What are mine reading u guys are teaching me bad thing.....see them claiming first time and being shy...me na my 1000 times i dey do now,,,hiss

Most naija girls lose their virginity everytime they meet a new man, i dont beliv she is a virgin, i think she used vagina tightening cream. Virgins are nowhere to be found anymore except a few 18 year olds.

Two different gals have played virgin cards with me and later came out clean. I prefer to know the truth and don't mind once the toto is not the "i cant feel anything" type

MzJin:




Two tins are involved either she is a virgin which is great n em happy 4 her or they decided to kip it till dey tire d knot.....

ImaIma1:


Your mind is obviously made up. Why do you need our contribution?

Been thinking the same thing

She's already set her mind to convince the husband to do it home. With the way she counters that of hotel and respond to home

Nothing's changing her mind..so iono what contribution she's looking for

See them claiming first time and shyness,,, me i dey ontop my 1000 times now....

omolola15 veekid abeg help me ask OP why she no allow the poor guy all these while? If you do am in a Public Place,Gutter,Aso Rock,White house he no concern me,wetin concern me be how you go deny the guy all these while?Habaaaaa,But the guy mumu small shaa...Shioor

Foxie:
Hello Family,

We'll be tying the nuptial knots towards the end of this year God willing. My would be Husband is of the opinion we pass our wedding night in a hotel, but I'm of the opinion we spend it at our new home. My reason for suggesting this is that we've never been intimate and it's my first time, I would have preferred the first experience to be on our matrimonial bed.

Please note that this isn't the honeymoon proper, I as well suggested that if we spend wedding night at home, after Thanksgiving the next day we'd go for honeymoon proper for a week to his place of choice, that's somewhere away from home.

Please are there things I need to know about spending wedding night in the house, or is it better we spend the night in the hotel? Please advice me married couples. Thank you.

NB: I had to open another thread as the first one I can't access it, sorry for the double post

You are not going to be taking decision alone any longer, its a new way now. Ask for his reason why he prefers hotel, because if i am buying a brand new Porsche Panamera,you don't expect me to drive it inside my compound. I would prefer abuja express ...6 lanes Imagine after car delivery DHL come say, key dey for headquarters and can only be picked up on Monday morning when my plan is to show all the wobes in my hood my new Ride.

if you new home will have all privacy desired for the action night.....because james bond and jet li must show all they kong fu styles.

My sister, let my guy enjoy wetting him buy well without any distraction. _ Hotel_is the best answer.....

I think Bush will be fine

Foxie:
Hello Family,

We'll be tying the nuptial knots towards the end of this year God willing. My would be Husband is of the opinion we pass our wedding night in a hotel, but I'm of the opinion we spend it at our new home. My reason for suggesting this is that we've never been intimate and it's my first time, I would have preferred the first experience to be on our matrimonial bed.

Please note that this isn't the honeymoon proper, I as well suggested that if we spend wedding night at home, after Thanksgiving the next day we'd go for honeymoon proper for a week to his place of choice, that's somewhere away from home.

Please are there things I need to know about spending wedding night in the house, or is it better we spend the night in the hotel? Please advice me married couples. Thank you.

NB: I had to open another thread as the first one I can't access it, sorry for the double post

You've never done it before, has he?

"Tonight is the night that you'll make me a woman..."

Don't dare go to your house o. Find a hotel and stay, if you don't want your blood to stain the the bedsheets discuss that with your husband by the way you are going to be together forever. After that night you can return to your house and do your thing in your matrimonial bed.

I know of a person who after wedding went home that same night but the story didn't end well because he was robbed that same night. So be careful where you spend the night immediately after wedding party

I'd go for a hotel. I mean why would someone drive home after reception? from reception drive straight to one of those island hotels with a nice view of the lagos lagoon. and then.. you fire.

Youcharia:

Been thinking the same thing

She's already set her mind to convince the husband to do it home. With the way she counters that of hotel and respond to home

Nothing's changing her mind..so iono what contribution she's looking for

Abioo,,if are advcing this kind of pple my BRODA u are just wasting yr time.

What of if you start your menstruation on your wedding day?

