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Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 3:46am On Jun 08, 2017 |
AreaFada2:For once I have to agree with you I want to believe the guys who think it's nothing are not married. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by sukkot: 4:03am On Jun 08, 2017 |
shumuel:the moon halo means a messenger from the earth is about to return. i suspect this is the return of buhari to come and fulfill his legacy or the return of a reknowned saint to lagos. the return of some ascended being. and when one ascended being enters, another exits so its a slight possibility that bubu can kpaii but hopefully thats not the case. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by VajanahDischaj(f): 4:06am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Caustics:don't blame her though, at list it shows she has a level of dignity unlike some end time girls here... Some girls can so like to walka nakedly about sha |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by twinskenny(m): 4:08am On Jun 08, 2017 |
iyaayi:he should have knocked...nothing to worry about it.. Just let it go |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by MiddleDimension: 4:08am On Jun 08, 2017 |
MissIndependent:just as every woman sould knock before entering a guy's room, locked or not. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by nagoma(m): 4:16am On Jun 08, 2017 |
johnson232: What happened to Assalamu Alaikum? |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Onuh22: 4:23am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Perception is the reason for the diverse responses we have got here. Woman is right getting upset, husband's reaction not so bad, broda inlaw has apologized and should not be slaughtered (I believe he's learnt his lessons). Let's move on |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by mzdee01(f): 4:37am On Jun 08, 2017 |
I don't know what he's looking for in the room , couldn't he wait till the brother comes out or call him from the other side of the door . 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by faksy(m): 4:40am On Jun 08, 2017 |
OP, What if you are the one on bed and your husband is unclad while your immediate sister suddenly enter without a notice, and she wait for minutes trying to be sorry. what would be ur reaction at present and later on? 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Chuukwudi(m): 4:44am On Jun 08, 2017 |
iyaayi: Has your brother inlaw made sexual advances towards you in the past? If no, please Go and sleep, your unclothedness is not valuable to anyone. I'm seeing you as someone who wants to cause problems between two brothers. Desist from that!!! No one is eating your unclothedness. 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by faksy(m): 4:47am On Jun 08, 2017 |
mzdee01:your view tells you an advocate for gental violation |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by LockDown69(m): 4:49am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Nonsense! Later you will come here and tell us you feel raped. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by adetonaz(m): 4:55am On Jun 08, 2017 |
nahzyla:still don't forget the fact that not everyone are sensible the reason the door should have been locked...IMO 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Adebowale89(m): 4:56am On Jun 08, 2017 |
6feet op, I presume u have been reading public advises that u want, to destruct your supposed sweet home as a matter of fact, I think it would be more embarrassing telling your brother in law to knock before bouncing in rather learn how to close your door whenever you're dressing up. am sure his stays in your house would be counting by now. I don't know why I can't stay with married couple, I won't be free most esp those couple that are over romantic |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by eyinjuege: 4:59am On Jun 08, 2017 |
geronimoedeh1: Hmmmm, So a dozen/a few more seeing it after marriage is nothing? Nice one |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by bewla(m): 5:01am On Jun 08, 2017 |
donkilidon:Walaihi |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by lovebelovedk: 5:02am On Jun 08, 2017 |
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Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by NOTPUSHOVER(m): 5:05am On Jun 08, 2017 |
I DARE SAY YOU SOUND LIKE THE KIND OF GUY WHO WILL ABANDON YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS BECAUSE OF A WOMAN. MY GUY YOU SOUND LIKE A FERTILE SOIL FOR MANIPULATION. THE GUY MADE A MISTAKE AND HAS APOLOGIZE SO LET THE MATTER BE. richyblink1: 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by borednhorny: 5:13am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Iyaayi.....Is this the first time your brother inlaw is entering you room without knocking? This is just the first time you have been unclad. You have been allowing the disrespect before now. You cannot hold yourself like a pinch of salt and expect to be carried like a bag of rice. I understand the situation is abnormal, but i assume the brother inlaw has been living with the husband before you arrived. You are like the 3rd party and as a lady, you are expect to lay down some ground rules. Respect of privacy should be topmost on the list. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 5:18am On Jun 08, 2017 |
