istoctober:
l had to open this account to tell this story and l know that l will be bashed for this but l really need to get it off my chest.
it was in 2014, that l cheated on him and since then, l have not been myself. l have confessed to Pastors but l can't forget it and my mind keep telling me that God has forgotten about me cos whenever l pray, l find it difficult to concentrate and that's why l want to confess to him.
l know he will send me packing because he said something like that to me and the fear is what is keeping me from confessing to him. l don't want to be disgraced out of my home cos my husband will definitely do it.
l can't blame him for my shortcomings but myself for allowing devil into my home.
l really need your advice for help.... You can curse me but l deserve it for being a loose woman but l seriously need help cos depression wants to take over my life that l think of suicide to escape shame and mockery from people in case he finds out.

istoctober:


l have asked a pastor and he said l shouldn't confess but am worried cos he told me on Sunday that his uncle who is a native doctor will know if l am cheating on him.

Onegai:
By the way, nobody should have friends of opposite sexx in Marriage. Nobody should have Pastor of opposite sexx in Marriage. Stop deceiving yourself because it is very hard to have boundaries once you justify it with labels like "Friend" and "Pastor". God intended your spouse to have those labels and wear those crowns, which is why it is easiest to cheat within those groups.

Katyamizotta I'm good, hope your kids are good too

obataokenwa:
from all my observations on your replies and story... the relationship resulted to a baby and that's the one killing you cos I'm not sure a sin of three years ago will hold you down this way. That child spirit is not in the right home and that's what's killing you. If the child is not his, you need divine intervention. and you have really told several people around you seeking for advice... you've compounded everything. Say the truth and we can handle it spiritually and maturely also... but for now you kept us in the dark. Sex of 2014 can't keep you so guilty like this Abeg. tell us, did it result to a baby?

Honest2:
I always want to be the 1st to comment but before I know it I don see many comments

Those people that use to comment fast,fast ..where are they living,?
What are they eating?
How many fingers they have?
How many head they have?

Roseey0:

See ashewwo calling another Cheater
What are you?

LyfeJennings:


I'm a guy
U a lady
Madam, it is a man's world
I can fück anyone and get away but U dare not
OK! !!

Roseey0:

You didn't read my post
Desist from quoting me
King Adulterer

istoctober:


l feel has forgiven me, but l have not forgiven myself. l have changed from such life ever since then.

Ishilove:

Ummm...

istoctober:


l have asked a pastor and he said l shouldn't confess but am worried cos he told me on Sunday that his uncle who is a native doctor will know if l am cheating on him.

istoctober:


l have asked a pastor and he said l shouldn't confess but am worried cos he told me on Sunday that his uncle who is a native doctor will know if l am cheating on him.

Efewestern:


God bless you, I was telling my girl this and she said am childish, why will a married man or woman keep the opposite sex as "Best friend"?

Ogini, they will definitely be tempted.

Roseey0:

Really...
Don't worry
Your daughters will grow up one day.

LyfeJennings:


Weyrey
Olosho, I won't have daughters like U
Tufiakpa!!!!!
Hell fűcckin NO
God no go let am happen
In fact all my kids will be men

Efewestern:


God bless you, I was telling my girl this and she said am childish, why will a married man or woman keep the opposite sex as "Best friend"?

Ogini, they will definitely be tempted.

Koolmak:
First and foremost l must say you are a very good Christian with the kind of remorse you feel for your sin.

It was only Jesus that forgave that adulterous woman, Apostle Paul and your pastors won't even see anything wrong in your husband sending you out. So please stop telling them about it.

You just do yourself and your husband a very good favor by making a resolution to never fall into adultery again, you have suffered enough punishment for your sin already, don't impose more punishment on yourself by telling him about it.

Stop thinking about suicide, that will be your greatest mistake.

We are all flawed, me, your husband, the pastors and every nairalander and Seun too.

Try and gear up, listen to messages, listen to radio, watch movies, chat with friends and enjoy life.

Most of all be happy.

This is enough counsel for you. What again do you not need?
Free yourself from condemnation! Most of the people throwing questions at you here are actively adulterous but you have repented!
Who told you that your husband has no confession he has been battling with underlying the beautiful smiles?
A neighbor took his life, I doubt if his wife has not had sex since!

Roseey0:

Really...
Don't worry
Your daughters will grow up one day.

Chicksy:
I know cheating is bad o,but do you think if he did the same thing he will confess to you.I pity you,guys ehn even if he says he has forgiven u he will still use it against you....leme give u one small gist,in the past I did something bad,I had a new boyfriend and I told him everything have done this before done that all my past.I was chatting with my dad one day he now asked if I ever told my bf about my past,nd I was like yes..if you know the kind of insult I received, he told me never to that again,he said he wont make him love you more,it doesn't change anything and he wouldn,t do the same....

Roseey0:

Let me just quote you
Plz refer to this post whenever the sperm you are spreading now fails to deliver the Y cells. You have exhausted it in your sharing formular. Only XX remain. Just keep the quote in your record

MrsPhysics:

Please do not mind him. Regardless of what the society says, you have the right to your choice of life.

Please, ignore such comments from men.

istoctober:
l had to open this account to tell this story and l know that l will be bashed for this but l really need to get it off my chest.
it was in 2014, that l cheated on him and since then, l have not been myself. l have confessed to Pastors but l can't forget it and my mind keep telling me that God has forgotten about me cos whenever l pray, l find it difficult to concentrate and that's why l want to confess to him.
l know he will send me packing because he said something like that to me and the fear is what is keeping me from confessing to him. l don't want to be disgraced out of my home cos my husband will definitely do it.
l can't blame him for my shortcomings but myself for allowing devil into my home.
l really need your advice for help.... You can curse me but l deserve it for being a loose woman but l seriously need help cos depression wants to take over my life that l think of suicide to escape shame and mockery from people in case he finds out.

uboma:




Your response is epic.

I love it