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Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Onliie(m): 5:41am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober:You know he will send you packing, you still want to tell him. You're just looking for a way to move out of your husband's house. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by AlwaysUltraPad: 5:41am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober:maybe, you're not remorseful enough and really want to confess out of fear of the discovery the native doctor would make. You know what, your countenance most times will give him hints that you're cheating cos you're already troubled on the inside. Your husband is indeed a strong man; he has a very strong spirit. If you are sure you won't do it again, don't confess cos it will definitely break you and your home. Ask God for forgiveness and move on. I don't know why Christianity teaches you can only be forgiven if you confess your sins in the open. Once you offend someone, you seek their forgiveness. If you offend God, you seek his forgiveness. God will not forgive what you did to your husband, but your husband himself. In this case, since your life and marriage depends on this, don't confess. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Efewestern: 5:41am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Onegai: God bless you, I was telling my girl this and she said am childish, why will a married man or woman keep the opposite sex as "Best friend"? Ogini, they will definitely be tempted. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Andrewkinggg: 5:43am On Jun 04, 2017 |
obataokenwa: C'mon why making this more difficult for her? She had the courage to come out to the internet to confess her sins and you are making seems like it's bout the baby. She claimed she cheated on her hubby 3 years ago of course a sex from 3 years ago if it had resulted to a pregnancy the baby ought to have been born. Stop all the superstitious of baby spirit and all that.... |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by SweetyZinta(f): 5:46am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Honest2: next time, book space first by just using fullstop later you can modify it |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by LyfeJennings(m): 5:47am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Roseey0: I'm a guy U a lady Madam, it is a man's world I can fück anyone and get away but U dare not OK! !! |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by JAZIK(m): 5:48am On Jun 04, 2017 |
God is always willing to forgive us. just try and forgive yourself. try and forget about the past...u can never change it no matter how hard you try. make your home lively again. light the love once again. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Roseey0(f): 5:49am On Jun 04, 2017 |
LyfeJennings:Really... Don't worry Your daughters will grow up one day. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by MrsPhysics: 5:49am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Roseey0:No he didn't read it. I read it and you were just saying the truth. For me, there is no issue again. According to her, God have forgiven her but she is yet to forgive herself. Well, the possibility of not forgiven yourself after God have forgiven you will come from the fact that she may be denying him sex, not giving it to him the way he wants. On a serious note, ladies are shallow in thoughts, any girl that ask her to confess is shortsighted. Follow the advice of most men here. Majority have told you not to confess, so since you have made it with God, please let it be. You might be thinking of doing good to your husband, he might start suspecting that it was the pastor that owns those children. Abeg, be happy. When God forgives, please don't seek any other forgiveness. If death can make us path ways, then we are more indebted to God than man. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by AlwaysUltraPad: 5:49am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober:you cheated on him just once? |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by mikeycharles(m): 5:51am On Jun 04, 2017 |
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Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Chicksy(f): 5:52am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Please do not confess oo.it doesn't change what has happened, you will lose a lot if you do.what need is forgiveness from God..Take ur mind off it,never ever repeat it and live like it never happened(defense mechanism).. My thought |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 5:53am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober:his uncle who's a native doctor might have told him and he being a man has been keeping to himself for 3yrs, waiting for you to confess, confess and he'll forgive u |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by decub: 5:53am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober:I wonder why he would tell you his uncle would know if you are cheating on him or not! What could have given rise to this kinda statement? Looks like you've given him reasons to suspect you! I'm convinced that whatever would have led to that threat would influence his decision to send you packing if he eventually discovers(either himself or confession). I will advise you let it be your secret, save your marriage since you have truly repented. Live your life with happiness and love him more. I will also advise you stop sharing sensitive details like the one I just quoted cos somehow, this thread might get to him(search engine or through a friend). |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Yourbest(m): 5:53am On Jun 04, 2017 |
*sighs* I really feel bad for u because there's no easy way out of this. If u confess your marriage would face hell probably for the rest of it! If u don't your conscience would pork u almost everytime u see him, worst part is the truth always comes out and may be worst but I think taking ur chances at this point is best maybe u shouldn't tel him. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Ade3000yrs(m): 5:53am On Jun 04, 2017 |
useless gossip. Go and farm garri |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Roseey0(f): 5:54am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Efewestern:I join her in saying this is childish. Shows you can't even control yourselves. Just draw your boundaries |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by LyfeJennings(m): 5:54am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Roseey0: Weyrey Olosho, I won't have daughters like U Tufiakpa!!!!! Hell fűcckin NO God no go let am happen In fact all my kids will be men |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Iyke216(m): 5:55am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Excuse me madam....You are big fool...all these yeye girls wey no fit keep their pussy one place even after marriage.Your conscience don de flog you abi?..So you carry your ashawoness enter husband house ....Oloshos everywhere. I have just one advice for you...
