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Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Good day everyone. Please I need an advice. I met this girl in December 2016, and we have been dating all these while. Her parents Dont know me yet, but her mother has insisted that she gets married. She's in 200Level. The matter has been so serious with her mother that in February, her mother threatened to disown her if she didn't bring a man home. Her mother then brought a family friend who's an evangelist. She has told the guy that she has no feeling for him but the guy keeps on threatening her with the bible. Just yesterday, her mother told her that if she dies, her blood would be on her head just because that same guy came around. The guy also went ahead to send her a threat message again. She called me today explaining everything while she was crying, I told her that's it is a big sin to force marriage on someone I have asked her to go and pretend to date the guy because of her mum's threat. I'm really confused house. I think I need a genuine advice. Help a guy in need!!! |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Cladez(m): 3:07pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Its as simple as abc.....So you want us to tell you what you know already?? PRETEND TO BE THE MAN IN HER LIFE. Shikina |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:08pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Which kind advice you sef give her so. Instead make you give am belle, the mama go take care of the finances. Shebi na she dey find grandpikin. 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by omega25red(m): 3:11pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
![]() ![]() ![]() She is a student but her mom wants her to marry by force. Also a fake bible thumper is threatening her with bible verses. The question i will ask is if the mom took a loan or money from the bible guy while promising to have her daughter marry him. Or why the F would her mom be try to get her to marry before completing her education |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Cladez: I'm already the man in her life, but her parents Dont know me yet. But I told her to play along with the guy so that she can make her mother happy. She has no feeling for the guy but the guy is threatening her with the fact that he can command fire and brimstone because he's a man of God |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt: I told her to play along with the guy |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Daniel2289(m): 3:14pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Which kain irresponsible and childish TOPIC b this ![]() |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:15pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
omega25red: Her mom taking a loan from the guy? Hell NO They are comfortable Even the evangelist if a guy in question her is a poor dude (sorry to say so) |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
OP u dont have sumtin_sumtin with her? ![]() Coz u sound like ur so worried that she will end up with the bible man? If u want her to be ur MRS , why not step and be a MAN?
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Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Daniel2289: Please Can't you just leave an advice and stop throwing shades? Please See eh, I started with PLEASE and ended with PLEASE So I mean no harm |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Sultan5(m): 3:16pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
megrimor: The solution is simple let her introduce you to her mom shikena. Matter closed |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:17pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: That's why I need your advice How do I go about it? |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:18pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Sultan5: But I'm not yet ready for marriage now I'm currently studying for my Masters degree in UNILAG and there's no viable source of income yet |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
megrimor: ![]() Ooh okie... ![]() First, since she is still a student..ask urself sha..will u marry her now & continue her study after give her belle? Or u wanna wait til she finish her studies and marry her? U have to go their house oo..lay down ur cards to her momma |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Sultan5(m): 3:22pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
megrimor: The mom is worried that her daughter has no man in her life so just go introduce yourself, stay a night or two and that's that. If she ask when you want to marry her daughter, give her the above statement. Basically just make yourself known to the mother and see what happens. |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:22pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: That's the real problem now. I'm not ready to settle down yet Why? Because it is a tradition in our village that the first son settles down first before others. My elder brother is yet to do so And I can't break the norm Also, I have no viable source of income yet to carter for a family |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:23pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Sultan5: Thanks, I really appreciate |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by MrCork: 3:28pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
megrimor:..bro spek to Fabulocity...she single and she date anythin! ![]() |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Daniel2289(m): 3:30pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
megrimor:Sorry! I was actually referring to the girl's mother. I mean How could she have done that to her daughter?? Sometimes it baffles me about the kind of plans some parents have for their Children. GOD PLS HELP THAT INNOCENT GIRL. |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by firstking01(m): 3:31pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Some People no just get sense for this world...and btw, why is your mum forcing you to get married at just 200 level?? |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Daniel2289(m): 3:35pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
megrimor:Bro pls have something doing before u go into marriage o. Don't let anybody persuade u into marriage when u are not ready o. |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
MrCork: Please is the Fabulocity on nairaland? |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Daniel2289(m): 3:37pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
firstking01:Na so me still c am o. I don't really know y some parents are so HEARTLESS. |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by MrCork: 3:41pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
megrimor:...yea bro....she a nairaland regular and she's lookin! (Real talk/ ![]() |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by MrCork: 3:43pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by professorfal: 3:44pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
MrCork: idiot! |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 3:51pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
megrimor:Why is she worried that a so-called man of God is threatening her with fire and brimstone?. God wouldn't support such injustice as to forcing oneself on a girl 'cause he's a man of God. If she's telling you the truth, and not lying to make you make commitment, then simply tell her you can't make a life long decision under duress. You're not even financially capable of taking a wife, it's her decision to make and whatever she decides would either make or mar her life. |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by MrCork: 3:58pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by professorfal: 4:01pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
MrCork:go suck a cock_ deadbrain old fool! |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by MrCork: 4:04pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
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Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by Nobody: 4:05pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
Re: Please I Need Genuine Advice by professorfal: 4:05pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
MrCork:celebrated hogwash cretin! |
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