Baby mama is trending and I have heard some ladies who boost that it is better to become a baby mama and get paid monthly than get married properly, become a wife and a mother.

The society is daily exposing us to the incessant divorce rate. marriages are dissolving over trivial matters.
This leave me wondering what is going on with this generation.

Some single ladies see a man doing well for himself. He probably has a fancy car, a three bedroom apartment and a nice job ,the first thing that comes to their mind is to hook him with pregnancy.

if the man rejects them and the child, they tag men as evil .
co'mon ladies, you are way better than "hooking a man with pregnancy"
Gone are the days were that phrase " hooking a man with pregnancy" practically works.
In the end, you may live in travesty of regret.

Sadly it still works! But you missed out the part where some of us men are also comfortable with Baby Mamas; it is better than being single or being married to a liability and then cheating...

How much salary for a baby mama? We are not talking celebrity status but guy who is reasonably comfortable and girl who is not one of those UniLag types - lol

chrisj2:
Sadly it still works! But you missed out the part where some of us men are also comfortable with Baby Mamas; it is better than being single or being married to a liability and then cheating...

How much salary for a baby mama? We are not talking celebrity status but guy who is reasonably comfortable and girl who is not one of those UniLag types - lol

Hmmmm. so you are also loving the baby mama trend.

It is not a case of loving it but I live abroad and I am very liberal and do not really care much about tradition, religion or conventional ways of doing things. As long as it works and people are happy, I have no problems...

It will work for someone like me - too many cases of abroad guys taking spouses abroad and then being used and finding themselves back to square. Moreover, it is better than being successful and childless.

How much will the OP consider is a good salary/allowance? How much will you want personally?

Everyone with their path in life.
Marriage isn't really for everybody, and most people want their own children. Some relationships also just don't work out, and if the lady is already pregnant may decide not to take the easy way out by aborting the foetus.
Provided the fathers and the mamas are responsible toward their children and are part of their lives, good for them.
It doesnt necessarily mean the married ones live more fulfilled lives or their children are more successful in life.

greatwomenworld:
Baby mama is trending and I have heard some ladies who boost that it is better to become a baby mama and get paid monthly than get married properly, become a wife and a mother.

The society is daily exposing us to the incessant divorce rate. marriages are dissolving over trivial matters.
This leave me wondering what is going on with this generation.

Some single ladies see a man doing well for himself. He probably has a fancy car, a three bedroom apartment and a nice job ,the first thing that comes to their mind is to hook him with pregnancy.

if the man rejects them and the child, they tag men as evil .
co'mon ladies, you are way better than "hooking a man with pregnancy"
Gone are the days were that phrase " hooking a man with pregnancy" practically works.
In the end, you may live in travesty of regret.

Actually, ladies who have twisted idea of what true happiness is go for babymama. They kind of have issues with self-esteem, and feel worthless. Most don't know they deserve better. A man that won't marry you can't show you love enough, while the worst is hooking a guy with a pregnancy 'cause if he took you as seriously as you're taking him he'd have done the needful. Off course, regrets will come later 'cause being a single mother, and raising a child out of wedlock has it's disadvantages to the child and mother.

Well, for me, i think having a baby mama and paying her off is the best these days...since to get a good girl these days is like expecting manner to fall frm heaven...i can't imagine myself in a toxic marriage/relationship (I'm single by choice n I'm very happy n loving it...got my peace of mind...can do anything i wnt...go anywhere i like...hang out with friends)...i don't wanna die young of High blood Pressure etc... it's better to be alone and be happy...(although at times you'll feel d loneliness.)...
infact i think it's d best....rather than getting married 2day n gettin divorce 2moro....life's 2 short guys...

do whateverakes u happy...

I weep for our youths! How can being a baby mama be better than getting married? Chai! The values are gone!! Smh

This is the family section: just read about all those that have unhappy marriages then you can see why some people will choose to do things differently.

Is being in a polygamous marriage better than being a baby mama?

This generation is lost

austine4real:
This generation is lost

be the hero... save it

Benita27:
Actually, ladies who have twisted idea of what true happiness is go for babymama. They kind of have issues with self-esteem, and feel worthless. Most don't know they deserve better. A man that won't marry you can't show you love enough, while the worst is hooking a guy with a pregnancy 'cause if he took you as seriously as you're taking him he'd have done the needful. Off course, regrets will come later 'cause being a single mother, and raising a child out of wedlock has it's disadvantages to the child and mother.

Gbam!

No one is hooking anyone with pregnancy if it's not a rape. Is he ignorant of how to make babies or is he stupidly stupid not to have protected his semen? If he doesn't have condom, he should know he has to withdraw!!!