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Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by ww007: 8:35am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober:the deed has been done. just pack up your things before telling him, Let him also know how ashamed you feel, and unworthy of his love. you should also ask yourself if you are true my happy in your marriage and what could have pushed u into another man's bed. It will be more painful if he has always been faithful to you. suicide or depression isn't the answer. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 8:36am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Demainman1: You took that out of my mouth.. Woman are just so so blind when it cms to religion and religion leaders |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Davindal(m): 8:36am On Jun 04, 2017 |
MrsPhysics:Shut your trap, idiot. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by johnson232: 8:38am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Ishilove:OMG! U are such a bad adviser...are u christian? U think God is human we play tricks on? Go find out what he did to David & Moses in the bible... Op committed adultery, cheated on her husband, she is still living under the same roof with this man, eating & sleeping with him, she didn't confess to the man whom she cheated on. But went about telling pastors that advised her to keep it a secret & u think that is how forgiveness works? The forgiveness of her husband is paramount if u understand anything abt christianity.... 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by emperornero: 8:38am On Jun 04, 2017 |
grossintel:please speak for yourself, personally i'll forgive her |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by chukwumacseed: 8:39am On Jun 04, 2017 |
don't confess if you know you will not do it again. if you that thing made you cheat at the first place stop it |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by famosh: 8:40am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Topgainer:Restitution is not Christianity? Nawa for some I-too-know sha! |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 8:41am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Origin(f): 8:41am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Hmmmm......... The world is not ready for your confession. Or the repercussions of your confession. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by enomakos(m): 8:41am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Mayflowa:I just spot a cheater |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by humilitypays(m): 8:41am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Women in their quest to be like men and do whatever men do have become horrible creatures instead of the epitome of grace and virtue they were created to be! Women in their quest to become equal to men have turned to valleys of shame! Feminists will say: if a man can cheat on his wife or girlfriend, then a woman should also cheat on her husband or boyfriend but these shameless feminists and 21st century civilized women forgot that nature didn't create man and woman the same way. Now before you come here to blab nonsense about gender equality or what have u, answer these natural questions: 1. Women have hymen (nylon like membrane) covering their canal organ before they have sex, why didn't nature put same in men's organ 2. Women get pregnant and carry the baby for 9 months while the man that did it walks away freely without stress and may even deny being responsible 3. On the first time a woman have sex, she experiences pains and most likely she bleeds, but men don't even know what the difference is the first day they had sex and even after multiple times. Ladies listen up, no matter how hard feminist and gender equality proponents preach it, you ladies can never be equal to men....you can never outdo a man....God created you ladies to keep the world morally sane....dont lose that role nature and God bestowed on you just because u want to do what men are doing! When a woman cheats, the consequences are grievous all over the world! Feminism is destroying the whole world! Due to feminism, European guys no longer long and desire to marry their women like before and this is affecting European population as their youth/children population is dwindling as marriage reduces. It is gradually spreading to Nigeria....guys are getting tired of marrying modern Nigerian ladies because the lady u married wants to be equal to u; she cooks today, she expects u to cook tomorrow or else she says u are not romantic....yet she expects u to foot the family bills more than her....no attractive pack in for a guy to dream and desire to marry again, too bad. Your wife catches you staring at a lady, she threatens to cheat back because feminism is teaching her to ensure she do whatever u do! At the end, na women go cry sha.....men are ready to be having only sex and producing babies with any woman....wetin concern them, if Nigerian women use their newly found civilization attitude to kill marriage, they will be the ones to suffer it...go ask American and European women how far...Nigerian Yahoo boys are chopping them mugu up and down due to loneliness as their men are no longer taking marriage serious! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Robbin7(m): 8:42am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: don't confess to him, only 1/10000000 men can forgive a cheating wife. since you have confessed to your pastor, forgive yourself and resolve not to do it again. move on, think about what you have built in the marriage and your children and what you still hope to chive with yourself and your family. answer this question, if he send you packing, what's next? |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Omooba77: 8:42am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: God will heal and forgive you ma. You need to forgive yourself. I tried to read through some of the comments. Please how old is your husband and for how long have you been married? I can deduced you were 29 when it happened. You will need to tell your husband because one you have told some Pastors, one way or the other he may get to know. Two, you need to free your mind and move on Proverb 28:13. God will teach you how to go about it and I will join you in prayer. After you tell, you need to see marriage counsellors who are men and women of God, not necessarily your Pastors, but people you can trust. All will be well. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 8:43am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Ishilove:so secrets are better left untold...trust me d moment u tell ur hubby, everything changes. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by joshaac(m): 8:43am On Jun 04, 2017 |
