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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Ncsamuel(m): 7:29am On Jun 06, 2017 |
timilehin007:is it dah bad? Am getting scared already. 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Afonjashapmouth: 7:32am On Jun 06, 2017 |
ikezuora4689: Making a wrong choice is his fault, sometimes most people get carried away with lust and things of the flesh so tell me why there won't be a problem |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Nobody: 7:32am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Op is not ready for marriage, one does not ask questions about what married people enjoy, should have lived long enough to know that by now. So chill you aint ready yet. 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Destined2win: 7:32am On Jun 06, 2017 |
TinaAnita:Hmm! |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Destined2win: 7:34am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Burgerlomo:Not good at all |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Jman06(m): 7:40am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Brector:Men generally love their daughters more. This i got to know when my little niece was born. |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Automaton09(m): 7:44am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Getting married is a wonderful adventure, if both parties play by the rules, as simple as it may sound, if followed your marriage will be a bliss. Man love your wife and woman submit to your husband. The intangible things control the tangible once, so go for the intangible things with respect to marriage and both of you will be happy for life. One main fact in marriage is that you get what you present. If you expect a good wife, be a good man. 3 Likes |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by guru03(m): 7:45am On Jun 06, 2017 |
1.Good management of family resources 2. Well kept of the home 3. Warm reception entertain to family and friends 4. Understanding even when their is no adequate income 5. Unconditional love not because of what i have but who I am 6. Unconditional S*X at anytime 7. Good approach to resolving family issues and many more God Bless my wife.............. 7 Likes |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by daben1(m): 7:45am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Godfullsam:what about your wife? |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Burgerlomo: 7:48am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Destined2win: Yep |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by buchilino(m): 7:48am On Jun 06, 2017 |
nurshah: I AGREE WOMEN PRETEND A LOT, BUT GOD GAVE ME SOME WISE TIPS ON HOW TO NO A WOMAN DAT PRETENDS. SOME OF D WAYS I NO IS BY D FRIENDS SHE KEEPS. WEN I C A GAL I LIKE, I TAKE MY TIME TO STUDY HER. ONCE SHE STARTS D ISSUE OF MARRY ME NOW OR TOMORROW, I WILL FLEE. ANOTHER IS GOING TO HER FAMILY HOME N SPEND SOME TIME DER. EVEN IF SHE'S A GOOD PRETENDER, HER BACKGROUND WILL TELL U A LOT CONCERNING HER. MAKE SURE U OBSERVE EVERYTHING, IF U C ANYTHING U DON'T LIKE, MY BROTHER FLEE. DON'T ALLOW ANYONE TO PRESSURE U INTO MARRYING HER OOO. COS WEN D CHIPS R DOWN, NOBODY WILL HELP U, UR ON UR OWN. 4 Likes |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by banggy: 7:50am On Jun 06, 2017 |
I am 31 got married early last year dear, Marriage is the best thing to ever happen to me... the maturity and sense of belonging will just evolved naturally Marriage is too sweet most esp when u marry your perfect kind of woman Shallom!!! 8 Likes |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Chukazu: 7:51am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Brector: Daughters are the most precious gift a man can have.. A man can give his life for his daughter The sons tend to roll with the mothers more, besides they are very independent A hardened arm robber will lay down his arm on sighting his daughter, but bring any other person, he won't give a fuvk They(daughters) have a way of softening a man's heart 9 Likes |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Duru009(m): 7:59am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Societal Respect !!!! |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Destined2win: 8:01am On Jun 06, 2017 |
guru03:...and I say Amen! |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by vantage001: 8:03am On Jun 06, 2017 |
From this thread, it seems marriages in Nigeria is all Kumbaya. 4 Likes |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Jaqenhghar: 8:04am On Jun 06, 2017 |
banmee:Dude You are blessed |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by guru03(m): 8:06am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Destined2win: 8:09am On Jun 06, 2017 |
guru03:Thank you Sir. |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by WowSweetGuy(m): 8:09am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Marriage is like a public toilet...those out r anxious to get in ..while those in want to get d fvck out quickly 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by banmee(m): 8:13am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Jaqenhghar: Thanks bro. |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Nobody: 8:28am On Jun 06, 2017 |
