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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by haibe(m): 11:05am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Safiaa: Am not saying you shouldn't make the decision. Am saying its a silly decision because where the relationship is not based on love but material things, it would hardly ever last. Such marriages tend to be abusive infact. What happens when your beauty fades? A man that doesn't love u will disrespect u badly or when you dont look attractive to him anymore. I agree life is a gamble but marrying the person who loves you truly gives you a better assurance of a long lasting relationship than someone who doesn't but just likes your beauty. Several ladies cry everyday because of an abusive marriage which they have been lured into because of money. You cant compare the pain a lady faces in such a marriage than a lady who is merely not married to a rich man. You really need to wake up!! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by chmeze(m): 11:06am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Amarabae:nice one dear... |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Safiaa(f): 11:11am On Jun 03, 2017 |
haibe:Love is important in a relationship. But trust me, it is NOT the most inportant thing. Im telling you this now, so you better wake up. Even if im drowned in love, the problems that derive from money can cause me to sign those divorce papers. Should i start naming a few? Insecurities, theft, jealousy, infidelity..this list goes on. A wise woman would think about the other aspects of a relationship more than love, because that's what determines longevity. 1 Like |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Quinn22(f): 11:15am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Obviously Skubidude: |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Paxziano: 11:15am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Amarabae: Best point I have read here... Ladies shud learn to offer more in a relationship than open legs 2 Likes |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Josephamstrong1(m): 11:18am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Safiaa: Speak for yasef! That rich guy can turn a liability tmrw. Ur beauty and affluent too can disappear. Don't just open your mouth and start spewing thrash all becos you tnk u r in a position to do so. This is life. Calm down and ull see it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Josephamstrong1(m): 11:23am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Amarabae: Spot on. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by MrsPhysics: 11:26am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Safiaa:You really do not understand the essence of life. You need to read Mark Zukerbergs convocation commencement speech. It would change your purpose of life. As a lady have suggested here, get a book and read. Its good to read because it will expose you to a lot of things. I have followed your arguments and others, you are not making sense. In as much as money is important, love in a relationship is more important. He that finds a wife should find a good thing not a money monger. What should keep you in a relationship should be a purpose. Just yesterday, I read a story from a married woman who is currently going through a lot of things. She might have made a mistake by marrying a guy because he lives in Dubai. I even assume they didn't even date. Now, the man is beating her even in pregnancy. That is what the quest for material things will lead to. You just need to understand the purpose of life. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Nobody: 11:28am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Cinderella5:Certain responsibilities are for the man who you are married to,note that. For the fact he is your boyfriend doesn't mean he owes you anything, he owes you no dime, sister and whatever he does for you is only out of self will and the love he has for you just like you owe him no shit too. About the issue of dating a broke guy shouldn't even be an issue... if you know you can cope, go right ahead... if you can't, then step aside. We all have different specs. But for you to start thinking your man owes you so much cos you are dating him, erase that mentality. You are not doing him a favor by dating him... it's a mutual thing. Lastly, if you can't date a broke guy, don't be broke yourself cos it's like saying you can't date You. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by LaExpert: 11:30am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Safiaa: I agree with you. Men with heavier pockets tend to have more self esteem. Check out a man when he's broke and when he's made, the difference in the self esteem is clear. Yes, ladies love to be taken care of even when they have theirs. However, when a lady has 'standards' beyond her own income, she's already a gold digger. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by MrsPhysics: 11:30am On Jun 03, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:I have followed all you comments and if I'm a judge, I would have ruled in favour of you. You have made matured comments. Just learn to let go of irrelevant comments made to you, its not necessary. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Holyfield1(m): 11:32am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Doctorfitz:President Buhari |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Quinn22(f): 11:33am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Cinderella5: 1 Like |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by haibe(m): 11:34am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Safiaa: What is the point of getting married then if love is not the fundamental thing. If its all about money, you can simply be a prostitute or a thief dear. 2 Likes |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Nobody: 11:36am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Thank you, i will try from now on, this gender war on romanceland is becoming quite tiring MrsPhysics: |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by MrsPhysics: 11:37am On Jun 03, 2017 |
