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Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by realmindz: 6:36am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: When I read and saw your religiosity, I knew it would be a pastor. To all pastors, Mark my name, I Am realmindz, the day I catch any of you with any female that is my relative be it sister, cousin, or wife etc....Consider yourself gone.... 4 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by ShaqFu: 6:36am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Ishilove:As a christian, what does your bible say about truth? 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by ShaqFu: 6:37am On Jun 04, 2017 |
realmindz:Ah ba bros easy now. E neva reach dis level. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by tolexy123: 6:37am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Ishilove:ssp, ishilove too don cheat before ![]() |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by famosh: 6:38am On Jun 04, 2017 |
garrimallam:Don't mind these guys here jare! How can you commit such a sin & still give yourself the right to dictate how the repercussion of the sin should? Crap! 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by realmindz: 6:38am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Ishilove: Here comes the same ishilove that has been defending pastors in the name of blackmail....Your time Will soon come you double mouth 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Lloydfather(m): 6:38am On Jun 04, 2017 |
The best way to confess in this type of situation is to invite a pastor that he respect also u have to be courageous and face whatever is coming than allowed depression kill u. Note that men react more when they discovered things themselves than when they discovered through confession. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by crunchyg: 6:40am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Before you tell him, make sure it's at the right time, when he is happy with you, when he can handle forgiveness, you must have to wait for the right time to do that or else it might be disastrous |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by MrsPhysics: 6:40am On Jun 04, 2017 |
famosh:Hey, do you know his husband sin? |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 6:40am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: You need to confess to him. However be prepared for the consequences. It could potentially destroy your home because cheating on him is a direct attack on the foundation of your relationship, that is trust. I don't know how best you can go about it but maybe inform someone he respects to come along as you make the confession. But make sure that individual is aware of what you want to say and agree to be around to help manage the fall out. Not telling him is deception and you know it. It's equally a sin if you took marriage vows before God. You never know he might have cheated on you too. Just saying. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by ShaqFu: 6:40am On Jun 04, 2017 |
realmindz:Bros one 'Otobo' for you. LOL. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Ishilove: 6:41am On Jun 04, 2017 |
ShaqFu:Confess and genuinely repent. She has already done that |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by ShaqFu: 6:42am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Ishilove:Confess to who or whom? Did she confess to the person she cheated on? 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Clonus: 6:42am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Truth is the only solid ground upon which you can stand. If you don't tell him, you will keep looking over your shoulder for the rest of your life. True repentance stems from a heartfelt regret over a wrong action and a strong determination never to repeat such. It is also predicated on restitution, a desire to right the wrong. You can restitute by confessing first to God and then to him, not to any pastor nor to nairalanders. Adultery is such serious sin that it is the only ground that a TRUE Christian can divorce the spouse and remarry. If you don't tell him you are not TRULY repentant. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by mudiana(m): 6:42am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober:madam you have already repented but ur mind is playing games with you became ur husband threatened u with his native doctor brother. the day you forgive urself not him to forgive, that is the day you will be free. Don't mind his threats, tell urself it won't happen again and that you are a new person. block his threats out of your mind completely as you begin your self healing or forgiveness. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Ishilove: 6:43am On Jun 04, 2017 |
realmindz:Jump in front of a speeding train if my posts pain you. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by famosh: 6:44am On Jun 04, 2017 |
MrsPhysics:I don't need to know because it's all about this woman here. If the husband has also cheated before & he doesn't confess to his wife now that he still has the chance to, he too will go to hell! 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by victorDanladi: 6:45am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: ....you believe that is possible? Nothing will happen to you.Seek for forgiveness and dont go back to it. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by YelloweWest: 6:45am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Ishilove:EXACTLY what I wanted to hear. Op is a good woman who did a stupid thing... She was probably deceived. She needs to move on I don't see any reason why she should confess. According to statistics her husband is probably cheating or has cheated or will cheat at some point. People make mistakes.. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by ShaqFu: 6:46am On Jun 04, 2017 |