Your official first 'nack' is better in a new place! Hotel ni joor!!

Foxie:
Hello Family,

We'll be tying the nuptial knots towards the end of this year God willing. My would be Husband is of the opinion we pass our wedding night in a hotel, but I'm of the opinion we spend it at our new home. My reason for suggesting this is that we've never been intimate and it's my first time, I would have preferred the first experience to be on our matrimonial bed.

Please note that this isn't the honeymoon proper, I as well suggested that if we spend wedding night at home, after Thanksgiving the next day we'd go for honeymoon proper for a week to his place of choice, that's somewhere away from home.

Please are there things I need to know about spending wedding night in the house, or is it better we spend the night in the hotel? Please advice me married couples. Thank you.

NB: I had to open another thread as the first one I can't access it, sorry for the double post

Spend it in hotel to avoid disturbing neighbors if your hubby hit gear 4.hahaaaaas. but on a serious note spending in hotel is better to avoid people disturbing you unnecessarily.

Op be talking about sharp things people talking about cost and all....OP my advice is to go for hotel IF you've got neighbors at the new place...be it your first time or not..,I'm sure your man would want to have a great time, some gals be lining up to ask me where he will get the energy after the long stretch...OP just wait for it, u will be shocked...enough if my epistle, just make sure whatever you do that night; Do it best, eff it up...do some crazy, go nuts on each other, eff his brains out...make it a day he will NEVER forget.


**** I WOULD NOT BE HELD RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY DAMAGES CAUSED.

ikbnice:
Where u dey do am before?

He just Jump on Conclusion Without Reading The Post Cox of FTC Things.

Foxie:
Hello Family,

We'll be tying the nuptial knots towards the end of this year God willing. My would be Husband is of the opinion we pass our wedding night in a hotel, but I'm of the opinion we spend it at our new home. My reason for suggesting this is that we've never been intimate and it's my first time, I would have preferred the first experience to be on our matrimonial bed.

Please note that this isn't the honeymoon proper, I as well suggested that if we spend wedding night at home, after Thanksgiving the next day we'd go for honeymoon proper for a week to his place of choice, that's somewhere away from home.

Please are there things I need to know about spending wedding night in the house, or is it better we spend the night in the hotel? Please advice me married couples. Thank you.

NB: I had to open another thread as the first one I can't access it, sorry for the double post

You made a point.........only depends if your husband agree to it

ikbnice:
I read only the headlines!

Gbaski.... If one start reading all nairaland tales triple lifetimes will not be sufficient.

Foxie:
Thanks a lot. Like I said over there, we're getting a new apartment by next month although he'd still maintain the one his currently living till after the wedding. So his guests and friends won't be a problem and also his family lives in town too so they may not need to put up in his house and for the gifts, they can be kept in any of our parent's till we get back.

I believe this is the same guy for whom you opened the other thread of yours.

PaperLace:


He has his good sides (i.e) he is patient, disciplined,family-oriented, humble, respectful and calm. I don't agree he's disciplined, disciplined people are cautious of their circle_knowing how easily friends can make/mar you.

His good sides in comparison to his bad is an improper fraction...aru!!!

Nne, this your guy isn't even good to be a sperm donor, let alone husband.

Summary: Women marry men hoping they'll change_but they don't
-Men marry women hoping they won't change_ but they do.

Better do the moonwalk outta his life...you're standing on landmines.
Bye.

Among other things, I'm glad you didn't heed his/her advice and that of many other nay sayers, otherwise there would be no wedding night to contemplate. Ultimately, as in this case, the life is yours to live and the choice is exclusively yours to make (you and ur hubby).
You're just starting a new home,its good to seek opinion but I don't think its too healthy running to NL for every trivial ish, cos trust me, most of us don't have the moral and social justification to offer appropriate advice, as you yourself noted in your other thread.
PS: You shouldn't take my opinion to heart.
No offense @paperlace, seeing your comment on this thread reminded me of your comment on the previous thread so I had to reference it.

