l had to open this account to tell this story and l know that l will be bashed for this but l really need to get it off my chest.
it was in 2014, that l cheated on him and since then, l have not been myself. l have confessed to Pastors but l can't forget it and my mind keep telling me that God has forgotten about me cos whenever l pray, l find it difficult to concentrate and that's why l want to confess to him.
l know he will send me packing because he said something like that to me and the fear is what is keeping me from confessing to him. l don't want to be disgraced out of my home cos my husband will definitely do it.
l can't blame him for my shortcomings but myself for allowing devil into my home.
l really need your advice for help.... You can curse me but l deserve it for being a loose woman but l seriously need help cos depression wants to take over my life that l think of suicide to escape shame and mockery from people in case he finds out.

istoctober:
l had to open this account to tell this story and l know that l will be bashed for this but l really need to get it off my chest.
it was in 2014, that l cheated on him and since then, l have not been myself. l have confessed to Pastors but l can't forget it and my mind keep telling me that God has forgotten about me cos whenever l pray, l find it difficult to concentrate and that's why l want to confess to him.
l know he will send me packing because he said something like that to me and the fear is what is keeping me from confessing to him. l don't want to be disgraced out of my home cos my husband will definitely do it.
l can't blame him for my shortcomings but myself for allowing devil into my home.
l really need your advice for help.... You can curse me but l deserve it for being a loose woman but l seriously need help cos depression wants to take over my life that l think of suicide to escape shame and mockery from people in case he finds out.

Serious!

Please consider the following before you think of confessing, because he will ask you.

Who did you cheat on him with? Better not be his family member, friend, business partner, a lowlife (his driver, gateman etc), your old timer, because these will make it hard (not impossible) for him to pardon you.

Where did you cheat? Better not be in his home.

When did you cheat? Better not be moments when he was sick or had any problem.

Why did you cheat? No reason is cogent enough if you're legally married to him.

Confession is good, but seeking counsel before confession is the best move.

Added: Some praised and some condemned my choice of word "lowlife". I can understand. I wish you will all be there to hear the man speak after hearing the wife's confession, and she actually cheated with his husband's driver. 'istoctober' has apparently heard her husband's voice through me and she's better prepared.

Your conscience is fascinating; it is alive. For me, the remorse you show should attract forgiveness. Nevertheless, pray for God's wisdom before taking any action.

nelson16:
Your conscience is fascinating; it is alive. For me, the remorse you show should attract forgiveness. Nevertheless, pray for God's wisdom before taking any action.

Poster follow this advice.

God answers prayers, I'm a living proof.

Nuezha:


Serious!

Please consider the following before you think of confessing, because he will ask you.

Who did you cheat on him with? Better not be his family member, friend, business partner, a lowlife (his driver, gateman etc), your old timer, because these will make it hard (not impossible) for him to pardon you.

Where did you cheat? Better not be in his home.

When did you cheat? Better not be moments when he was sick or had any problem.

Why did you cheat? No reason is cogent enough if you're legally married to him.

Confession is good, but seeking counsel before confession is the best move.

l have asked a pastor and he said l shouldn't confess but am worried cos he told me on Sunday that his uncle who is a native doctor will know if l am cheating on him.

Ishilove:

Poster follow this advice.

God answers prayers, I'm a living proof.

l lost my three months preggy cos of my depreesion in Jan, 2016. Ever since, l have not been myself. l keep seeing myself as not worth living.
Each time l look at him, l have this guilty conscience that l have disappointed God and my parents. I cry in my lonely hours and it has made me to stay calm even in my right at home, l felt that l deserve everything that is happening to me.

istoctober:


l have asked a pastor and he said l shouldn't confess but am worried cos he told me on Sunday that his uncle who is a native doctor will know if l am cheating on him.

I think you're giving him enough room to suspect you already. It seems to me that your confession won't shock him but will rather confirm his suspicion. Woman, sorry to ask, how old are you? (Give a range: above 25, above 35, etc)

Nuezha:


Serious!

Please consider the following before you think of confessing, because he will ask you.

Who did you cheat on him with? Better not be his family member, friend, business partner, a lowlife (his driver, gateman etc), your old timer, because these will make it hard (not impossible) for him to pardon you.

Where did you cheat? Better not be in his home.

When did you cheat? Better not be moments when he was sick or had any problem.

Why did you cheat? No reason is cogent enough if you're legally married to him.

Confession is good, but seeking counsel before confession is the best move.

Stop beating about the bush. Answer these questions or carry your fornicating life outta here.

Hmm. I don't know what to say.. Just pray and ask God for wisdom.

Ishilove:

Poster follow this advice.

God answers prayers, I'm a living proof.

So you cheated on your hubby too?

istoctober:


l lost my three months preggy cos of my depreesion in Jan, 2016. Ever since, l have not been myself. l keep seeing myself as not worth living.
Each time l look at him, l have this guilty conscience that l have disappointed God and my parents. I cry in my lonely hours and it has made me to stay calm even in my right at home, l felt that l deserve everything that is happening to me.

Answer these questions:

Do you feel God has forgiven you?

Have you genuinely repented?

Are you ready for the ramifications? The ramifications include: Being sent packing and the shame it will bring your family. If you're not sent packing, your husband may never trust you again and will keep reminding you of your past mistake. He will hang it over your head like Shakespeare's sword of Damocles.