udumosam23: |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by darlingnuel(m): 8:36am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Brector:my thoughts exactly. Nowadays, couples keep celebrating more daughters than sons. Looks like theres a drastic diminishing in Y chromosome supply |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by timilehin007(m): 8:43am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Ncsamuel: My brother u may be lucky..but I tell u the ratio of good and fulfilled marriage to the other marriage is 2:6.. |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by robosky02(m): 8:45am On Jun 06, 2017 |
5 Desirable Benefits of Marriage for Men (even women too) Being happily married is not only a joy and pleasure, but in fact it can also include some desirable health benefits! Whether it is physical, emotional or mental health, the benefits of being happily married are undeniable. The converse is also true, that an unhappy marriage is generally detrimental to one’s health. Ongoing dissatisfaction and unresolved issues tend to have a devastating effect on physical and mental health over the long run. So if good health is your goal, as it surely is for all of us, then consider these five benefits which you can enjoy as you work towards making your marriage relationship as satisfying and rewarding as it can be. 1. The benefit of stability When you have a happy marriage where both partners are fully committed to one another for life, then there will be the benefit of a sense of stability. You will not be constantly worrying and wondering if or when the relationship is not going to work out. You can relax and concentrate on reaching your mutual and individual goals, knowing that you have the rest of your lives to spend together. This sense of stability tends to lower the tension and stress levels in the relationship which in turn reduces the risk or likelihood of stress-related illnesses or heart attacks and strokes. Those in a stable relationship are also less likely to engage in dangerous or risky behaviour as they have that deep inner resource of responsibility which makes them want to stay safe and healthy for the sake of their spouse and family. The feelings of safety, security and stability, which are present in a good relationship, make a large contribution towards the health benefits of marriage. 2. The benefit of accountability Accountability often has a negative connotation, but in this context it can certainly be one of the benefits of marriage and long-term relationships. Knowing that there is someone to see whether or not you have that second helping, and whether or not you take your supplements and do your exercises, can be a great incentive and motivation for keeping healthy. It is also more fun doing it together, as you spur one another on at the gym, or on the bicycle, running, swimming, walking or whatever it is you choose to do to keep fit. And if one of you is feeling a sick, the other will notice and get you into bed or to the doctor if necessary. For those of us who are stubborn and insist that “I’m fine” even when we are sick, having a spouse who keeps us accountable can be a real blessing and health benefit. Without this good kind of accountability, it is much easier to let things slip and in turn our health can suffer and deteriorate. 3. The benefit of emotional support One of the most helpful and important marriage health benefits is emotional support. When one spouse does happen to become ill, the other is there to take care of them and nurse them back to good health. Studies have shown that those who are in a loving marriage relationship generally have a shorter recovery time. Happily married people are also less likely to develop chronic conditions and it has even been suggested that the immune system is improved. Should one spouse require any major surgery or treatment, the trauma of such things can be greatly reduced by knowing that they have a loving spouse at their side, patiently waiting for them when they come through the ordeal. 4. The benefit of peaceful sleep Sleep is such an essential requirement for good health, and lack of adequate sleep can be the cause of any number of health issues. According to surveys which have been done, happily married women tend to enjoy deeper sleep than their single counterparts. This may certainly be linked to enjoying loving sexual intimacy, which is safe and healthy. In a monogamous relationship where husband and wife are faithful to one another there is no fear of contracting unwanted infections and STD’s. The benefit of peaceful sleep for both spouses is a good foundation for an overall sense of well being and good health. 5. The benefit of ageing gracefully The beneficial effects of marriage on health have also been linked to longevity and being able to age gracefully, and happily married couples are less likely to die prematurely. The ageing process is inevitable as the years slip by, and besides taking any necessary medications, having a loving and supportive marriage relationship can go an immeasurably long way towards easing that process. So if you want to significantly reduce your medical bills, why not make your marriage relationship a serious priority? As you and your spouse focus on strengthening your marriage, by being loving, faithful, and truthful to one another, you will surely find that your health and happiness will increase accordingly as you enjoy these five desirable health benefits of marriage, and much more. 6. Keep You Out of Trouble According to a recent U.S. Department of Justice report, male victims of violent crime are