it is a terrible thing for a husband to discover that his lovely wife actually cheated on him. it is normally painful but iam not here to judge you because we are all not perfect but I tell you something there is no true repentance without confession so do take time convince yourself before talking don't rush. he might forgive you for love. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by soflygerian(m): 8:46am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober:Cook his favourite dish with your bags Packed, while in ''the mid of meal'' spill it all out as he stares at ur packed bags. If u got kid(s), Jst Prepare for the unexpected.. Move on with ur life. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Mayflowa(m): 8:46am On Jun 04, 2017 |
enomakos: Hahahaha. Seriously, I don't cheat. Yes. Its bad to cheat but she has done it! I am just frustrated at how deep she is hitting herself to dealth. How many men ever go to confess to their wives of their cheating until they are caught? I try to balance gender right |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Chigorkizz(m): 8:46am On Jun 04, 2017 |
[quote author=Jadonjack post=57176608] Wrong advise!!![/quo Give her the right advise. For most of you advising her to confess to her husband, You all will be in ur various houses chilling with your families while her marraige crashes. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by johnson232: 8:48am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Roseey0:Smh Modern day christianity...It doesn't really matter syndrome, that is why today's churches condone all type of sin... @bold...u people just interprete the bible to suit your selfish desires.... answer this question; Was op not aware adultery is a grevious sin in christianity before she committed the act? What u are saying in essence is we as christians should go about committing sin & ask for forgiveness? May God forgive u... |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Justiyke4u: 8:48am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Topgainer:are you a christian? Do you go to church? Do you believe in your pastor/prophet/rev/father? If answer any of these questions in the affirmative then check you will still make such comment |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Chigorkizz(m): 8:48am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Jadonjack:Give her the right advise. For most of you advising her to confess to her husband, You all will be in ur various houses chilling with your families while her marraige crashes. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by BishopMagic: 8:49am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Is that you Grace? |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by ShaqFu: 8:51am On Jun 04, 2017 |
YelloweWest:And how did you arrive at this? Care to share the method used? |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by enomakos(m): 8:52am On Jun 04, 2017 |
Cadillac15:you said it all |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Roseey0(f): 8:55am On Jun 04, 2017 |
johnson232:Christianity came with Chris, nothing like old or new Christian. plz follow Christ's teaching. Read John 8 again and tell me where restitution was mentioned by Christ himself. Abi Jesus is now a new generation Christian too Or remain in the old testament and continue to sacrifice bulls on the alter. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by YelloweWest: 8:56am On Jun 04, 2017 |
ShaqFu:Look around... show me one Nigerian man married for 40years (basically a life time) without cheating. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by johnson232: 8:56am On Jun 04, 2017 |
author=Chigorkizz post=57176949]It isn't a must to be a christian Nobody compelled the op to open this thread... But if she wants God's forgiveness & that of her man...i believe that is the price she has to pay... Adam & Eve was sent out of the garden of eden because they committed sin...that was the price they had to pay Moses never entered the promise land because he disobeyed God.... If your kind of sin warrants paying a price....do it & be close to God... |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by bamosagie(m): 8:56am On Jun 04, 2017 |
What the eye doesn't see, the ear doesn't hear, the heart doesn't grieve about........ |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by Nobody: 8:57am On Jun 04, 2017 |
istoctober: OP. I'm appalled by the kind of advice I find people giving here. Only God will judge you and all that. Whatever happened to Matthew 5.23-24? Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift. So why don't Jesus advice that only God can judge you? Some are opining that you see a psychiatrist. Have you know yourself to have mental issues in the past? Some say you've suffered enough and should just forget it. Well, more suffering is sure to come your way if you listen to such serpentine talks. It is a living conscience you have. The same God who will be the one to judge you is the one also who gave you such a fiery conscience. Hiding the truth from your husband is a second sin. No matter the consequences. I say TELL HIM and damn the consequences. Your peace of soul is more important than your marriage. Yes. Even the naysayers will be the first to tell you that. But it might be instructive if you seek help in telling him. Get somebody you know he listens to, then, beg that person to go with you on the d-day. Prepare to even leave the house for some time. Make him know you understand the consequences but that you beg for his forgiveness. Don't listen to naysayers. TELL HIM. The sooner the better. If its any consolation OP, I would give myself as bride price to have a woman like you as my wife. You're a treasure and I'm sure your hubby will forgive you. Stay blessed. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by olabisimichael: 8:57am On Jun 04, 2017 |
You must be very stupid to think of telling your husband about infidelity you committed in 2014! U have made peace with your God and that is most important! My wife telling about her sexual indiscretion done in 2010 will shake my foundation to the limit! And that is the truth! |
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