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Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by missyadorable(f): 6:04am On Jun 08, 2017 |
iyaayi: This is why I love separate bedrooms for couples I have my own room,once am inside it,the door stays locked I can only be unclad in my husband's room at bedtime |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by kaymart: 6:04am On Jun 08, 2017 |
HaneefahRN: You know what? It's d guy's approach that made me commented that way though, I mean d guy I quoted. Back to the main topic, to be honest, I agree with you. you r absolutely right. The saying that the guy stood still and was apologizing while the lady was trying to hide is sth that I won't agree with. I doubt that was truly want the case. How could he have stood still while the husband was also there in the room? I doubt any sane person in his right state of mind 'lld do that. Dear Haneefah, what we need to know is that some issues do not require over flogging. Let me be plain with u here, I'm sure the guy who barged in wouldn't be comfortable in the house too, at atleast for a couple of time. He wud hate himself for those period more than you hate him or his mistake. I'm sure he would have reprimanded himself a thousand times in his head.....The husband's reprimanding him wouldn't do much, Infact, if at all, it does, it 'll do the worse. The most effective approach is just to let go. I'm so sure if the guy is sane and in his right mindset, he 'll knock and knock repeatedly any other time has a reason to be in that room again, even when he is so sure that the wife had travelled a thousand miles away from the domain. Besides, he may never come into that room for the rest of his stay in that house. However, the husband's decision to play it cool goes to show that he understood the brother's intention and he knows what's wud be going on in his brother's mind, he's so sure that the guy would have himself reprimanded all by himself. Remember, he is his little brother ns am sure he knows him better than anyone else. Going to him or reprimanding him is like opening up a sore. To me, It's absolutely not necessary. Though, everyone with his/her opinion...... Away from that dear Haneefah....... are u a practising muslimah? with a good to moderate understanding of the Deen, if u are, pls reach me back. I think I like ur approach to this issue even though we have slight differences in our approach to it. You can contact me through text on 08092268498 or better still tell me how to reach u. Thanks as I anticipate. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 6:05am On Jun 08, 2017 |
omoelerin1:Common shut up. Did you see the silly comment calling her a bitch. Swerve! |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by saintchibu(m): 6:09am On Jun 08, 2017 |
iyaayi:Adoblive this. Any pics or video to corroborate your story? |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by omoelerin1: 6:13am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Berbierklaus:bad advice. she should not trust her husband any more because of this triviality? dont scatter someone's marriage, please. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 6:21am On Jun 08, 2017 |
iyaayi:are you not the student teacher i met in Sonmori Senior Comprehensive High School? |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by omoelerin1: 6:24am On Jun 08, 2017 |
iyaayi:just say the truth, he saw you and your husband as you dey bang each other. thats why you re feeling shame 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 6:24am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Chanchit: brother you are suffering from ogbanje powers I recommend suicide |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by def111(m): 6:26am On Jun 08, 2017 |
I can see why e pain you too much, your boobs don fall finish that why you dey shame,... but the guy is wrong,.. if your brother in law eyes no dey your body, then e wan see you and your husband making love,.. coming in without locking was intention to him.. e finally get it goal 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Kassidy4luv(m): 6:27am On Jun 08, 2017 |
I did this when I was staying with my Aunty in about 17 years ago. I bumped into her total naked( Hugged her) since then she dey vex for me anyhow. Lol... 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by StarPlayer: 6:30am On Jun 08, 2017 |
richyblink1:You my brother has a warped reasoning for not even trusting your own blood brother with your wife..smh 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by mayormick(m): 6:31am On Jun 08, 2017 |
johnson232:Yep, also thought d man did well. Might even have d plan of calling his brother at d back to tell him to knock next time b4 entering his room but just doesn't want d wife to know to avoid unnecessary controversy. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by thunder74(m): 6:37am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Madam, hope you have not been looking for an opportunity to chase the poor guy out of your house before? Search your conscience because i don't know why you are making issues out of this matter. At your age and status as a married woman, many people would have seen your unclothedness without you even knowing. It is just an accident, move on and see the incident as if it never happened. 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Burgerlomo: 6:40am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Caustics: I'm also laughing in mutliple languages right now |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by alezzy13: 6:41am On Jun 08, 2017 |
faksy: Don't be coy. A two years old knows females generally have higher regard for their nakkedness than males. A woman's reaction to a nakked man is VERY different from man's reaction to a nakked woman. That said, I do think OP perhaps is overreacting. The guy has apologized. regarding the issue with knocking, yes well all agree it simple courtesy, but how often do we keep to it? While staying with my sister, I know the number of times I entered their room without knocking (forgot to knock) and on occasion saw her in her glory. I quickly apologised and zoomed out. Life goes on. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by hollywater: 6:42am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Davash222:Lock door when She's with her husband in their room?For God sake, the so called brother inlaw is stupid to have jumped into the room without knocking. The husband should talk to his brother. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by babajero(m): 6:42am On Jun 08, 2017 |
richyblink1:Don't forget that some girls once they start living with a guy at home they will start answering wife, and another question is has the guy and his brother been living together before the girl came in. An accident is an accident no matter how you put it, and in this situation apology is well deserved and which was rendered. And 2 things again is either she envy or attracted to her brother in law, if non then she should forget about it and act like if it never happened. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by MrsPhysics: 6:45am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Berbierklaus:Why are you trying to fuel hatred in their family. It's done already and it may not happen again. So why are these comments. If I'm the one, I will do it exactly what the husband did. It's easy for your wife to understand. Abeg, don't cause problem between the man and his brother. I wouldn't allow such to happen to me provided it wasn't cause by my brother. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by alezzy13: 6:45am On Jun 08, 2017 |
