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Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! / I Asked Her Out, But She Said Let's Just Be Friends / She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. (2) (3) (4)
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by FTrebirth(m): 8:28am On Jun 05, 2017 |
alexistaiwo:the emboldened is the reason why keeping an ex as friend is dangerous...your ex CAN NEVER be "just friends" with you! there may be a brief hard-to-get moment from the girl but if you have some privacy with her the fvcking is inevitable. you would fvck and break up, fvck and break up, fvck and break up again and again while the grudge (the reason for so-called break up is still there). so what's the need chatting or calling your ex sometimes? what do you have to discuss? |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by LePrezident(m): 8:39am On Jun 05, 2017 |
ZarZar: So wait, from your submission I take it that all your exes did you wrong. Your statement further postulates that you did none of your exes wrong. Is that so? |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by thelastmediator: 8:43am On Jun 05, 2017 |
For the sake of the new person in your life, stay clear. No matter how much you try, memories of you guys being together will always pop up either while chatting on phone or in person. What made us fall in love in the first place is the attention we give each other. The attention now should be for your present and not your past. My take 1 Like |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Nobody: 8:45am On Jun 05, 2017 |
LePrezident: There's 3 sides to every story-my side, their side & the supposed "truth". So of course I'm going to see things from MY perspective, which may be different from his or a 3rd party's. 1 Like |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by LePrezident(m): 8:48am On Jun 05, 2017 |
ZarZar: Hmmmm... but you do agree you could have also caused some of the break ups. |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by seunlly(m): 8:57am On Jun 05, 2017 |
ZarZar:hhmmm I am speechless |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Nobody: 8:58am On Jun 05, 2017 |
LePrezident: No, I don't agree. I'm not perfect but I've done nothing in my relationships to cause a guy to break up with me. Meaning, I have never been dumped by my exes, I broke up with them. Perhaps they were more tolerant or kept any issue they had with me to themselves because none have ever spoken ill of me after the fact. In fact, some still want me back So no, I wouldn't say I caused any major issues aside arguing with them etc. |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by seunlly(m): 9:15am On Jun 05, 2017 |
ZarZar:u can't know that there must be where u too make mistakes |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by LePrezident(m): 9:17am On Jun 05, 2017 |
ZarZar: Loool I see, I guess you don't want any of them back cos the committed very grievous offenses against you. |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Nobody: 9:19am On Jun 05, 2017 |
seunlly: Exactly. Because they never said there was, so I'm gonna retain my position that I never did anything MAJOR, to warrant them breaking up with me. |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Nobody: 9:24am On Jun 05, 2017 |
LePrezident: Yes, you don't Bleep with me & still expect to be relevant. I'm very unforgiving |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Fraih(f): 9:30am On Jun 05, 2017 |
Depends on what grounds you were separated. If it's on a mutual ground, fine! But in the case where one just dashed off, Abeg there's nothing more to say. |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Nobody: 9:40am On Jun 05, 2017 |
EmekaBlue:You think it's every guy that want access to a lady's body during a relationship? I have an ex who has never even hold my hands before till we broke up. It was an agreement..... Do this for me while I pretend to be your girlfriend. |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by LePrezident(m): 10:29am On Jun 05, 2017 |
ZarZar: To be unforgiving is quite bad you know. It's likely you'll be walking about with a lot of dark cloud. Not not. |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by loswhite(m): 10:31am On Jun 05, 2017 |
nNEOo:dumbest post |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Nobody: 11:06am On Jun 05, 2017 |
LePrezident: By unforgiving, I don't mean I'm sitting & stewing about it even today. No. I've moved on. It simply means I can never take them back because of whatever they did. It's only when it comes them. If that's wrong then I'm glad to be wrong because I just can't allow someone back into my life after they've done me wrong. My inner something doesn't agree. You mess up bad enough, there's no going back from that as far as I'm concerned. 1 Like |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by LePrezident(m): 11:13am On Jun 05, 2017 |
ZarZar: Hmmmm... fair enough 1 Like |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Nobody: 11:23am On Jun 05, 2017 |
Yes I can just as I am now
Because you broke up with someone dose not mean him or her is your enemy |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
FTrebirth: You are right |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by FTrebirth(m): 1:42pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
ZarZar: ZarZar:you broke up with your exes or they broke up with you? LOL! SMH. |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by FTrebirth(m): 1:44pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
rittyray:no, they're not your enemy but you need to quit calling/seeing them and move on! |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by hrykanu231(m): 2:00pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Recently while I was on leave, I got bored and decided to chat my ex. We didn't go past four lines and every other discussion was centred on se.x. I just had to end the convo, before I start regretting...my current gf is just too good, she doesn't deserve any " bad dish" |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Funky123(f): 2:37pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Am a fan of being friend with ex before but its nt helping cos nt all ex wants ur present relationship to continue but dey just pretend.....The new rule is once u re gone u re gone forever |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
FTrebirth: Re-read what I wrote. |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by drunkpunk(m): 5:39pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
For me there are levels to my friendship. I'd def demote you to level 1. Most people don't really understand who a friend is. Take for instance, police arrest your padi, you come reach station and they ask you is he your friend? Trust me that's when most of you would redefine who a friend is. So like some of us have said, depending on what led to the breakup. Like ZarZar said, I can't take back a dishonest ex as a friend, we go just be contacts for each other phone. Secondly, I also know where to place each and every ex. Doesn't stop us from keeping in touch. Thirdly, if the ex cannot define boundaries as to respecting the fact that we've both moved on, my advice is to cut off. Sometimes it's not just about being smart, hitting and running, being friends with benefits... No. It's a No No for me. Whatever happened to being principled? My opinion. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Abortions: 5:40pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Yea and we fvck occassionally as friends |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by drunkpunk(m): 5:41pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Funky123:Some of them are not as bad as you think |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Abortions: 5:41pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
sexybbstar:hmmm this ur backside tho |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by drunkpunk(m): 5:42pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
rittyray:How about a situation where an ex poses a threat to your existing relationship leading to marriage... What will you do? |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Abortions: 5:43pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Mimzyy:Ex wassup |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by drunkpunk(m): 5:46pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Fraih:Since knowing you is easy, lemme attempt the harder mission which is understanding you. Melanin popping I guess |
Re: Let’s Talk! Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? by Mimzyy(f): 5:49pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Abortions: Excuse me? |
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