MisterGrace:


When you say you are a living proof, what do you mean by that?

OmaniPadmeHum:
The moment a woman cheats on me, she should know that she is Only Using Extra Time in the relationship.


Even if I get to know when we are both 99 years old, I will send you packing. Regardless of whether we have 2000 new infants.

There will be no reason that will make me keep you.

For the sake of your peace of mind, tell him. But know that if I am him, you are leaving that same day.

hedonistic:
God forgives; I don't.

Ishilove:

I'm a living proof that God answers prayers.

mizthorlu:


something's are better left unsaid my sister. what makes you think the man hasn't cheated on you too? what makes you think he is righteous?
lemme ask you, are you still cheating? if it was just that 2014, then forget it and guard that secret to your grave.

I don't know what you are trying to prove with your I want to confess o...

istoctober:


l have asked a pastor and he said l shouldn't confess but am worried cos he told me on Sunday that his uncle who is a native doctor will know if l am cheating on him.

Davindal:
Madam you are very stupid and evil to have cheated on your husband. What the Bleep are you telling us? Listen and listen good, you adulterous woman; of you don't confess to your husband, God will punish you Idiot to death.

Madam...See, I reject your type as my future wife...God forbid! God knows, that I have vowed to be 100% faithful to any woman that I finally Settle down with in marriage.

Paradventure my future wife cheats on me, God forbid oo, I will have no option than to spray and riddle her body with hot bullets. Yes, I will kill her, for she has sinned against me and God.

Let me state it again, I hate evil, and wouldn't want evil to be meted out to me. Once I become married, I promised God that I would never look at any other woman other than my wife. When I go on business trip, I shall go on maximum trust that my wife would never cheat on me in my absence, and I shall give her my very sincere assurance and confidence that am not gonna cheat in her, no matter the circumstance. I shall, let her know in all honesty that whenever I emback on any Trip, be it biz tour, Church Programm, etc, that it is 100% concentration on what I am traveling for.
Even now that I am single, through, I keep female friends biz each time I try meeting other girls aside my Main girl, I find it difficult being in their company. I Do feel deep sense of guilt, that I often regret ever stepping out with any other girl, because when I love it is 100%. If my love, a 19yr old, decides to cheat on me, good. I won't touch her, because I have yet to marry her. Becaude once, I get married to her, and I get information that she cheats on me; I wouldn't react. I would just have to hold my Chills till I confirm and catch her res-Hände..., and once my type do...y'all know what? She will have to pay wiff her life...simple.

Guys Don't get me wrong. I am calm, and reserved biz not foolish. I am very hot-tempered(illustriert-tempered). I love instant Justice, hence dont hasitate to spring it instanta to err-pin.

I am a 25 yr old man, and my girl is already aware of my attributes. I informed her that Once we are married, it gonna be strictly on both of us, and no one else, that then should she Do anyhow, am no gonna hasitate in taking her out, including the idiat that gonna be with her on that, God forbid, ill-fated day. I made her understand that she is free to go her separate was, If she knows that she no gonna play by marital rules, biz she obliged and er are good to go.

As for you Madam...hi and die, you slut. #NONSENSE!!!

ShaqFu:
Is that so. Please humour me. Which of your prayers has God answers? I'm curious to know.

famosh:

She's not trying to prove anything; she only wants to make heaven. If she doesn't confess now that she still has the chance to, she will go to hell.

InvertedHammer:


Confessing to him does not serve any purpose.

You are remorseful and hopefully will not do it again.

Some problems are better left alone.
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juman:


Madam, you have asked for God forgiveness. That is good.
God has forgiven you. As you have stopped the sinful way.

You dont need to tell your husband. Dont destroy your marriage.

MrsPhysics:

Why are you frustrated. Please today is Sunday, and your type need no heaven. If God is like you, then everyone will perish.

No woman will want to be with your type. Your girlfriend is a hero for being with you.

istoctober:
l had to open this account to tell this story and l know that l will be bashed for this but l really need to get it off my chest.
it was in 2014, that l cheated on him and since then, l have not been myself. l have confessed to Pastors but l can't forget it and my mind keep telling me that God has forgotten about me cos whenever l pray, l find it difficult to concentrate and that's why l want to confess to him.
l know he will send me packing because he said something like that to me and the fear is what is keeping me from confessing to him. l don't want to be disgraced out of my home cos my husband will definitely do it.
l can't blame him for my shortcomings but myself for allowing devil into my home.
l really need your advice for help.... You can curse me but l deserve it for being a loose woman but l seriously need help cos depression wants to take over my life that l think of suicide to escape shame and mockery from people in case he finds out.

