it's my first time

i want it to be special

after going thru all these useless and meaningless and non productive decision making process, they will still later divorce

human folly at its best

All this first sex on "matrimonial bed" whatever that means. Who e help. Better go to hotel. Even in the hotel some nosy family members can still come and knock on your door to monitor what you're doing. Talkless of going back home. Then her mum will arrive with leftover wedding food and say they don't want it to waste as a way of snooping in on your business. You better pick a good hotel. And pursue everyone after. Then wen u get to the hotel order fresh pepper soup and make love on ready made bed inside A. C and Gen. because u fit reach house that day Na Nepa go just take light. Na heat go finish both of you. The sex go come be like chore. Then for hotel wen u wake up for money again you will tell them to bring u fresh orange juice with yam and egg. Then fire yourself small before u Na go to honeymoon for whispering palms and continue the love making there.

Source:My experience

Foxie:
But breakfast might not be a problem, we can eat out or I can prepare small sandwiches and tea. You'd know we'd go for our honeymoon proper after Thanksgiving... So the staying away from the house isn't completely ruled out. I'm just concerned about the wedding night if s** is going to happen...

Madam, are you trying to tell us you haven't done it b4? Don't worry, na your ear e go put the prick, that's the place it goes, better stop asking stupid questions and start preparing for your wedding with serious prayers. You should be more bordered about the Success of your marriage, sexxxx is just an added advantage that you both will get tired of with time. Na the F-ck dey make you marry? You be virgin? Find somewhere sit down...... Saint!

The most suitable and comfortable place is your house whether its rent or your house.we all pray for successful wedding and evalasting marriage,so its advisable to stay in ur house if that honeymoon time is when God will say amen to your pregnancy the baby will be a great child compare to hotel.don't say hotel is not good but I prefer my house,my room and my bed.

majamajic:


If u have a comfortable home that will contain everyone ..home is better. At least save cost, cos u will need to pay for like 5 hotel rooms.

If not. .. u can go to hotel. Hotel has its advantages too. Everyone fin their way from reception hall

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mR6EF6v9sIA&t=51s

lovingyouhun:

Madam, are you trying to tell us you haven't done it b4? Don't worry, na your ear e go put the prick, that's the place it goes, better stop asking stupid questions and start preparing for your wedding with serious prayers. You should be more bordered about the Success of your marriage, sexxxx is just an added advantage that you both will get tired of with time. Na the F-ck dey make you marry? You be virgin? Find somewhere sit down...... Saint!

lol

ikbnice:
Where u dey do am before?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mR6EF6v9sIA&t=51s

Make una go house go rest first nau

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjUoLSRBz2A

Foxie:
Hello Family,

We'll be tying the nuptial knots towards the end of this year God willing. My would be Husband is of the opinion we pass our wedding night in a hotel, but I'm of the opinion we spend it at our new home. My reason for suggesting this is that we've never been intimate and it's my first time, I would have preferred the first experience to be on our matrimonial bed.

Please note that this isn't the honeymoon proper, I as well suggested that if we spend wedding night at home, after Thanksgiving the next day we'd go for honeymoon proper for a week to his place of choice, that's somewhere away from home.

Please are there things I need to know about spending wedding night in the house, or is it better we spend the night in the hotel? Please advice me married couples. Thank you.

NB: I had to open another thread as the first one I can't access it, sorry for the double post

Dear, I just saw your post right now. I Just finished furnishing my new before my wedding, but I only slept in the hotel simply because of the amount of money spread to us at the wedding. So, we were advised to stay at the hotel for security reasons

GoldCircle:
There's nothing to advise my dear. It's entirely your call. whether Hotel, House, hostel, canal, all na your choice. This is just one day out of possibly a decade you are both going to spend together. Focus more on the days and years ahead than on this first day of a very long journey.

Oga a decade is only 10 years oo

Foxie:
Ahhh! Aunty, resume duty till morning? Please na.. Lol

I can see some of the reason my would be hubby is saying we should pass the night In a hotel, so we don't just get home and start trying to fix things... But my fear is, the morning after, when our room will be cleaned up, who knows what mess we'd create... And some other worries... Thanks for your contribution

A good mess he and you should be proud of

Foxie:
Thank you so much. You really understand the point I'm getting at, I didn't want us to consummate our marriage in a public bed/place.

@ breakfast, I was responding to the guy who was asking who will prepare breakfast for us in the morning after the 'marathon'. And I responded we could eat out before going to church or I can make small sandwiches and tea...

you're a little too mechanical. Loosen up.

