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Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Skubidude(m): 11:37pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
angels09:Lol.. They are coming out.. Cheaters dem. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by abeg222(m): 11:38pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Madam,were you hypnotized all through the time the pastor was drilling you?He undressed you or you undressed yourself?either way it was an act done deliberately it's too late for us to advice you.Madam,for a woman,it is not easy to cheat.You consented it. 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by BLACKPANTHER(m): 11:38pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
istoctober: Babe abi Woman...I hope I got to you fast. If u love yourself and don't want to ruin your life/physco system DONT CONFESS ANYTHING. Confess rather to your inner being and God, plus you gatta change for real. Whatever you have not been doing that pleases the Hubby n family do it XXL as your punishment and keep it up for life. The moment you confess and ANT become Butterfly na u sabi 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by SAVAGEBETS: 11:38pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
okay biiiishhhhh sit your faukeeen asssss down and take notes, what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas biiiiiaaaaaachhhh...In Mandela's voice... "Don't do it again". One last question, how many rounds did you go? Don't covfefe answer the question biiiiiiaaach. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by obataokenwa(m): 11:38pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
istoctober:Just let it go. Don't confess anything. dwell more on the word of God and believe that God has forgiven you and now love your husband Now like u dey craze. whenever the thought of guilt comes, rebuke that spirit and you'll be fine. as for his herbalist uncle to know, is a threat cos he feels you're cheating. if you ever tell him, the consequences will be much and you may end up being depressed and evil will befall u and your life is finished. Always rebuke that guilt thought and thank me later 6 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by questionpsgg: 11:39pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
darlenese: Who can carry fire underneath his clothing. I had an adulterous uncle, guess what, he ould hold it no more e damned the consequence and tild his wife. Cos the men u speak about dont confess doesnt mean guilt isnt eating then deep. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Zirah: 11:39pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Woman, woman, woman...how many times did I call you? Going with the majority may feel like the right thing to do but Don't - I repeat, do not tell your husband you cheated. I have your kind of conscience and would have done the same thing you're considering now but that was when I was naive and foolish. Forgive yourself and move on. P.S- the fact that you're highly conscientious doesn't mean you should not apply wisdom. Be wise. istoctober: 7 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Cadillac15(m): 11:40pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Ishilove: My fear for the op is that one of the pastors who know about her adultery(including the one she commited it with) is going to blackmail her in the future to have a taste of her. If she refuses, her husband will be informed. If she agrees, the cycle continues. If she confesses, she receives her punishment and unburdens her heart. Who knows, the husband might suprise her. If she refuses and the husband finds out from a blackmailer, the marriage ends without remedy. Therefore, istoctober, choose your option well 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Mbkite(m): 11:41pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
istoctober: Restitution is good oooo but, in this case wisdom is required. God has forgiven you your sin. but, that idiot called devil won't allow you enjoy your life because you think God has not forgiven you. woman! take care of your home and kill this feeling of guilt. Do not confess anything to your husband. Forget what has happened in the past and never allow such repeat. shalom! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 11:41pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
istoctober:You have a godly sorrow which is a prequisite for forgiveness. Hope you have already asked God to forgive you. Become a born Chriistian before doing this. God will definitely see you through. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Collyno82(m): 11:42pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
u have not made any sense 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by xtraordinariguy(m): 11:42pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Divorce and breakup is not the will of God for marriages,your heart is broken and u are remorseful,old things are passed away behold all things hav become new psalm 32 vs 5 says it all face the situation with boldness God would surely restore all he would guide you through this storm candidly I would advice not to tell him ,it would cause you so much physical and emotional pain and shame .dont ever do it again .show him more love than you hav ever done ..my 2cents. I would be there incase u need to talk 08136238324 |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by uboma(m): 11:44pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
modik: Ishilove indeed a pretty lady. It is only natural for the mum to warn her against evil men. 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 11:44pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Young03: This except for the god stuff. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Vicolan: 11:44pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
istoctober: Just ask for God's direction I'm sorry though.. Feel ur pains |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by zadok60: 11:44pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
istoctober:there's always a secret every human go down with in life..let this be ur very own secret..Wisdom should be applied here please,stop letting conscience finish you.2014 is fargone and you've repented from such thank God,he has forgiven you already since the first day you realized it and please avoid any close relationship from your ex-s |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
the day u confess to him, is the day u loose ur marriage. wisdom demand that you keep it to urself since u made up ur mind never to do that |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by SmartyPants(m): 11:45pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
istoctober: A pastor told you not to confess? |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by uboma(m): 11:46pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
hedonistic: the Op doesn't owe you the full narrative. She owes her husband that. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Hades2016(m): 11:47pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
istoctober:na wah for u ooooo .... I don't even know what to say |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Topgainer: 11:47pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
How old is your marriage? How predictable is your husband? Does he have any elderly couple /man he heeds to? There is no need to confess to him, he already knows. I suspect you denied it when he confronted you, it was better you'd remained silent. You may chip in when he is in a happy mood that you have made some mistakes like somebody under spell will do and build up a background later by showing your disgusts for most Pentecostal overlords and prophetic deceivers. Leave it at that, sometime in the nearest feature he may get to know of the details not from you anyway, then you will not both be a lier and a cheat, you will get a softlanding too. Don't be surprised his source of information may be a friend to the Pastor you cheated with. Stay away from the littered Pentecostal overlords and crooks, they are not your Papa and Daddy 7 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by EHIRIMCHA(m): 11:47pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
angels09:why on earth would a man sleep with a married woman that's not ur wife?it's evil and it beats my imagination. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Phonefanatic: 11:48pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
OP take your bag and leave in shame(preferably an older female friends place make sure you have confessed to her) if he begins looking for you give up your location and invite him over, get a genuine female pastor involved, confess your sins and let him know you had to leave because you are no longer worthy of his forgiveness. Remain there for days, spend your sober days there and see what happens next. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by modik(m): 11:50pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
uboma: There is an atom of evil/good in every man. The difference is the one you chose to feed. This warning is directional. 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by favourmic(m): 11:50pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Onegai: You're making more than sense Nice one i dey feel you |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Jhamzy(m): 11:50pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Nice talk. I can see that you are strong hearted though. Kudos... nkemdi89: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by dingbang(m): 11:51pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Just look at them.. If na man cheat now all the women will say all men are the same... Walks out angrily.. Nonsense.. Op.. If you don't confess, it will eat you up and you will die of depression .. But if you confess, he may or may not send you packing.. So whichever rocks your boat. Now if I see any woman saying men are cheats.. I fit curse that person generation... 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Humility017(m): 11:51pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
istoctober: the devil is just tormenting you wit guilt it is not God that is making you go through this depression... but the devil Remember he is an accuser of the brethren Christ forgives you and your sins he remember no more... so forgive yourself and move on... refuse to be guilty... 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Lush100(m): 11:51pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
grossintel:sir, it's not correct to say men can't handle infidelity. it depends on the kind of man,( a man who loves, who is tough and have the fear of God can handle such) my submission 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:52pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
MisterGrace: Pragmatism man... So you'd rather have a home broken, a man emotionally scarred for life, and a remorseful woman disgraced - just to satisfy your sadism, concealed behind morality. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by maklelemakukula(m): 11:52pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
4 Q 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by wadetaw202: 11:53pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Ishilove: This is why one should never commit a sin you can't make restitution for. The truth is her sins will still remain until she does restitution; that is, confess to her hubby. 2 Likes |
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