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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by ImaIma1(f): 10:36am On Jun 03, 2017 |
cooldood: Very true. What is the point of dating a "broke" guy? Who is a broke guy anyway? Is it a lazy or unambituous guy? Whether or nor we accept it,money is important in a relationship. When u love you give. The lady could be giving the guy from her earnings but for how long? There will be problems...his pride and ego will set in. And a poor man has bigger ego. And his love might be dependent on his situation. If he hits it and makes money,will he still love? Or he will forget all the suffering they both went through. I have concluded that it is not worth it especially when it's the kind of guy that is like a wall gecko...always at home. 2 Likes |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Nobody: 10:37am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Oya take this small sense as a souvenir, let me be going Randy91: |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Sike(m): 10:38am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Juell:gbammmm! |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by MrTechy(m): 10:39am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Toks2008:sir... This is one of the best replies have ever seen on this thread |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by anyaekekehinde(m): 10:39am On Jun 03, 2017 |
majekdom2: Hahahahah. I wanted to have this mentality sometimes ago. But I just learnt to relax on the idea, you see lots of people have been through shit, As a guy, you disregarded me before I got into good business or a good job. And you think I won't have the mentality that any girl must date must be rich herself. She will know I have, but I won't give her a dime |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Safiaa(f): 10:41am On Jun 03, 2017 |
haibe:Love this love that. Love cannot make a relationship last in the long run. Other factors come into play. Mind you, you can detect a lot of things from a persons mindset and work ethic. The same way you can be broke today and rich tommorow is the same way you can be broke today and broke tomorrow. And if she wants to avoid disappointment by all costs, she can damn right make that decision. Life itself is a gamble, and some women dont want to take that risk. What is so hard in understanding that? |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Euhedral(f): 10:41am On Jun 03, 2017 |
I am currently dating a broke guy now but we are loving each other like kilode. It's not about today but what the future holds. We plan today and water today, it grows tomorrow. It's all about knowing the kind of person you are with. If he is worth it, walk with him through the night, he wouldn't forget it for his lifetime. 3 Likes |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Toks2008(m): 10:42am On Jun 03, 2017 |
MrTechy: Na so my brother..... |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by IdeyFindWife: 10:42am On Jun 03, 2017 |
lefulefu: Ahhh brotherly, my case is helplessly hopeless for now because no action for me till am off work in 2-weeks time. But, once i get out, na to hunt mixed breed chiquita upandan; get ready o, make we go enter Island side. I get "recruitment-tinz ![]() ![]() |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by babasolution: 10:42am On Jun 03, 2017 |
tobianthony: you guys are not getting what this girl is trying to point out,all she is saying is that women prefer to date rich guys,but with the prevalence of broke men,its a struggle for them to settle with broke men,its only natural,as a man you shouldnt be expecting your gf or wife to help u out financially only when you are in dire need,a man should strive to be as financially dominant as possible,this ensures a stable relationship,but when the man starts expecting a woman to handle things for him he looses credibility and respect.trust me its more fun when you have so much more and your woman depends on you totally,u will enjoy her so much,buh when shes shouldering some responsibilities she becomes fustrated even if she is rich,women want to be taken care of,mens goals should be to strive for financial success and marry or date a beautiful ,good woman,not to be seeking for working women |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Ghost447(m): 10:42am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Cinderella5:How old are you? |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Toks2008(m): 10:44am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Euhedral: I like your spirit but one more thing....he must not be the give me this and give me that type cos I hate a scrub. If you have enough to help him please do without expecting him to reward you by force with love or faithfulness to you....it's all about taking the risk. Wish you the best 1 Like |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Nobody: 10:46am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Safiaa: I see reason with you ... to some extent . Me personally I used to have so many requirements to choose a partner when I was young ...now the only criteria I have is the inability to kill me . Sometimes I honestly ask myself what would happen if my partner suddenly became richer than me ... So I will give you this one . At least this I learnt today . |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Berbierklaus(f): 10:47am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Odunharry:Well,I understand where they are coming from,you know some ladies date guys who don't have and get jilted in the long run,I can testify,but at this stage I've gotten,money is very inconsequential in a relationship for me. Call it feminism,but I find it absurd to depend on a guy,and make statements like a girl is not considered broke,its annoying to me. Tomorrow when this men beat them or cheat,they don't have any financial power to complain or protest,na still the same feminists them go run to for help,its disheartening. 2 Likes |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by anyaekekehinde(m): 10:47am On Jun 03, 2017 |
majekdom2: Hahahahah. I wanted to have this mentality sometimes ago. But I just decided to do away with the idea, you see lots of guys have been through shit, If as a guy I was treated with disdain before fortune smile on me, naturally I will develop the mentality that any girl must date must be rich herself, she must not be in need, because I won't be financially responsible for her, I won't even invest 1kobo in the relationship or we will both will share the cost equally. She will know I have, but I won't give her a dime except for equal contribution to offset cost of the relationship. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Toks2008(m): 10:48am On Jun 03, 2017 |
