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Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Omotayor123(f): 8:04am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober:Doeshe suspect you're cheating? And are you troubled because his native doctor uncle may burst your bubble? |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Luvdk(f): 8:04am On Jun 04, 2017 |
judgedredd22:Suspect kwa |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by ChubbychummyICE(f): 8:04am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober:Are u suddenly afraid coz of his uncle who is a native doctor wud be meeting with u?,nd wud know? den dats nt genuine repentance, except from ur heart u genuinely repent fast and pray to God, den go confess to ur husband, and it better its not coz his threatening u with his uncle I repeat, ask God to hide it from his uncle. God is greater Dan a native doctor God won't reveal it to ur in-law but immediately after dat go confess to ur husband. He wud get mad but he wud forgive u at last den go nd sin no more... |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by YelloweWest: 8:05am On Jun 04, 2017 |
ShaqFu:98% of Nigerian men cheat at some point during their marriages. Fact. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by OLUWAcypris1(f): 8:05am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Let me drop ds, even d Bible says confess your sins for u to be forgiven. C if u have children already better confess to him and if he sends u out stay the way u r with d children dnt remarry because d God attached u to one man only. Tell him better dan having urself to b hunted. Believe u me conscience kills faster Dan a straight bullet. My husband can attest to ds. If he lies to me he will be hunted till he confesses to me. So tell him and face d music. But pray 1st before telling him. Better telling him now dan to b hunted continually my sister. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 8:06am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Confessing to him will not bring good reconciliation. It is better you fast and pray, God will forgive you and when he does within you, you will know that God has forgiven you. If you confess to your husband, he will forgive you but will leave a heavy mark and will engineer the destruction of your home 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Chigorkizz(m): 8:07am On Jun 04, 2017 |
MisterGrace:Yes she should not dare tell me cause i will send her packing if she did. Will you tell your wife if you cheat on her. Nonsense. Hypocrites everywhere. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 8:07am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober:even though I no get beta phon to quote u i wil stil stres my self to anyway. I suspectd pastor, a pastor once had sex wit my broda's girl, first of all avin sex wit a pastor is an evil act. This is what u ar goin 2 do luk 4 a catholic priest tell him de details, how it hapend, how u ar feelin since then. His goin to invite ur husband b4 u and explain to him priests are gud on that and the are more respectd plz quite listenin to sorrowful songs and blus until u get ur self don't 4get to giv me feed back |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Omotayor123(f): 8:07am On Jun 04, 2017 |
gbosaa:My thought exactly! she's only afraid because of the native doctor threat. her story is incomplete. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Dhotseal(m): 8:08am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Dear OP, Please forgive yourself for your mistake. You must understand that when confess our sins, God is faithful to forgive us our sins. U need to forgive yourself too. Do not confess to your husband, no good will come of it. Goodluck! 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by judgedredd22(m): 8:08am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Ishilove: this kind of utterance usually comes from the experience of 'dancing ontop a cassava' that does not belong to you so many times thus the hardening of the heart and a dead conscience that compels one to keep quiet and continue 'dancing' in different 'foreign arenas' ishiii baby, just confess.... oya.... i say confess!! 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Topgainer: 8:08am On Jun 04, 2017 |
This like your other posts sounds religiously correct but it is lies. famosh:Which Hell is that? The one you are the gate keeper or the one built by your general overseer for his followers. Aside from confession to her husband, what other category of persons will be in this your Hell? Weavon, Lip gloss, Ear ring, A military woman for ever putting on trousers Possession and consumption of Alcoholic beverages, 2 wives, Not paying tithe, Not being a member of your church, Don't forget you will be the first to arrive in this Hell you created and have gone about pushing people to it. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by humilitypays(m): 8:09am On Jun 04, 2017 |
realmindz:I love this comment even though I don't agree with some of your words. From her write up, she is truly remorseful and I doubt she would cheat again. But then, many girls, ladies and women are so gullible and can only fall for religious people. These set of women will never fall for a guy who is not shouting holy holy, fire fire, heba heba. Once a guy pretends to be committed in Church, always sleeping in Church pretending to be holy, he doesn't even need to have a dime, and these set of over-religious ladies will throw themselves at him for free because he is their brother! Even Apostle Paul said: don't be too good, don't be too bad, be in the middle....i don't like over religious ladies, they piss me off cos I know they mess up with their fellow over-religious brothers and god of men parading as men of God! Guys don't marry a girl because she appears too religious and Churchy, you may regret! |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by judgedredd22(m): 8:10am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by BullionZ: 8:12am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Truth is, you already asked God to forgive you and from your story, you feel remorse for what you did. I'm married and I condemn cheating. if my wife confess that she cheated, I may forgive but I'll never till I die, trust her when it come to men, nobody cheat with their eyes closed. stop thinking that God has closed doors for you cos that's wrong about Him. believe in yourself that everything is going to be fine and it'll be. some of this things are psychological, what you believe is what it is. DO NOT CONFESS TO HIM. let it be a lesson. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by OLUWAcypris1(f): 8:12am On Jun 04, 2017 |