StarPlayer: No mind am. such sick comments here. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by MrsPhysics: 6:47am On Jun 08, 2017 |
hollywater:Bros it's an accident. Nothing can rewind the hands of time. Stop feeling a potential hatred in an already peaceful relationship and family. The husband should be angry yet he understood it. Let the wife try to understand it. I read a joke and women were asked if they will bath outside unclad for N100m, and all of them said yes. The brother worth more. Let Love Lead 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Thedruggist: 6:49am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Maybe he should behead his brother for his silly mistake. Sister you are taking it too far |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by MrsPhysics: 6:49am On Jun 08, 2017 |
alezzy13:Do you mind those stupid boys trying to live in illusion. They are the type that fight their families when they marry. Simple understanding of the event has become a problem for them. Trying to impress Nland ladies for likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 6:50am On Jun 08, 2017 |
There are some grey areas to this story and some questions needs to be asked. What type of apartment do you guys live in? Flat or face-me-i -face-you? What is your relationship with the said BIL? Do you guys get along or is it like cats and rats managing to live together. Even at that a few points to note: You said yourself that you saw him out side a few moment ago, so probably he taught you were still outside or in the bathroom and its still his Brother that's in the room. What was he coming to do in the room? If he was coming to deliver a shocking or an exciting news or he may simply be in a hurry and he might have momentarily forgotten his manners. I guess it was a mistake. You also for one reason or another made a mistake by not locking the door. You seem even more angered by the fact that he stood there apologising, we have different ways of reacting to situations he might just be shocked, and with you diving under the bed he probably needs a moment or too to process it all. If he wants to make a stupid move on you he won't do when his brother is around. As for you husbands reaction, I belief hi reaction is in order. A wise married man needs to be careful in the way when there is an issue between his wife and his relatives. Believe me one side will always accuse him of taking side with the other. Hence am sure he will call his brother when in your absence and talk to him. My take on the matter, it was a mistake. The guy is as ashamed and embarrassed as you are. pls move on no need escalating the matter by reporting to other family members. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by babajero(m): 6:51am On Jun 08, 2017 |
PaperLace:Don't forget that some girls once they start living with a guy at home they will start answering wife, and another question is has the guy and his brother been living together before the girl came in. An accident is an accident no matter how you put it, and in this situation apology is well deserved and which was rendered. And 2 things again is either she envy or attracted to her brother in law, if non then she should forget about it and act like if it never happened. You don't have to act like a judge with this your division write up. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by LeanonGOD(m): 6:51am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Not funny. Caustics: |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Goshoreb(m): 6:52am On Jun 08, 2017 |
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Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by psalmsjob: 6:52am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Davash222: And both seeing and tasting will pass away after a short while. He can't remember what he saw nor describe the taste either. Someone said your brother in law is eyeing you somehow but I guess you feel the same too |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by hush15: 6:53am On Jun 08, 2017 |
richyblink1: It's standard practice to always knock before entering anyone's room or office so you don't get to see or involve yourself in things you ordinarily won't be involved in and I agree with you. Even if it wasn't uncles but an office where meetings are bein held or what if it was robbery and he just bashed in and gets a bullet nko? So I completely agree However, in a domestic circumstance like this, many reasons could influence the brother bashing in probably movement in the family is such a free flow that they used to entering each others room. They probably might not be in the brother house but insted but a family house. Even the wife who is complaining could bensending that same brother to pick up something in their room so often he used to entering comfortably and many more reasons like that. So if all these is possible, only one thing makes sense, always lock your door when you in the room and you need it privacy. If your lock isn't good, you fix it cos you need it else, you might get bashing in so many times. Even your kids can bash in on you while sexing cos the were playing cat and mouse but once that lock is there, they are reminded that it's a restricted area. Even personally, I can't tell the number of times my sister in law has bashed in on me or me and my wife. I already anticipate it could happen anytime so I don't really leave room for errors or I just d After all said and done, the op shouldn't be be upset and let things be 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by NevetsIbot(m): 6:53am On Jun 08, 2017 |
tonquendo4u:so peoples sisiter still stand unclad before their brothers I and my sisters started hiding from age 12. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Prettychiz4real(f): 6:55am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Lol. Here to read comments. I love Nairaland o. Hehehehehahahahahahahahahahaha.. Somebori hold me o. My husband is wondering wetin dey amuse me dis early mor mor. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Chukabiz1961(m): 6:57am On Jun 08, 2017 |
iyaayi:In as much as you are living under the same roof with any body, this type of situation is likely to occur no matter how careful you are. So it not a big deal. Think positively. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 6:58am On Jun 08, 2017 |
babajero: If you guys think it's okay for the BIL to stand for however long it took him to apologise, while she scampered for cover, in her own matrimonial room _ I don't think it's okay! I don't care how long they have been living before she came in, she is his wife and that's all I care about. If the husband has apologised and made her feel relaxed, I am sure she won't be here. The way he dismissed it is her grouse, not all these nonsense I am reading here of her wanting him to pursue the brother. |
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