The farm or football stadium will be better.

u can pass d night at d hotel. it doesnt mean dat u must ve sex on d first night, especially if u r still a virgin. i spent one week with my wife in a hotel after d wedding and we couldnt make love because she couldnt bear d pain and i was very patience with her. we ended up having our first sex 2 weeks later in our home. it all depends on both of and d understanding u ve for each other

bukatyne:


@OP:

I believe the wedding night (virgin or not) is symbolic and the first legal sex you have in your marriage (again considering the fact that you both have never been sexually intimate and you are a virgin) is extremely important.

Several people might had sex on that same bed... yes, the sheets are fresh however sex is more spiritual than physical and I doubt you want to consumate your marriage (the final step of the joinning) in a public place.

Do home on the wedding night, and honeymoon after thanksgiving. Even if there are a lot of people in your home, they will give you both space.

@breakfast and cleaning.... I don't know the breakfast and cleaning you are doing on your wedding night oh! Get food from the wedding or buy fast food.

Happy married life in advance.

You've spoken my mind exactly

condomuser:
Most naija girls lose their virginity everytime they meet a new man, i dont beliv she is a virgin, i think she used vagina tightening cream. Virgins are nowhere to be found anymore except a few 18 year olds.

Two different gals have played virgin cards with me and later came out clean. I prefer to know the truth and don't mind once the toto is not the "i cant feel anything" type

My dear, your experience is a personal thing.
Don't rub your hate on others.

Since you are confused, I will give you a novel idea....what about you rent a room at the brothel?

More so, since this will be you guys first time...At least, you will have experience hands nearby and ready in case you need some crash course on how to rock his boat.

Don't discard this novel idea with the wave of the hand, give it some thoughts, even if it is the last option on the list, come to think of it; that will be the place your hubby will visit, if you come short or start coming short on the experience factor....try it and thank me later.

frenchwine:


I believe this is the same guy for whom you opened the other thread of yours.

Leave me out of your talk, wish her the best and move on _she's just 'bout starting the journey.

Foxie:
Hello Family,

We'll be tying the nuptial knots towards the end of this year God willing. My would be Husband is of the opinion we pass our wedding night in a hotel, but I'm of the opinion we spend it at our new home. My reason for suggesting this is that we've never been intimate and it's my first time, I would have preferred the first experience to be on our matrimonial bed.

Please note that this isn't the honeymoon proper, I as well suggested that if we spend wedding night at home, after Thanksgiving the next day we'd go for honeymoon proper for a week to his place of choice, that's somewhere away from home.

Please are there things I need to know about spending wedding night in the house, or is it better we spend the night in the hotel? Please advice me married couples. Thank you.
NB: I had to open another thread as the first one I can't access it, sorry for the double post

My dear you got it spot on. After the wedding retire to your matrimonial home. You can then pray, plan and play without thinking of hidden camera, guys next room or other distractions. Don,t forget most hotels are kind of polluted spiritually speaking. Start with God in a holy place.

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My God inside my dark room with cool sexy tone is ok. Do shower e.t.c. 😅😂😆

Foxie:
Ahhh! Aunty, resume duty till morning? Please na.. Lol

I can see some of the reason my would be hubby is saying we should pass the night In a hotel, so we don't just get home and start trying to fix things... But my fear is, the morning after, when our room will be cleaned up, who knows what mess we'd create... And some other worries... Thanks for your contribution

Like, you are a virgin and might stain the hotel's bedsheets with your blood? Blood might not even gush out, 60 percent of virgins dont have blood flow. And dont worry about that really, stain all you want, the hotel wont mind, they can just throw away the nedsheets, or you guys can just fukck on your own bedsheets you brought from home.

2ndly,listen to your husband. He is the husband. Whatever he says should stand.

What do I know, I am not married

thingsyoudo123:
u can pass d night at d hotel. it doesnt mean dat u must ve sex on d first night, especially if u r still a virgin. i spent one week with my wife in a hotel after d wedding and we couldnt make love because she couldnt bear d pain and i was very patience with her. we ended up having our first sex 2 weeks later in our home. it all depends on both of and d understanding u ve for each other

Hmmmm. Ar u sure u really waited for 2 weeks? Virgin again. Not we d sharp killers.

Mrkumareze:
Hotel make sense die cos home would be clouded.

Anambra Man