babasolution: My brother you made lots of sense but for me...a working class lady all the way cos I can not come and go and die for any lady who will dump her bukata on me. Even if I have all the money in the world I would rather prefer to set you up in a good business so that you can help yourself, your family and our family. One thing I always say us that only broke ladies make it a big deal dating a broke guy. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Nobody: 10:48am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Draei: Thank you, broke guy deserve to be happy too in any relationship they find themselves. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Brugo(m): 10:49am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Cinderella5: You are lucky you haven't met a guy who would thoroughly educate you (by experience) on the disadvantages of this mentality. You can never equate your good looks to a man's wealth. It should even be demeaning to your womanly pride. Anyway, to each, his own. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by loswhite(m): 10:49am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Cinderella5:hw old are u? Sounding like a 10yr old child |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Nobody: 10:49am On Jun 03, 2017 |
babasolution: Partly true ... but there's nothing wrong in her waking up one morning and saying babe this year I'm going to pay the school fees ...while you pay the rent but only this year ohhhhh ...and don't touch the money we are saving to buy land . |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Nobody: 10:50am On Jun 03, 2017 |
erico2k2: ![]() Oboi I just wake up from sleep I come see the mumu thread, I never fit sleep well for days cause I have lots of work on me to finish up I dey vex come join this useless op ehn. I nor know when I take turn savage am like that ![]() ![]() Nigerian girls they bleeped up in the head walai Oboi when I go Cape Verde I almost weep, the place so nice and if you see as the girls just they look me they smile, about 3 of them come strike convo with me and them nor even know me, I was like mehn life is sweet, just they most of them don't speak English. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Catastrophe1: 10:50am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Reason why most rich niggas treat women like trash. because they know if it wasnt for the money...... |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Catastrophe1: 10:56am On Jun 03, 2017 |
daclint:Amarabae is married. Reason She speaks more sense than all this children |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by virtualcard: 10:57am On Jun 03, 2017 |
babasolution: Dont get it twisted. A girl shud be able to carter for herself not been a liability to some guy dat is about to start life. A guy can be only supportive not a bearer of a girls burden up until it has been formal i mean marriage den she is his total responsibility |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Beadex1(m): 10:57am On Jun 03, 2017 |
well maybe marriage or being in relationship wasn't for everyone, my mom married dad as a poor guy from the street after one year later things got better before the had me dad had 4 buses on the road and lands ,early 2000 dad got ill and things took a nosedive to a point with had to eat rice for one month because someone gave us and that was the only meal available meanwhile mom hustle for our school fees,clothing and other things to a point nobody even noticed that we were so broke but God changed our story once again. Uptill now if my mom doesn't contribute her money to anything my dad does then she doesn't feel cool, she supports him till now. how many girls of this generation can do that ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by erico2k2(m): 10:57am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Safiaa:the sure way of Insuring your life risk is to stand in your own two legs, ie bring something to your own table at least. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Safiaa(f): 10:58am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Toks2008:The minute you wake up to realise that men and women are not equal, the better for you. Physically, emotionally, mentally, we are wired different. Even in the labour/ corporate world, men are given more opportunities in leadership roles than women. Men averagely make more than women. When we look at the the world's richest people, it's dominated by men. Now I'm not saying that women cannot be successful, but stop trying to equate your finances with a woman. Understand that a woman can make her own finances, but she will ALWAYS want a man who will compliment that. Take it or leave it, this is the world that we live in. 2 Likes |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by bonifieldstun(m): 10:59am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Go and look for a rich guy that will use his juju prick to bleep u, don't hustle for ya self and be a rich babe |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by daclint(m): 10:59am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Catastrophe1:No wonder 1 Like |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by erico2k2(m): 10:59am On Jun 03, 2017 |
sonofLuci:I don dey clear for thier eyes now.back in teh days, when they land gand, dem go carry this 9ja mentality come, xpect guys to buy hair ,nils phone,T fare, etc, na so some of dem dey stay 3 years nobody price thier market until dem realize say here nah true love win not money love. 1 Like |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Euhedral(f): 11:04am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Toks2008:Thanks a lot dearie..I am actually not the blind lover. I notice every action and inaction. He doesn't ask from me and even feel embarrassed when I offer to help cos he feels it should be his responsibility. If he becomes rich today and I notice him drifting apart, I will leave honourably that minute. I don't believe in a one sided love story ahn ahn. I am actually still here because he is a great lover and I believe love is a collective thing. Wishing you all d best too ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by marisdgreat(f): 11:05am On Jun 03, 2017 |
In every relationship money should not be the top most priority. A guy should not be a girl's full time responsibilities but can only supports her when d need arises. As a girl u should not make money to be the reason of loving a guy because if he s very rich today tomorrow he can be as poor as a church rat, then a guy that s poor today can even be a billionaire cos grace and destinies differs in an individual. So I will advise my fellow girls not to love a guy for what he has but for whom he is. U can marry a guy that has enough money making u comfortable but still u won't be happy in that marriage because he doesn't have your time or giving u d attention that u need. While u can marry an average guy that might not have much money but will still have your time n gives u an attention. Like what a guy said to me, he said that I should pray for a man that is sincere and faithful before talking of any other things. I just pray to meet a man that will understand my kind of person n be ready to love, care n respects me both in my presence n absence n also be sincere with me. Thanks I rest my case here. 1 Like 1 Share |
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