okay,so I'll just go straight to the point.I have a girl that I'm having sex with,and I'm the one she lost her virginity to,she is 19 and I'm 22.she is my junior colleague,both medical students.
her brother is my good friend(yea,bro code,I know).
He actually knows about us,but he kinda doesn't say anything.my point is this,I like this girl,I really do and I know she feels the same way,but funny enough none of us have been able to ask the "what are we" question.
I don't want to do it first, because I don't want her to know that I actually have feelings for her,I'm trying so hard to hide it.
she tells me about the guys that chyke her(we stay in d same lodge,her room is just opposite mine),also I see guys that come to visit her and how she turns them down.she tells me everything they say to her and we just make fun of em.I get angry and jealous when I see guys talking to her but I don't show it.I don't want her to see that part of me
she describes herself as this "old-fashioned" girl,who believes in the guy making the first move,but I don't want to make the first move.due to
-I don't want her to think I'm more in love or something
-I don't know whether if we start dating,things will change and go awry.
-I don't want to get emotionally down(everyone knows that emotion and MBBS don't work together).
-I've always shown her this tough side..she always see me as this geeky unemotional guy..if I propose now,she might see me as soft..
so guys,abeg advice me on what to do,everly ,I know say bashing go still dey,but make una carry on.
no wahala

I don't think you really really really really love the girl, na the toto wey u dey enjoy na im cos all the jealous u dey jealous, if u really do,you be thinking about who's more in love and softness.

op just tell her the way u feel instead of beating abt the bush .anyway sef..

Damn! See the way this guy is talking about sex as if it's food. So you were just having sex without any emotional connection. I thought that only happens with prostitutes

Perspectives:
Damn! See the way this guy is talking about sex as if it's food. So you were just having sex without any emotional connection. I thought that only happens with prostitutes

oga,read d post well..
there is an emotional connection ni

You can show all the signs of being in love... but some girls need to hear you say with your own mouth that you love them and want to have a serious relationship. If you don't. .she'll think you're not serious and you'll lose her to the next guy ...like me... who will drown her in words of love that I'll swear cometh from the tip of my tongue ehmmm... bottom of my heart....and give her little gifts to back my words with action.... all to show commitment. Now what have you done so far besides showing a tough face and heart as if you trying to prove to BH that you are a tough guy? What are you going to say when she get snatched off the palm of your hands?...What are you going to do?...the Lagoon Jump?.... bro...let the girl know where your heart is before it's too late.

bae is already yours
No need to toast her again she no be bread

lolz,these 2 posts above me so true yet so opposed to each other..which do I follow??..
keep em coming guys,thanks tho

fayded:

oga,read d post well..
there is an emotional connection ni

I read your post well chairman.

My point is that all those things you are trying to do, your post and questions should have come before you guys started having sex.

What kind of girl opens her legs/talkless of giving her virginity to a guy without telling her about any form of feelings.

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from your write up the girl has already assume you guys are already dating even without you asking the question that is why
1. she told you about other guys hitting on her
2. turn those guys down
3. gave you her body, to a female sex is more than just the pleasure, it is everything unlike we men.
if you also love her and you sure it not for the sex, continue the relationship and don't tarnish that firm man image you have built in her head that will make her love you more.
the part where you feel jealous that other guy are after her is you been human, it is a normal feeling. love this girl with your heart but use your head when reasoning.

Perspectives:


I read your post well chairman.

My point is that all those things you are trying to do, your post and questions should have come before you guys started having sex.

What kind of girl opens her legs/talkless of giving her virginity to a guy without telling her about any form of feelings.

my guy,I no know ooo..e just happen.e just happen and its just been happening..we didn't date,I never chyked her.
I was just myself,and I kissed her and then it started like a cascade and now we re here..

from your write up the girl has already assume you guys are already dating even without you asking the question that is why
1. she told you about other guys hitting on her
2. turn those guys down
3. gave you her body, to a female sex is more than just the pleasure, it is everything unlike we men.
if you also love her and you sure it not for the sex, continue the relationship and don't tarnish that firm man image you have built in her head that will make her love you more.
the part where you feel jealous that other guy are after her is you been human, it is a normal feeling. love this girl with your heart but use your head when reasoning.

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[quote author=OLAJADON post=57525879]from your write up the girl has already assume you guys are already dating even without you asking the question that is why
1. she told you about other guys hitting on her
2. turn those guys down
3. gave you her body, to a female sex is more than just the pleasure, it is everything unlike we men.
if you also love her and you sure it not for the sex, continue the relationship and don't tarnish that firm man image you have built in her head that will make her love you more.
the part where you feel jealous that other guy are after her is you been human, it is a normal feeling. love this girl with your heart but use your head when reasoning.
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OK man.thanks

una just wan derail this my thread..
why now??..abeg make una keep the advice coming,cis recently she has been denying me sex o.we re close,still play and chat and make out but yet she no free me go again o.
me,I am not understanding this new Method

guy if you wanna Bleep ..just Bleep and stop disturbing us with your unfortunate life ...

fayded:
una just wan derail this my thread..
why now??..abeg make una keep the advice coming,cis recently she has been denying me sex o.we re close,still play and chat and make out but yet she no free me go again o.
me,I am not understanding this new Method

Are u entitled to it? Is it ur birthright ni? Face ur book.

and he said he is a medical student.....

debspauly:
guy if you wanna Bleep ..just Bleep and stop disturbing us with your unfortunate life ...

^^^ but y does she keep asking me for sexxxxccx?.....my dear..am a gentle man!!(no oofeense)

MrCork:

^^^ but y does she keep asking me for sexxxxccx?.....my dear..am a gentle man!!(no oofeense)

but you dont sound and act like one .

debspauly:
but you dont sound and act like one .

...juss in case u ask...did I mention I drive£28,000(cash) range rover spot!!!

MrCork:

...juss in case u ask...did I mention I drive£28,000(cash) range rover spot!!!

hmmmmmm OK

















dont tell me.