talk to her

Tell her she's like a sister to you, and treat her as such.
warning: Be careful as this can render some of them homicidal.

gsogbu:
talk to her

ave done that but not in person,,,,,,,,,i told her on whatsapp and just like i expected she didnt reply (shes such a spoilt rich kid dat almost always get what she wants but i like her that way cos shes cool)


i'll try speaking to her in person though

You have to lie. If you talk to her you will leave the friend zone. Im going thru same thing as you at the moment...i like her but her arrogance is what i cant cope with. To worsen d case we work at same place so if i just cut off, ppl who have known us together at work will gossip why we dont greet again or so cus I notice she's stronger in keeping quarrel than I do so I have to make it fade off gradually so that we will still communicate as friends. I stay alone but lied that my mum and sister is around to visit me for 2 weeks so as to stop her from coming. We still talk and do some things together but its fading off gradually though it may take time. I know it will get to a time we will just forget about if we ever dated and just relate like colleagues.

So I advice you avoid her chats and calls for long hours and apologize later that you were busy. Then use a family member or whoever you have been talking to her about to lie that that's what have been keeping you busy etc. It will fade back to friend zone gradually.

thesicilian:
Tell her she's like a sister to you.

dude am so not telling her that......... Knowing her if i do she'd hate me for life

RadicallyBlunt:
You have to lie

and tell her what?

Dude, why don't you wanna date her? Are you scared you might not be able to meet her request?

Baba, put it simply: You just want a situation where you can fvck her without investing so much (no strings attached).

Good. Here's what you should do.

Tell her what you want in stark terms. We both know what you want.

samyfreshsmooth:


and tell her what?

Ok read my first post again

TY4succex:
Dude, why don't you wanna date her? Are you scared you might not be able to meet her request?

bro shes a rich kid and am just an average guy (though dis isnt so much of a reason but its one of them) plus guys are always flocking round her frankly i dont think i can cope with dat shiiiii..........am da slightly jealous kinda guy

iamadonis2:
Baba, put it simply: You just want a situation where you can fvck her without investing so much (no strings attached).

Good. Here's what you should do.

Tell her what you want in stark terms. We both know what you want.

lmfao


dude am so not dat kinda guy

i no know wetin u dy talk o

RadicallyBlunt:
You have to lie. If you talk to her you will leave the friend zone. Im going thru same thing as you at the moment...i like her but her arrogance is what i cant cope with. To worsen d case we work at same place so if i just cut off, ppl who have known us together at work will gossip why we dont greet again or so cus I notice she's stronger in keeping quarrel than I do so I have to make it fade off gradually so that we will still communicate as friends. I stay alone but lied that my mum and sister is around to visit me for 2 weeks so as to stop her from coming. We still talk and do some things together but its fading off gradually though it may take time. I know it will get to a time we will just forget about if we ever dated and just relate like colleagues.

So I advice you avoid her chats and calls for long hours and apologize later that you were busy. Then use a family member or whoever you have been talking to her about to lie that that's what have been keeping you busy etc. It will fade back to friend zone gradually.

wow......i can relate


thanks.....would sure try that...hopefully she wont end up despising me

samyfreshsmooth:



wow......i can relate


thanks.....would sure try that...hopefully she wont end up despising me

She won't don't worry. Arrogant ladies never see their wrongs so its not wise to just cut off from them, it will cause fight that you cannot win. Just quietly fade out is better

samyfreshsmooth:


ave done that but not in person,,,,,,,,,i told her on whatsapp and just like i expected she didnt reply (shes such a spoilt rich kid dat almost always get what she wants but i like her that way cos shes cool)


i'll try speaking to her in person though

I wanted to say more, but i was creating a thread.
My one penny advice.
Talk to her fatally, there is nothing as respectful as that.... It might be hard for her but she needs to accept the reality. Give her genuine reasons. Acknowledge that she is beautiful, and such deserves better, but tell her the reason you can't date.
However, before u do that, ask yourself the following questions;
are u in love with her?
Did u have a relationship? If yes will your partner be comfortable with that?
If no, wouldn't u be jealous when u see her with other guys? Do u want to keep her at bay so u can reconsider later? What if she is out of ur reach then? Did she want to commit in the relationship or just a fling?
Finally if u are already in a relationship don't cheat.

