obowunmi:
Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.

What is the size of your gbola?? Lets us start from there

Liar

My female cousin told me a similar story, she might be the girl you are talking about....i'll tell her to start giving you 5stars loving.......

Horizon2:


Ode

...arhhh ok...so u a millionaire loookin for woman on nairaland...corrrrect?...bro u nid help!!!(no oofeense)

Imbali:
Are you sure she is angry about you being "broke"

I feel like there are other underlying issues...

Clearly she dated u without the money so she is not there for that coz she doesn't even know ...

Just go apologize

Apologize for what? atleast he should what he will be apologizing for..

obowunmi:
Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.

Send me bar yet

come on,apologize for what, doing that is nothing but clear stupidity ,does his existence depend on her? I wonder what most ladies think they are,you provide for them,do everything and they still expect you to apologize at every instance else the world will come to a sudden end,young man end that relationship for your own good.

Life is very funny do not expect that the millions will continue to roll life is up and down. be sure that she is thinking what you are thinking if not move find out why she is like that. Maybe she is not really interested in you or maybe she is yet to choose who to settle down with. You need to be clear on your thinking so that you will not make mistakes and do not let your millions drive who you will marry its dangerous for both of you because if tomorrow anything happens to your millions you will not be able to cope. If I want to advise you pray that God should lead you to the right woman she has designed for you because once you miss it maritally you will be exchanging your happiness for your marriage.

Joavid:


https://www.nairaland.com/3281153/recently-diagnosed-hpv-virus

Wow. Good investigative work. +1

Adebowale89:






I think he meant aunty veejay


op, humor is missing in your lies. if there is competition on lying, u should represent Nigeria


from the beginning of your write up till the end have been laughing because is more or less like a joke to me

I'm not an op baba! You entered a wrong lane.

Mumu talk everywhere.....

ennyhola:
No..obo means Pussy

then how is monkey spelt in yoruba?

0719300323,accessbank,pls help me with some cash,am a Corper,plssss nro

0719300323,access bank, pls i need cash,any amount can go a long way to help me. Tanks n God bless

DavidTheGeek:

Send me your account number..

The lawd is telling me something

Tinyemeka:


What has office harassment got to do with his income bikonu?
Not every Nairalander is a young hire. And yes some Nairalanders earn close to a million and more monthly.


Obowunmi, please skip the girl. She's quarrelsome, she's quarrelsome. If you guys are not compatible, there's no point forcing it, or you'll be deluded into thinking that being in love, something could be worked out. Worse off, you'll end up marrying her and get to regret for the duration of the union. She's still a GF and not a wife. Start afresh with someone else.

P.S. You also have to rethink your perception of enjoying love. Please divorce millions of Naira from the equation. Do not make that a qualifying factor in relationships. You'll just get unnecessarily distracted.

Oh. And stop patronising prostitutes. It's common sense.

The guy you are defending is a well-known troll.
He can be male or female, rich or poor whenever the situation calls for it.

I can't fit to laff Biko... u come to nairaland.. laff nd u forget your sorrows... Uncle omowunmi Pls I'm single nd searching... first send just 5k to my akant let me show u aw serious I am... not even millionaire.. multimillionaire
let's say dis story is evdn true sef..... u r 28...yaff reach to marry sef nd u r playing fire with d relationship....beta unblock her nd go beg her.. let her manage u...

Melian:
People do change. Like I. I've dated broke guys in the past. Not anymore. I'm wiser now. One of them, my ex- my first. He had nothing. And I was beautiful. His friends admired our relationship. They always congregated around us whenever we were together. But he left me wretchedly. I was lost. I couldn't understand it. His friends too. He treated me like a leper. He didn't even do me the honor of breaking up properly. He just said he needed time but refused to see me. (he lived just a street before mine). My grades suffered. He looked at me with a sneer, "I checked your class' results. You aren't one of the bests". Yet, he was the cause.

I was young, naive, innocent...and was affected by everything.

Now he wants back. How can that be? He claims to be a better person and closer to God. Perhaps he is. But how can that change yesterday? I'd rather be a spinster for life than court him again.

He's living unbelievably large now. I already knew but he found a way to tell me by mentioning the brand of car he drives. I said to him, "when we were together, you had nothing. Is it now your money will mean anything to me?"

My point is. A man that'll leave will leave whether broke or not. So why be with a broke guy anyway?

Dear I admire your sense of discipline, your morals and self respect.
Like you said you were naive and young, now you know better. You might be one of the few different ones out there but the truth is; even your ex have realized what I said earlier; When you have money, you're surrounded by all sorts of fake girls if you don't monitor your boundaries, hence why he is coming back for you.

You might as well give him an "observance" chance again if you truly love him.

obowunmi:
Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.

please first of all!!! are you the christain type of guy if yes does she fit into the kind of lady you want to have as a wife...mind you sex can deceive you that you love someone while it is just lost..
call and and yiu guys should have table talk, ask her her plans for the next five years, how her lifestyle is and how she grew up, with that you can know what she wants!!!! take her to a normal restuarant that is not flashy and tell her you want to go into serious relationship with her and hear what she wants to say, pls DONT EVER LET HER KNOW YOU HAVE MONEY OOO OR ELSE YOU GO HEAR AM LATER

[quote author=obowunmi post=57426498]Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.



Since you have that much money please just send me 50k. I would forever be greatful

[quote author=obowunmi post=57426498]Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.

Thanks

Cladez:
Multi-milionaire Ke.....Sometime around April you talked about your boss harassing you in the office. 2 months later you are a multi-millionaire WELL DONE SIR. Did you hit a jack pot or do they pay you millions??

His tickets for bet9ja of exact scores and all forms of prediction in the juventus vs Madrid like Ronaldo will score in 15mins, Ronaldo will score two, Diballa will score one for juventus and the match Will end 4-1 and all has entered correctly. thank you

jordinsparkles:
I'm not an op baba! You entered a wrong lane.

no I didn't, was actually telling u what his moniker meant and I made my comment on his thread


I'm incredibly sorry for the confusion

ivolt:


The guy you are defending is a well-known troll.
He can be male or female, rich or poor whenever the situation calls for it.

I'm not a troll.

faizy:
I can't fit to laff Biko... u come to nairaland.. laff nd u forget your sorrows... Uncle omowunmi Pls I'm single nd searching... first send just 5k to my akant let me show u aw serious I am... not even millionaire.. multimillionaire
let's say dis story is evdn true sef..... u r 28...yaff reach to marry sef nd u r playing fire with d relationship....beta unblock her nd go beg her.. let her manage u...

What's funny. I'm not a troll.

spacyzuma:


Wow. Good investigative work. +1

Yes I have HPV. Most men and women do. What's the big deal ?

kiddapunk:


What is the size of your gbola?? Lets us start from there

Nice and thick.

obowunmi:
Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.

May God show the right part to follow.

Fearcom:


Do you trust someone you don't know and just met from day one No body trusts anybody in the beginning or what are you talking about? Trust is EARNED....or does the term,'TESTED and TRUSTED' mean anything to you??

I'm not talking about Day one Trust here. But the Moment I agree to his love advances. There should be an iota of trust. No lies.

wristbangle:


U have a point though but I would maintain that it's not good to display wealth at 1st instance probably with time in the relationship, a guy can do that

Yeah!

unbeatablerosak:
May God show the right part to follow.

Amen. God bless you. I am confused.

zomoears:


Relationships are meant to be tested. Guys needs assurances. Women do too.

Not testing your relationship is a mistake. Trust me, am experienced enough to know.

Maybe you should think about that.

since you forgot humans can Pretend and unreliable. it's better to keep it real.