1stOctober. Lemme tell you this and believe me when I say it's the truth. Until you confess, scratch that, tell him the truth, you'll never be free. Just talk to your parents, tell them what happened. Then have your parents talk to his parents. Then both parents should summon him and tell him in your presence when you guys are together. I'm sure that will loosen whatever devious action he would be thinking about. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 6:46am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: My sister, since you've prayed and asked God to forgive I know he has, it's the devil that is making you think God hasn't forgiven you. Think about how damaged your marriage will be, you are probably young. Do you want to live with your husband with him constantly suspicious of You? Do you want him to misbehave or throw you out. My sister Trust me, you don't want it. Since you begged God and you feel remorse about it, that means God still loves you and it was probably a mistake. Confess to your husband After you've had children, it will minimize his punishment on you. Please take this advice |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Ishilove: 6:46am On Jun 04, 2017 |
ShaqFu:She has confessed to God and has never gone back to it. There is no point in damaging her marriage over what has happened in the past. Do you know the terrible consequences that may follow? Will you advice your own sister to toe that line knowing the kind of husband she has? Abeg leave matter. Wisdom is profitable |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by GMbuharii: 6:48am On Jun 04, 2017 |
victorDanladi:correct..to avoid being "hitted" by another headache,lolssss ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by ShaqFu: 6:48am On Jun 04, 2017 |
YelloweWest:Which statistics? Can you show evidence and proof of that stats that her husband has cheated on her? 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 6:48am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Is that the only sin you committed that us hunting you in your life there are some other ones you have done too and you will not want people to hear about it just keep shut. If is religion you practice that wants you to confess the the judgment is that you should be stoned to death only then you will be purified and not the forgiveness of your husband can purify you so it's either you live with it or confess and still be punished by God |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by GMbuharii: 6:49am On Jun 04, 2017 |
victorDanladi:correct..to avoid being "hitted" by another headache,lolssss ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by holluphemydavid(m): 6:51am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Y did u cheated on him in D first place, marrying hoes as a wife is very bad |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by YelloweWest: 6:52am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Op. I thank I for this post. For me it's a reminder, if u can't do the time don't do the crime... Look at how a good person has imprisoned herself... It's one thing for God to forgive u. It's another for u to forgive yourself... Dear married people DO NOT CHEAT! From the day 1 of your marriage pledge ur fidelity to God Almighty in addition to ur spouse! I married at 18 today I'm 29. God has never allowed me to fall into such temptation. May God help you op.. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by ShaqFu: 6:53am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Ishilove:I'll advice my sister to tell her husband the truth! It's that simple. She confessed to God means what exactly? Was God the person she cheated on? Sometimes I smile when I see how just devious many of you christians can be when things like this surface. I reaffirms my zeal never to find myself about people who twist the truth just so they can save face. Until she confess to her husband, she will never know peace. God whom she confessed to hasn't yet given her peace, has he? If he has, why is her conscience eating her from deep inside her? The truth, I've learnt, is bitter, but it is always nice to swallow it and say it, no matter what. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by LeanonGOD(m): 6:53am On Jun 04, 2017 |
For Christ Sake, DON'T tell him. God has forgiven you, GO and sin NO MORE. From now on, cherish him, your marriage, your home, your family MUCH MORE. Pamper and APPRECIATE him much MOOOOORE. Just forget the sin of the past and FOCUS Only on the KING OF kings and the LORD of lords - He Will Never leave you nor Forsake you. In spite of ALL your past God STILL love you. Seek His Face everyday. Deuteronomy 31:6, Isaiah 43:1-4, upon all Matthew 6:33. May God Bless you in all things, I will always include your family in my prayers. Your home was established on the Rock of Ages, In Jesus Almighty Name, the gates of hell will NOT overcome it. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by YelloweWest: 6:54am On Jun 04, 2017 |
holluphemydavid:Stop that. U are not better than her. It was clearly a mistake. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by 1234IKECHhukwu: 6:54am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Nuezha:who do u think u re 4 u to call some one who earns a descent pay from his daily hussle a low life. |
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