Foxie:
Thank you so much. You really understand the point I'm getting at, I didn't want us to consummate our marriage in a public bed/place.

@ breakfast, I was responding to the guy who was asking who will prepare breakfast for us in the morning after the 'marathon'. And I responded we could eat out before going to church or I can make small sandwiches and tea...

Transfer your focus to the fact that it's your lifelong mate that's gonna be sexing you where ever it is, and not about you having your Ist ever sex and Ist matrimonal one at that in a public place.
This will help you feel comfortable and not attach undue importance to location

lovingyouhun:

Madam, are you trying to tell us you haven't done it b4? Don't worry, na your ear e go put the prick, that's the place it goes, better stop asking stupid questions and start preparing for your wedding with serious prayers. You should be more bordered about the Success of your marriage, sexxxx is just an added advantage that you both will get tired of with time. Na the F-ck dey make you marry? You be virgin? Find somewhere sit down...... Saint!

I'm sorry to sound this way, but I think you need help!

Depends on your pocket . If someone is loaded , I fink hotel is better. For better relaxation cos no matter how big your house is there will be visitors and people could be stupid sometimes.

Wizywiz:
Op. U can stay anywhere u wish ooo... I and my wify we stayed at home.. D stress couldn't allow us do anything dat night ooo... Moreover wify was on her period that wedding day.. We stayed for days before doing it.. Moreover I was sick and down dat day.. So don't pressure urself thinking of d night.. U both might be tired that night.. But u can checking to a hotel. If u are Boyant for it...

Thanks

Climax11:




Dear, I just saw your post right now. I Just finished furnishing my new before my wedding, but I only slept in the hotel simply because of the amount of money spread to us at the wedding. So, we were advised to stay at the hotel for security reasons

Thank you for your timely advice.

It depends, if you are tired after wedding you might not feel like having sex. But if after wedding and you feel like you are not tired and can have sex, make it a home affair.

Some women get tired after all the dancing and might have gotten tired to feel wet. But i believe your husband will be ready if you feel wet and okay enough, seduce him and he will send you to cloud nine with a lot of screams if he drills hard.

HML

tomdon:





Transfer your focus to the fact that it's your lifelong mate that's gonna be sexing you where ever it is, and not about you having your Ist ever sex and Ist matrimonal one at that in a public place.
This will help you feel comfortable and not attach undue importance to location

Thanks

oyetpel:
It depends, if you are tired after wedding you might not feel like having sex. But if after wedding and you feel like you are not tired and can have sex, make it a home affair.

Some women get tired after all the dancing and might have gotten tired to feel wet. But i believe your husband will be ready if you feel wet and okay enough, seduce him and he will send you to cloud nine with a lot of screams if he drills hard.

HML

Thanks

I will advice u use hotel or church berra still


I will advice u use hotel or church berra still


I will advice u use hotel or church berra still

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jacksonjason45:
I will advice u use hotel or church berra still


I will advice u use hotel or church berra still


I will advice u use hotel or church berra still

jacksonjason45:
I will advice u use hotel or church berra still


I will advice u use hotel or church berra still


I will advice u use hotel or church berra still

jacksonjason45:
I will advice u use hotel or church berra still


I will advice u use hotel or church berra still


I will advice u use hotel or church berra still

MzJin:






Hotel is quite a topnotch. .........really home will b rowdy hun.......May God bless ur union with joy n wonderful kids......

Thanks. A big AMEN.

Okay

pepperniks:
Just read ur previous thread .... Is it the same guy u want to marry

Dear sir/ma'am, we've sorted out our differences. Thanks.

No rule says you must loose it on your wedding night. You DON'T have to worry about who is being disturbed when "hacked" into dearest if you wait a bit more since having some visitors in your new place is a must! Happy marital bliss in advance.

Use ur new house. It's better and safes cost. Nobody will ask u to prepare breakfast jare..
We used our house during ours and it ws a success.

your home because that hotel room and bed is not your holy matrimonial bed so change that mined of yours back to your home, and that bed you want to jump into have already been complicated by others thanks.

ikbnice:
I read only the headlines!

Its not d headlines, its d write up itself. You must have missed the part where she said they have never been intimate and it was her first time.

Explanation: by intimate she means they have never had sex.
And by saying its her first time means she's a virgin.
Its not so difficult to comprehend.

Afam4eva:
All this one on top fvck matters. Father lord, come down and save your children.

Fvck that is legal