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Help A Confuse Broda by smadav(m): 1:39pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
good day all pls I need an advice urgently. I have known this girl for a year now but officially dating for 5months now . the relationship is going well and I mean very well, she is all I need right now she told me she was dis virgined by a priest and have been active with him before she met me and have stopped seeing him which I believe. my problem now is since we started dating she refuse me sex her reason being that she want a sex free relationship which am not comfortable with it. I need advice cos I want to end the relationship for someone that will give in to me body no be firewood now or cheat will still in d relationship cos its weeing me down since 5months now I don try now . |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by smardray(m): 1:43pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
Na d tin come make ur brain dull wey u dey write *weeing me down*?? 1 Like |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
Baba, juz respek her decision abeg.. She is not comfortable having sex with u... Besides, either she preferred the PRIEST or he is threatening her.. Juz saying the possibilities |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by Lionessza(f): 1:57pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
Maybe you should consider priesthood too 1 Like |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by smadav(m): 2:02pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby:thanks dear I appreciate ur advice that means I should break up with her |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by MissRaine69(f): 2:05pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
I can see why you are confused. She indulged the priest but is now saying no to you. Have you thought about the fact that maybe she does not have good memories of the whole experience with the priest? Give her time and respect her wishes. Putting pressure could ruin what you already have. |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by Nobody: 2:09pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
smadav: So you decided to break up with her because she is refusing you sex? Is sex the only reason why you are in a relationship with your girlfriend? Have you two actually had a serious conversation about what exactly happened during her relationship with the priest, and specifically, why she doesn't want to have sex with you? |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by tonaydo(m): 2:16pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
smadav:there are so many things you need to know about girls, one of them is attention. if that's what she wants accept it like that and try as much as possible to maintain it, make sure you do it in a way she will start to wonder if she is attractive or not. . .nobody go tell her to seduce you thank me later 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by crismark(m): 2:22pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
do u really need any advice on this?? |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by LePrezident(m): 2:27pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
smardray: Lol |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by LePrezident(m): 2:30pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
smadav: Lol guy you don try, 5 moons no be beans. Free the babe and go get another. High chance dey say another person dey shine your babe Congo as you dey there dey dull. |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by smadav(m): 2:30pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
MissRaine69:thanks dear my problem is why she refused me but have been with the priest before she met me. my problem is not her past life with d priest but why she said no and not shifting grounds |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by cerowo(f): 2:33pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
Both of u shld sit nd talk abt it, rather than planning 2 opt out |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by smadav(m): 2:36pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
Naqade:yes dear we have and that's the only problem we are facing for now. |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by smadav(m): 2:42pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
cerowo:yes we have discussed and she said nothing can make her have sex for now and am not OK with it.apart from d sex issue the relationship is superb. but men am just human |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by Nobody: 2:43pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by smadav(m): 3:53pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
Naqade:alright |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by MissRaine69(f): 4:37pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
smadav:She gave you the reasons but it's not what you want to hear. It's best if you decide if this is something you can live with for now or not, if you know it will hard for you to abstain as well then you have to go your separate ways. Ask yourself this, will you be able to stay faithful? |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by smadav(m): 4:54pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
MissRaine69:alright have heard u, I love her and she loves me even more for her to open up to me is something good. she is just good to loose, some one who paid a deth of over 40k for me she is just wonderful. am just confuse cos d human factor is playing a fast one on me cos I don't know wen she will be ready for sex less I forget she is not ready for marriage also so its frustrating. |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by MissRaine69(f): 4:58pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
smadav:It's her you need to show that it's more than sex you want. Five months is hardly a life time. Persevere |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by joceey(m): 5:07pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
Guy you want me to tell you the truth Either she is still ....with the priest or she has someone..... her Also am assuring you 80% she is not sincere with you..Just relax time will reveal more but just be wise |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by MrCork: 5:08pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
smadav: |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by MrCork: 5:10pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
smadav: .. Sunday....u start sentense wit small letter and then u say u confuse......I givvvvvvup!!!(no oofeense) 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by smadav(m): 5:12pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
MissRaine69:I understand but I wasn't celibate before I met her was already sexually active but I compromised for 5months being faithful not even faithful abstaining for those period,on her own part she does not want to shift stand making me contemplating cheating on her. |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by MissRaine69(f): 5:34pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
smadav:That's rather unfortunate Like I said You cannot have both worlds ( well you can but it never ends well) Stay or leave but do so for the right reasons. |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by chiraqDemon(m): 5:44pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
Lionessza:Lol 1 Like |
Re: Help A Confuse Broda by smadav(m): 6:10pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
MissRaine69:Thanks dear I appreciate ur concern,God bless u. |
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