In as much as he was supposed to knock before he enters, the same thing goes for you. Keep a latch on your door when strangers are around. Your husband isnt supposed to kill his brother for that i believe. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by BerryAnny(m): 5:19am On Jun 08, 2017 |
richyblink1:Abeg Oga siddon jawe and make we hear word. We 'nigerians' always take simple things out of proportion. See how you exaggerate seeing woman unclad as if it's some sort of demonic thingy. It is only a husband that is suffering from insecurity and trust issues that will make a mountain out of this mole hill of an issue. 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 5:19am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Onuh22: Thumbs up |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by HaneefahRN(f): 5:20am On Jun 08, 2017 |
kaymart: There is absolutely no big deal about nudity. You can always display your wife butt-naked on TV for the World to see to show you are mature. I know lots of guys here have been programmed to always fault women even when it's obvious a man is at fault. The BIL is very wrong, you just don't barge into people's room anyhow. A married couple for that matter. Courtesy demands you knock. I guess not everyone has that home-training though. Let's assume it was a mistake and excitement made him forget to knock, he knew she was unclad, could see her trying to dodge. and hide and he still stood there supposedly apologizing. A right thinking husband would reprimand him, it doesn't have to involve sending packing or the rubbish some people keep spewing up there. He should have said something, warned him never to barge into their room that way ever again. Next time he will still barge in, probably when she is home alone and unclad or they could be busy in the act, there should be a limit to everything. I can't even enter my parent's room without knocking and seeking permission. It's plain disrespect, but boys who don't respect women on a normal day would still defend it 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 5:28am On Jun 08, 2017 |
HaneefahRN:Heavens bless you. See how they are trivialising a married woman's body. They won't want their wives to wear skimpy wears, yet there is no problem with this issue. I even had to ask my husband to be sure I am not overreacting, his face just changed..."what's he doing in our room to start with?" Maybe she should have just carried on like the BIL wasn't there, the husband would have been the one opening this thread and the comments would definitely be different. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by ransomed: 5:28am On Jun 08, 2017 |
This post has exposed the nature of some men. I was of the opinion that women are jealous and protective over their husbands, l never knew men could be more jealous and over protective of their wives. The "mumu" button of some guys got activated within a second to beserk mode to unleash the animalistic territorial defense synonymous to wild life because a younger brother accidentally entered the room . Some are so irrational with their comments and i see adrenallin flowing through them to the climax. I have come to conclusion not to blame wives monitoring their husbands. Men are of higher dimension of jealousy. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by OkoAnike(m): 5:30am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Op, stop living in family house and get urs...
Rent or build your own house, this kind of things happen in family house. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 5:30am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Caustics:you didn't make any sense at all |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by OSCAMO: 5:44am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Islamic etiquette for entering others houses/rooms: {O you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own houses until you ascertain welcome and greet their inhabitants. That is best for you; perhaps you will be reminded}. {And if you do not find anyone therein, do not enter them until permission has been given you. And if it is said to you, "Go back," then go back; it is purer for you. And Allah is Knowing of what you do} {There is no blame upon you for entering houses not inhabited in which there is convenience for you. And Allah knows what you reveal and what you conceal} AL QUR'AN 24:27-29 |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Chivasex: 5:45am On Jun 08, 2017 |
nahzyla: this is not always the case, I have young kids my self and I always scream the hell out every time because they just keep barging into my room. I think the guy should have asked the brother to always knock and wait for a response before turning the door knob always. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by adimx(m): 5:47am On Jun 08, 2017 |
richyblink1: It will not bother me for sure. I'll only be bothered if and only if I am an Aboki. But fortunately, I don't have that kind of their primitive brain. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by omoelerin1: 5:58am On Jun 08, 2017 |
PaperLace:to my own observation, the so called juvenile comments are more sensible compared to yours. maturity is never all about age. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 6:01am On Jun 08, 2017 |
richyblink1:what will you do if the guy bang your wife afterwards, you will praise him for assisting you abi. preventing evils is better than allowing such to happen and Moreso the respect your younger brother will have for her will reduce. 1 Like |
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