realmindz: Na so 1 pastor go shag ur smelling as$hole punk like u. Maybe u have even bn raped by a homosexual pastor before na God com catch u. I just remembered ur face now how u confessed on pulpit dat a pastor did it with u and u were flown abroad for stitches around ur as$holes, dt what u received was as big as cucumber idiet. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Topgainer: 8:13am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Justiyke4u:Stay away from all these seers and 'genuine' prophets/pastors. They partner devil in ruining homes. You don't need such mediators to God. Jesus is more than enough for, says your Bible. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by realmindz: 8:14am On Jun 04, 2017 |
OLUWAcypris1: Will you kipquayet |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by famosh: 8:14am On Jun 04, 2017 |
SSBN:My brother, I just tire o! For me, as weird as e sound, my first criterion for woman, right from time up till now, na say she MUST be virgin before I even begin consider other better criteria. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by ChubbychummyICE(f): 8:14am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober:Stop having a negative mindset dat he wud send u packing fast and pray and confess to him he wud forgive you |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by LordOfNaira: 8:15am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: Let me help. I am a trained relationship counsellor (although I am out of practice for now), but I can still help. Listen, you have no choice but to tell him. Telling him will be hard, that is fact, but it is something that must be done, at least, to give yourself peace of mind and remove the guilt. While doing it, these are things you must consider: 1. Telling him everything and holding nothing back. Holding a little back may come to haunt you later. 2. Never get defensive when your husband gets angry. You surely cannot expect him not to be mad at you. So, don't get angry too or get defensive when he gets mad. Never make excuses like "It was because you hurt me" or "I was drunk" or "But it was the first and only time" 3. Do not defend the person you cheated on him with. Don't say stuffs like: "It wasn't really his fault" or "he was apologetic" or "he was really sorry". Take my advice and let us see how it plays out. Another thing is whatever comes out will be your punishment. You can't expect to cheat without consequences. 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by moses93(m): 8:15am On Jun 04, 2017 |
pretend as if you are ill for like a week or there about, and whenever he ask you what is wrong, hold on for some second and say nothing. keep doing this until he get more worried and then call him at night, go down on your knees with tears in your eyes and confess to him. he will think that after all these years and you still come up to confess to him, he will pardon you and will equally know that u didn't do that because you wanted to do it. my own small idea though, thanks ma'am. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by missjane: 8:15am On Jun 04, 2017 |
I know some tribes in the east that the man will die if they know that their wives have cheated on them once and cover it..maybe the poster is from such regions that is why she is so positive that her husband will send her packing..instead of dying in guilt u can ask your husband for a separation.. not divorce.. that u want to clear your head..maybe he will figure out himself that u did something. It's not a do or die affair.. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Luvdk(f): 8:16am On Jun 04, 2017 |
judgedredd22:B4 nko Any woman that says she doesn't enjoy cassava is a bloody liar or perhaps sick |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Omonigeriarere: 8:16am On Jun 04, 2017 |
OmaniPadmeHum: Even Jesus that saves an adulterous woman from stoning will send such woman packing. Thiais because of the fact that the only ground for divorce which Bible tolerates is adultery. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by jelash: 8:17am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Young03:God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by OLUWAcypris1(f): 8:17am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by OLUWAcypris1(f): 8:18am On Jun 04, 2017 |
LordOfNaira: God bless you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by henryhemon(m): 8:18am On Jun 04, 2017 |
judgedredd22: That one don over do no mind her she want to op to be like her. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by siloXIX(m): 8:19am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: I can see that you have changed but you are still not at peace. You know that confessing to him is what will give you peace but the devil wants you to believe that you will lose your husband. That may be true though but to be totally free, confess to him. Don't make it longer than now. He may throw you out when you do confess but you will get peace. And finally, pray to God ( when you are out) and your husband will call you back |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by judgedredd22(m): 8:21am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Luvdk: i love this your answer.... so, you say you like cassava ehn kwa, ...i get big cassava! |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by micholo123(m): 8:21am On Jun 04, 2017 |
My advice to you is to confess to your husband because if you don't, and he later finds out he will never know about this remorse you are showing now. If you check responses to your post you will realise that in almost all the real life experiences that were shared in which the wife confessed the husband forgave, you know why? because the confession came from the wife. Those saying you should not confess that it will backfire should be truthful to you and tell you the likely consequence of your husband finding out on his own. Lastly the fact the the cheating was with a pastor also might also have an influence on the way your husband will judge the issue, any reasonable person knows many of the so called pastors prey on vulnerability of ladies to commit all sorts of atrocities. |
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