Ginaz:
Mine is big capital letter NO!!

He is too hot tempered and uses his voice and hands to correct you, doesn't brings his mind down to understand someone. He doesn't care if you're alive or not, doesn't bother to be emotionally supportive to his children.

With his level of education I still wonder why he would train his children with an iron fist, my step sister hardly smiles and always secretive, that's the effect of being under someone as my dad. I wish I could take her away from that toxic house.

You can't express yourself, can't do anything.

Hell no, I rather be a Virgin till old age than marry someone like him and make my children suffer for my mistake.

I've not seen my father for 5 years and he doesn't bother, well I don't care too. I just learnt my step sister is out of the house and staying on her own, got herself a house mixing with bad friends. My heart broke in pieces. I don't even know where she is, she's a teenager and still very much a baby.

Fathers should be a good father to their children, your attitude as a father will affect your child's future for good or bad.

I so sorry to hear this. I think most ladies wud hv said yes if the fathers had been loving and responsible to their families even if mot perfect. How can a man preach discipline and not Carter for his family.

I wish i could say YES if am a woman. But ALAS! I would say NO! Honestly, I will not wish him to even my arch enemy, because I'm not that wicked. Though he is a bit calm now due to old age, but look inside him you will see that if he has teeth, he can still bite hard. So those saying NO have their reasons. They must have been through hell.

God forbid!

my dad is an amazing dad but the worst husband.
he treats us like princes and princesses but treats our mother his wife like trash.

I'd rather stay single than marry a man like him

Ginaz:
Mine is big capital letter NO!!

He is too hot tempered and uses his voice and hands to correct you, doesn't brings his mind down to understand someone. He doesn't care if you're alive or not, doesn't bother to be emotionally supportive to his children.

With his level of education I still wonder why he would train his children with an iron fist, my step sister hardly smiles and always secretive, that's the effect of being under someone as my dad. I wish I could take her away from that toxic house.

You can't express yourself, can't do anything.

Hell no, I rather be a Virgin till old age than marry someone like him and make my children suffer for my mistake.

I've not seen my father for 5 years and he doesn't bother, well I don't care too. I just learnt my step sister is out of the house and staying on her own, got herself a house mixing with bad friends. My heart broke in pieces. I don't even know where she is, she's a teenager and still very much a baby.

Fathers should be a good father to their children, your attitude as a father will affect your child's future for good or bad.

With everything you said, I can say you're my sister. my home is not different from yours. I don't want to ever turn out like my father. I always tell my mum that she tried. she deserves an award.

Euphoria19:
Big NO,and i wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy either

Why?

Wow... am speechless... women, ladies,girls, wives are all trying in the hands of MEN ...

Collyno82:
touching God will c u tru

Thanks

Jsj454:

Why?

He's the most selfish man ever,spreads his seed everywhere,i currently have 10 siblings(that i know of),knocked my mum around like a punching bag,out of all the ten he never trained anyone,but would always want to boast about us,and that's just the bearable part,the others i can't say them here,when i see people with loving and caring fathers i know that that can never be me

mzhorlah:
I will be glad to marry someone like my Dad. So gentle yet so disciplined.


I pray for his richer version tho

lolz

yes

Men have failed big time in their roles as a father and husband, I can only pray for those seeking for a good and caring partner.

What I see in my dad is what I want in a husband

What I see in my dad is what I want in a husband.

nkemdi89:

I slightly disagree with you on these, I believe instead that mothers has failed, most women tend to play the victim cards, even when there is problems between couples, the children should never be involved. When the two of them started the relationship the children were not there, so when issue arises couples should stop placing their children in between especially mothers. Growing up I remember when my parents had little misunderstanding we always want to take sides with mum, but she always remind us not to and assure us that our father isn't a bad man and he is best person for her. Today now we are grown ups and they are the only one at home living together like newly wedded couples. Some people condemning their father has received more humiliation from their boyfriends than what their mother experienced in marriage, yet they stay put to the relationship hoping it will lead to marriage.

one big origin for you. may ur life be full of wisdom

Hear hear, this someone who knows history.