MzLarem:God bless your brain. Most ladies will think you are living in Moon. But its the reality. In as much as a guy is not asking you for money in a relationship, he is not broke. When you term me broke for not giving you money for your needs yet you have a father and brother. I met a lady who have nothing to offer. Any time she calls, I will know its for money, maybe its what keeps her. You know what? I don't give to her. When she calls I won't pick. She will use an unknown number to call. At a time, she understand the message and she is gone to come back soon because long throat will always kill women. I do not ask guys to pity ladies. Those people like Op who are not coming from an average home are always tasty for money. Well, from my experience so far, life is more than money. Life is about fulfilling purpose. The purpose of existence or a relationship should always be established. Most guys like me do not always want to get committed to women because of this kind of ladies like op. The rate of divorce is growing because guys make money and get any lady of their choice and then come back to treat their wife with no respect. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Quinn22(f): 11:37am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Ouch! Cinderella5: 1 Like |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by MrsPhysics: 11:37am On Jun 03, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:Yeah. You need to. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by stanisbaratheon: 11:38am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Cinderella5: That is yours others have theirs. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by MrsPhysics: 11:38am On Jun 03, 2017 |
haibe:Don't mind her. She is still 22 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Revolva(m): 11:39am On Jun 03, 2017 |
all these greedy babes and heartless new generation witches n wh.ore..we now have in this world....think all men r d same...well as for me any lady that does not love me well now...better dont love me later when my later is much greater....ok its not good to too be too good to women ...cos the way they think is not the way we men think... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by hedonistic: 11:40am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Cinderella5: This is why I have a serious problem with any mumu guy that is blessed with money and yet still remains faithful to one girl. It is the greatest injustice a man can do to himself. Since all of you like the same thing (money), why should you be special to me, to the extent of being the only one in my life to enjoy that money? Smh. Guys, hustle hard, pray hard, if you're blessed, enjoy hard. Seek gratification without commitment. That's the privilege that your money entitles you to. These hoes ain't loyal and do NOT deserve your fidelity! 3 Likes |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by dhappyking(m): 11:47am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Did I hear you say, totally? Next topic. Please. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Nobody: 11:47am On Jun 03, 2017 |
I can love a broke guy, if and only if am certain hisnlove for me is sincere and not because am financially OK or he's scheming to run away with my car . Then yes! I can love and even marry him . And am certain with time , he will grow and surpass my level financially . All I need is simple. Are your affections truly sincere? Are u hardworking or just a lazy bum waiting to eat off me and will your family accept me knowing am well off but humble at the same time ? . If these three issues are cleared ? Then why not? I definitely will |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by LaExpert: 11:48am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Safiaa: So, what's the most important thing? |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by babasolution: 11:49am On Jun 03, 2017 |
tobianthony: yes,there is nothing wrong with that,am not saying a woman should be redundant and not contribute anything ,it only shouldnt be a priority as the guys here are making it seem,its just a plus |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Hoodfriend(m): 11:52am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Yes, ladies are not term broke, they are term broke bitches |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by ImDharay: 11:57am On Jun 03, 2017 |
ImaIma1: okay nincompoop,i ain't buying your public orifice, can you pulease, fuçk off right 'bout now, Thnks. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Safiaa(f): 11:58am On Jun 03, 2017 |
MrsPhysics:I respect your opinion. But like i said love is not the most important thing. They're too many challenges in a relationship that love itself cannot conquer. Love is important of course but it doesn't enable longevity. I've learnt this from a lot of experienced, wise, open minded people and you will learn this later on in life. I have nothing left to say, as your argument cannot convince me. |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
it is simple, from my own little experience, broke guys avoid broke girls... they go with girls that are NOT broke... i don't mean rich girls, just girls that have their own source of income or come from middle class, upper class and rich families. Cinderella5: |
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Safiaa(f): 12:03pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
haibe:I never stated that it's all about money. You clearly don't seem to understand the dynamics of a relationship. Until you experience it yourself, you just wont understand. |
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