nearly four times more likely to be single than married. marriage makes you consider your family before you take any step 7. sexual Satisfy You in Bed Most unmarried people suffer from various ailments because they lack regular sex. marriage offers you the opportunity to enjoy your spouse sexually without fear of STDs or guilt or committing sin of fornication or adultery . Regular sex has many benefits, as you will learn today. Yvonne K. Fulbright says “Sexually active people take fewer sick days,” So Oga and Madam stop cheating yourself. Sex is not a negotiation tool in marriage. Have sex with your spouse and be healthy. Benefit Number i: Improves bladder control for madam- Good sex is like a workout for your pelvic floor muscles. When you have an orgasm, it causes contractions in those muscles, which strengthens them. Benefit Number ii: Lowers Your Blood Pressure- Researchers have proven that sexual intercourse specifically lowered systolic blood pressure. Benefit Number iii: Boosts Your Libido- For men, having sex regularly with your spouse will give you more vitality and help you last long in bed. For women, having sex ups vaginal lubrication, blood flow, and elasticity, she says, all of which make sex feel better and help you crave more of it. Benefit Number iv: Boosts your immune system- Couples who have sex have higher levels of what defends your body against germs, viruses, and other intruders. Researchers have discovered that couples who had sex once or twice a week had higher levels of the a certain antibody that protects the body. Benefit Number v: Sex is Exercise- Sex reduces calories. Also experts say it encourages healthy heartbeats and blood circulation. It also stretches your muscles. Benefit Number vi: Reduces the risk of prostate Cancer- A recent study shows that men who ejaculated frequently, were less likely to get prostate cancer. Benefit Number vii: Lowers Heart Attack Risk- Having sex more often may help. During one study, men who had sex at least twice a week were half as likely to die of heart disease as men who had sex rarely. Benefit Number viii: Eases stress and Improves Sleep- After sex, all your body muscles relax and your system goes into relax mode. You can easily nod off. 1 Like
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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by timilehin007(m): 8:51am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Destined2win: There's more to that pix...it is not as if she's worst.. it happens everywhere but not all men can endure that is why we have so many divorce and single mothers around because, unlike me, not all men cherish their child(ren) hence they break up and leave the mother to carry the responsibilities... Of cause they will definitely be couple of good times together...one of does times is what u seeing in my dp..and presently she is still in her senses.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by samdaisi: 8:53am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Marriage is by choice you can easily decide to make it work by tolerating each other or you can decide to make it to be an hell to each other you can decide to decide to love each other or hate you can decide to see each other as a slave without assisting 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Destined2win: 8:56am On Jun 06, 2017 |
timilehin007:Hmm! It is well Sir! 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by SirBrightoc(m): 9:04am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Destined2win: Beloved, I have read some of the responses carefully and I must say that some are beautiful. But, please don't build your home on other people's foundations. I have been married since December, 2012. I lost my job the month I started official moves for marriage and things were tough for the first four years. We are still waiting for our first child. Amidst these, I can tell you that my wife is a great blessing to my life. She stood strongly by me during these years and still standing strong. She has been my consolation in trials and a wonderful companion. The challenges are only instruments to build us and make us stronger for greater tomorrow. They were actually allowed by God for a temporary preparation. Just last November, I got two offers from two international organisations. We are still expecting the other side and I am sure it will come. Summary: Pray very well before marriage. Ask God to guide you. If you get your own wife, no mountain will be too high for you to climb and together you can do it smiling. You will enjoy everything, including what others will cry about. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by GloryGloryRufus(m): 9:07am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Wiretransfer:..... You just said many things that made you hate marriage now, you feel for your married colleagues but a time will soon come they will be the one to pity you, they are building now and you are afraid to build, a time will soon come. Then you will know the importance of marriage. Fold your hands well well. I pray you live long so that you will understand me better. 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Destined2win: 9:08am On Jun 06, 2017 |
SirBrightoc:Thank you Sir. All your expectations will surely be met. Thanks once again. |
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by kaboninc(m): 9:09am On Jun 06, 2017 |
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