babasolution:



your approaching african history as told by this same white y'all adore,western history is more brutal,do you know what they did to other civilizations ,how they raped and brutalized your fellow african women,because you see their success you thinks its all good,the whites have also been exceptionally evil,political christainity helped to shape white thinking which led to their progress,when i mentioned asia,i meant select nations like china,which has already surpassed all western nations,most western nations are surviving on the back of african resources,african ancestry is beyond the dark parts that are always highlited,the white dont treat their women any better,they have only been indoctrinated by subversive governments into feminization,the white are even worse they women,they brought pornography,homosexuality,bestiality and sex obsession,they are very corrupt,they have only achieved economic ,political,technological dominance through calculated vision by the governments,white men only seem to treat women better because they have been indoctrinated by their media and chained by their laws

alBHAGDADI:
Will you be able to cope with 3 other wives under the same roof? Think about the STD he'll be transferring to you from the other wives.

you don't get std's from wives but comcubines shorotiye e

freshinko:
I wish i could say YES if am a woman. But ALAS! I would say NO! Honestly, I will not wish him to even my arch enemy, because I'm not that wicked. Though he is a bit calm now due to old age, but look inside him you will see that if he has teeth, he can still bite hard. So those saying NO have their reasons. They must have been through hell.

Same with my father,he seems calm now due to old age and sickness but if you try to get close to him,he will bite.
I can't wait to celebrate his death

NAwa for you girls ooo,so your dad has done bad to bring you to this world...una well-done ooo

missyadorable:


Same with my father,he seems calm now due to old age and sickness but if you try to get close to him,he will bite.
I can't wait to celebrate his death

Jesus

DPricey1:
God forbid!

my dad is an amazing dad but the worst husband.
he treats us like princes and princesses but treats our mother his wife like trash.

I'd rather stay single than marry a man like him

chai

this is serious asswear

Anusiemgood:

Jesus

sunnico:

And here I am dear

you don't know my Dad, so you don't know who he is like

piagetskinner:


we meet again.,pls b my friend

I'm all that and even more

on my way to becoming rich too, not that riches is everything, but its essential

am not after your money. you don't even know my Dad, how then can u say u meet up to his standards

genieluv:
Holly Majority of African fathers have failed cos most of them still believed in some archaic cultures of their african fore-fathers like polygamy, male superiority n strict female subserviency n inferiority.

Fathers of this modern age will definitely be better as westernization is becoming more pronounced and modern african men are becoming more monogamous, affectionate n female supportive, respecting women's rights more.

mehn,see well constructive ambiguous grammar. but I still want to draw your attention to the first paragraph of your comment,my dear sister the male child is still very much important till date,the male child are those that will carry to mantle of leadership of the family in some cases where the father stopped, the females will never to that,they will rather concentrate on the husband and children,so you one of the reasons why the male child is important..A man will always want his name to live after his death..

miyagi01:
lolz

yean in jenifa's voice

dinachi:
Stop tempting me. You look and sound great!

lol thank you

jmoore:
Many fathers have failed.

Or maybe they just turn out to be bad daughters

genieluv:


Great!
Influence of westernization n civilization
Cc babasolution, mujtahida, jagugu88li

nagging,shouting and complaining individual traits,its nt common to all african men,eg my father,he never used to complain or nag,buh he was unaffectionate,its a natural individual trait,its nt peculiar to african men

genieluv:


Great!
Influence of westernization n civilization
Cc babasolution, mujtahida, jagugu88li

nagging,shouting and complaining are individual traits,its nt common to all african men,eg my father,he never used to complain or nag,buh he was unaffectionate,its a natural individual trait,its nt peculiar to african men

YES ,YES and YES , I have always prayed to God to give me a husband as caring as my beloved dad..My daddy is the best and i love him so much.

Oyindidi:
That's the only thing I don't like about my dad, my mom was the last wife. That man is the most generous man I've ever seen. My man is opp of my dad

And u said thats what u dont like hmmm ur dad just daved ur ass by getting married to ur mum mayb if not u wont exist here be thankful to ur d d cos for ur mum to have agreed to be the last then she is definitely long overd....