep silent

if this world is a better place to you; eku better place

I will not waste my time beating a dead horse, a little google search
will help you but if it is too much trouble just ask your imam/alfa
at which age was Aisha married and whether Muhamad married his
son's wife(Zainab).

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Amberon11: 12:04pm On Jun 02, 2017
John3:16
ColdNight:


It only God's grace that can actually save you...Do you know that?
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by AuroraB(f): 12:04pm On Jun 02, 2017
tosyne2much:
Don't mind them jawe... Wetin be my own for this matter? cheesy

Though, I have no problem with Islam just that the violent nature of the religion irks me. They are temperamental people with low tolerance level cheesy cheesy
Na so we see them cheesy
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by somegirl1: 12:05pm On Jun 02, 2017
idreezbaba:


For your mind you have stolen people's mind away
my people don't mind this mad man
come to think of it
why would I marry a woman and she will later change her religion
that means she doesn't even love Me, that means I don't have control over her
Everyone is saying Shariah Law is bad
Yet Shariah Law is being studied at every law institution in the world
Believe me if shariah law is implicated in nigeria
There will be low crime rates
Islam symbolizes peace and peace only.
I rest my case
Silly statement.
Faith is personal.

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Amberon11: 12:05pm On Jun 02, 2017
Since when did the truth become balderdash.
nurshah:




And your point. Is ? Please simply answer his question and stop this balderdash
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Odingo1: 12:06pm On Jun 02, 2017
Tiny23:



Really? Tell me more since you so conversant with the hadiths.
When i have time i will quote the exact place, haddit awknowledge tha Aisha was married at the age of 9 to mohammed. Those who leave Islam should be killed is also in it. Infact koran contain alot of them,but the same koran will say there is no compulsion in religion.
Humans live their life on earth according to what is prevalent in the society at the time they have lived,that is the case of mohammed,womanising is the order of the day that time,to the extend that haddit reported that mohammed was giving the strength of many men by god to go round about 15 of his wives,fuc;king from morning till night no break.

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by AuroraB(f): 12:07pm On Jun 02, 2017
Kathmandu:
Taa gbafuo.


The time i will spend to learn one computer program will be spent learning Arabic in order to be able to read and study the Quran.


I can Never be a Muslim
Gbawam! angry
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Amberon11: 12:07pm On Jun 02, 2017
The same Quran that I've read? Pls go decieve someone else.
Tiny23:


Why not pick up the Holy Qur'an yourself,go through it and show me where you can see all what your friend posted,I recommend you read the English version. I don't engage in religious squabble ,I no get time for that. Peace!

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