Ishilove:

It's private

ShaqFu:
Then how do expect us to believe God answers prayers?

istoctober:


l lost my three months preggy cos of my depreesion in Jan, 2016. Ever since, l have not been myself. l keep seeing myself as not worth living.
Each time l look at him, l have this guilty conscience that l have disappointed God and my parents. I cry in my lonely hours and it has made me to stay calm even in my right at home, l felt that l deserve everything that is happening to me.

Koolmak:
First and foremost l must say you are a very good Christian with the kind of remorse you feel for your sin.

It was only Jesus that forgave that adulterous woman, Apostle Paul and your pastors won't even see anything wrong in your husband sending you out. So please stop telling them about it.

You just do yourself and your husband a very good favor by making a resolution to never fall into adultery again, you have suffered enough punishment for your sin already, don't impose more punishment on yourself by telling him about it.

Stop thinking about suicide, that will be your greatest mistake.

We are all flawed, me, your husband, the pastors and every nairalander and Seun too.

Try and gear up, listen to messages, listen to radio, watch movies, chat with friends and enjoy life.

Most of all be happy.

istoctober:
l had to open this account to tell this story and l know that l will be bashed for this but l really need to get it off my chest.
it was in 2014, that l cheated on him and since then, l have not been myself. l have confessed to Pastors but l can't forget it and my mind keep telling me that God has forgotten about me cos whenever l pray, l find it difficult to concentrate and that's why l want to confess to him.
l know he will send me packing because he said something like that to me and the fear is what is keeping me from confessing to him. l don't want to be disgraced out of my home cos my husband will definitely do it.
l can't blame him for my shortcomings but myself for allowing devil into my home.
l really need your advice for help.... You can curse me but l deserve it for being a loose woman but l seriously need help cos depression wants to take over my life that l think of suicide to escape shame and mockery from people in case he finds out.

istoctober:
l had to open this account to tell this story and l know that l will be bashed for this but l really need to get it off my chest.
it was in 2014, that l cheated on him and since then, l have not been myself. l have confessed to Pastors but l can't forget it and my mind keep telling me that God has forgotten about me cos whenever l pray, l find it difficult to concentrate and that's why l want to confess to him.
l know he will send me packing because he said something like that to me and the fear is what is keeping me from confessing to him. l don't want to be disgraced out of my home cos my husband will definitely do it.
l can't blame him for my shortcomings but myself for allowing devil into my home.
l really need your advice for help.... You can curse me but l deserve it for being a loose woman but l seriously need help cos depression wants to take over my life that l think of suicide to escape shame and mockery from people in case he finds out.

Ishilove:

That's because it's between me and God.

MrsPhysics:

Make heaven? if God forgives, then who is the husband? The determinant of making heaven is God. And so, if he forgives, then before Him all husbands submit. Stop this, the husband need the information to do nothing than harm to her.

mizthorlu:


something's are better left unsaid my sister. what makes you think the man hasn't cheated on you too? what makes you think he is righteous?
lemme ask you, are you still cheating? if it was just that 2014, then forget it and guard that secret to your grave.

I don't know what you are trying to prove with your I want to confess o...

lonelydora:


No matter what.....don't confess to him. Once you do, he will send you packing. Someone like me can never forgive any woman who cheated on me. I am still trying to reconcile my friend with his wife because his she cheated 5 years ago and out of love or out of stupidity confessed to him. Some men don't tolerate this no matter the love he has for the wife.

katyamizotta:
Istoctober,

I am so sorry about the torment you are going through.

There is no perfect person. you have already judged yourself so I can never judge you.

I want you to know that God has forgiven you.

you have confessed to Him and he has forgiven you. NOW FORGIVE YOURSELF. I perceive you never went back again. FORGIVE YOURSELF SISTER. Release yourself from this bondage of guilt because Christ has forgiven you.

Now let's look at it scripturally:
When Jesus saw the adulterous woman, He asked her to go and sin no more. the ultimate confession was to him, he did not require her to go and confess elsewhere.
When Jesus went to the house of Zaccheus, he did not ask Zaccheus to restitute. Zaccheus decided that on his own.

If you decide to confess, just know it is your decision. God is not requiring that from you.

Dear Jesus, I commit this sister into your hands. Thank you for forgiving her as she has asked. Please envelop her with your peace, and break the hold of torment over her life. Make her life beautiful again. Strengthen her marriage. In Jesus Name.