Jux tell her that u just gave Ur life to jesus . so u cannot av a girlfriend but u guys can still be close pals

gsogbu:

I wanted to say more, but i was creating a thread.
My one penny advice.
Talk to her fatally, there is nothing as respectful as that.... It might be hard for her but she needs to accept the reality. Give her genuine reasons. Acknowledge that she is beautiful, and such deserves better, but tell her the reason you can't date.
However, before u do that, ask yourself the following questions;
are u in love with her?
Did u have a relationship? If yes will your partner be comfortable with that?
If no, wouldn't u be jealous when u see her with other guys? Do u want to keep her at bay so u can reconsider later? What if she is out of ur reach then? Did she want to commit in the relationship or just a fling?
Finally if u are already in a relationship don't cheat.

hmmm

cool and thanks

Jadoskii:
Jux tell her that u just gave Ur life to jesus . so u cannot av a girlfriend but u guys can still be close pals

hehehe ok boss....will do

Why don't you want to date her bro? Niggyrz be looking for tinz like diz

Tell her u just want to be in the friend zone

peacengine:
Why don't you want to date her bro? Niggyrz be looking for tinz like diz

yea i know........if i havent known her to well i would have wooed and coerce her into a relationship with me..............infact the first day i talked to her the idea was to date her but getting to know her now i just want to be a close friend (for now sha)

guys are always fighting for her attention and i dont think i can deal with dat plus shes a rich kid whose arrogant (makes her cute though)
and i think am nat ready too

Mjshexy:
Tell her u just want to be in the friend zone

lol did that yday on whatsapp but she didnt reply me,......

She even refused picking my calls (i guess shes not used to being........ )

i'll go see her tomorrow and tell her personally sha


and thanks

samyfreshsmooth:


lol did that yday on whatsapp but she didnt reply me,......

She even refused picking my calls (i guess shes not used to being........ )

i'll go see her tomorrow and tell her personally sha


and thanks

Lol...no need saying it sir, just do the acting, delayed reply, missed calls, brief calls & polar answers (yes/No)...

samyfreshsmooth:


yea i know........if i havent known her to well i would have wooed and coerce her into a relationship with me..............infact the first day i talked to her the idea was to date her but getting to know her now i just want to be a close friend (for now sha)

guys are always fighting for her attention and i dont think i can deal with dat plus shes a rich kid whose arrogant (makes her cute though)See attached file
and i think am nat ready too

Cool bro

Mjshexy:
Lol...no need saying it sir, just do the acting, delayed reply, missed calls, brief calls & polar answers (yes/No)...

You seem to have first hand knowledge in friend zoning guys. Lol.

AHCB:
You seem to have first hand knowledge in friend zoning guys. Lol.

Lol...when it's necessary jare

Mjshexy:
Lol...when it's necessary jare

When? That literally means there's a time for such. Care to share when the time is necessary.

AHCB:
When? That literally means there's a time for such. Care to share when the time is necessary.

Ok, lemme say when u are trying to focus, pay more attention to your relationship & this dude is by the side distracting you, when u make it clear to him u aren't interested in any relationship for now but Mr man wouldn't just give up, it's time to press d frndzone button

Mjshexy:
Ok, lemme say when u are trying to focus, pay more attention to your relationship & this dude is by the side distracting you, when u make it clear to him u aren't interested in any relationship for now but Mr man wouldn't just give up, it's time to press d frndzone button

I see. Thanks for the 411.

Mjshexy:
Lol...no need saying it sir, just do the acting, delayed reply, missed calls, brief calls & polar answers (yes/No)...

well said, and like a pro too



thatnks again

Refiner bae.............

Meeting issa bout to start o

thepussyhunter:
Refiner bae.............

Meeting issa bout to start o

....u and who dey go meeting this night?....abeg oo ayam a nwa chineke!