zimunachimdi:


thank you mama. I appreciate. What type of tea should i add for him too?

Chanbaby:



Let me be the accountant at least I dont have any history of spending on food . U know say I no get long throat for coldstone ice, zobo, sharwama or abacha . I'm a conservative somebody.

zaynie:




Lol @ catching goal
I'm in the same boat with you o. 4 months plus, no AF. Its normal. The last time, it went for almost a year sef

temmycube:
. What's AF please

Onegai:
Jazzyjazz,


https://www.nairaland.com/1899177/why-youre-not-getting-job

Read that please. And next time you go for an interview, make sure you know 5 things about the company you are interviewing at. He wanted to know if you could balance work and home life (unfortunately a lot of Nigerian women are constantly using "my kids, my family" as excuses to underperform at work. HR people know this and discriminate against married Mums because of this, can't blame them). If you had gone there, asking "so I read in the newspapers your company is handling blah blah construction, I noticed your website online was not yet fully developed to maximize outreach to potential clients etc" if you act like you work there and have so many ideas about how to impact the company and sound interesting, you will get hired almost immediately. Because he won't look at you as a Secretary/woman with distractions planning on being present mentally and physically only 60% of the time, he will see an asset, 80% ready to grow the company.

Trust me.

jazzyjazz:


Noted. Thank you ma'am

Akorkor:

Aunt flow.(Period)

I havent seen my AF too and am 6 month PostPartum.

Onegai:


It's rarely your CV that gets a job If I write my CV, I may not even get an interview. So I would walk in and get face time with someone. I swear, I would have a job by that evening. Even if there was no vacancy. My mum used to be fake-angry because she said "you're the laziest twit in the world, why do they keep falling for your tricks?!"

MizMyColi:
Jazzyjazz

I noticed one big comma in your reply

I don't want you feeling bad more joor.
I want to criticize you professionally.

Maybe later sha.

But next time you are in an interview that sounds family oriented, change am for them.
Find a way to fuse your professional career goals.

These employers know that for us new moms, we are not exactly interested in helping their company grow. We just want to work and get paid.

The company wants more than that.

There was a place where you mentioned earn....
Stop eet! that was a red flag.
They don't need to know our exact intentions.

Onegai's thread is enlightening.
Abeg next time you are called for an interview, throw them serious format!

Meanwhile, Abeg I fit peep your CV?
I'm serious o.
Having a CV that gets you interviews?
It must be badass.
Abeg share o

MizMyColi:
Jazzyjazz

I noticed one big comma in your reply

I don't want you feeling bad more joor.
I want to criticize you professionally.

Maybe later sha.

But next time you are in an interview that sounds family oriented, change am for them.
Find a way to fuse your professional career goals.

These employers know that for us new moms, we are not exactly interested in helping their company grow. We just want to work and get paid.

The company wants more than that.

There was a place where you mentioned earn....
Stop eet! that was a red flag.
They don't need to know our exact intentions.

Onegai's thread is enlightening.
Abeg next time you are called for an interview, throw them serious format!

Meanwhile, Abeg I fit peep your CV?
I'm serious o.
Having a CV that gets you interviews?
It must be badass.
Abeg share o

jazzyjazz:


Lol
Your mum is funny

Onegai:


She wasn't lying sha...

I know a girl who got a job with MNET based on the fact that during her NYSC, she traveled to every state in Nigeria for 2 days (she didn't know anyone) for sightseeing. They said it showed an ability to plan and execute,work withoit constant managerial oversight, adventurous spirit and proper time and resource management. She had no single experience on her CV.
When she started working there, they were proved right. HR is like VO at embassy, they want you to convince them you are hot cake.

enque:


chai! u r balling o!

jazzyjazz:

Feel free to criticize. It'll only help me in the future.

mizmycoli@gmail.com

jazzyjazz:


Wow

temmycube:
. What's AF please

Akorkor:

Aunt flow.(Period)

I havent seen my AF too and am 6 month PostPartum.

jaysmama:

My 2nd kid no AF for 18 months. That was the happiest time of my life.

hunniesuzie:
Chei. My own just woke up around past 1 and is babbling rubbish and vexing if I don't answer. I have to get up at 4 am. I wan sleep oh

Akorkor:
Good morning house, Please what do you use for your baby girl if her front hair is not growing? I want ointment to grow my baby hair ohhh.

@zaynie, alphaHandMaiden,LiftedHands,feddy27(longest time), sugah(Where have you been), enque( You have a baby girl now, helep me biko)
How old is she and. I always advise that u cut off the first hair b4 u start thinking of how to grow sometimes nice. If u have done so use carrot oil made with coconut oil always use avocado, raw egg and vit e oil for conducting whenever u wash.
It has worked for me. May daughter turned from no hair to super long hair

Thank you

Onegai:


It was an impressive feat: basically she says "I'm going to Akwa Ibom today", gather her funds, calculate her transport and feeding, look for things to do there those 2 days, get on the transport on time, find a hotel/guesthouse and make it back safely, under budget. And this was pre-Instagram and Twitter Era. She was so resourceful and excellent planning skills. I would have hired her as a PA because I know she's so organized I won't be worrying about my schedule or making meetings or missing appointments. A CEO will just say "I need to be in Guangzhou by Friday", Wednesday she has booked ticket, hotel, transportation and even gotten an agent that speaks English and can take her CEO around town, gotten forex and just drop all the plans on his desk and clear his schedule to get him to MMIA on time. I'd pay her N350,000 minimum for those skills. That was how MNET reasoned it. What more does one need in an employee biko?

Akorkor:


Woooppppppppppppps

Onegai:

HR is like VO at embassy, they want you to convince them you are hot cake.

jaysmama:

My 2nd kid no AF for 18 months. That was the happiest time of my life.

Akorkor:
Good morning house, Please what do you use for your baby girl if her front hair is not growing? I want ointment to grow my baby hair ohhh.

fedd..y27-longest time

Thank you

enque:
Morning Mamas,

Please who has tried any of the Nutribom brand of cereals for their LO...
I need reviews/comments.

Thank You

SisiNini:


Nutribom is good... My LO has been taking it since 4 months and has not rejected or reacted to it... I have tried their oats, banana & apple and multi-grain...