Please answer the above.

istoctober:
l had to open this account to tell this story and l know that l will be bashed for this but l really need to get it off my chest.
it was in 2014, that l cheated on him and since then, l have not been myself. l have confessed to Pastors but l can't forget it and my mind keep telling me that God has forgotten about me cos whenever l pray, l find it difficult to concentrate and that's why l want to confess to him.
l know he will send me packing because he said something like that to me and the fear is what is keeping me from confessing to him. l don't want to be disgraced out of my home cos my husband will definitely do it.
l can't blame him for my shortcomings but myself for allowing devil into my home.
l really need your advice for help.... You can curse me but l deserve it for being a loose woman but l seriously need help cos depression wants to take over my life that l think of suicide to escape shame and mockery from people in case he finds out.

Who did you cheat with?
Did you open your kpekus for another joystick?
What prompted you to do the deed?

angels09:

So you cheated on your hubby too?

Do you have something tangible to say to the poster?

Ishilove:

Do you have something tangible to say to the poster?

You are more important now... I am dealing with the poster already.... So why did you cheat on your husband?

istoctober:


l have asked a pastor and he said l shouldn't confess but am worried cos he told me on Sunday that his uncle who is a native doctor will know if l am cheating on him.

Madam your confession shouldn't base on his threats but by your genuine repentance.
If you confess without genuine repentance, you'll cheat on him again and this time your heart will be so hardened that you won't even think of confessing any more.
Prepare to tell him how many times and men........

angels09:

You are more important now... I am dealing with the poster already.... So why did you cheat on your husband?

Kindly direct your questions and observations to the poster. Thank you

Ishilove:

Kindly direct your questions and observations to the poster. Thank you

Would send you a text message... In order not to derail.



@op confession should be total.... If you are that troubled

istoctober:


l lost my three months preggy cos of my depreesion in Jan, 2016. Ever since, l have not been myself. l keep seeing myself as not worth living.
Each time l look at him, l have this guilty conscience that l have disappointed God and my parents. I cry in my lonely hours and it has made me to stay calm even in my right at home, l felt that l deserve everything that is happening to me.

I feel for you.

A healed wound would always leave behind a permanent scar. Please relax and deal with your feelings of guilt to heal the wound. Talk more to him on relevant, insensitive matters for the time being and give no room for suspicion. At the right time you can do the needful. Remember however, the scar won't go away, confession or not.

Let by-gone be by-gone


let it be ur secret..... God will be d one to judge u

Nuezha:


I feel for you.

A healed wound would always leave behind a permanent scar. Please relax and deal with your feelings of guilt to heal the wound. Talk more to him on relevant, insensitive matters for the time being and give no room for suspicion. At the right time you can do the needful. Remember however, the scar won't go away, confession or not.

Thx alot

istoctober:


l lost my three months preggy cos of my depreesion in Jan, 2016. Ever since, l have not been myself. l keep seeing myself as not worth living.
Each time l look at him, l have this guilty conscience that l have disappointed God and my parents. I cry in my lonely hours and it has made me to stay calm even in my right at home, l felt that l deserve everything that is happening to me.

He that breaks the hedge, the serpent will bite. You have defied your matrimonial BED and you stands in judgement hence all these are happening to you. Your conscience which is the spirit of God in a human has started judging you so is nature also judging you. Though hand joins to hand the wicked shall not go unpunished.

Your genuine repentance and confession is the only thing that will give you peace of mind.

akpamuomenka:


Madam your confession shouldn't base on his threats but by your genuine repentance.
If you confess without genuine repentance, you'll cheat on him again and this time your heart will be so hardened that you won't even think of confessing any more.
Prepare to tell him how many times and men........

l did it once and since then, l have not been myself. l have a feeling of "your sins will surely find you out" and is hunting me now. ls been two years now but l don't have peace.

angels09:

Who did you cheat with?
Did you open your kpekus for another joystick?
What prompted you to do the deed?

I don't want to go into details but l have no right to cheat on my spouse no matter what... l guess l was confused and l have learnt my lesson.

Nuezha:


I think you're giving him enough room to suspect you already. It seems to me that your confession won't shock him but will rather confirm his suspicion. Woman, sorry to ask, how old are you? (Give a range: above 25, above 35, etc)

l was 29, when l cheated on him but am 32 now.

Nuezha:


I think you're giving him enough room to suspect you already. It seems to me that your confession won't shock him but will rather confirm his suspicion. Woman, sorry to ask, how old are you? (Give a range: above 25, above 35, etc)

it will shock him. Am even worried about him hating me including other women entirely..
Definitely, he will send me packing for that.

istoctober:


l was 29, when l cheated

You needn't be precise. Well, there are over 500million 32 year old women out there.

istoctober:


it will shock him. Am even worried about him hating me including other women entirely..
Definitely, he will send me packing for that.

I suspect he is a good man and you're genuinely sorrowful. I also have no doubt that you're truly repentant. Nonetheless, come out of your prison. Things will eventually fall in place with time.

Mtchwweee

nelson16:
Your conscience is fascinating; it is alive. For me, the remorse you show should attract forgiveness. Nevertheless, pray for God's wisdom before taking any action.

thx

Ishilove:

Answer these questions:

Do you feel God has forgiven you?

Have you genuinely repented?

Are you ready for the ramifications? The ramifications include: Being sent packing and the shame it will bring your family. If you're not sent packing, your husband may never trust you again and will keep reminding you of your past mistake. He will hang it over your head like Shakespeare's sword of Damocles.

Please answer the above.

l feel has forgiven me, but l have not forgiven myself. l have changed from such life ever since then.

Nuezha:


I suspect he is a good man and you're genuinely sorrowful. I also have no doubt that you're truly repentant. Nonetheless, come out of your prison. Things will eventually fall in place with time.

Thx for your words...