I don't know what is wrong but I can start by saying, I haven't been really lucky with relationships. I am beautiful, can express myself, I am exceptionally smart (not hyping) ,I relate well, I am very jovial but highly principled.

Guys come around but it's either they are not my spec or I am too egocentric... I think
The ones that happened to be my spec and we dated and most of them think I am too beautiful to be dating only them, they feel I am double dating but it's not true.

Currently, a friend got to introduce me to his guy friend and we were just friends at first,he has got a good job and still building his career but he barely calls or chat. He was the same person that told my friend that he needs a girlfriend and he told him I am his kind.
But what is wrong?

I am beginning to think something is wrong with me, please I need mature advise

there is nothing wrong with you.....just that the right guy hasnt come around yet.


and this your idea of "not being your spec" is just childish. hope you havent screened out the right guy because he is not your spec.

Dotwillis1:
nothing is wrong ...
Change your attitude

Any one around can confess I don't have attitude problem.

tungstar:
there is nothing wrong with you.....just that the right guy hasnt come around yet.


and this your idea of "not being your spec" is just childish. hope you havent screened out the right guy because he is not your spec.

No, I haven't.

reminiscing:
I don't know what is wrong but I can start by saying, I haven't been really lucky with relationships. I am beautiful, can express myself, I am exceptionally smart (not hyping) ,I relate well, I am very jovial but highly principled.

Guys come around but it's either they are not my spec or I am too egocentric... I think
The ones that happened to be my spec and we dated and most of them think I am too beautiful to be dating only them, they feel I am double dating but it's not true.

Currently, a friend got to introduce me to his guy friend and we were just friends at first,he has got a good job and still building his career but he barely calls or chat. He was the same person that told my friend that he needs a girlfriend and he told him I am his kind.
But what is wrong?

I am beginning to think something is wrong with me, please I need mature advise

show us ur pic lets c hw beautiful u are

OP, give me your contact

nnamdiokere45:
show us ur pic lets c hw beautiful u are

Sorry, No I won't.

nnamdiokere45:
show us ur pic lets c hw beautiful u are

Abi i
Drop your best semi-make up free photo , or

This is an issue you can always discuss with ur parents...and you need to be prayerful.

Erm , clears throat
The poster b4 me has said it all ,
Discuss it with your mum and pray concerning it,

But just take comfort in the fact that 'most girls just date one guy and get married '.

When a gal lacks d required amount of bleeps due to d non existence of a dick in her life she runs to d internet and starts disturbing d whole world wit her problems. Mehn get a grip of urslf n u can kip waiting for eons till ur spec falls frm d sky

babe u gat a spirit husband

come to me and I will cast is out

Note this:
1) Being principle is beautiful,it will bring just few serious minded people around you.but hope in your principle u don't allow them access to your body.if you do then your principle would have been rubished and the will be glad to move on.
2)Your definition of very smart might be a problem.A lady should be seen as humble and teachable ,if your ego paints a picture that u can not be submissive then guys will run.

chivic:

Note this:
1) Being principle is beautiful,it will bring just few serious minded people around you.but hope in your principle u don't allow them access to your body.if you do then your principle would have been rubished and the will be glad to move on.
2)Your definition of very smart might be a problem.A lady should be seen as humble and teachable ,if your ego paints a picture that u can not be submissive then guys will run.

Thank you so much. I really appreciate

Homeboiy:
babe u gat a spirit husband


come to me and I will cast is out

God forbid. Don't come to say trash

Jst wait... Ur spec is still a toddler..

op, can i pm u

Spec? Huh? Spec? Kk

Very easy job. Please I need 5 minutes to filter my vibes. Let me read your post again. That spec dey give me bad vibrations.

Abeg what are your specs?

Dotwillis1:
nothing is wrong ...
Change your attitude

I concur she needs that

rawpadgin:
op, can i pm u

No

Nothing is wrong with u dear....whatever u lose isn't urs,at d right time d right man will come and stay,don't search desperately....October babes are always beautiful even if u didn't show us ur pix...I rep oct too

From your narratives, I will tell you your problem and solution.
1) been too jovial: not every guy likes girls who are jovial even a player who seems to be ready to settle down.
2) maybe you seem to be the principled type cool some times
3) character: I bet you , you may think you have good character but depends on how you handle things. I have been in a relationship where the girl is pretty an all what you just wrote. But the problem was her character which she does not seem to understand and to her she was the perfect type. Maybe you seem to be in this category

Above all try and adjust you attitude especially been too jovial and hogging every guy you know which should probably stop. But still don't make yourself vulnerable to relationship heartbreak by early sex during relationship and other stuffs.

reminiscing:
No

its okay
I was joking anyway, i don't do E-dating

Deep within, what are the grey areas you feel might be the problem? You mentioned being egocentric, if you are amenable, generally goof around, principled, not condescending and have some sort of empathy for your fellow human, stick to your gun

That man that's for you will come around. Others should either scale up or move d Bleep on

It's the obanje in you that's causing that. sis, go for prayers!

7footre:
Deep within, what are the grey areas you feel might be the problem? You mentioned being egocentric, if you are amenable, generally goof around, principled, not condescending and have some sort of empathy for your fellow human, stick to your gun

That man that's for you will come around. Others should either scale up or move d Bleep on

Thank you very much

reminiscing:
I don't know what is wrong but I can start by saying, I haven't been really lucky with relationships. I am beautiful, can express myself, I am exceptionally smart (not hyping) ,I relate well, I am very jovial but highly principled.

Guys come around but it's either they are not my spec or I am too egocentric... I think
The ones that happened to be my spec and we dated and most of them think I am too beautiful to be dating only them, they feel I am double dating but it's not true.

Currently, a friend got to introduce me to his guy friend and we were just friends at first,he has got a good job and still building his career but he barely calls or chat. He was the same person that told my friend that he needs a girlfriend and he told him I am his kind.
But what is wrong?

I am beginning to think something is wrong with me, please I need mature advise

Why didn't you come to me? I'm your enemy henceforth

This article was on vanguard online newspaper. People sabi copy paste shal

Look there is absolutely nothing wrong with this gurl... All I see are guys who are too insecure in dating her.


All these talk about her character should cease.


I myself am a culprit. Better to be single than to break someone's heart

PREBuhari2019:
This article was on vanguard online newspaper. People sabi copy paste shal

That's true.
Maybe it's applicable to her & she couldn't state it better.

You have no problem, seriously right guy hasn't show up yet.