[quote author=obowunmi post=57426498]Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down. [/quoteg] guess different strokes for different folks. The pain we go through in the name of l
ove

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjUoLSRBz2A

MrCork:



.... millionnaire how?...on nairaland? (No oofensece)

Ode

Cladez:
Multi-milionaire Ke.....Sometime around April you talked about your boss harassing you in the office. 2 months later you are a multi-millionaire WELL DONE SIR. Did you hit a jack pot or do they pay you millions??

What has office harassment got to do with his income bikonu?
Not every Nairalander is a young hire. And yes some Nairalanders earn close to a million and more monthly.


Obowunmi, please skip the girl. She's quarrelsome, she's quarrelsome. If you guys are not compatible, there's no point forcing it, or you'll be deluded into thinking that being in love, something could be worked out. Worse off, you'll end up marrying her and get to regret for the duration of the union. She's still a GF and not a wife. Start afresh with someone else.

P.S. You also have to rethink your perception of enjoying love. Please divorce millions of Naira from the equation. Do not make that a qualifying factor in relationships. You'll just get unnecessarily distracted.

Oh. And stop patronising prostitutes. It's common sense.

chynie:

For your mind? u don't know what disgusts you. is not a matter of showing off.
u are mentioning bill gate d u know him personally, d u think u can hid from ppl that he is super wealthy?
no matter how you hid it a girl can tell when you are really wealthy.

Such girls are obviously using spiritual backups to identify such men. Trust me not every girl can identify a rich man.

Call her face to face and talk out things, sometimes it's good to remove pride in what we do

Omotayor123:
All Women are not the same.
If a Man should hide his wealth from me to "Test" me And thinking I will be Super Happy when he finally reveal the trust is on "OYO"
because that means he NEVER trusted me from the beginning. Any Relationship that is not based on Trust will end up crumbling.

Do you trust someone you don't know and just met from day one No body trusts anybody in the beginning or what are you talking about? Trust is EARNED....or does the term,'TESTED and TRUSTED' mean anything to you??

spacyzuma:

Where did he say that?

https://www.nairaland.com/3281153/recently-diagnosed-hpv-virus

spacyzuma:

Where did he say that?

https://www.nairaland.com/3281153/recently-diagnosed-hpv-virus

zomoears:


Like seriously?
U are contradicting yourself. Without details you can't draw such far reaching and judgemental conclusions.

Like it's a forum ...get over yourself

WebSurfer:

Are you saying there are no multi millionaires on nairaland?

ofcourse,they are such people here but I doubt that of the op

CuddleBear:
Give me 10k out of that millions
thank you

My Man

If u luv her talk d truth to her face cuz she gat to know one day. Ur don't wanting ladies to marry ur money won't mk u treat her poor abi u no go take care of her ni? And besides she will only av access to wat u permit her
Mk I send my acct number for d advise?

obowunmi:
Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.

. hope you know you just told every girl on NL you are rich, one question now how do u intend achieving that? advice my rich brother who will love u will , poor or rich

Cladez:
Multi-milionaire Ke.....Sometime around April you talked about your boss harassing you in the office. 2 months later you are a multi-millionaire WELL DONE SIR. Did you hit a jack pot or do they pay you millions??

Lmfao niqqer chill naw

obowunmi:
Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.

U once told us that your boss was sexually harassing you but today, you are a billionaire . Something doesn't add up.

obowunmi:


28. You ?

Really? But you said you are 33 sometimes in April. Why are you lying around bro

Jodha:
Omoh I didn't read that story ....but guy if yhure a multi billonaire... Just sow 1million into my life..yhur love life go change..



Nawa ooo..

Send me your account number..

The lawd is telling me something

MissRaine69:
What do you think is going to happen once she finds out?
Why do some men like creating situations? Date a woman who is standing on her own two feet why is that so difficult to do? You like her but you lie to her and now you can't cope with her frustrations honestly some men never learn. There is a part of me that would like me to call you immature in terms of how you handled this. But I will be nice .You know that you will attract some unsavoury females on account of your wealth, why set yourself up to fail?

you own all that? on your dp

Nma27:
My friend's fiancée doesn't even know he work with UN and the girl is so unpolished and calls only when she needs money. I feel for him though cos it seems she's pregnant or something and he's past 35... Sometimes you hide ur true worth to ascertain how genuine your partner's feelings are.

Ah! The voice of reason!! that's what I'm talking about.

Op if you expose yourself to that lady you're finished. Forget her

MissRaine69:

Like it's a forum ...get over yourself

Sure love, it's a forum.

Kisses.

Am out.

Cladez:
Multi-milionaire Ke.....Sometime around April you talked about your boss harassing you in the office. 2 months later you are a multi-millionaire WELL DONE SIR. Did you hit a jack pot or do they pay you millions??

Na him money wey dey MMM wey dem release make am milionaire..by the way im a bilionire too but I dont say it on nairaland so girls will not start sending me multiple PM's because of my hard earned billions.

come let's get married please. I humbly submit my application later

MissRaine69:
Like it's a forum ...get over yourself

Dear Miss Raine69,are u really theperson in ur picture with such nice arse?

sundayolowo:

you own all that? on your dp

I give thanks everyday......

sonofoluku:



Dear Miss Raine69,are u really theperson in ur picture with such nice arse?

Focus on the posts .....

most of those to comment on this thread will be the ladies, women with money eeh.

Imbali:
Are you sure she is angry about you being "broke"

I feel like there are other underlying issues...

Clearly she dated u without the money so she is not there for that coz she doesn't even know ...

Just go apologize

Apologize for wat crime?

obowunmi:


What's funny ?

Your post is and even the comments are hilarious

MrCork:

...never....maybe on Lego land thou....no nairaland

His no efin funny

I need jus 10k from ur millions....2621302111.....Ecobank....Agbo Ruth