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Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Roseey0(f): 5:58am On Jun 04, 2017 |
LyfeJennings:Let me just quote you Plz refer to this post whenever the sperm you are spreading now fails to deliver the Y cells. You have exhausted it in your sharing formular. Only XX remain. Just keep the quote in your record |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by AlwaysUltraPad: 5:58am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Efewestern:my girlfriend knows we can't get married , but insist we will be friends when we are with our respective partners. I told her NO. I can't go and continue what we do now . It can be tempting. God forbid me to touch another man's wife. Women are easily lured. If I hear say my wife get any male friend. Na divorce. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by megafone: 5:59am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Koolmak: |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Chicksy(f): 5:59am On Jun 04, 2017 |
I know cheating is bad o,but do you think if he did the same thing he will confess to you.I pity you,guys ehn even if he says he has forgiven u he will still use it against you....leme give u one small gist,in the past I did something bad,I had a new boyfriend and I told him everything have done this before done that all my past.I was chatting with my dad one day he now asked if I ever told my bf about my past,nd I was like yes..if you know the kind of insult I received, he told me never to that again,he said he wont make him love you more,it doesn't change anything and he wouldn,t do the same.... |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by MrsPhysics: 6:01am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Roseey0:Please do not mind him. Regardless of what the society says, you have the right to your choice of life. Please, ignore such comments from men. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by sisisioge: 6:03am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Wowzerful! Babes, if you commit the crime, you should be ready to do the time. However, since you are repentant and remorseful the court pardons you. Pls do not tell your bobo...forgive yourself and move on. Guys find it extremely hard to deal when their women cheat. Biko, forgive yourself and sin no more...you bobo needs not hear it. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by MrsPhysics: 6:04am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Chicksy:Women think that telling guys about their body count amounts to sincerity. It's very bad. How shallow minded women are yet they think they are wise. If you tell me about your past, I won't trust you again, because you do not know what I value and what I hate 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by famosh: 6:04am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Poster, stop deceiving yourself & let posters here deceive you that God has forgiven you when you haven't confessed to the person you offended. You didn't offend God but your husband, & until you ask for forgiveness from him now (when it's not that he's dead), you CANNOT be forgiven by God. You being scared he'll throw you out is not an excuse not to confess; you cannot commit such a sin & still dictate how the person you offended should feel & react. Confess & let him decide what to do. If he sends you out, it's the repercussion of your sin. You should have thought about it before doing it. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by LyfeJennings(m): 6:05am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Roseey0: Sorry to bust ur bubbles Na Y cells full my body pass Even the doctor ask me why Ako logidan bi Na men I go get |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Roseey0(f): 6:05am On Jun 04, 2017 |
MrsPhysics:I just want him to pour out his frustrations. It's good to know the extent some men reason. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by mizthorlu(f): 6:07am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: something's are better left unsaid my sister. what makes you think the man hasn't cheated on you too? what makes you think he is righteous? lemme ask you, are you still cheating? if it was just that 2014, then forget it and guard that secret to your grave. I don't know what you are trying to prove with your I want to confess o... |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Davindal(m): 6:10am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Madam you are very stupid and evil to have cheated on your husband. What the Bleep are you telling us? Listen and listen good, you adulterous woman; of you don't confess to your husband, God will punish you Idiot to death. Madam...See, I reject your type as my future wife...God forbid! God knows, that I have vowed to be 100% faithful to any woman that I finally Settle down with in marriage. Paradventure my future wife cheats on me, God forbid oo, I will have no option than to spray and riddle her body with hot bullets. Yes, I will kill her, for she has sinned against me and God. Let me state it again, I hate evil, and wouldn't want evil to be meted out to me. Once I become married, I promised God that I would never look at any other woman other than my wife. When I go on business trip, I shall go on maximum trust that my wife would never cheat on me in my absence, and I shall give her my very sincere assurance and confidence that am not gonna cheat on her, no matter the circumstance. I shall, let her know in all honesty that whenever I emback on any trip, be it biz tour, Church Programm, military oriented tour, etc, that it is 100% concentration on what I am traveling for. Even now that I am single, though, I keep female friends biz each time I try meeting other girls aside my Main girl, I find it difficult being in their company. I Do feel deep sense of guilt, that I often regret ever stepping out with any other girl, because when I love it is 100%. If my love, a 19yr old, decides to cheat on me, good. I won't touch her, because I have yet to marry her. But once, I get married to her, and start getting information that she cheats on me; I wouldn't react. I would just have to hold my Chills till I confirm and catch her red-Händed in the act..., and once my type do...y'all know what? She will have to pay wiff her life...simple. Guys Don't get me wrong. I am calm, and reserved but not foolish. I am very hot-tempered(ill-tempered). I love instant Justice, hence dont hasitate to serving it instanta to err-pins. I am a 25 yr old man, and my girl is already aware of my attributes. I told her that once we are married, it gonna be strictly on both of us, and no one else, that then should she do anyhow(cheat), am no gonna hasitate in taking her out, including the idiat that gonna be with her on that, God forbid, ill-fated day, because in my own path, I shall be a faithful and loving husband that surd gonna be the envy of other ladies. I made her understand that she is free to go her separate now, If she knows that she no gonna play by marital rules when the time comes, but she obliged and promised that such will never happen. Now we are good to go in highest 2yrs time from now. As for you Madam...go and die, you slut. #NONSENSE!!! |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Ishilove: 6:10am On Jun 04, 2017 |
uboma:Thanks dear |
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